It’s almost Passover, and that means it’s time for young children to brush up on their reading skills. Why? So they can ask the four questions at the family seder!
But right now, I have to ask Rachelle Burk four questions about her new book, THE BEST FOUR QUESTIONS! *ba-da-bum*
Rachelle, for those who aren’t familiar with the Passover Seder, what are the “Four Questions”?
The focal point of the Passover Seder is the telling of the story of the Hebrew Exodus from Egypt. This storytelling begins with the youngest person at the Seder asking the Four Questions, which are actually four parts of a single question: “Why is this night different from all other nights?” This leads into the story of the days of slavery and the Exodus.
Why is the youngest at the Seder supposed to ask them?
The youngest asks the Four Questions so that they will be an active participant in the Seder. In fact, many of the activities done at the Seder are intended to keep the children involved. The reason that the Seder is geared around the children is to pass on responsibility of the Passover message and tradition to the next generation.
What is your favorite part of the Passover Seder?
Most people might say “the food.” For me, I’d have to say that I enjoy the thoughtful discussions our family has. Okay, that, and the matzo ball soup.
What is the best fourth question to end this interview with?
How about, “what inspired this story?”
I grew up in a small but active Jewish community in New Orleans, and our family Passover Seders were large, boisterous events. They were full of the laughter of children—my four brothers, sister, and two cousins. The grown-ups sometimes got annoyed, feeling that there was a bit too much goofing around and not quite enough paying attention.
Not much changed as we grew up. Then my wise father had an idea: he put the responsibility for running the Seder on us, then-grown, kids. He said we could lead the Seder anyway we wished, as long as we fulfilled all the required parts of the service. This included the reciting of The Four Questions by the youngest child (by now, we had little kids of our own), and the telling of the Passover story.
So my brother and I wrote funny skits: A ‘talk show” interview with Moses. The Passover News. A restaurant review of McManna’s Desert Café. The Egyptian weather report (100% chance of locusts and frogs; the Nile’s inexplicable “red tide”…). We still got to have fun, but now the older generation laughed along with us.
Laughter remains an important part of our family Seders—and so does asking questions. Questioning is highly encouraged in Judaism. It facilitates learning, understanding, and discovery. And so, in keeping with our creative Seders, I wrote a story about a child determined to come up with the BEST questions ever.
Ha! They are the BEST. So funny!
My personal brisket with Jewish picture books is that there are not enough funny ones! This one hits the spot! Publisher’s Weekly agrees, saying “Passover is a celebration of freedom, and that includes the liberty to take a small detour into shared silliness.”
Actually, many Jewish holidays celebrate religious freedom. As my family says, “They tried to kill us. We survived. Let’s eat!”
You can get THE BEST FOUR QUESTIONS by Rachelle Burk and Melanie Florian anywhere books are sold.
Happy Passover!
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April 18, 2019 at 8:10 am
Lynne Marie
Absolutely LOVE this story behind the story. Thanks for sharing, Tara and Rachelle!
April 18, 2019 at 8:14 am
Carole Calladine
Humor is always welcome at celebrations. I like this title. The Best Four Questions.
April 18, 2019 at 8:15 am
Linda Mitchell
A charming interview! I love the addition of humor to the holiday. My house celebrates Easter….and my kids are older teens. Making sure to observe the religious nature of the holiday with young adults wanting to make all their own decisions…and enjoy boisterous, snarky family conversation sounds familiar to what Rachelle describes! Happy Pesach to you both.
April 18, 2019 at 8:20 am
Laura Fineberg Cooper
Rachelle and Tara: this is one of the best interviews I’ve ever read! We also invite silliness into our Seder with a reader’s theater version of the story and plague finger puppets! This book sounds fantastic, and I can’t wait to read it. Happy Passover!
April 18, 2019 at 8:38 am
Chana Stiefel
Love this so much! Congrats Rachelle. I just visited the Jewish community in New Orleans (Kosher Cajun…yum!). 🙂 Your family is hilarious. My family also takes our seder shtick very “seriously,” but it started with my grandfather who knew that the seder was all about the kids. We even ended up in the NYTimes 2 years ago! Can’t wait to read your book. Happy Passover! https://www.nytimes.com/2017/04/07/business/passover-products.html?searchResultPosition=1
April 18, 2019 at 8:42 am
authorlaurablog
Happy Pesach! Our family says that too.
April 18, 2019 at 9:18 am
marlainawrites
Thanks for the fun post, and Happy Pesach!
April 18, 2019 at 9:33 am
C.L. Murphy
I love family traditions especially ones that inspire fun books. Happy Passover!
April 18, 2019 at 9:40 am
Olivia
Thank you Tara and Rachelle for reminding us of why we celebrate…
April 18, 2019 at 9:54 am
Angie
Perfect timing for this interview! Sounds fun!
April 18, 2019 at 10:02 am
Dianne
How fun! LOVE the funny skits. Thanks for sharing this.
April 18, 2019 at 10:20 am
Wendy Greenley
I may never have met them but I love your family, Rachelle! The book looks fabulous too.
April 18, 2019 at 10:23 am
Sarah Tobias
Such a great set of questions. Having grown up in a small Lutheran family, the religious parts of holidays were more somber events. Even the commercial parts were generally quiet unless we spent them with my Iowa cousins.
I love family tradition stories that bring family and culture to life. It sounds like this is one of those stories.
April 18, 2019 at 10:37 am
danielledufayet
This sounds like a very light-hearted book considering the history. Thank you for sharing your story and writing a fun and important book.
April 18, 2019 at 10:38 am
Sheri Radovich
Great way to show the different religious cultures and help children understand what happens and Passover. Sounds like a fun family celebration.
April 18, 2019 at 12:14 pm
Lisa RiddioughL
This looks like a fantastic book. I also really love The Egyptian Weather Report! Lol.
April 18, 2019 at 3:45 pm
chardixon47
Questions, traditions, and family fun! I can’t wait to read this book! Thank you Tara and Rachelle for this insight into passover celebrations 🙂
April 18, 2019 at 4:04 pm
kathydoherty1
What perfect blend of lesson and humor.
April 18, 2019 at 6:11 pm
SuZan Klassen
Sounds wonderful! Both of you (Tara and Rachelle) sound like fun people. I’ll check into the book. Thank you for this blog post not only about the book, but about your families. Blessings.
April 18, 2019 at 7:32 pm
denitajohnson
Laughter is the best for all occasions
April 19, 2019 at 8:30 am
Dee Knabb
What a fabulous interview, Tara and Rachelle! Who doesn’t love to laugh?
April 19, 2019 at 11:41 am
Rebecca Van Slyke
I love the idea of combining silly fun with important traditions!
April 20, 2019 at 10:36 pm
seschipper
Great post! Combining humor with serious traditions can only equal better understanding in a “fun” way!!! 🙂
April 20, 2019 at 10:39 pm
seschipper
Great post! Adding humor to serious traditions can only equal a better understanding!! 🙂
April 21, 2019 at 9:08 pm
Natalie Lynn Tanner
Rachelle: I LOVE how you bring humor to the table–literally! It is SO IMPORTANT to make holidays fun, especially for the kids (HECK, ALL OF US!!!), so the celebrations continue to be handed down through the generations. I also LOVE the message of the IMPORTANCE of asking questions. GREAT ideas! I CAN’T WAIT to read it!!! THANK YOU!!!
April 23, 2019 at 5:27 pm
Melanie Ellsworth
This book sounds wonderful! Love that the laughter can take you even deeper into the meaning of a tradition.