by Mike Allegra
My mom has a habit of mixing bad news in with the good.
“Happy anniversary,” she joyously sang into the phone. “Ten years! Congratulations!”
Before I could thank her, Mom followed up her salutation with words that were far less joyous:
“I think it’s high time you got your crap out of my house.”
Ugh. In an instant, my plan to use my parents’ home as a storage locker for the rest of my life was dashed to bits.
It was under these circumstances I found myself alone in my old room facing my childhood closet, mustering up the strength to take a reluctant trip down memory lane.
Inside were stacks of sketch pads filled with primitive drawings; old machines I, once upon a time, had a penchant for hoarding; and lousy souvenirs from equally lousy vacations. Then there were the toys—lots of them.
There was so much stuff to sift through, I was confident the job was gonna be a complete nightmare.
But it wasn’t. Quite the opposite, really.
I both smiled and winced at my homemade comic books. After reading a few, I decided that, with a little bit of tweaking (OK, maybe quite a lot to tweaking), the storylines weren’t a bad jumping off point for a new story.
I marveled at the bigger-than-a-bread-basket adding machine I got from my Great Uncle Bill. By force of habit, I removed the machine’s olive green Bakelite cover to reveal its steampunky guts. It was almost comical just how many moving parts it had. I punched a few numbers and watched the thing spring to life. In that moment, my mind filled with ideas about a kid inventor.
Then I spied my Erector set.
Shortly after this discovery, Mom strolled into the room to check on my progress. What she found was her 30-something-year-old son lying on the floor constructing a racecar of his own design.
She didn’t even blink.
“Good,” Mom said with a sharp nod. “You’re taking that home.”
Indeed I was. The Erector set, the other toys, the machines, and my primitive doodles. I was taking all of it. I had barely begun working on my closet and my brain was already swimming with new ideas.
Toys facilitate play. Play is an essential component of the creative process. There is a reason why social scientists say that The Creative Spirit flourishes in kindergarteners and begins to sputter once those same children head off to middle school. As we grow up, we voluntarily—eagerly—purge the fun stuff from our lives.
That was certainly the case with me. I still remember being a 12-year-old who desperately wanted to be an adult. I gave away most of the stuff that had once given me pleasure and shoved the rest into the far corner of my closet. I thought these actions would speed the growing up process; instead, they just made me a sullen teen with an un-fun room.
With age comes a sort of wisdom, however. Almost in tandem with the launch of my professional writing career, I began to rekindle my interest in toys. I soon noticed that my best ideas occurred when I was horsing around with a hand puppet or had a box of 64 Crayolas within arm’s reach.
Unrestrained, unselfconscious play moves my mind in new directions; moving my mind in new directions helps me to discover new ideas.
I am well aware that a lot of grownups don’t feel comfortable playing with an erector set without a grownup reason for doing so. Fortunately, many of us have children—or if we don’t, we can easily borrow some. Kids need Quality Time, and Quality Times gives us the justification we need to build with Legos, squish Play-Doh, and color Snoopy green.
You couldn’t ask for a better situation. You’re being a good parent and you’re mining for inspiration. You’re multitasking! Well done.
That kind of multitasking was exactly what I had in mind when I loaded up the trunk of my car outside of Mom’s house. I’ll bring this stuff home to my young son, I thought. We’ll play with it together. We’ll pretend together. And, in so doing, my little guy will become my unwitting picture book collaborator.
It doesn’t get more inspiring—or wonderful—than that.
Mike Allegra has earned his living as a writer and editor for the past 17 years. His first picture book, SARAH GIVES THANKS, was released in September 2012 by Albert Whitman & Company. The book has earned a starred review from Kirkus Reviews, is an Amelia Bloomer List selection, and is now in its second printing.
As a playwright, Mike has had his work read and performed around the U.S. and was the recipient of a New Jersey State Council on the Arts Individual Artist Fellowship. He is also the editor of The Lawrentian, the alumni magazine of The Lawrenceville School (Lawrenceville, NJ). During his tenure, The Lawrentian has won a dozen regional and national awards, including Gold and Silver honors from the Council for the Advancement and Support of Education (CASE). Mike also likes waffles.
Visit him at MikeAllegra.com.
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November 8, 2013 at 6:39 am
Elaine Kiely Kearns
I LOVE this post! I couldn’t agree more. Play gives us the time to be happy and creative and we need to seize every opportunity to do so. I have small children of my own, and I teach 21 second graders all day long. Play is my middle name. Thanks so much for the post, Mike and Tara!
November 8, 2013 at 7:02 am
Patricia Holloway
You are so right, inventive play opens the door to creativity. Now I know what to tell my son about that room full of inventive play items. Thank you for sharing.
November 8, 2013 at 7:03 am
Melanie Moschella
What a great story and wonderful advice! I find that my writing ideas flow more easily when I’m making a quilt. Picking out fabric and piecing it together. Thank you for sharing!
November 8, 2013 at 7:05 am
Juliet Clare Bell
Thank you, Mike. I had fun playing with my children over breakfast and came up with several ideas (at least the children did, and I’m nicking some of them…)…
November 8, 2013 at 7:07 am
Laura Purdie Salas
Great story! My kids are 18 and 21, but I might have to buy a toy or two for myself this Christmas:>)
November 8, 2013 at 7:08 am
Sylvia Liu
I have always thought one of the best parts of having kids was being able to relive my own childhood through play and games.
November 8, 2013 at 7:18 am
Nancy Tandon
Great post, Mike. Congrats on the genius idea of picking a job where being childlike is rewarded! Well played.
November 8, 2013 at 7:19 am
Sue Poduska
Great post, Mike. I distinctly remember telling people when I was pregnant xx years ago that I needed children so I could go to the zoo,
November 8, 2013 at 7:37 am
Michelle @ Fitztopia
Haha, Sue… I remember thinking the same thing! Then this year I bought a zoo membership for our family, so I could go to the zoo while the kids are in school, too! I could sit there all day… 😉
A great recipe for inspiration & staying young at heart, Mike! Thanks!
