by Ellen Tarlow
Storystorm 2021 is coming to end. We have been prompted to look in all directions for story inspiration.
Today I want to focus on looking inside (a little like Bear from my new book, LOOKING FOR SMILE, is doing in panel three) and also looking back in time. Specifically I wanted to look back at our own childhood selves. And more specifically at a moment when we needed a “story” to help us.
LOOKING FOR SMILE, illustrated by Lauren Stringer (Beach Lane Books, 2020), tells the story of Bear and Smile who are always together—they wake up together, they splash in waterfalls together, they eat honey together, they look at the stars together. Then one morning Smile doesn’t come. And without his Smile, Bear feels alone for the first time.
The roots of the story go back to a day when I was five years old and just like Bear, I woke up and found my smile gone. And while the particulars are (obviously) very different, the feeling of confusion about being in a world that looked and felt different than it ever did before is very much the same. Lauren Stringer, the illustrator of Looking for Smile, captured it perfectly. That day my relationship to the world went from this:

illustration by Lauren Stringer
To this:

illustration by Lauren Stringer
LOOKING FOR SMILE is a story I have been trying to write for many years. And while I had no idea that it was going to be about Bear and Smile (who would be personified) or any other details, I knew that in some way it would come into existence. The fact that it comes from such a deeply rooted experience, I think helped me to keep on trying. So today, I wanted to offer a prompt to help you reach this source of inspiration, which, like Smile, can be elusive.
Writing a Letter to Little You
Several years ago, I was a student at Vermont College. One of the most memorable experiences in my time there was a lecture by Marion Dane Bauer on how we as writers could mine and transform our deepest and most vulnerable childhood memories into books for children. At the beginning of the lecture, she gave us a writing prompt.
“Pick a time when you were young and felt like you needed help or guidance.
It could be any time in your childhood or even teenage years.
Write a letter to the child you were at that point.
Say what you wish someone had said to you
at the time to help you feel or understand better.”
Don’t worry about how old you are in this memory or think about making it into a picture book. Just capture yourself at this vulnerable point in your life and help yourself feel better using the perspective you have gained as an adult.
There were about 75 grown-ups in the room at Vermont College that day. Within minutes you could hear sniffs as each scribbled away. Soon almost everyone was crying. It was very memorable!
[Note: There is an interesting “party trick” aspect to this prompt so don’t read the following until you have written your letter.]
Spoiler Alert
Marion brought the sobbing group together. Rather than asking us to share our letters, she asked us what ages the younger selves in our letters were. She ran through the years, starting with 2 years old and ending at 18 and we all raised our hands when she said the age. I think almost to a person, each of us had written a letter to ourselves at the exact age that we as writers for children and young adults were “typically” writing for. (I wrote to my three-year old self which is definitely my sweet spot.]
End Spoiler Alert
There are of course many ways to access your earlier self. Another favorite is to get your hands on a book you loved as a child that you haven’t seen ideally for a (a very) long time. Sometimes even seeing a single picture will bring back that feeling of wonder or connection or point you to something you want to share in your own way with your future readers.
I hope you enjoy your trip inwards and backwards and that ideas will begin to percolate, knowing that someday you will find “the” way (much as Bear finds Smile) to transform it into a special story for a child like the one you were.
Ellen Tarlow writes stories for very young children. Her published children’s books include PINWHEEL DAYS, MOLE CATCHES THE SKY, and most recently, LOOKING FOR SMILE, illustrated by Lauren Stringer and published by Beach Lane Books. It was recently named one of Kirkus’s Best Books of 2020. For many years, she worked as an editor of early childhood classroom materials. In that job, she got to write hundreds of stories for young children. Now that she is working less, she is excited to focus on her own stories. After spending her entire adult life in New York City, she just moved to the Hudson Valley with her husband David, a painter. She has three new picture books and an early reader series coming out with Beach Lane Books over the next few years. You can learn more about her at ellentarlow.com and follow her on Twitter @TarlowEllen.
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January 26, 2021 at 8:06 am
Meli Glickman
I am smiling with joy after reading this heartwarming post. Many thanks for sharing!
January 27, 2021 at 2:15 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Meli
January 26, 2021 at 8:07 am
Mitchell Linda
oooph. that’s quite a prompt. But, I see the wisdom in it.
January 27, 2021 at 2:17 pm
ellentarlow
Ha true!
January 26, 2021 at 8:11 am
Nancy Colle
A fun and introspective post!
Thank you so much:)
January 27, 2021 at 2:17 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Nancy!
January 26, 2021 at 8:11 am
Julia
What a great idea! Thanks so much for sharing and I can’t wait to read your new book!
January 27, 2021 at 2:18 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Julia!
January 26, 2021 at 8:14 am
kiwijenny
Thank you. I think this is why we are here. Not just to churn out ideas but to go deep within ourselves to help children. Thank you for this prompt. Hugs
January 26, 2021 at 10:04 am
Patricia J Holloway
Wow! This exercise is sure to get to the heart of our lives. Thank you for sharing it. Your book sounds wonderful, I can’t wait to get it.
January 27, 2021 at 2:47 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Patricia!
January 27, 2021 at 2:46 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Julia!
January 26, 2021 at 8:23 am
michelemeleen
Great advice. Thanks for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 8:24 am
Cathy L. Murphy
Wow! Your prompt is so thought-provoking. I’m going to have to set aside some time and tissue. Thank you, Ellen.
January 27, 2021 at 2:48 pm
ellentarlow
I hope you enjoy it, Cathy!
January 26, 2021 at 8:29 am
Krista Maxwell
Thanks for the great idea!
January 27, 2021 at 2:48 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you Krista!
January 26, 2021 at 8:29 am
Tanya Konerman
Kind of a scary prompt, but a good way to find something close to my heart. I love the idea of finding a childhood book to spark memories, and know just the one to look for!
January 27, 2021 at 2:49 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you Tanya! Enjoy your childhood books!
January 26, 2021 at 8:30 am
Elyse Trevers
I love the idea of rereading some of my childhood books. Since they will be ‘research,’ I won’t feel guilty because it’s for work
Thanks
January 27, 2021 at 2:51 pm
ellentarlow
haha, research. EXACTLY! Thank you, Elyse…
January 26, 2021 at 8:35 am
Julie Maria Harris
Thank you for sharing your experience and this exercise!
January 27, 2021 at 2:51 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Julie!
January 26, 2021 at 8:35 am
Jessica Coupé
I like the idea of reading books from childhood also.
January 27, 2021 at 2:59 pm
ellentarlow
Enjoy them, Jessica!
January 26, 2021 at 8:37 am
stiefelchana
This is just what I needed Ellen! Thank you. And I love how you & your illustrator personified SMILE. Children will adore your book!
January 27, 2021 at 3:17 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you Chana! i enjoyed really enjoyed your post too…
January 26, 2021 at 8:37 am
debobrienbookscom
Story Storm is always inspiring us with new ways to be creative. Thank you, Ellen.
January 27, 2021 at 3:18 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Deb!
January 26, 2021 at 8:38 am
Joyce Uglow
My letter to my childhood self helped me to remember wishes, impulsive actions as well as compliments and fun. This is a powerful exercise.
January 27, 2021 at 3:18 pm
ellentarlow
I am glad you enjoyed it, Joyce!
January 26, 2021 at 8:43 am
Angela Verges
Thanks Ellen. I’m going to put this technique into practice. Love the inspiration.
January 27, 2021 at 3:42 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Angela!
January 26, 2021 at 8:45 am
jodieparachini
Great job Ellen! I smile every time I think of Looking for Smile. 🙂
January 27, 2021 at 3:43 pm
ellentarlow
thanks Jodie!!
January 26, 2021 at 8:45 am
Jane Heitman Healy
Congratulations on turning your vulnerable child self into a fun picture book that may help young vulnerable children today! Thanks for the reminder to turn to our inner child’s feelings as good story starters.
January 27, 2021 at 5:11 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Jane!
January 26, 2021 at 8:46 am
Jo Martin
Thanks! Such a great idea for writing meaningful stories.
January 27, 2021 at 5:11 pm
ellentarlow
You’re welcome, Jo!
January 26, 2021 at 8:46 am
Mark Bentz
Hi Alexandra
Thank you for posting. Congratulations on your book.
Great idea to take a look at a childhood book.
January 26, 2021 at 8:47 am
Cathy Lentes
This is a lovely prompt, and a powerful way to access that little kid inside us. And for me, it always is a little kid. I read YA sometimes, but I have little desire to write for that age.My strongest memories and impressions (and hurts) land in the 3-10 age range. This is an exercise that can help us find and nurture that small heart within.
