Hey, look at that! I finally got Sara Zarr on my blog! Let me introduce us: Tara Lazar, Sara Zarr. Sara Zarr, Tara Lazar. Woo-wee, that’s fun to say!
OK, enough fooling around. Let’s get serious. Well, maybe that’s not the right word. Let’s get mischievous. Because today we’re breaking rules!
The YA anthology BREAK THESE RULES explores the flip-side of those nit-picky little rules you’re supposed to follow when growing up. What would happen if you didn’t “grow up” and “be serious”? So what if you daydream, skip college or talk about religion? Must you really pick a side between jocks and geeks?
Well, 35 authors tell you to ignore “the rules”, just go ahead and break ’em. Because they did. And it didn’t kill them. Heck, they even came out on top. Check it out. (Even I’m in the book! I can’t believe they asked me. Maybe they knew I’m a scooter-ridin’ rebel.)
To celebrate BREAK THESE RULES, I thought it would be fun to learn what WRITING RULES some of the authors have broken. You know, we hear the rules all the time—rules about content, length and showing-not-telling. And in picture books: no rhyming, no art notes. We’re bombarded by rules at conferences, in craft books and even on this blog! (Yeah, sorry ’bout that.)
So today we’ll hear from Wendy Mass, Josh Berk, and of course, that author with the awesome name, Sara Zarr!
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When I talk to kids at schools about writing, I always tell them to be sure to keep their eyes and ears open when they’re out in the world and to closely observe what’s going on around them. The thing is, when I am out in the world, say at a busy shopping mall, the people around me may as well have three eyes and two heads for all I notice them. I never study people, I never notice what they wear, how they move, how their voice sounds, all those things you are supposed to do when you are trying to create believable characters. It all just makes me uncomfortable. That said, I do get inspired by things I see in the world, or hear, or read, just not people. So there you have it, my dirty little secret. On the positive side, if we cross paths you’ll never have to worry if you have spinach in your teeth because I’ll never notice .
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I quite possibly owe my entire writing career to the fact that some years ago I decided to break the first rule of writing: write what you know. I had a crazy idea to write a YA mystery novel about a deaf teen solving a murder. I knew nothing about writing mysteries and less about being deaf. But I was curious. And so I learned.
You can write about anything—or anyone—you care to. Curiosity and empathy are your greatest tools as a writer, not the limited scope of your own experience.
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The rule I break most often is “write a crappy first draft.” I work much better if I revise as I go. Which isn’t to say that my first drafts aren’t crappy. Because they are. As are my second and third, I’m pretty sure. But what I try to avoid is blindly thrashing through and pushing ahead no matter what, just to get the words in. For one thing, I don’t want to write myself into a corner or dead end and then have to throw out all the pages that got me there. For another thing, I get this unpleasant feeling of anxiety if I write forward knowing there are big problems behind me. If I feel my idea of a character changing as I write, I want to go back and at least patch up the previous version of that character before I get too much further. It’s like knowing I left my wallet at the restaurant or something. I have to go back. There’s always more revision to do, but I try to keep the crappy to a minimum along the way.
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Thanks, daring edict-evaders!
So get out there and start breaking rules. Be different. But most importantly, be WHO YOU ARE. (I’m Tara Lazar, not Sara Zarr. But maybe we could switch for a day?)
What writing rule have you broken?
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March 17, 2014 at 7:08 am
Janet Smart
I do like Sara does. I revise as I go along. I also don’t outline (on my MGs), I love to write rhyme and I sometimes put in illustrator notes.
March 17, 2014 at 7:19 am
Sue Heavenrich
I’m with Josh on the “write what you don’t know” trend. I write because I’m curious and want to know more about… whatever I am writing about. I also break the “write every day” rule and the “only eat one serving of chocolate” rule… and I’m sure there are more (which is why I need the book: so I can see how many rules I’m breaking).
March 17, 2014 at 7:27 am
Pat Miller
The rule I break is “write every day”. I treat my writing as a job and try to get to the desk daily, but the freedom to do something else instead is something I need–guilt-free!
March 17, 2014 at 7:44 am
Susan Brand
I do what Sara does. Audacious!