November 8, 2013 at 7:20 am
cindy johnson
Thank you, Mike, for the nice reminder to go back and play.
November 8, 2013 at 7:20 am
Susan Nicholas
I STILL have some of my childhood toys at my parents house and I’m 45! I guess I need to go get some of them and spark a few new story ideas.
November 8, 2013 at 7:26 am
gpatmiller
Luckily all the stores have their Christmas toys out already–even cruising through the aisles is inspirational. Thanks to you, I plan to do that today! Thanks, Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 7:29 am
Pam Brunskill (@PamBrunskill)
Great post, Mike! It doesn’t get better to play with your kids and be able to use that quality time for work!
November 8, 2013 at 7:40 am
RaChelle Lisiecki
Kids are the reason we do this so it’s only fitting that it starts with THEM! Thanks, Mike, for reminding me to play a little more…and keep a notebook handy. Now, where did my husband put his Micro Machines?
November 8, 2013 at 7:41 am
Heather Hatch
Wonderful post, great last lines!
November 8, 2013 at 7:44 am
Cathy Ballou Mealey
I also like toys. And waffles. Great post Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 7:45 am
Christy Mihaly
Lacking kids at home, I find it’s fun to play with my dogs! Looking forward to kids (and waffles) at Thanksgiving.
November 8, 2013 at 7:47 am
Deirdre Sheridan Englehart
I love games and I enjoyed reading your story!
November 8, 2013 at 7:50 am
cat jones
I’m so glad I stood my ground and hung onto a few of my toys (well quite a few actually). I’m going to dig out the storage boxes and PLAY…
November 8, 2013 at 7:51 am
Margie Moore
Inspiration comes in all forms! Loved this Mike! Great post!
November 8, 2013 at 7:57 am
Sandy Perlic
You’re right – play is important. I think it helps us live more in the moment and recapture the child inside us. Thanks for the post, and for making your point so well!
November 8, 2013 at 8:05 am
Manju Howard (@ManjuBeth)
Thanks for sharing your toys!
November 8, 2013 at 8:12 am
Lynn A. Davidson
I agree we should play more. Toys can be great inspiration, which makes me think I should rummage through the ones all my girls left behind. Could be a story hiding in there! Thanks.
I like how you write, Mike.
November 8, 2013 at 8:13 am
Lori Dubbin
I’ll never forget playing with legos with my kids and making lego cities – one of them still keeps a box of legos at his office desk – maybe the more we play, the more we play with words! Thanks for the reminder. Also love what you wrote on your blog about The Wacky Wallwalker!
November 8, 2013 at 8:22 am
Kathy Doherty
I so agree, Mike. I volunteer in a preschool to get writing ideas. Kids say the funniest things. Thanks for the post.
November 8, 2013 at 8:30 am
lmconnors
Perfect post in so many ways, but especially a reminder to remember the child in ourselves.
November 8, 2013 at 8:32 am
supermario6
I’m going to go out and buy a box of 64 crayons right now!
November 8, 2013 at 8:34 am
Eileen
Joy. Thanks for sharing Mike.
November 8, 2013 at 8:36 am
Tina Cho
I love this: “my little guy will become my unwitting picture book collaborator.” I guess I need to play more with my kids and their toys! Love your post, Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 8:38 am
Linda E.H.
Great story with good advice.
I loved my box of 64 crayon and remember filling coloring book after coloring book, building forts, playing games as a child. With my daughter we played pretend with Barbies and stuffed animals, made crafts, baked, went for walks in the woods. All these things help bring the child in me out. Now she is 15 and all those things are “uncool” at the moment, so I am on my own for creative activities.
November 8, 2013 at 8:41 am
Tracey M. Cox
I love the thought of getting down and dirty and just PLAY!!! Thanks, Mike, for ‘giving us permission’ to do just that! :;-)
November 8, 2013 at 8:42 am
Anne Bielby
I love your Mom!
November 8, 2013 at 8:48 am
saputnam
Great post, Mike! I totally agree with you… play is so important for creativity. I loved playing with my brother’s Erector set and Lincoln Logs as a child and as an adult I spent many happy hours playing with Lincoln Logs, Legos, Play-Doh and coloring with my children. I also had 2 Steiff hand puppets, an owl and a rabbit which have made their way into their very own chapter book..
I think that’s one of the reasons that I became an organic gardener… I get to play in the dirt as an adult : )
November 8, 2013 at 8:49 am
Annette Simon
Play’s the thing. Thanks for sharing, Mike (and Tara).
November 8, 2013 at 9:02 am
jheitman22
So true! Playtime is how children learn about the world and how adults regain their sense of wonder. A perfect post for a Friday. Playtime–bring it on!
November 8, 2013 at 9:08 am
yetteejo
I love toys. I always thought one reason I wanted to be a teacher was so that I could play with toys and no one would think me crazy. When I worked with the gifted program I had the best toys. Legos, play dough, gears, pentominoes…playing with the kids, having creative thinking, problem solving discussions were always the best part.
November 8, 2013 at 9:11 am
suedfrye
Mike, I TOTALLY love this post! And the inspiration! I’m a typical reluctant reader, scheming through for details, but your writing voice kept me hoping from paragraph to paragraph. Thanks so much for sharing your secret!
November 8, 2013 at 9:12 am
Rene Aube
OH! I can hardly wait to see my grandchildren at Christmas time! Think I better buy that big, big pack of playdoh! YIPPEE!! Happy #PiBoIdMo Day 8 everyone!
November 8, 2013 at 9:14 am
heylookawriterfellow
Thank you for this wonderful opportunity, Tara! I’m honored to be here!
November 8, 2013 at 9:16 am
nicole snitselaar
I have the same concern as your mother… But I have Five closets and a huge attick waiting to be cleared…(5 kids now 5 adults)
I must take her as an example… I admire her for getting you to do this… 😉
I haven’t been very good at it up to now ! 😦
🙂 🙂 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 9:16 am
lindaschueler
I still have regrets over some of the childhood toys I gave away.
But at least I can now play with my 6-year-old.