January 27, 2021 at 5:12 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Cathy!
January 26, 2021 at 8:49 am
Melissa H. Mwai
This is a great idea to help us connect with the emotion. So powerful! Thank you.
January 27, 2021 at 10:43 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Melissa!
January 26, 2021 at 8:49 am
rahlyn20
What an insightful perspective! We try so hard to find our inspirations all around us, & indeed they’re out there~ but we need only to look within to find what we really need to say….
January 26, 2021 at 8:51 am
rosainkpen
I really enjoyed reading your post Ellen. And I would love to read ‘Looking for Smile.’ Sounds like a wonderful book.
January 26, 2021 at 8:51 am
catherine owen
Gosh. This one’s a real snot-fest … lovely idea tho. My little self was very alone …
January 26, 2021 at 8:54 am
🇵🇪Sara Fajardo🇺🇸 (@safajarwrites)
Looking for Smile is one of my favorite books published in 2020. So much heart and truth. Thank you for this exercise. I did a similar one once but we had to write with our non-dominant hand, which also had the result of simplifying the language and really connecting to the emotion. It was transformative.
January 27, 2021 at 5:23 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Sara! And what a great idea (non dominant hand).
January 26, 2021 at 8:55 am
Michele Ziemke
Thank you for the inspiration! My child self will be receiving a much needed letter today. ❤️
January 26, 2021 at 8:55 am
Meldaarts
I can’t remember much from my childhood, but I do remember the things I watched and read – today I will have to re consume them and see (feel?) What emotions come from them
January 26, 2021 at 8:56 am
Rebster
I can feel myself tearing up thinking about writing a letter to my younger self. Thanks for the inspiration today, Ellen.
January 29, 2021 at 12:31 pm
ellentarlow
Hope it worked, Rebster!
January 26, 2021 at 8:58 am
Amy Houts
Everyone needs to find Smile. What a sweet concept. Great activity, too! Thanks!
January 26, 2021 at 9:01 am
saintamovin
Thank you very much Ellen 😊
January 26, 2021 at 9:03 am
Rebecca Gardyn Levington
I love this story and your exercise. There is a moment I experienced when I was 8 that I’ve been wanting to write about for years, but so far I haven’t found the right way in. I am going to try writing this letter. It won’t be easy, but perhaps it will lead me where I need to be. Thank you!
Rebecca Gardyn Levington
January 29, 2021 at 12:31 pm
ellentarlow
good luck with it, Rebecca!
January 26, 2021 at 9:04 am
Anita Palmeri Overgaard
So hard to go there, especially in the form of a letter to little me. But this is exactly what I need to do on so many levels. Thank you!
January 29, 2021 at 12:32 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Anita!
January 26, 2021 at 9:05 am
Susan Drew
Wow. This is a post I have to think about for awhile. Love the Bear and Smile!
January 26, 2021 at 9:05 am
Holly Boker
I can’t wait to read Looking for Smile! Thank you for this inspiring story.
January 26, 2021 at 9:07 am
Colleen Owen Murphy
Ellen, how clever to personify the smile for Bear. Congratulations! And thank you for the writing prompt. I do think that what I needed to hear as a child would not make for a good picture book, but maybe, like you, I can find a way to make it happen.
January 26, 2021 at 9:08 am
Anita Banks
How sweet this is. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 9:08 am
Jennifer Blanck
Thank you for suggesting this. It’s wonderful to be able to tap into deep and important memories. I’m looking forward to writing a letter to little me and will make sure I have some tissues nearby.
January 29, 2021 at 12:32 pm
ellentarlow
Good luck with it, Jennifer!
January 26, 2021 at 9:08 am
Marla Yablon
What a beautiful way to connect with your “child within”! Can’t wait to try.
January 29, 2021 at 12:33 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you, Maria!
January 26, 2021 at 9:10 am
katiemillsgiorgio
This is so sweet and I love the letter idea. Thanks for sharing!
January 26, 2021 at 9:16 am
Jany Campana
Ellen, Thanks! I’m writing a letter to little me!!!
January 26, 2021 at 9:16 am
Erin Rew
The very first draft I wrote in 2021 was based from a childhood memory. Even if it never becomes a PB it was very therapeutic.
January 29, 2021 at 12:34 pm
ellentarlow
Very interesting, Erin! You never know…
January 26, 2021 at 9:17 am
Susan Jobsky
I pictured one particular event in my life in living color as I read your blog post. I was seven. My target audience has been seven to nine year olds.
I am not sure I ever want to write a story based on that event, but I do have many more pleasant, even happy experiences from which to draw story ideas.
January 26, 2021 at 9:18 am
Suzanne Lewis
Such a powerful way to find a tugging-at-heartstrings story! Thank you for sharing this special approach to generate ideas, Ellen!
January 26, 2021 at 9:19 am
Bettie Boswell
Loved the spoiler alert. That is amazing. Thank you for sharing this wonderful idea!
January 26, 2021 at 9:20 am
Nicole Loos Miller
Thank you for sharing this writing exercise, Ellen! How insightful!
January 26, 2021 at 9:21 am
lynjekowsky
I wrote my memoir a few years ago. I need to dig in to my childhood entries and go deeper.
January 26, 2021 at 9:21 am
Shelley Isaacson
This post brought me back to a favorite childhood book, also about a bear-like creature looking for a smile: The Little Brute Family, and also to a tough childhood memory that just might make a picture book. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 9:24 am
M.R.
Usually about fifth grade, students are asked to write a letter to their future selves. I have never seen the suggestion to do the opposite — write a letter to your younger self. My mind immediately went to a time when I was 14, and you were right! That is the age I usually write for. Thanks for the inspiring (and insightful) post. 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 9:26 am
Joan Longstaff
Your post as prompted me to go down memory lane and relive some difficult times and some happy times too, so thank you for that.
January 26, 2021 at 9:26 am
pbbeckyk
Wow, thank you for helping me tap into a (challenging) memory from so many tears ago that is now on my storystorm list of PB ideas. I definitely write for my 5 year old self. Thank you again!
January 26, 2021 at 9:27 am
Ann Harrell
So insightful…and powerful prompt. This is something I will continue to process and work with. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 9:30 am
Ellen Bari
Thanks Ellen! The prompt took me way back, and there is so much to say. Congrats on the book. I love it! It truly makes me smile.
January 26, 2021 at 9:31 am
Laura
So much to say to “younger me”. Thanks.
January 26, 2021 at 9:34 am
triciacandy
Oh my. That was such a powerful exercise. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 9:34 am
jennifer Weisse
Very thought provoking and inspiring exercise. Thank you so much for sharing. Your latest book looks wonderful, I can’t wait to read it!
January 26, 2021 at 9:36 am
Cynthia
What a great post! I immediately thought of two things. One, a book that I loved that I haven’t read in years -Gilberto and the Wind- and another, the time I wore a special bracelet that I was only to wear to church, but I wore it to school one day and lost it forever. 😦
January 27, 2021 at 10:44 pm
ellentarlow
I loved gilberto and the wind and that bracelet story is something everyone can relate to..
January 26, 2021 at 9:37 am
paulajbecker
Thank you for sharing of yourself and methods, Ellen!
January 26, 2021 at 9:38 am
Deb Sullivan
Fabulous writing prompt, Ellen…great way to get the juices flowing. Thanks for sharing!
January 26, 2021 at 9:40 am
Joni Nemeth
Thank you for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 9:41 am
deirdreprischmann
I love this post! Our brains are so fascinating- the connections you described are really interesting.
January 26, 2021 at 9:41 am
wfedan
I love this prompt – thank you! Three new ideas now!
January 26, 2021 at 9:42 am
Robin Brett Wechsler
A very moving and motivating prompt. Thank you, Ellen! I just requested LOOKING FOR SMILE from my library.
January 29, 2021 at 10:04 am
ellentarlow
Thank you, Robin!
January 26, 2021 at 9:42 am
ptnozell
Thanks, Ellen, for the reminder to look inside, and back in time, to find story ideas.
January 26, 2021 at 9:43 am
Debra Katz
Thank you for this post.
January 26, 2021 at 9:44 am
Hank Dallago
Ellen, it was wonderful to see your new book in Storystorm 2021. Congratulations for holding on to that feeling from five years old and patiently and persistently turning it into a picture book. What great advice and wisdom for us all! Thank you.
January 29, 2021 at 10:05 am
ellentarlow
Thank you, Hank!