March 17, 2014 at 7:59 am
quartermoon17
I am a non-illustrator/writer determined to find a medium that will allow me to be a Slash! (Supposedly a big no- no.) I am artistic but cannot draw to save my neck. I figure the possibilities are endless.
March 17, 2014 at 8:04 am
Nancy Tandon
This is probably a good place to admit that when I first started mucking about in the kidlit world I confused Tara Lazar and Sara Zarr all the time….
I fixed that (The Monstore cannot be confused with How To Save a Life, after all), but your first sentence made me laugh.
Thanks for this encouraging post.
March 17, 2014 at 8:07 am
Tara Lazar
See, I knew I wasn’t the only one who got us confused! LOL
March 17, 2014 at 8:09 am
laurenhk
Thank you! I truly enjoyed reading this! I couldn’t agree with Sara more. I break the first draft rule for sure. I can’t move forward knowing there are major problems in past scenes or pages. I have to correct them before I move on. I still walk away from a first draft shaking my head with my sleeves rolled up ready to dig back in, but at least I know I’ve worked out a few of the kinks.
March 17, 2014 at 8:15 am
Becky Fyfe
I’m always breaking the rules. I often write stories in which I am advised that there is no market for (such as fairy stories for adults). But it’s what I want to write, so I write it.
March 17, 2014 at 8:21 am
Genevieve Petrillo
Whew! What a relief. Now, if I ever meet Wendy Mass, I won’t worry about toilet tissue on my shoe, my skirt tucked into my tights, or a little spinach in my teeth. This somehow makes me feel very confident…..
March 17, 2014 at 8:27 am
Rene Aube
I, too, am a rule breaker. I don’t write YA or MG, I write PB. I confess my deep love for my anthropomorphic characters ~ I think that when you get to know them, you will love them, too. 😉
March 17, 2014 at 8:28 am
Michelle Heidenrich Barnes
I’m also with Sara Zarr. I can’t seem to help myself when it comes to editing as I go– seeing a bunch of crappy writing on the page just depresses me.
March 17, 2014 at 8:35 am
Juliana Lee
St Paddy’s Day seems to me to be the perfect day to go out and break some rules! “May you be poor in misfortunes and rich in blessings.”
March 17, 2014 at 8:43 am
Deb Dudley
I liked Josh’s comment and realize that sometimes I choose to write about things I don’t know or understand, just because they intrigue me. I look forward to reading this book!
March 17, 2014 at 8:53 am
nicole snitselaar
glad to hear about rebellion ! I have always broken the rules ! 🙂
March 17, 2014 at 8:55 am
Kim Pfennigwerth
I’m with Wendy there are a ton of things I don’t notice but the fun is the one thing you do — especially if it gives you a story!
March 17, 2014 at 8:56 am
thiskidreviewsbooks
I write what I don’t know. Things like swords and cloaks and girls (well, I don’t write about girls, I just don’t understand them. A little help? 😉 ).
I also add things I DO know. Things like Superheroes and boys and puppies (again – I don’t write about the puppies – I just understand them 🙂 ). 😉
March 17, 2014 at 9:02 am
Wendy Greenley
Break the rules. Is this a new rule? I’m so confused. LOL.
March 17, 2014 at 9:19 am
Robyn Campbell
I’m a rule breaker. Love being on the wild side. Ha. I enjoyed reading all the beeutiful writers sharing and caring. Love the rhyming names. I break the rule of no editing as I write. I just have to! Hahaha, I just read Erik’s comment. He may NEVER understand that. 🙂
March 17, 2014 at 9:24 am
Meena
I like the idea of not writing what you know. Entering the world of unknown is sure to take you places.
Thanks for sharing different views!
March 17, 2014 at 9:37 am
The Styling Librarian
Good to read about some rule breakers that make it work… love this. I don’t write every day but I certainly mull about my writing ideas every day… 🙂
March 17, 2014 at 10:01 am
Jenn DesAutels
I am so guilty of making myself feel guilty for not producing – crap or not. This post is a glimmer of freedom, an empowering move. It takes a fellow creative to recognize that yes, it is uncomfortable to generate work just for the sake of saying we went through the motions. Nice.