November 8, 2013 at 9:16 am
Darshana
wonderful post. I do try to “play” with my kids. pure fun.
November 8, 2013 at 9:17 am
katmaz2012
Great advice. I will now use the “chore” of cleaning out my daughter’s treasures as inspiration for my next story idea! Thanks.
November 8, 2013 at 9:26 am
Susan Cabael
Your mom is great! 🙂 I love eavesdropping on my kids when they play. It gives me great insight into how their imaginations work and what’s important to them.
November 8, 2013 at 9:27 am
littledbl
Memories!!! Thanks for sharing.
November 8, 2013 at 9:27 am
Marcy P.
I ❤ your mom!!! And you are pretty funny yourself. I REALLY enjoyed your post. I think there's something in here for me… it speaks to something I must have been processing at a deeper level but hadn't quite put my finger on. I play with my kids… but for THEIR sake, not mine 🙂 I've been feeling the urge to "play" a bit on my own… in this case, to create and paint and make stuff. I'm going to sit and think about what it is my inner-child most wants to do… and go do it!
November 8, 2013 at 9:32 am
Wendy Greenley
If those Legos didn’t hurt so much when I stepped on them, they’d be my favorite toys of all time! Thanks for the permission to play, Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 9:35 am
Juliana Lee
Totally agree! (The part about the 30+ kids cleaning out their rooms in mom’s house…. I digress.) But seriously, I totally agree. And I think we might have to reword the famous Maria Montessori philosophy to include adults… A child’s (and adult’s) play is their work.
November 8, 2013 at 9:36 am
Cathy C. Hall
Is it bad that I read this post and jumped and down for your mom? (Said the woman with a basement full of bins belonging to three grown children)
Maybe I should venture forth into the Basement of Chaos and crack open one of the bins of toys? Nahhhhh. But good for you. (And really well done, Mike’s Mom.)
November 8, 2013 at 9:39 am
creationsbymit
“Toys facilitate play. Play is an essential component of the creative process.”
THIS.
LOVE LOVE LOVE this post! I don’t have any kids, but I still have toys, & those who know me accept this fact without even a raise of an eyebrow! They are from my childhood, and a few I’ve collected since then. My friends’ kids fully understand they are MY toys (although I don’t actually play with them the same way they would) & there’s no chance of them ever taking them home. 🙂 The toys keep my mind young & fresh, & allow me to explore ideas & places in my imagination adults grow to think they shouldn’t. Their loss!!
Michele Katz/Creations By Mit
November 8, 2013 at 9:56 am
sketched out
Terrific post! As I read it I started to visualize some of my own childhood toys and ideas immediately started to crackle and pop into my tired, morning brain! Thanks for that!
November 8, 2013 at 9:47 am
Mary McClellan
I remember putting that Peanuts cartoon on my refrigerator. I loved it! I have four dogs, but my uke is long gone. Always a lover of toys, I’m inspired now to clean my closet. Thanks for reminding us of the power and fun of play!
November 8, 2013 at 9:47 am
Melanie Ellsworth
Love the line, ” sullen teen with an un-fun room.” Thank you for the reminder to play for inspiration. Fortunately I have a young daughter to help me remember how to do that. I look forward to reading SARAH GIVES THANKS with her.
November 8, 2013 at 9:49 am
Elaine Urgo
During the hectic years of raising my family, I had little time to actually play with most of their toys. Fortunately, they kept most of them in great shape, and I saved piles of them for future grandchildren. It has been a joy to unearth each toy and book and take the time to play and read with all five grandkids, plus the multitude of kids I’m been fortunate to care for. I would urge new parents not to wait for the grandkids to arrive……the bathroom is clean enough……spend some quality time playing with your children. They will remember it and love you for it.
November 8, 2013 at 9:49 am
Catherine Johnson
It doesn’t get better than that. Love it! Great post, Mike.
November 8, 2013 at 9:49 am
Beverly Snedecor
Yes, I love toys… I take pictures of them before the kids give them away. Maybe I should just keep some. Thanks Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 9:53 am
Susie Sawyer
Oh my gosh, I thoroughly enjoyed this!! And you are SO right about immersing yourself back into those things that were designed to spark creativity in the first place! Thank you for this reminder to play. Oh, and I like your mom. She’s got spunk. 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 9:58 am
Cindy Cornwall
Gotta move past my obsessed-with-clean-up self and start playing with the kids and their toys. Thanks for the reminder Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 10:05 am
marciecolleen
As the fiancee to a Lego Artist, I know this creativity through play very well. Maybe I’ll join him in his studio this weekend and build my own creations. 🙂 Thanks, Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 10:07 am
mochamusing
This was great! My beliefs echo these sentiments. I hope Sarah Gives Thanks does well this season
November 8, 2013 at 10:18 am
Teresa Daffern
The importance of play cannot be emphasized enough! (Kindergarten teacher speaking here.) In children, we know that it contributes to the development of imagination, problem-solving, decision-making, interpersonal skills, literacy skills…the list goes on and on. Thanks for reminding us that grown-ups need to keep the practice going too. The most playful people I know are also the most open-minded and creative.
-Teresa Daffern
November 8, 2013 at 10:20 am
svaisnoras
It’s good you’re giving us permission to “play”…as adults we put that off.
I still have some of my sons’ toys in the basement…waiting for grandchildren that are not here yet. Thanks for sharing.
November 8, 2013 at 10:30 am
lauraboffa
I love this post! But I think I’ve got it the other way around… I don’t play to help me write; I write so that I can keep playing.
Also, that is one of the best Peanuts cartoons I’ve ever seen. How can we get some banjo/dog legislation passed?
November 8, 2013 at 10:36 am
Wafa
I love the mom in this story 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 10:37 am
Alan Stacy
I’m sitting here at my desk in my “toy room” staring at my closet of toys and games which includes an Erector set. GI Joes, Kenner’s Girder and Panel building set, Concentration, Rock ’em Sock e’m Robots, Mouse Trap and more….I too went through a “toss out” phase at around 13 and gave all of my comic books away (massive regrets) in an attempt to “grow up” and “put away childish things”. Mom stopped me from giving some of my games to the neighbor kids but when I was in college she freely handed out and discarded some of my more beloved playthings. I think we were lucky to grow up in a “space, fantasy, what if?” era that had such marvelous hands-on inventions that did nothing but stimulate our imaginations.