January 26, 2021 at 9:45 am
Jessica Hinrichs
What a great prompt! Thank you! Your book looks darling!
January 26, 2021 at 9:46 am
Shanie Cooper
This was AMAZING – what a great exercise! Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 9:49 am
Carole Calladine
What a wonderful way to mine memories and the story needed. Thanks for sharing this exercise as the catalyst for your new story about Bear and Smile.
January 26, 2021 at 9:49 am
thecrowsmap
Ellen, thanks for sharing this exercise. I can understand how it could bring a roomful of adults to tears. Congratulations on your new book!
Gail Hartman
January 26, 2021 at 9:53 am
Jay
Great post. I’m off down memory lane – see you!
January 26, 2021 at 9:55 am
kathalsey
Ellen, a brilliant idea to find our inner child this book looks delicious. Ty.
January 26, 2021 at 9:57 am
Louann Brown
Love this idea. I write for younger children, can’t imagine a story over 500 words. Your suggestion for looking to the books you read as a child brings back many memories! (And I still have many of those books!)
January 26, 2021 at 9:57 am
Carol Gwin Nelson
Ellen, Thanks for a great post. There are lots of memories to capture.
January 26, 2021 at 9:57 am
hmkingman
Ellen, thank you for this. I’ve been thinking recently about writing such letters to my young self- and had not connected to the potential for a children’s book. I am so grateful for the prompt. Cannot wait to read Looking for Smile!
January 26, 2021 at 9:58 am
marsha weiner
please, pass the kleenex box.
thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 9:59 am
pathaap
What a great exercise to pull out those forgotten memories, Ellen. Your story, Looking For Smile, sounds wonderful.
January 26, 2021 at 10:03 am
Kathy Mazurowski
Okay, I’m teary eyed now, but have ideas.
January 26, 2021 at 10:11 am
bookthreader
This approach seems like a great way to start with the heart of a story. And your book looks amazing!!!
Moni
January 26, 2021 at 10:11 am
Jessica Potts
What a lovely post – thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 10:11 am
Midge Ballou Smith
Thank you, Ellen, for this thoughtful piece. So much to ponder here–
January 26, 2021 at 10:12 am
Kimberly Hutmacher
Min was a memory from when I was five, and yep, 5 year-olds are my target audience! Great exercise.
January 26, 2021 at 10:14 am
Tanja Bauerle
To do today: Chat with my younger self. Thank you for the push. T
January 26, 2021 at 10:15 am
rozanark
Such a heartwarming post, thank you for the inspiration to write a letter to my younger self.
January 26, 2021 at 10:17 am
Debra Shumaker
Love this. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 10:17 am
Lynn Baldwin
What a great idea. Your book is so lovely.
January 26, 2021 at 10:17 am
Cinzia V.
Thank you for the post. I loved coming up with a list of times I needed help/guidance and your party trick was spot on!
January 26, 2021 at 10:18 am
pollyrenner
Ahhh…thank you Ellen for your post. I agree with writing to your younger self!
January 26, 2021 at 10:19 am
DaNeil Olson
Wonderful exercise. Thank you for your post.
January 26, 2021 at 10:21 am
Linda Hofke
Great post. Writing from the heart is so important and looking back on our childhood experiences can provide the perfect topic for a story that kids today need to hear. Thanks for the reminder and the exercise.
And your book looks amazing!
January 26, 2021 at 10:21 am
Penny Merritt
Great prompt! I immediately thought of two different situations
January 26, 2021 at 10:28 am
chaunceyelephant
Your remembrance of your childhood is so touching. This idea resonates with me. I hope I will be able to make it come to life as you did
January 26, 2021 at 10:29 am
adavis6385
Thank you for digging deep and continuing to try writing LOOKING FOR SMILE, Ellen! I can’t wait to read this touching story.
January 26, 2021 at 10:29 am
Janie Reinart
Thank you Ellen,
I’m writing a letter😊 congratulations on your new books❤️
January 26, 2021 at 10:30 am
Joan Swanson
In doing your letter exercise, I’m glad that I am not the only one with tears in those memories. Thank you for bringing those memories to light and how we can turn them into stories.
January 26, 2021 at 10:31 am
knordynordy
Adorable and great prompt. Thanks!
January 26, 2021 at 10:32 am
Kim Erickson
This looks like an amazing heartfelt book!
January 26, 2021 at 10:32 am
judyrubin13
Thank you, Ellen, for sharing your inspirations. I look forward to what will awaken today.
January 26, 2021 at 10:36 am
Rona Shirdan
Wonderful prompt. Thanks for sharing!
January 26, 2021 at 10:38 am
Mrs. Vandivier
I love this. As a teacher, I teach kids to think about a small moment that happened in their lives and write about it. As an adult, I don’t always practice this enough. I always seem to share the same thought about myself in class without really “thinking” about what I might say to that moment. I love this prompt…thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 10:40 am
mjmeyer06
Thank you for this idea. I had a wonderful childhood and many of my ideas stem from the happiness and tranquility of growing up on a lake in the midwest. My other ideas come from my own children’s happy times and struggles and also ideas from the many children I worked with throughout my 35 year career working in early intervention.
January 26, 2021 at 10:43 am
Cheryl Johnso
Thanks for the tip! Looking forward to reading your book!
January 26, 2021 at 10:49 am
cynthiahm
This was a good exercise and helps me feel more convinced I am on track as a picture book writer! I thought of three moments; two were of my 4 year old self and the third was of my 8 year old self. I think I actually understand myself as a child a little better…thank you. And I have three possible story ideas!
January 26, 2021 at 10:50 am
Lori Dubbin
Your post is inspirational. Thank you for the prompt to look back at our childhood, look at our favorite picture books from that time, and look for our “smile.”
January 26, 2021 at 10:51 am
Sarah Meade
This writing exercise is excellent. I also wrote to my three year old self. My little ones and I love LOOKING FOR SMILE. Thanks for the post, Ellen.
January 26, 2021 at 10:51 am
Jennifer Rathe
Wonderful advice!
January 26, 2021 at 10:52 am
Writer on the run
Thank you Ellen for this wonderful inspiration! I immediately felt transported back in time- I will sit with this idea for a while and look for that child within!
January 26, 2021 at 10:52 am
Ginny Neil
What a great way to acces a new idea. Thank yo so much for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 10:55 am
Darcee A. Freier
I have tears in my eyes. Thank you for helping me find a connector my younger self.
January 26, 2021 at 10:57 am
Catherine Brewer
This is great, and therapeutic as well. I came up with some ideas from reading this article. Thank you Ellen for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 10:58 am
Sarah Tobias
Looking for Smile sounds wonderful. The title alone brought up a bunch of memories. The last illustration by Lauren, is the same color palette I am playing with for a piece I’m making for an illustration class. That made me smile.
January 26, 2021 at 10:58 am
marshaelyn
Ellen, (Oh, excuse me while I…sniff…wipe my nose drips.) Your Bear and Smile childhood story brought several of my long-forgotten, vulnerable moments storming into my mind. Thank you for sharing such a simple, authentic way to seek themes that truly touch children. In fact, I’ve decided that one of my ideas will transform into my first PB draft of this year. (I have you to thank.) And congratulations on your upcoming book! Sending you energy and inspiration with a boatload of gratitude…
January 26, 2021 at 10:59 am
readmybook2002
We lose our inner child as we finish high school, go to college, or start a career. It’s nice to know if you try very hard, question, and see the world around you, it can come back, hopefully to stay forever. Thank You
January 26, 2021 at 11:02 am
Sarah SarahH
I love this.
That is all.
January 26, 2021 at 11:05 am
Meg
This is a wonderful suggestion and I can see how it could be an emotional experience too…
January 26, 2021 at 11:08 am
heatherbell37
What a lovely way to look back. Thank you for sharing this! ❤
January 26, 2021 at 11:09 am
Annie War
Oh my gosh! Such a deep exercise to take us back to the actual experience of our childhood and mine its deepest, most felt emotions.
January 26, 2021 at 11:15 am
rosecappelli
Thank you so much for the inspiration! I often forget about the child inside and this was a great way to gain access. Love Looking for Smile!
January 26, 2021 at 11:15 am
Beth Charles
You give me hope! I’ve also been working on a story near and dear to me, for many years. One day I will find just the right inspiration. Thanks for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 11:16 am
Laurie Bouck
Thank you for this very inspiring post. As I was reading it, a very difficult childhood memory came to me and I was able to come up with a story idea. Thank you so much! 😀
January 26, 2021 at 11:17 am
Kim Nolan
Thank you, Ellen. Your book sounds beautiful and I already have several ideas percolating.