March 17, 2014 at 10:08 am
Carol Nelson
I made a rule for myself that said I had to actually bring my story to a conclusion before I could begin the overhaul it needed. I started to feel the same anxiety that Sara talked about. I finally allowed myself to go back to the beginning without finishing the story. It wasn’t making sense to finish it knowing that I was going to make major plot changes that would completely change the ending. It’s OK to break a rule, even a self imposed one!
March 17, 2014 at 10:29 am
donnashepherd
I love to rhyme. ‘Nuff said? 😀
March 17, 2014 at 10:47 am
Ellen Pridmore
I revise as I write especially the beginning. As a pb writer, I like animals that talk and stories that rhyme. Write what you know? I am researching the ten ugliest frogs and choosing one to write an article. I know nothing about frogs – ugly or not. We’ve all heard the same things at conferences, etc. I guess I’ve been breaking the rules for a long time. Good luck to all!
March 17, 2014 at 11:23 am
JEN Garrett
I break the “start at the beginning” rule. I start wherever I want and weave in and out of the sequence. It’s more fun writing the big scenes and then putting in the transitions later.
The other rule I break A LOT is “don’t spend more time online (blogging, social media, etc) than the time you spend actually writing.” I spend a lot of time working on my own writing in my head, but when I read something online – like this awesome blog – I have to get it out there now. That’s just the way it is. Fortunately, I know that when my own writing is ready to go on paper, it won’t stop nagging me!
March 17, 2014 at 11:42 am
SevenAcreSky
Rules get blended…some bleed over from YA to PB, some MG rules sort of ‘infect’ the others…but I’m learning to consider each rule in light of my own passion for writing. (And rhyming picture books are in my bones. I have to work not to rhyme. So sometimes I don’t resist.) – Damon
March 17, 2014 at 11:57 am
Linda Thompson
As a fledgling writer I become intimidated by all the rules and advice from The Industry. Good to know there are “unprofessional” pros out there making and breaking their own rules!
March 17, 2014 at 12:00 pm
Sue Frye
Breaking the rules makes me feel like I’m back in school again. I love it!
March 17, 2014 at 12:11 pm
mona861
Well that was interesting!!! Would love to see more from rule breakers.
March 17, 2014 at 12:19 pm
Sandi Lawson
Thank you all for breaking the rules! After all, aren’t rules made to be broken? I read books all the time and see things that I’ve been warned not to do.
March 17, 2014 at 12:46 pm
Melanie Ellsworth
As I’m reading these, I’m thinking I love these insights because they’re true for me. Observing people? Not good at it. Revising as I go? Definitely. Then I’m thinking maybe another rule of writing is to tell the truth because it’s so powerful. But the idea of breaking that rule is fascinating…
March 17, 2014 at 1:02 pm
LeslieG
Thanks, Tara! Do we get a writing rule breaker from you, too? Hope so!
March 17, 2014 at 1:32 pm
Carleen Tjader
I love your blog! I always find help, wisdom, and inspiration!
You also have great guest writers.
March 17, 2014 at 1:38 pm
melinkee
Thank you for sharing.
March 17, 2014 at 2:29 pm
Perfecting Motherhood
Sounds like a great book! I know most writers follow the rule of creating an outline first. I couldn’t stand that rule in school and I still dislike it today. You can always throw everything on the paper and move it around as you expand. I bet that’s why some people created Scrivener. For those of us who don’t do outlines…
March 17, 2014 at 2:56 pm
Sally Spratt
I love breaking the rules. Thanks everyone for sharing.
March 17, 2014 at 4:45 pm
Stella Jane Stauffer
When I followed the rules of art…I lost.
When I disregarded the rules of art…I won.
Disregarding the rules is a real “mental wrestling” match for me. I am the protagonist and the antagonist combined into one small creative person.
March 17, 2014 at 4:49 pm
jackiewellington21
For me, there is only two rules. Rule 1: BREAK ALL THE RULES. Rule 2: MAKE SURE YOU FOLLOW NUMBER 1.