November 8, 2013 at 10:40 am
Suzy Leopold
Toys and kids are such great inspirations to spark a picture book idea. Hugs for your sweet Momma. Have fun playing with your son. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. ~Suzy Leopold
November 8, 2013 at 10:42 am
Sue Heavenrich
I found buckets of my kids’ Legos and Kinex – and no, I am NOT calling them up to get them…. I am keeping them for myself! Well, I might share them with my kids if they ever come home to claim their toys….
November 8, 2013 at 10:44 am
cherylsec
This is wonderful, Mike! I so enjoyed reading it. Very entertaining and inspirational. I love the last line. This gives me even more reason to play with my grandchildren. 🙂 Thank you for sharing!
November 8, 2013 at 10:50 am
Jennifer Kaplan
Thank you. As a mother of young children, I find play with a different age group than what I am used to inspiring.
November 8, 2013 at 10:51 am
Cindy
LOVE that we have permission to play…. it’s part of our job, right?
November 8, 2013 at 10:52 am
harulawordsthatserve
Great stuff friends…playing brings out a maniacal giggle in me, especially if it involves making a mess or getting wet. You don’t have to be kids to play…I remember my University water wars…water guns were carried in car boots, and people got soaked in bed…my side won! Oh, and absolutely, the best ideas some when play comes out to tempt and teach us…H xxxx
November 8, 2013 at 10:52 am
Jarm Del Boccio
“Sarah Gives Thanks” is a perfect PB for this time of year. I’m going to check it out! Yes, Play’s the thing. . .
November 8, 2013 at 10:54 am
viviankirkfield
What an awesome post, Mike! As a former kindergarten teacher (that’s right…I picked a career that allowed me to play with blocks and clay and kids AND earn money at the same time), I totally support PLAY as the primary vehicle for learning and sparking creativity…for young kids AND for picture book writers and illustrators.:)
We just moved across the country and have hundreds of boxes that we are in the process of unpacking. I gave my 5-year old grandson several empty boxes of various sizes…he constructed a rocket ship and took me for a ride to the moon.:) Empty boxes (you can get them for free at stores) make the BEST creativity-building materials! What’s in a box? Anything and Everything!
November 8, 2013 at 10:58 am
Kim Pfennigwerth (@kpfenni)
I’m heading to closets with my children’s and grandchildren’s toys! An hour of play sounds magical this morning!
November 8, 2013 at 11:03 am
Heather Greene
You’re never too old to play!
November 8, 2013 at 11:08 am
Meena
Great post! Can’t wait to read the stories born out of Mike’s toy box. Thanks for sharing a simple yet powerful trade secret.
November 8, 2013 at 11:21 am
Robyn Campbell
Hahaha, love that Peanuts! I love to play. Thanks for reminding me I can! I thought back to my own childhood and my ‘stuff’ that I treasured as I read your post. What’s that song? “THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES!” *waving and smiling*
November 8, 2013 at 11:22 am
danielledufayet
Yes, the creative juices flow when we are free to have fun and delight in ordinary things. Toys help us get lost in our imagination…I once got a great idea for a toy which turned into a story which is seeking publication as we speak.
November 8, 2013 at 11:27 am
Jessica
I fully agree. You have to remember how to have fun and enjoy life, and question things. Those are the kinds of things that lead to “what if?” or “I wish there was a ___ that ___”. You have to feed all areas of your body and sould., even your imagination when you get old(er)…
November 8, 2013 at 11:28 am
Jessica
***that should say body and soul***
sorry
November 8, 2013 at 11:29 am
Eleanor Rubin
I loved your post! So evocative, so positive about play and discovery.
Thank you!
November 8, 2013 at 11:31 am
Denise Bowman
What a fun and inspiriing post! Thank you so much!
November 8, 2013 at 11:32 am
Debbie Austin
Thanks for the reminder of the power of play! I’m off to buy a box of crayons.
November 8, 2013 at 11:33 am
Janie Reinart
Thank you Mike for your post! When my youngest daughter was in fourth grade, she was showing me how to use a computer. Her words,” Don’t ever be afraid of the computer, just play with it!” Out of the mouth of babes! Happy playing.
November 8, 2013 at 11:38 am
Linda
With no brothers to play with I admit to loving my time spent playing with my boys and their toys! Excuse me, I need to go pull out my Barbies.
November 8, 2013 at 11:44 am
Sandie Sing
Creating stories or illustrations, from your toys, are always a stepping stone to amazing ideas. Look at Toy Story!
Just sit around kids and listen to them talk. Their conversations will direct you to new ideas too. Ideas are around us. Thank you, Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 11:45 am
Ellen Mott
My! That must have been a huge closet! I relive my childhood more often than I care to admit. I still have the very first baby-doll I received 60+ years ago. Recently I had the grandkids here to take toys and games from the stash of their mom’s and their uncle’s toys left behind. It’s fun to see how a new generation plays with Barbie, Legos, Star Wars, and Masters of the Universe. Being a grandma that gets to the kids’ level, helps inspire ideas as well. One section of my writing notebook is dedicated to children-isms; unique things they say and do.
November 8, 2013 at 12:00 pm
Vanessa-Jane Chapman
Great post Mikey! It also made me a bit sad (I’m being like your Mom now – some good and then some bad!) because I’ve never been very good at playing with toys, either as a child or an adult. Not sure why. It’s not that I don’t know how to have fun as you know! Just not fun with toys.
November 8, 2013 at 12:01 pm
LovableLobo
Great ideas! I think I’ll go clean out some closets. Thanks!
November 8, 2013 at 12:05 pm
beckylevine
I love this post so much, I’m sending it to my 17-year-old son, a senior in HS. I GUESS we’ll give him ten years! 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 12:06 pm
beckylevine
And my toys are still my books. Even before I realized I should be writing for kids (I know, duh!), I still read and reread and re-collected all the books from my childhood.