January 26, 2021 at 11:20 am
Lucretia S.
Great post, Ellen. What a lovely idea for developing a heart-felt, engaging and relatable story! Congratulations on Looking for Smile–I’m looking forward to reading it.
January 26, 2021 at 11:22 am
Cedar Pruitt
Oh, goodness. That was traumatic. But thank you! I did get a key message that does keep appearing in my writing.
January 26, 2021 at 11:24 am
Barbara Senenman
Whoa! A memory from when I was around 6 popped into my head! Examining what feelings I had at that moment. Thanks for this idea.
January 26, 2021 at 11:27 am
Susan Eyerman
Thank you for the powerful lesson on mining our past for story ideas. Looking forward to reading LOOKING FOR SMILE.
January 26, 2021 at 11:27 am
Judie
A powerful prompt idea. Thanks.
January 26, 2021 at 11:27 am
Jessica Swaim
Beautiful! Thank you, Ellen.
January 26, 2021 at 11:27 am
Arlene Schenker
This is a wonderful exercise that I never would have thought of. Thank you, Ellen. And I will definitely check out Looking for Smile.
January 26, 2021 at 11:27 am
annette schottenfeld
Ellen, Thank you for the fabulous writing prompt! I’m glad you (and Bear) found your smile! 😃
January 26, 2021 at 11:29 am
R M Miller
Wow! That was incredibly interesting!
January 26, 2021 at 11:30 am
martyfindley
What a great idea! I notice a lot of my stories have a distinct relationship to an experience I had as a young child.
January 26, 2021 at 11:32 am
Elise Katz
Your comments were inspiring, and I loved the writing exercise you describe. I can’t wait to see your book.
January 26, 2021 at 11:33 am
Rachel Smoka-Richardson
Congratulations from a fellow VCFA grad! And how lucky you are to have Lauren’s gorgeous illustrations – she is so talented. I can’t wait to read Bear and Smile!
January 26, 2021 at 11:33 am
Elizabeth Saba
Love this post! Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 11:34 am
Cathy Ballou Mealey
Picture book perfection! I love looking back at my childhood favorites and restoring all the “feels” that I had once upon a time!
January 26, 2021 at 11:34 am
Sue
Love this! Therapeutic and liberating!
January 26, 2021 at 11:35 am
martyfindley
What a great idea! I notice a lot of my stories have a distinct relationship to experiences I had as a young child.
January 26, 2021 at 11:35 am
Penelope McNally
Thank you Ellen for these wonderful ways to connect to our childhood experiences. I know I will unearth some worthy ideas. I’m really looking forward to reading Looking For a Smile; I’m already in love with Bear 🐻
January 26, 2021 at 11:37 am
susaninez0905
Thank you for this lesson. So very helpful! 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 11:37 am
nrompella
How fascinating. My memory was from the age I write for. Thanks for making think of my own memories.
January 26, 2021 at 11:38 am
sloanejacobs
Wow. Love that. I am working on a revise and resubmit for something that totally falls into this category. Sniffles all the way too. Love the idea of personifying smile with the very adorable bear. Congrats on the book. Bibliotherapy in the very best way.
January 26, 2021 at 11:39 am
maureenegan
Sniff
January 26, 2021 at 11:40 am
Amy Bradshaw
Thank you for providing an exercise to help memories and words flow. I’m glad bear found his smile!
January 26, 2021 at 11:42 am
Monica A. Harris
This was probably the BEST StoryStorm post EVER! (Well….at least it felt that way to me) My poor inner child has been ignored for too long and this one opened the door for us to get to know each other again. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 11:42 am
Linda KulpTrout
Your new book is one I can’t wait to read. I’ve done the letter writing activity before, and you are right, it is a great way to get in touch with your childhood self. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 11:48 am
Kimberly Marcus
This is a beautiful post – thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 11:49 am
bonzerb
That was so interesting to read about the exercise you experienced. It makes sense that we want to give to kids at the same age that we needed some kind guidance. Thank you for sharing that.
January 26, 2021 at 11:49 am
Heather Rowley
I can’t wait to read your new book! Thanks so much for sharing!
January 26, 2021 at 11:49 am
marty
CONGRATULATIONS on writing a Kirkus Best Book for 2020!!! I’m going to get may hands on LOOKING FOR SMILE ASAP! Thank you for sharing the VT College exercise, Ellen. It was eye opening for me!
A thousand thanks to you, Tara, for a grand January celebration of idea prompts!
January 26, 2021 at 11:50 am
Sue Heavenrich
great post, Ellen! This year I found myself looking for Sense of Humor. Apparently this is a never-ending game of hide and seek. Thanks for the reminder to get in touch with our inner child.
January 26, 2021 at 11:51 am
Stef Wade (@Stef_Wade)
Love this exercise!
January 26, 2021 at 11:52 am
Genevieve Gorback
What a great exercise! Thanks for sharing!
January 26, 2021 at 11:55 am
Karen Gebbia
thank you for this inspiring exercise!
January 26, 2021 at 11:56 am
sareenmclay
Thank you, what a moving and memorable post and a great reminder to think back to who we were as children.
Congratulations on your book, it looks wonderful.
January 26, 2021 at 11:59 am
Lauren Barbieri
Thank you for this excellent post! LOOKING FOR SMILE sounds lovely—I’m looking forward to reading it.
January 26, 2021 at 12:02 pm
Dayne Sislen, Children's Book Illustrator
I want to read LOOKING FOR A SMILE. Thank you for reminding me to look back at my inner child.
January 26, 2021 at 12:02 pm
Laura Murray
What a brilliant way to explore this concept! I loved hearing about the prompt that helped you find this story. The story and illustrations are adorable, and really connect with the way that so much of the world is feeling right now. What a wonderful way to help children understand these feelings too.
January 26, 2021 at 12:03 pm
David McMullin
Thank you, Ellen. a fantastic exercise.
January 26, 2021 at 12:06 pm
Krista Harrington
Such wonderful exercises to get those ideas percolating, Ellen. Thank you so much! Your new book looks delightful:)
January 26, 2021 at 12:10 pm
mariemessinger
I got to read “Looking for Smile” recently, and loved it! Thank you!!
January 26, 2021 at 12:12 pm
Abby Wooldridge
What a cool suggestion! Thank you so much for sharing, Ellen. And congratulations on LOOKING FOR SMILE! 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 12:12 pm
Aimee Haburjak
What a powerful prompt! Love the possibilities 💫 thank you and can’t wait to check out your beautiful books.
January 26, 2021 at 12:12 pm
Andrea Mack
What an interesting writing exercise. I’m looking forward to smiling as I read your new book…definitely on my to-read list.
January 26, 2021 at 12:14 pm
Kathleen B.
Thank you for sharing. Tapping into the emotion of childhood memories is a powerful tool.
January 26, 2021 at 12:16 pm
Janice Woods
Fantastic suggestions! Thanks for sharing!
January 26, 2021 at 12:18 pm
Fern Glazer
I (and my younger self) are looking forward to reading your new book. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 12:20 pm
Brooke Hartman
This book looks so adorable! I love the illustrations and the simple narrative.
January 26, 2021 at 12:21 pm
Armineh Manookian
What an amazing writing exercise. Thank you, Ellen, for sharing it with us! Will most definitely be working on it.
January 26, 2021 at 12:22 pm
beckylevine
Thank you! You may have given me an idea for the childhood moment I’ve been circling around for years. Who knows, but I think it’s time to write the letter. 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 12:23 pm
Kassy Keppol
Thank you, so many ideas percolating.
January 26, 2021 at 12:24 pm
Jill Friestad-Tate
Beautifully written post, thank you. I can’t wait to read Looking for Smile.
January 26, 2021 at 12:24 pm
Shanna Silva
Wasn’t planning to cry today, but the prompt helped me to tap into some early childhood anguishes that still bring tears to the eyes, but also serve as good writing fodder.
January 26, 2021 at 12:29 pm
jenabenton
What a great approach to mining childhood memories!
January 26, 2021 at 12:31 pm
Emily Bertholf
Looking for Smile is such a good book. It really touched me, as it will many young readers too. I have a strange childhood memory from a time I didn’t really understand what was happening, and I think I’ll use that as my jumping off point for this prompt. I think I was around 4 years old. Thanks for this!
January 26, 2021 at 12:32 pm
marty
Thanks for sharing this prompt. Love the premise of your book and the terrific illustrations. Congrats, too, on the Kirkus recognition.