March 17, 2014 at 5:37 pm
jdewdropsofink
Sounds like a great book. I try to do things before I know the rules then I can see if something works and check the rules later.
March 17, 2014 at 5:47 pm
Ana Mercedes Ortiz
Breaking rules is liberating, fun and addictive! Thanks for giving us permission to go wild, Tara!
March 17, 2014 at 5:58 pm
Rosi Hollinbeck
Sara is speaking my language. I do the same.
March 17, 2014 at 7:04 pm
Suzy Leopold
Time to break some rules!
March 17, 2014 at 9:43 pm
Charlotte Gunnufson
I’m a PB writer who sometimes includes art notes. Often I find I can pare them down or cut them out all together for the final draft. But sometimes I leave them in. (Gasp!) They help me keep the word count low (and keep the boring blah-blah out that won’t be needed anyway once the illustrator has their say). I relieved when I write a story that doesn’t need art notes, but some PBs just do. It’s gamble to include them, but sometimes worth it.
March 18, 2014 at 3:41 am
Dani Duck
Love it. Sara Zarr, Tara Lazar or whoever you are. Man do I feel a picture book coming on?
March 18, 2014 at 4:58 am
PaoAmador
Great advice! It’s true we sometimes tend to focus more on the rules than on what we really want to share with our writing. Thanks for sharing Tara.
March 18, 2014 at 6:38 am
Jenifer Heidorn
If you understand the rules, then you can break them to your advantage. The difference is in knowing what to do with the pieces. If you know why you are breaking it, you can construct something new and beautiful with those pieces. If you don’t, you just have a big mess!
March 18, 2014 at 10:39 am
Natasha Wing
I definitely broke the rule of Don’t Write in Rhyme. My most popular series is in rhyme so there!
March 18, 2014 at 11:27 am
Jane Jeffries
I do what Sara does but way more than I should! I’m still revising as I go–but cutting back enough to finally finish a complete draft.
March 18, 2014 at 12:11 pm
Kelly Vavala
Great advise! We all like to break the rules occasionally lol it makes us feel like a kid again!! I love both of your advise… I never liked that rule “write what you know!” I like researching things I don’t know! The other rule, I have to agree, revise as you go along! I have some issues with not correcting as I go. I can’t go on with the next phase until the last is complete. I revise completely in the end, of course! Thank you for the great advise!!
March 18, 2014 at 12:59 pm
Lauri Meyers
I’m cracking up that Josh shared his lack of knowledge of being deaf and writing mysteries… But didn’t add “or murder.” Hmm…
My first drafts of picture books are always rule breaking. I don’t have any choice in the matter if a story wants to come out rhyming, as a talking shoe, or with no words at all.
March 18, 2014 at 4:04 pm
Nancy Furstinger
I adore breaking rules! When I wrote my bio of Irving Berlin (he lived to the ripe ole age of 101), I didn’t write an outline. And I tend to write more about what I care about–animals–than what I know.
March 19, 2014 at 8:06 am
Michelle Church
Love this! Thank you. I’m not good at breaking the rules, maybe I should just take the plunge.
March 19, 2014 at 11:35 am
LovableLobo
Cheers to the “rebel” lurking somewhere in us all! Great post!
March 21, 2014 at 6:18 am
lindamartinandersen
Tara,
This was refreshing. Just what everyone wants–permission to break rules.
March 24, 2014 at 9:39 am
Sallianne Norelli
Absolutely time for more people to break the rules!!! We need fresh voices.
March 24, 2014 at 10:26 am
teresarobeson
It’s always fascinating to learn about how others write. Thanks for sharing these insights!
March 24, 2014 at 4:47 pm
Anne Bielby
Never cold call an editor to pitch a story. I broke that rule several times and got several feature article sales that way…of course that was back in the olden days when editors didn’t have email, twitter, Facebook or snapchat!
March 25, 2014 at 9:27 am
Freckled Daisy Creations
Never talk to the illustrator about what you want the book to look like. My author and I are buddies. We became buddies because she needed someone to illustrate her book. We are constantly collaborating together on how to work more teaching moments into the illustrations and how to infuse art into her subjects! and I wouldn’t give it up for the world!