November 8, 2013 at 12:12 pm
Bev Baird
What a fascinating post. I still have boxes and tubs of toys my children have left – I just may have to get them out and play! He man, Ninja turtles and little ponies – what a combination (and possibility?)
November 8, 2013 at 12:13 pm
Carolyn Rohrbaugh
You are proof that inspiration can come from anywhere. Cleaning the closet is a good idea.
November 8, 2013 at 12:13 pm
Pam Jones
Your mom rocks!
November 8, 2013 at 12:17 pm
Tatiana Escallon
Live is fun!… great article… I have the fortune to have twin boys and it is an amazing inspiration see them playing or to play with them,
November 8, 2013 at 12:17 pm
pbgirl1
Thank you for reminding us to play! It is so much a part of the creative process.
November 8, 2013 at 12:20 pm
Alexa Kaufhold
Great post!
November 8, 2013 at 12:23 pm
Tracy Molitors
Thanks, Mike! There is little I like better than playing. With my kids off in college, you’ve just given me another ‘adult’ excuse to do so – getting new picture book ideas!
November 8, 2013 at 12:24 pm
Melanie Lucero
LOVE! You’ve managed to succinctly describe exactly why I so enjoy hanging out with all the kids in my life–so I have an excuse to play! And to get inspired…(in that order ha ha) 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 12:31 pm
Marty McCormick
Have been asking my adult kids to come clean out the attic forever. Maybe it’s a good thing they haven’t done it yet? Who knew I had inspiration awaiting me in those boxes? One of those ideas that seem so logical, once it’s out there, you wonder ‘why didn’t I think of that?’ Thanks!
November 8, 2013 at 12:35 pm
Jilanne Hoffmann
Great post, Mike! Most often, I can be found playing with Lego, doodling, or playing with my son’s contraptions—or reading your blog. Does that count as play?
November 8, 2013 at 12:35 pm
mona861
Gotta love your Mom. Never too old to play. Think I’ll dig out the old (really old with a brown fabric electrical cord) waffle iron and have a bit of fun!!! Thanks, Mike!
…and thank you Tara for every day.
November 8, 2013 at 12:35 pm
Stephanie Shaw
Well said, Mike. Game on!
November 8, 2013 at 12:38 pm
Mary Jane
I think I am going to go out and buy myself some toys or maybe I’ll visit my six year old grandson and we’ll see what’s happening at the castle. Perfect post for the day. Many thanks!
November 8, 2013 at 12:41 pm
Patrick Waldron
Thank you.
November 8, 2013 at 12:52 pm
Jenn Bower
When I get ‘stuck’ I love to sit down with my crayons and Sharpie markers. Also, playing with my animals always seems to inspire some nugget.
November 8, 2013 at 12:58 pm
Sherry Walz
Amazing how a trip down memory lane brings out those feelings of being a kid again! Thanks for reminding me of another fun way to get my creative juices flowing.
November 8, 2013 at 1:02 pm
storyfairy
Yay! I finally have an excuse to play with my stuffed animals! Maybe I’ll even get some more toys!
November 8, 2013 at 1:09 pm
Laurie Young
What a wonderful story!!! Thanks so much for sharing 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 1:13 pm
tpierce
Hmm…I think I need to go through my (29-year old) son’s closet now (he still uses our home as his permanent storage locker.
November 8, 2013 at 1:18 pm
Donna L Martin
Hi Mike!
There was such a connection for me to this post. Right now I’m looking at a certain three year old as she explores the limits of her own imagination through coloring and I can’t wait for the book collaborations we will one day do together…;~)
Great post!
Donna L Martin
November 8, 2013 at 1:24 pm
Jewel Sample
Love to play with preschool toys and have a good reason on Gramma play dates. It’s a good idea to keep an ear open for a picture book idea. I so identify with your mom and getting my son’s to come get their stuff.
November 8, 2013 at 1:34 pm
Freckled Daisy Creations
What a brilliant post! Thank you! Bring of the waffles! And chicken!
November 8, 2013 at 1:38 pm
dee win
thank you for this post- i’m off to buy a pack of shiny, new crayons 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 1:45 pm
Johnell
Waffles are good.
November 8, 2013 at 1:57 pm
Kelly Ramsdell Fineman
I’ve been inspired to buy myself a box of 64 Crayolas. And to pull out my colored pencils, too. Because why not? Thanks, Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 2:05 pm
Beth MacKinney
Great post, Mike. Here’s my confession. It’s not so unexpected since most people know I’ve turned from book designer in publishing to face painter performer, but I really like to build with duplos. Lol. Playing with toys is fun!
November 8, 2013 at 2:13 pm
Stella Jane Stauffer
Oh, how I wish I had a closet to go through.
I miss my old record player.
I loved my little sister’s rocking horse and her adorable smile when she rode it as fast as the wind. (There you go..my next story idea)
My closet is in my memory bank…it opens from time to time. Then I ask myself, “why didn’t I keep that?”
Thank you, Mike, for this wonderful post.
Consider me your new fan.
November 8, 2013 at 2:25 pm
Gaye Kick
Thank you Mike! One of my first ideas this month for PiBoIdMo came from my first grade lunch box. I loved that box! Wish I could find one just like it. I will have to look in antique stores. Yes, it’s THAT old!
November 8, 2013 at 2:35 pm
kirsticall
This is great reminder about the importance of play. Sometimes I’m so overwhelmed with laundry and dishes and cleaning out closets to sit down and really play with my five little kiddos. What an inspiring post!
November 8, 2013 at 2:45 pm
belindambrock
Great post…think this type of creative play can help most aspects of our lives!
November 8, 2013 at 3:00 pm
L. Palmer
Play is an essential part of creativity. Essential to life is the interrum home of random objects known as your parent’s garage. My things are currently taking up a number of shelves, with still years before they will re-emerge in the light of day.
November 8, 2013 at 3:28 pm
Karen Mae Zoccoli
I LOVE IT! Thank you Mike this was a great post and reminder to reconnect with our childhood and remember not just the toys but the dreams we left behind. They may still be there waiting for us!