January 26, 2021 at 12:33 pm
Shannon Fossett
Thank you for sharing this writing exercise! Your smile book is one I’ve added to my must read book!
January 26, 2021 at 12:34 pm
Earl @ The Chronicles Of A Children's Book Writer
Yes, our childhood is definitely a mine of experiences for us to explore to get inspired!
January 26, 2021 at 12:34 pm
Cortney Benvenuto
Thank you for sharing that memorable exercise. Several ideas just came to me. 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 12:35 pm
suumac
I’m feeling sad but tingly happy too – what a beautiful post Ellen. I’m looking forward to reading Looking For Smile! What a thoughtful way to explore what can be a very personal minefield – thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 12:38 pm
Judy Sobanski
Thank your for sharing your journey with your book, LOOKING FOR SMILE. The prompt will be helpful to dig within to find those childhood memories and stories.
January 26, 2021 at 12:45 pm
Teresa Rodrigues
Thank you, Ellen! This tip gave me a heart-filled story idea. Thanks and congrats on your new book!
January 26, 2021 at 12:47 pm
Shannon Hitchcock (@ShanonHitchcock)
What a beautiful Marion Dane Bauer memory. Best wishes for your books!
January 26, 2021 at 12:47 pm
andreesantini
“Looking for Smile” looks like a wonderful book. Thanks for the inspiration to bring us into our deep child heart.
January 26, 2021 at 12:49 pm
JEN Garrett
As I looked back, I realized that when I needed a story, I wrote myself a story. Thank you for the gift of your post.
January 26, 2021 at 12:49 pm
aliciaminor
I look forward to finding Smile. We ourselves have so many things to look for and one day like Ellen, we will find it one way or another. Thanks Ellen and I wish you more. Happy new year.
January 26, 2021 at 12:49 pm
Sara Weingartner (@SJWeingartner)
Beautiful post. Thank you. And gorgeous book — Congratulations!! Can’t wait to read it.
January 26, 2021 at 12:51 pm
Giddymum
What a gorgeous thought and a way to start my day. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 12:55 pm
Ashley Sierra (@AshleySierra06)
Great advice to reflect on our childhood feelings.
January 26, 2021 at 12:55 pm
Kris H
Thank you for your comments. I love the idea of looking for smile.
January 26, 2021 at 12:56 pm
Cindy Jeklin
Thank you for the beautiful writing prompt.
January 26, 2021 at 1:02 pm
Bethanny Parker
I hope Bear finds his smile! 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 1:03 pm
Christine Van Zandt, author of A BRIEF HISTORY OF UNDERPANTS
One of the greatest things about writing for kids is that we do have that connection to young readers and to our childhood selves.
January 26, 2021 at 1:04 pm
TammyB
Love this! Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 1:08 pm
Sheri Radovich
Thanks, it will take some time to remember back that far and I know that I write about a certain age because I am familiar with children that age and what they worry about more than my own memories.
I think writing letters to family or friends and experiences that didn’t go as planned is healing as well. I had lots of “foot-in-mouth” moments as a child.
January 26, 2021 at 1:09 pm
claudia sloan
Thank you for the prompt! …and congrats on your books coming up!
January 26, 2021 at 1:09 pm
Alice Fulgione
Love your idea about writing letters to ourselves to bring back childhood memories & emotions!
January 26, 2021 at 1:11 pm
Laura Bower
Thank you Ellen! Looking for Smile looks beautiful. Congratulations! Love the idea of tapping into our inner emotions/memories!
January 26, 2021 at 1:14 pm
Elizabeth Duncan
Thanks for the idea. Just thinking about writing a letter to my child self makes me a little teary. There’s probably a lot to learn from this exercise.
January 26, 2021 at 1:14 pm
Jan Milusich
Thank you for sharing . It was a great suggestion on how to tap into our childhood selves.
January 26, 2021 at 1:15 pm
Laurel Goodluck
Thank you for your insight and exercise into taking a childhood challenge and making it work for a PB. Congrats on SMILE and I look forward to reading it!
January 26, 2021 at 1:16 pm
Elizabeth Duncan
Thanks for the lovely idea of writing a letter to your child-self.
January 26, 2021 at 1:20 pm
Lauri Meyers
Wonderful, emotional prompt!
January 26, 2021 at 1:25 pm
carmelamccainsimmons
As I read about Looking for Smile, I found myself tearing up. The sample illustrations tipped me over the edge. What a poignant story! I look forward to sharing it. Thank you for sharing a powerful technique to dig deep.
January 26, 2021 at 1:26 pm
jillburns7
This post made my heart smile!
January 26, 2021 at 1:27 pm
Shawna J. C. Tenney
This just hit the spot today. I’m going to do this exercise. And I can’t wait to read your book!
January 26, 2021 at 1:28 pm
Gabi Snyder
Wow. That was a powerful exercise, Ellen. Thank you, and I look forward to reading LOOKING FOR SMILE.
January 26, 2021 at 1:29 pm
Maria Altizer
This was a great prompt, thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 1:29 pm
ginaperry2013
I’m so glad I took the time to do the exercise. Thank you so much for this sweet and unique post. Your book looks SO beautiful too – congratulations!
January 26, 2021 at 1:31 pm
Cathy Ogren
Writing a letter to yourself as a child is a great way to tap into long-forgotten memories and feelings. Thanks for sharing, Ellen!
January 26, 2021 at 1:32 pm
bevbaird
Can’t wait to read this book. Love hearing the inspiration behind books. Thank you for sharing it. Will be following your prompt today.
January 26, 2021 at 1:34 pm
TerriMichels
thank you for a good read and ideas.
January 26, 2021 at 1:35 pm
danielledufayet
This made me smile -I can’t wait to read Looking for Smile! Congrats!
January 26, 2021 at 1:37 pm
Stephanie Gibeault
Thank you, Ellen! Looking for Smile sounds like such a beautiful book. And your writing prompt is an excellent way to get at the stories of our hearts.
January 26, 2021 at 1:40 pm
Sarah Lynne John
Your party trick worked! I never would have connected past pain with the age we target when we right, but it was dead on. Thanks for the insight!
January 26, 2021 at 1:43 pm
Lynn Becker
Wow— thank you—I did your exercise and love what I got from it—what a great post!!!
January 26, 2021 at 1:44 pm
Bethan
What a fantastic post! Thank you so much for sharing this exercise – I was writing with a great lump in my throat. Your book looks gorgeous too.
January 26, 2021 at 1:44 pm
Melisa Wrex
What a great idea generator. Thank you for sharing! I tend to skew to the funny side, not knowing how to write the harder topics. This might help.
January 26, 2021 at 1:44 pm
LeeAnn Rizzuti
An intriguing prompt, Ellen. And an intriguing story in LOOKING FOR SMILE that I definitely am adding to my TBR list. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 1:46 pm
Jennifer Skene
Your book sounds lovely! Great post
January 26, 2021 at 1:46 pm
Jennifer Skene
Your book sounds lovely! Great post
January 26, 2021 at 1:46 pm
Lori Shapiro
So I started writing the letter and next thing you know I am crying. The trouble is- I’m at work! My co-workers got concerned. LOL. Really interesting exercise. Thank you!,
January 26, 2021 at 1:46 pm
Julia Lyon
I love the idea of looking backward. My mind is so full of “now” right now that it’s a good exercise to try and remember.
January 26, 2021 at 1:46 pm
Charlotte Offsay
What a beautiful book and exercise, I love this so much!
January 26, 2021 at 1:52 pm
katherineadlam
Ellen, I’m going to check ebay for books from my childhood. I love that idea. Also your spoiler alert was bang on. I write books for the six to seven year old.
January 26, 2021 at 1:53 pm
Bonnie Kelso
Thank you for sharing this exercise with us. 1st grade was hard for me, and it’s nice to understand now why it’s my writing sweet spot! Congratulations on “Looking For Smile.” I can’t wait to read it. 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 1:57 pm
Brenda Flowers
Ellen, thank you for encouraging me to remember a vulnerable point in my life. I was 5 …away from family for the first time…in the children’s ward of a hospital.
(I had been admitted to the hospital because I had symptoms of a mysterious illness which affected my ability to breathe.) It is interesting that I remember a kind person, with a rolling cart full of picture books, coming to my bed (to me alone in the midst of the ward full of beds that looked like baby beds). That person was reading aloud to me. Before leaving the hospital, I recall jumping in that bed. A flood of emotions are washing over me right now. There are stories hidden in this memory. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 3:57 pm
Trine Grillo
WOW, Brenda.
January 27, 2021 at 10:47 pm
ellentarlow
seconding that wow, you have a lot to work with there..