November 8, 2013 at 3:29 pm
Melanie Vickers
My son still has his transformers from thirty years ago in our house. The great thing that happens is that his son, my grandson, rushes to get them whenever he visits. Dad’s old toys are magic to him. Great story.
November 8, 2013 at 4:07 pm
Jill Siegel
what a sweet post. 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 4:09 pm
rjtraxel
Love it. My house is full of toys and childhood books. I love being able to look at them while I work.
November 8, 2013 at 4:44 pm
LeslieG
THANK YOU! I love this, too!
November 8, 2013 at 5:46 pm
SevenAcreSky
Mike, a challenging post. “we voluntarily—eagerly—purge the fun stuff from our lives.” Oh may it not be so. Or at least STOP being so.
Thanks for the post, and the encouragement to play-write-play.
November 9, 2013 at 6:05 pm
SevenAcreSky
(forgot name) – Damon Dean
November 8, 2013 at 6:03 pm
Franziska Green (@franziskagreen)
Brilliant, brilliant post!
November 8, 2013 at 6:07 pm
Alicia van Thiel
Lovely story! My daughter would love such a set and a great idea has just come to mind to create a story for girls. Thank you for sharing!
November 8, 2013 at 6:19 pm
MSackman
This is so timely for me. My grandkids are coming for a visit and I was planning on digging out some of the “toys” my own children played with, the things that have been difficult to let go. I am looking forward to their visit and their inspiration!
November 8, 2013 at 6:36 pm
amievc
Thanks for this post reminding us to have fun and play with toys. My kids thank you too 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 7:12 pm
Rick Starkey
Playing is fun even as an adult. We have a magic shop so I get to play every day, but finding a childhood toy is way better than any of the newest ones. Even seeing them in the background of old photos can spark a ton of memories.
November 8, 2013 at 7:30 pm
bandyslant
The best part of PiBoIdMo for me so far has been the collaborations with my kids. My daughter is in on this challenge with me, and it’s been so fun playing with her seeing her suddenly jump up and say, “Mom! I’ve got an idea, and it’s about a boy that wants to be a sheep! We need to turn it into a book NOW!” (That counts on her list, not mine!) When I create with my kids and for my kids, I know that even if an idea isn’t “saleable,” it’s still meaningful because we did it together. It takes some of the publication pressure off, and helps me to focus on what matters and why I love writing in the first place. Thank you for this post and the great encouragement, Mike!
November 8, 2013 at 7:38 pm
Elizabeth McBride
Oh my! That erector set photo was something! I remember seeing it at my friend’s house, in real life! Great post – and kudos to Mom – she kept it for you!!! Thanks for your encouraging words, Mike!
Elizabeth McBride
November 8, 2013 at 7:47 pm
kpbock
Love this! I can’t wait to break out the play dough with my kids tomorrow!
November 8, 2013 at 8:03 pm
roughwighting
I sheepishly recognized myself in your post because, unfortunately, I’m the adult who doesn’t play enough. However, on further thought, walking is a kind of play (and I get a lot of inspiration when I walk), and laughing with friends is playing (and I earn some good dialogue for my stories from the conversations). Lastly, sitting on the floor with children and grandchildren is a GREAT way to be inspired during their play.
You’ve really made me realize the importance of play in our writing/creative lives. Whatever that play time is. THANKS.
November 8, 2013 at 8:10 pm
Evie Hjartarson
Great post is right! I just found my first teddy bear. Poor little eyes loved off and all.
November 8, 2013 at 8:15 pm
Susanna Leonard Hill
I totally agree about play, Mike! That is why I’m allowed to keep my pogo stick, my Breyer horses, and my building blocks… research for work! 🙂 Thanks for a great post! 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 8:41 pm
Matthew C. Winner
What a great post! I love how I feel after a good bought of playing. Nothing better to lift the spirits or spark the imagination!
November 8, 2013 at 9:15 pm
teresamis
I loved being a kid and being a kid was hard to give up — I held on as long as I could. I gave up my thumb at nine, my Barbies at 13, the Mickey Mouse Club at 14 and my BunBun and blankie when I got married (yes Bun Bun went to college. All good stuffies need a degree). I was thrilled to have children so I could play again. And tho they are 18 and 20, I have vowed to never give up playing again. I still even spill my drink at the dinner table. Loved the post. Thanks Mike.
November 8, 2013 at 9:31 pm
Barbara Messinger
I pulled out my old hula hoop! Oww – but fun! Great post!
November 8, 2013 at 9:46 pm
Janet Halfmann
Thanks for the inspirational post. I plan on getting in some more playing time with my grandsons real soon.
November 8, 2013 at 9:52 pm
jackiewellington21
Great post 😀
November 8, 2013 at 9:56 pm
erin
Love these thoughts, Mike! Thanks for the post!
November 8, 2013 at 10:08 pm
Lori Mozdzierz
Play bring progress . . . Nice! I’m using that one 😀
November 8, 2013 at 10:25 pm
writeknit
Play is hard work but lots of fun 🙂
November 8, 2013 at 11:48 pm
wendymyersart
What a funny post-thank you! I had flashbacks to the basement of my brothers best friend- he had filled the entire thing with villages, moving machines and creations made out of Erector sets. It was amazing! I have a secret stash of my daughter’s old toys in my studio (she’s now a teen).
November 8, 2013 at 11:56 pm
Ashley Bankhead
Great post. Very helpful.
November 9, 2013 at 12:17 am
Lacey Gunter
Great post, loved it.
November 9, 2013 at 12:54 am
Dani Duck
What a wonderful post! I love when I get time to play with my 3 year old. It’s wonderful to watch them grow and see how their mind works. I’ll have to say a lot of my picture book ideas have come from just some of the funny things he does or says!
November 9, 2013 at 6:55 am
Vivienne Dacosta
I had never thought of using toys to help with my story ideas. Definitely going to raid the kid’s toy box now.
November 9, 2013 at 7:23 am
Andrea
Playing is so important! As a kindergarten teacher, I love the way playing with my students often inspires my writing!
November 9, 2013 at 7:46 am
Kelly Parker
This is so me, I am such a kid! I still LOVE playing with toys, going to the toy store, watching cartoons and making up silly songs (even when the kids aren’t aren’t around)! Some would say “uh, what” and I just say “Hey! it’s FUN!”
November 11, 2013 at 11:22 am
heylookawriterfellow
You got the right spirit, Kelly. Who’s your favorite cartoon character?
November 9, 2013 at 8:54 am
Pat Haapaniemi
What a great post! Thanks for reminding us about the importance of playing! And I got a laugh out of your Charlie Brown comic!
November 9, 2013 at 9:42 am
Jennifer Rumberger
Great post and so true! I need to remember when I’m stuck for ideas to join my son on the floor with his legos and transformers. I definitely don’t play enough!
November 9, 2013 at 10:24 am
dzipeto
Great, physical way to get back in touch with your memories of being a child, and a fantastic nonlinear way of generating ideas 🙂
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Diana Zipeto
November 9, 2013 at 10:45 am
Theanna
Great post! I agree this is a wonderful way to get back in touch with the child inside us. Thank you for sharing your story!
November 9, 2013 at 11:17 am
Quinn Cole
Play is critical to my sanity. 🙂 I keep toys in my day job office for creative and fun breaks. Great post!
November 11, 2013 at 11:20 am
heylookawriterfellow
As do I. Have I told ya about my Magic 8 Ball?
http://mikeallegra.com/2012/08/11/uh-oh-its-magic/
November 9, 2013 at 11:30 am
angiekarcher
Fortunately, I’m still a kid at heart so bring on the inspiration!
November 9, 2013 at 1:01 pm
RadSheri
This reminded me of the restaurant who cover the tables with white butcher paper and give you crayons while you wait for your meal. I loved to draw on these and then my family used to add things to my characters. It was fun and this post reminded me of that. I should have taken the paper home to use later. We also played games on the paper to pass the time. Good idea webs could come from some butcher paper on my kitchen table.
November 11, 2013 at 11:18 am
heylookawriterfellow
Macaroni Grill! Doodling and pasta should go hand in hand.
November 9, 2013 at 2:28 pm
Patricia A Miller
This must be the reason I haven’t gotten rid of my youngest’s toys! Right now the youngest two (8 y.o. and 21 “disabled” y.o.) are playing make-believe. The 8 y.o. is a veterinarian and the 21 y.o. is a dog.
November 9, 2013 at 2:31 pm
vijikc
I really need to learn how to play again!! Thank you!
November 11, 2013 at 11:17 am
heylookawriterfellow
It’s like riding a bicycle. So get out there!
November 9, 2013 at 3:21 pm
Brenda Harris
lucky you, your mom kept your toys.
My mom throws everything out; the house is clean and uncluttered 24/7. Thankfully, I’m teaching pre-K and get to play a lot. 🙂
November 9, 2013 at 5:56 pm
Ann Birnie
Ann Birnie – I’d rather build a sand castle than do yoga. It’s more relaxing and the ocean chants better than I ever will.
November 9, 2013 at 8:52 pm
thiskidreviewsbooks
Great post Mr. Allegra! 😀
November 9, 2013 at 9:57 pm
Micki Ginsberg
I love how you had planned to use your parents house as a storage locker for the rest of your life!
November 9, 2013 at 11:09 pm
Carrie Brown
Yes! I need to play with my kids more! And playing with toys may relieve stress, release creativity, and spawn some ideas! Thanks! 🙂
November 10, 2013 at 12:24 am
klmcmorranmaus
Super post. Thank you for sharing.
November 10, 2013 at 12:46 am
Yvonne Mes
Another reason why I love writing for children, when doodling, playing with toys, running around the backyard with the kids, it all legitimate research.
November 10, 2013 at 8:19 am
Janet Smart
I love this post! And thanks for giving me the idea of having my oldest son come and get all of his things. And, while I am sorting out the stuff for him, I’ll take a trip down memory lane and see what ideas I can come up with.
November 10, 2013 at 10:57 am
heather sisson
Its so true, so important to have fun once and a while to clear your brain even it childish. And logos will always be my first love! Love your work :]
November 10, 2013 at 11:50 am
Loni Edwards (@LoniEdwards)
I remember my Dad mailing me boxes after I left home. Each one opened up an old memory. Barbies, old journals, stuffed animals. It was a really neat experience. Some things, I was like, “Why did I save this?” But others were treasured items that held memories that I had long forgotten. It was a really cool experience. Thanks for your post, and have fun building that race car 🙂
November 10, 2013 at 1:05 pm
bucherwurm65
Thank you for the inspiring post. I work with four year olds. Playing with them is the gateway to inspiration!
November 10, 2013 at 2:49 pm
Penny Parker Klostermann
I love that your dread of cleaning out your stuff became such a source of inspiration. It almost makes me want to clean out my attic 🙂 Thank you for an inspiring post and for the Peanuts comic strip…it is great!
November 10, 2013 at 7:13 pm
Lori Mozdzierz
Playful spirits . . . childlike soul . . . the mind of a creative.
Enjoyed the post, Mike!
November 11, 2013 at 12:31 am
lje1
Ah, from now on when I play, I’ll tell everyone I’m busy working…because I am.
November 11, 2013 at 1:52 am
writersideup
If there’s such a thing as a PERFECT blog post—-this is it! You know, I’ve never NEEDed an excuse to “play,” but unless kids are around, we’re much less likely to, simply because our lives are drawn elsewhere. Granted, I was married and a few years from giving birth to my son when a tear rolled down my cheek at my first glimpse of Cinderella’s castle, and, there being NO line just before closing (of course, this was back in 1983!), repeatedly got onto the “Journey to Imagination” ride. Not to mention, when my son outgrew Sesame Place it was ME who’d be missing climbing on those giant nets! lol Looking forward to the grandkids 😀 hehehe
November 11, 2013 at 11:15 am
heylookawriterfellow
I miss those Sesame Place nets, too! Maybe I’ll meet’cha there!