January 26, 2021 at 2:04 pm
Lydia Lukidis
Loving this bit of inspiration, and looks like a great book!
January 26, 2021 at 2:10 pm
Bhandi
Aww that is an incredibly adorable story thank you so much for sharing ❤
January 26, 2021 at 2:11 pm
Christine @ Goodjelly
Thanks, Ellen. A great prompt and perspective. Thanks for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 2:15 pm
tina
Thank you Ellen and Tara!
Your story is so great for kids and adults now- with all the confusion in our world. Love Lauren’s bear.
Thank you,
Tina
January 26, 2021 at 2:18 pm
dedra davis
I love bear books and smiles, so I can’t wait to read! Congratulations, and thanks for the inspiration tip!
January 26, 2021 at 2:23 pm
danielle hammelef
I need to read your book! Wow to the power of this post. My head is filling with so many times as a child I need to write a letter to.
January 26, 2021 at 2:25 pm
Kathryn Cunningham
Thanks for the smiles!
January 26, 2021 at 2:27 pm
vgraboski61gmailcom
So much heart to capture in this inspiration. Thank you! I cannot wait to read LOOKING FOR SMILE. What a great way to describe and normalize sadness.
January 26, 2021 at 2:27 pm
Naomi Gruer
I’ve Bookmarked this post as a reminder and permission to explore the dark.
January 26, 2021 at 2:29 pm
Shannon Howarth Nelsen
Great ideas. Thanks for sharing, Ellen.
January 26, 2021 at 2:33 pm
Diane Kress Hower
I am smiling. Wonderful post. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 2:38 pm
rgstones
Thank you for this post, Ellen. I needed this!
January 26, 2021 at 2:39 pm
sharon lane holm
This will be an interesting adventure for me. I’ve thought of those vulnerable times many times, but never put it on paper. I do say I’m 4, and not ready to grow up yet. Have to investigate that! That is the age level I had chosen for my professional illustration career.thank you
January 26, 2021 at 2:40 pm
allyenz
Hi Ellen! Thanks for the wonderful prompt. (I wrote a 1400+ word letter to my younger self, just like that. . .My current self still needs to hear these words!) I admire your ability to tap into your 5 year old self, and how you personified smile. What a wonderful idea, and I can’t wait to read it! Just lovely!
January 26, 2021 at 2:40 pm
Sara Ackerman
Oh my gosh, what a beautiful post!
January 26, 2021 at 2:43 pm
Jill Lambert (@LJillLambert)
Oh, Ellen! This was such a rich post and sparked several childhood memories for me. A few months ago, I searched on eBay (and found!) a beloved collection of stories from around the world–a steal for $5.00! Many of the illustrations transported me back in time. A great resource for future tales!
January 29, 2021 at 2:20 pm
Katie Schwartz
One of my favorite posts!
January 26, 2021 at 2:49 pm
@taotalley
My letter to my five year old self was very emotional and revealing, too. I can better understand how my experiences paved the way for one of my careers as a teacher for young children. Thank you for this invitation to look inside to find the why, and to say the words that make us feel seen and understood.
January 26, 2021 at 2:55 pm
Anne C. Bromley
Just what I needed today! Thank you for this splendid post and for your books! The world is a better place thanks to them.
January 26, 2021 at 2:58 pm
LAURA BARENS
Wow…just wow!!
January 26, 2021 at 2:58 pm
Cassie Bentley
Thank you for the great prompt. I like that it is specific. That helps with connecting to my younger self. I cannot wait to read your book.
January 26, 2021 at 3:04 pm
Cindy S
This is something I’ll have to try. Thanks for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 3:09 pm
authorlaurablog
What a wonderful exercise your class did. I’m going to try it now.
January 26, 2021 at 3:11 pm
nataliecohn0258
Thank you for this great idea. I am going to write to my inner self.
January 26, 2021 at 3:18 pm
tinamcho
Congratulations on your books! Thank you for this exercise!
January 26, 2021 at 3:27 pm
boardmancamera
Isn’t Marion Dane Bauer amazing?! She was one of my advisors at VCFA, too. Thanks for the great prompt and for your stories. You are a gift!
January 27, 2021 at 10:47 pm
ellentarlow
she was my advisor too and yes she is wonderful!
January 26, 2021 at 3:30 pm
jilltatara
Thank you for this post! and sharing that lesson from Marion Dane Bauer. That is the coolest party trick ever!
January 26, 2021 at 3:35 pm
Ashley Karges
What a wonderful writing prompt – thank you! I can’t wait to read Looking for Smile.
January 26, 2021 at 3:40 pm
NC Karuzis
That was something! (I did write before reading the spoiler.) Thanks for sharing these insights.
January 26, 2021 at 3:44 pm
Roxanne Troup
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 3:46 pm
Pamela Brunskill
Congratulations on LOOKING FOR SMILE and your other achievements as well! Love the party trick re: the childhood letter.
January 26, 2021 at 3:47 pm
Jeannie Santuxci
This sounds like such a seeet book, Ellen! I can’t wait to read it. And what a good strategy to get ideas!
January 26, 2021 at 3:48 pm
Katie Williams
If I don’t win a copy of this book here, I am definitely going to purchase it immediately (and few books make me say that!). I love this prompt, and did it immediately (which obviously caused quite a few sniffles on my part as well). Thank you for such an insightful look into your process.
January 26, 2021 at 3:49 pm
Laurel Ranveig Abell
I remember this VCFA exercise! Ouch. But it reminds me why I mostly write middle grade. Thanks for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 3:52 pm
theresacocci
This was so emotional for me to read. When I lost my Mom at a young age, I found my Aunt and my five cousins who were there when I needed to smile. Thank you for reminding me how special they are.
January 27, 2021 at 10:48 pm
ellentarlow
You’re welcome, theresa!
January 26, 2021 at 3:54 pm
Trine Grillo
This is my favorite post so far. Very emotional and revealing, but I thank you so much.
January 26, 2021 at 3:54 pm
mariearden
It took 3 seconds to come up with a memory from when I was 5, but it was more celebratory than sad and in need of consolation. Could it be a seed for a story?
January 26, 2021 at 3:59 pm
Cathy McDonnell
Thank you Ellen, I feel like your post really connected and was a very worthwhile exercise (creatively and personally). I really look forward to reading Looking For Smile.
January 26, 2021 at 4:02 pm
Jenny Boyd
Bear is adorable! I really love the concept of this book, too. I look forward to seeing what I discover when I follow the prompt and go back in time/revisit childhood books to glean ideas.
January 26, 2021 at 4:07 pm
Linda Sakai
Loved the exercise prompt. It digs deep and brings up buried emotions and feelings. A vulnerability that will serve me well in my writing. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 4:08 pm
Beth Holladay
Wow, just wow… this exercise was spot on for me! Thanks for sharing! ❤️
January 26, 2021 at 4:09 pm
lisakhan9
Such an interesting way to access your earlier self. Thank you Ellen for your wonderful blog x
January 26, 2021 at 4:11 pm
kirstenbockblog
Wow, I really enjoyed writing that letter and connecting with my younger self. Thank you for your helpful advice!
January 26, 2021 at 4:21 pm
Sandy Perlic
Love the premise for your book, and wow–the illustrations are awesome! I will be sure to look for your book. And thanks for a fabulous prompt!
January 26, 2021 at 4:24 pm
Claire A. B. Freeland
Ha, I Ianded on a funny memory. Wouldn’t I have stood out in your tearful class! LOOKING FOR SMILE sounds precious. Can’t wait to read it.
January 26, 2021 at 4:24 pm
Sally Matheny
I’ve written a letter to an older me but never to a younger me. Thanks for sharing this great idea.
January 26, 2021 at 4:31 pm
Jayne Wilson
Oh my goodness! What a beautiful post. Thank you for making me think of so many beautiful memories from my childhood. You also made me realise what things I had to live with that were very challenging & what I have overcome as an adult. I enjoyed writing a letter to my younger self for that purpose. I can imagine reading ‘Looking For Smile’ to Kindergarten children when sometimes their smiles are hidden. Thanks so much! This post touched my heart, made me smile & soothed my soul! ❤️
January 26, 2021 at 4:32 pm
Peggy Dobbs
Writing a letter to your childhood self is so helpful to capture the depth and emotion of the experience. Thank you for a very inspiring post!
January 26, 2021 at 4:34 pm
annette schottenfeld
Ellen, Great writing prompt idea! I’m glad that both you and Bear found your smiles! Congratulations!