November 11, 2013 at 2:02 pm
writersideup
LOL! Trouble is—now I wouldn’t be ABLE to climb them! I really did love that place, though. It was truly simultaneously interactive for parents and their kids 🙂 Wonder what it’s like after all these years. It’s been about 18 since I was there, I think!
November 11, 2013 at 8:36 am
Therese Nagi
Mike you remind all of us that we need to have playtime in our lives. We need to dust off old toys and seize the moment to have fun. Sometimes are best times come from those creative times.
November 11, 2013 at 10:54 am
Daniela Weil (@Daniela_Weil)
great post mike! so true that it all comes back when we get back into kid mode…
November 11, 2013 at 1:50 pm
laurimeyers
On more than one occasion I have found myself still playing with blocks long after the kids have moved on to something else. It’s so satisfying – creativity, structure, accomplishment, and, of course, destruction.
November 11, 2013 at 3:32 pm
Jennifer Ali
I guess my style of “play” is not interfering with my son’s imaginary epic battles with orcs and the like. He has his version of the blackgate set up and built the Eye of Sauron out of legos. I’ll be sad when he stops.
November 11, 2013 at 6:42 pm
Suzanne kaufman
Great post now time to bust out the Legos.
November 12, 2013 at 9:28 am
The Hook
Never lose sight of that inner child, Mike, he holds the secret to eternal youth – in a manner of speaking, of course.
Great post, man. Engaging, well-written and a joy to read. I’m in my forties and of my greatest joys is the weekly trip to the comic book store with my daughter.
Play rules!
November 12, 2013 at 11:46 am
Dana Atnip
I remember those Erector sets, ha! I agree, playing with toys is a great way to bring out that inner child. We should all set up inner-child play-dates!
November 12, 2013 at 2:24 pm
Shannon Abercrombie
How wonderfully full circle this is. My brother’s kids inherited all of our childhood toys and seeing them stacked in the basement at his house brings me right back to my childhood…what a great, great place to muster up some ideas!
November 12, 2013 at 10:10 pm
mellin4333
It’s so true!!! I love all my childhood toys, and my collection of For Kids Only things, because they bring me back to my childhood imagination! Also, Pinterest is great for looking up “back in the day” sorts of things. Oh the memories! 😉
November 13, 2013 at 1:15 am
Perfecting Motherhood
This really rings a bell! I hit a non-creative period for a few years before I had my kids. Life was just work, eat and sleep, but no kid’s play. Now that I have my kids and their many toys and imagination to motivate me, I play every day, and write, and draw, etc. Kids are the best influence on adults!
November 13, 2013 at 11:52 am
Lynn Ann Carol
Now I know who has all the cool toys.
I have my share also. I remember a great line, it goes like this, “some people are just born old.”
Enjoy, play hard,
Lynn
November 13, 2013 at 12:04 pm
City Sights for Kids
Thanks for the great post and reminder to keep ‘play’ alive! Your comment about being a 12-year old ready to be adult transported me back to when my older neighbor informed me that she could no longer play Barbies with me – I was devastated and had to reconsider playtime.
– Amanda Sincavage
November 13, 2013 at 10:35 pm
MichelleLynn
I am in the process of putting a few small play objects in a box that is easily accessible from my desk. When I am stuck, I plan to take it out and have a brain break. Considering: play dough, yoyo, small puzzles, magnets, etc.
November 14, 2013 at 9:27 am
heylookawriterfellow
Great idea! But don’t forget to add dolls!
After all, what would a 12-inch Barbie say to a four-inch Darth Vader action figure? A stuffed squirrel? A Weeble Wobble? Food for thought indeed.
November 13, 2013 at 10:45 pm
Angela
Great post… While I’m waiting for the grown kids to get their stuff out of the garage, I’m going to make waffles and think of PiBo ideas.
November 14, 2013 at 9:47 pm
Meg Miller
So cute. And true, so true! My 4 yr old, 2 yr old and I were running around looking for dinosaur bones and being quiet so as not to wake the dragon. haha! Kids are picture book idea gold. 😀
November 16, 2013 at 7:48 am
The Ink Pond
Awesome post! I have two children that constantly inspire me and playing with them is my favorite thing to do. They are always saying funny words or singing silly songs. Sometimes, I will ask them about what they are doing and we will make a story as we play with their toys (and some of my old toys). Then, I write down what we just created. I also always include a note about which child deserves credit for the story idea!
Kids rock!
November 17, 2013 at 10:55 pm
underthemapleleaves
thank you for encouraging us to multi-task, play with our children and grands and while pouring into their lives, finding our own inner child and creativity.
November 20, 2013 at 1:25 pm
shiela fuller
Nothing gets accomplished once I did in to the archives of my childhood; or my kids’ childhood. I end of spending hours reveling in the memories.
November 20, 2013 at 9:15 pm
Priya Gopal
Love playing
November 22, 2013 at 5:38 pm
aliciaminor
Lesson learned? Don’t underestimate the toys in the closets, under the bed or attics. There are treasure of ideas waiting to be found and next time you tripped on a racing car lying somewhere, think again, it could be a blessing.
November 24, 2013 at 4:58 pm
Debbie Faith Mickelson
Play makes us young again and that’s a great way to relate to imagination and children. You should never out-grow being a child.
November 24, 2013 at 5:55 pm
Kathryn Ault Noble
Glad you found your happy thoughts, Mike! I’m off to color Snoopy green. . .
November 30, 2013 at 9:04 am
Jeanette
My kids loved Sarah Gives Thanks. Thank you for it! Also the reminder to play!
November 30, 2013 at 11:21 am
Carol Munro
So true, Mike. Thanks for the reminder. This post generated a wild idea for me. YAY! Eager to see where it takes me.
December 1, 2013 at 1:32 pm
blanchebaxter
Please, twist my arm, I will play…and like it! Seriously though, I love to play. Can’t take things too seriously. Life goes by so quick, we might as well enjoy every minute of it. 🙂 Thanks for the post!!!
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