January 26, 2021 at 4:34 pm
Roberta Gibson
Storystorm has been as much about figuring out my process (and about myself) as gathering story ideas. This prompt is another wonderful way to explore what makes me, and thus my stories, unique. Thank you for sharing it and your beautiful book!
January 26, 2021 at 4:35 pm
Elizabeth Masterman
What you’ve got here is essentially a book about depression for kids. I love books that find ways to make tricky concepts accessible, we shouldn’t shy away from these things.
January 26, 2021 at 4:37 pm
Deborah W. Trotter
What a lovely origin story for your picture book LOOKING FOR SMILE – I look forward to reading it.
January 26, 2021 at 4:38 pm
katieschon
I love this idea! Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 4:39 pm
miki
Thank you for this post. It was spot-on for me. I look forward to reading Looking for Smile.
January 26, 2021 at 4:40 pm
Julie Reich
I’m looking forward to speaking to my younger self. She needed some guidance! Thank you for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 5:01 pm
sharon Lillie
Thank your for your suggestions
January 26, 2021 at 5:05 pm
authordebradaugherty
Thank you, Ellen, for suggesting we write letters to ourselves focusing on a time we lost our smile. What a wonderful way to connect with our feelings. Congrats on your latest book!
January 26, 2021 at 5:06 pm
Daryl Gottier
This exercise worked so well. Thanks so much, and your book looks adorable!
January 26, 2021 at 5:06 pm
Chelle Martin
Thanks for sharing. Look forward to reading Looking for Smile.
January 26, 2021 at 5:10 pm
Melissa Stoller
Hi Ellen – thanks for sharing this brilliant post! I will try this idea today! And I love LOOKING FOR SMILE!
January 26, 2021 at 5:14 pm
Linda Schueler
Such an excellent exercise and what a fantastic story too!
January 26, 2021 at 5:14 pm
Lisa Billa
Great prompt, thanks! This taps right into my reasons for writing.
January 26, 2021 at 5:14 pm
Jilanne Hoffmann
Thank you for this thought-provoking post, Ellen. I wrote my letter, and yes, the party trick was spot on! I loved the Writing Barn session you did about LOOKING FOR SMILE. Congrats!
January 26, 2021 at 5:17 pm
Lori Gibson
Great post! Great idea exercise. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 5:18 pm
Lori Gibson
Great post! Excellent idea exercise. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 5:25 pm
Michele Rietz
Well, I didn’t cry while I wrote the letter but I could have if I’d let myself. 🙂 I have already thought of several ideas for stories that could have helped me as a child. Thanks for this instrospective exercise. (And I wrote it to my 5 year old self, and I write stories for 5-9 year old. Score! 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 5:32 pm
Kaye Wright
This was so powerful. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 5:32 pm
Mary Warth
Thanks for suggesting the letter writing. It’s a great exercise!
January 26, 2021 at 5:33 pm
Shirley
That was a great exercise to get us writing. Thanks for your post.
January 26, 2021 at 5:36 pm
Sharon Coffey
Ellen, what a beautifully poignant idea for a picture book. LOOKING FOR SMILE is something that resonates with the child in all of us. Thank you.
January 26, 2021 at 5:39 pm
Heather Stigall
Thank you for a great exercise to try!
January 26, 2021 at 5:41 pm
chardixon47
Thank you, Ellen, for this introspective post. Congratulations to you and Lauren. I can’t wait to read your story!
January 26, 2021 at 5:41 pm
Gail Aherne
Thank you, Ellen! What a wonderful post. Very powerful and insightful. I’m looking forward to digging deep into my memory for this exercise.
January 26, 2021 at 5:45 pm
susanzonca
Ellen, wow, did this resonate! You caught me with “Look back at a moment when you needed a “story” to help you.” What a great writing exercise!
January 26, 2021 at 5:48 pm
Carol Gordon Ekster
We all have our own stories to tell. And who knows how that story might touch future lives. I love picture books! Thanks for this sweet post, Ellen.
January 26, 2021 at 5:48 pm
Michelle S. Kennedy (@MichelleSKenned)
I love this! I never thought about doing something like this before. But what a healing and worthwhile exercise to do!
January 26, 2021 at 5:49 pm
Sarah Hetu-Radny
Great post, thanks!
January 26, 2021 at 5:59 pm
Pamela Haskin
Such a great way to get in touch with my younger self. Tears brimming in my eyes already. Thanks so much for sharing with us and for a chance to win your new book.
January 26, 2021 at 6:08 pm
Sarah Stuart
Thank you for sharing this. I’m looking forward to exploring my memories.
January 26, 2021 at 6:13 pm
FrannyG
Love the look of your picture book. Can’t wait to try this exercise.
January 26, 2021 at 6:14 pm
Kathiann Weatherbee (@WeatherbeeBooks)
Great prompt. Thanks so much for the inspiration! I’m definitely trying this!
January 26, 2021 at 6:20 pm
Lynne Marie
What fun — one can never have too many smiles. Thanks so much for sharing!
January 26, 2021 at 6:25 pm
Joy Wieder
I love the idea of writing a letter to my child self. I’ve done some healing exercises with my inner child, but this is another wonderful approach to add to my tool kit!
January 26, 2021 at 6:26 pm
tinefg
Thank you Ellen, such an eloquently stated suggestion to mine the memories– not just at the surface but the layers beneath — not just for ideas, but for connection. I cannot wait to read “Looking for Smile”.
January 26, 2021 at 6:26 pm
Christine Pinto
Thanks so much for suggesting this! I actually wrote the letter and I learned a lot from it!
January 26, 2021 at 6:32 pm
Aly Kenna
Thank you Ellen, a great way to get the creative juices flowing again. ‘Looking for a Smile’ looks incredible. Good luck with your new PB and with your upcoming series’.
January 26, 2021 at 6:34 pm
Christine M Irvin
Great idea!
January 26, 2021 at 6:39 pm
Stephanie Lau
Wonderful idea!
January 26, 2021 at 6:40 pm
curryelizabeth
I love the prompt. Thank you for the great post and congratulations on your success!
January 26, 2021 at 6:41 pm
romontanaro
No. Way. That was pretty incredible. Thank you Ellen. Thank you Tara. Looking forward to reading Looking For Smile. All the best. Rosanna
January 26, 2021 at 6:41 pm
Lori Sheroan
This post is so moving. Thank you for such a strong prompt.
January 26, 2021 at 6:42 pm
Joyce
What a great way to connect with our readers and satisfy the reason we are all in this business. Thank you, Ellen!
January 26, 2021 at 6:47 pm
lavern15
That was very touching! Sometimes we have to talk to ourselves no matter how old we get. Thank you for the exercise!
January 26, 2021 at 6:51 pm
Dannielle Viera
What a wonderful way to access stunning ideas for picture books! Thanks, Ellen!
January 26, 2021 at 6:54 pm
Kari (🚗+E) Lavelle (@KariALavelle)
Lovely post, Ellen. Thank you for sharing these ideas (and thank you Marion Dane Bauer)!
January 26, 2021 at 7:02 pm
John McGranaghan
Fascinating journey how that idea/story resonated in you for so long. Your post lodged a memory that goes back many years. Thanks
January 26, 2021 at 7:08 pm
Jessica Fries-Gaither
Writing that letter was an intense experience for me. Although the party trick didn’t hold for me, I can see where it would for so many. Thank you for sharing!
January 26, 2021 at 7:09 pm
steveheron
Thank you. A powerful post.
January 26, 2021 at 7:15 pm
Sara Trofa
Thank you for sharing, Ellen!
January 26, 2021 at 7:15 pm
Laura De La Cruz
Wow, Ellen! Your post totally blew my mind! It explains so much about my writing. My father passed away when I was ten years old, which needless to say affected me very much. And now I know why most of my characters are 10 years old. Thank you for the great post.
January 26, 2021 at 7:16 pm
Tara Cerven
This was so powerful. I wrote that letter to myself and was surprised by what flowed out of me. THANK YOU.
January 26, 2021 at 7:17 pm
meganu
As a licensed mental health counselor, I love the idea of “Looking for Smile.” Can’t wait to read it!
January 26, 2021 at 7:18 pm
Cheryl Kula
Yes, this prompt definitely causes sniffles.
January 26, 2021 at 7:27 pm
Poupette
Thanks for that interesting prompt… Bear and Smile sounds original and delightful, and congrats on finally encapsulating your childhood trauma.
January 26, 2021 at 7:29 pm
Kay
Thanks for sharing. I’ll have to try writing a letter to my younger self
January 26, 2021 at 7:30 pm
Carrie Tillotson
Thanks for the prompt for this inward journey, and for you inspiration behind Looking for Smile. I look forward to reading it.
January 26, 2021 at 7:35 pm
Michele Helsel
Awwwww, I can’t wait to read this.
January 26, 2021 at 7:43 pm
karynellis
Thank you, Ellen. What a powerful suggestion. I didn’t write the letter today, too many things to do to let myself sit in that place for the time this idea deserves, but I will write it later this week – I’m looking forward to it. (My birthday’s on Thursday, so perhaps that’s an especially good day to reconnect with little me.)
January 26, 2021 at 7:50 pm
kathydoherty1
Very interesting. Joy Crowley did the same exercise with us at The Barn years ago.
January 26, 2021 at 7:52 pm
streetlynn
Thanks for this prompt, Ellen! Glad to hear how your story came to be! Lynn Street
January 26, 2021 at 8:08 pm
Jeannette Suhr
I remember a vulnerable childhood memory and it made me very sad. I am more interested in finding those books that I loved as a child. Those brought comfort. Thanks for helping us explore.
January 26, 2021 at 8:16 pm
Karin Larson
What a terrific post and idea. Thank you so much! Congratulations on LOOKING FOR SMILE. It sounds wonderful, and I can’t wait to read it!
January 26, 2021 at 8:20 pm
Michelle Losardo
Thank you, Ellen! This exercise was tremendously therapeutic as well as helpful for conjuring story ideas!
January 26, 2021 at 8:21 pm
cmochowski
This is a lovely, lovely idea. I often think to my traumatic childhood and think what would help children now who may be going through the same? How do I sneak love letters into prison? Thank you for sharing.
January 26, 2021 at 8:26 pm
Jennifer Phillips
This is a profound and valuable story and recommendation. I really appreciate you sharing and bringing your particular book idea into the world!
January 26, 2021 at 8:27 pm
Sherri Jones Rivers
This is a good prompt. I wish I could capture more childhood memories and emotions, but they elude me. Maybe something will pop up. Your books sound engaging.
January 26, 2021 at 8:28 pm
Megan M.
This book sounds so sweet and important! I’ve started thinking back, but haven’t located *the* moment I’ll write the letter about yet. I’ll come back to read the spoiler when I do!
January 26, 2021 at 8:30 pm
Kate Carroll
Ellen, you tell authentic stories that ultimately help children navigate through their little lives. I love the ideas you shared and seeing the value of exposing emotion as writers. Great post! Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 8:32 pm
nicolesalterbraun
Thanks for the prompt!
January 26, 2021 at 8:37 pm
Susan Uhlig Ford
This book looks so good.
January 26, 2021 at 8:45 pm
Janet Smart
I love the title, Looking for Smile! Thanks for the post.
January 26, 2021 at 8:46 pm
YauMei Chiang
Thank you, Ellen. I’m looking inwards and backwards for Story Storm.
January 26, 2021 at 8:51 pm
Carolyn Bennett Fraiser
What an amazing story – thank you for sharing it. I can’t wait to read Looking for Smile!
January 26, 2021 at 8:52 pm
Emily R. Keener
Ellen, thank you for sharing this exercise. I look forward to reading your books to my children.
January 26, 2021 at 8:55 pm
georgeandjohanna
Thank you for sharing your story and this inspirational post!
January 26, 2021 at 9:00 pm
Hélène Sabourin
Good exercise. Looking forward to read about bear’s smile
January 26, 2021 at 9:36 pm
writeremmcbride
Ellen, what a fantastic prompt! When we write to add meaning and comfort to children’s lives, our writing carries the strong voice that wants to speak from within. You have given us a gift! Thank you so much!
January 26, 2021 at 9:53 pm
Robin Bailey
What a helpful prompt and post with so much heart. Thank you for this. My ideas for today are filling the page and resurfacing lots of emotion which is GOOD. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 10:08 pm
ingridboydston
That felt wonderful! Even if it doesn’t become anything else. I’m going to do it again. And again. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 10:11 pm
Janet Halfmann
I am so looking forward to reading Looking for Smile, and will be writing myself a letter very, very soon!
January 26, 2021 at 10:24 pm
Diane O'Neill
Thank you soooo much for suggesting this exercise. I wrote the letter, and it triggered so many emotions. Right now, I’m trying to write some picture books about more personal experiences–this really helps. Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 10:29 pm
matthewlasley
Thank you for the great prompt idea. I am definitely going to use that.
When I wrote my first book, I found that I’d unintentionally done that very thing and modeled my character off of a problem I struggled with as a kid. In doing so, my story became our story.
January 26, 2021 at 10:40 pm
Marlena Leach
Reconnecting with a book from childhood should raise some forgotten feelings. Another way to feel like a child again. Thanks for sharing the idea.
January 26, 2021 at 10:50 pm
Buffy Silverman
Thank you for leading us on a trip back in time.
January 26, 2021 at 10:55 pm
Ellen Tarlow
I love that idea of using the non dominant hand. Must try. Thanks Sara!
January 26, 2021 at 10:56 pm
TR
Hit me right in the feels and explained so much about what I’m drawn to in my writing. Wowza! Thank you!
January 26, 2021 at 11:05 pm
rosihollinbeck
This is a terrific writing prompt. Thanks for telling me about it. Very useful.
January 26, 2021 at 11:10 pm
Sylvia Mary Grech
Thanks for your suggestions.
January 26, 2021 at 11:13 pm
roberta abussi
I did it..and I cried…a lot! Thank you, it was so inspiring and intense.
January 26, 2021 at 11:18 pm
Meredith Fraser
Such a wonderful idea for not only a writing prompt but also a bit of self reflection. Thank you and congratulations on the new book.
January 26, 2021 at 11:20 pm
Beatrice Brown
This post took me back to my seven-year-old self. Thanks the the trip.
January 26, 2021 at 11:29 pm
Eileen Mayo
What a sweet book! I cannot wait to read it. Thank you so much for the inspiration.
January 26, 2021 at 11:30 pm
JillDanaBooks
Thanks for sharing these powerful exercises with us! 🙂 Jill Dana
January 26, 2021 at 11:37 pm
Charles
Thank you for the Permission to write out heart: Tender and Strong 🙂
January 26, 2021 at 11:52 pm
seschipper
Thank you, thank you for sharing this very moving post! It was amazing how quickly I was able to write the letter! “Looking” forward to reading “Looking for Smile”! 🙂
January 27, 2021 at 12:03 am
Becky Ross Michael
Wonderful writing exercise!
January 27, 2021 at 12:11 am
Marci Whitehurst
What a great prompt—thank you for sharing. Congrats on Looking for Smile—and your other books!
January 27, 2021 at 12:16 am
writersideup
Ellen, I LOVE the look/sound of BEAR AND SMILE and can’t wait to read it! And what a WONderful post 😀 The exercise is fantastic and doesn’t surprise me it comes from Marion Dane Bauer. When I first started blogging myself, hers was one that I followed regularly 😀 https://www.mariondanebauer.com/just-thinking
January 27, 2021 at 12:30 am
marynadoughty
Wow, this was such an inspiring post! Thank you so much, Ellen! I have so many letters I have to write to myself! I can’t wait to read LOOKING FOR SMILE. 🙂
-Maryna Doughty
January 27, 2021 at 12:39 am
Kaye Baillie
I love everything about this post. Thankyou, Ellen and the letter writing has taken me to a new place in story focus.
January 27, 2021 at 12:50 am
Amanda
This was a hard one! Looking forward to reading Looking for Smile. I think I know a few kids who it might resonate with. Thank you!
January 27, 2021 at 1:06 am
Renata Wurster
Love the party trick aspect – very cool!
January 27, 2021 at 1:08 am
Megan Whitaker
So sweet! I just finished a mss that had me tearing up, it has lots of meaning for me. Can’t wait to see LOOKING FOR SMILE. Sounds adorable!
January 27, 2021 at 1:12 am
8catpaws
With your prompt, I thought of a time at a certain age when I could’ve used advice–and yes–that is the beginning of the age I write for!
January 27, 2021 at 1:37 am
manuscriptmechanic
Your post captures exactly what I’ve been trying to tell my writing classmates, that we write as if our younger selves comprise the audience. Great post!
January 27, 2021 at 1:40 am
Sharon E. Langley
Thank you for sharing this…such a ripe prompt. I think I will be exploring my young self.
January 27, 2021 at 1:43 am
Kathy Crable
Thanks for your insights! Your book looks lovely!
January 27, 2021 at 1:47 am
kmajor2013
Thank you so much for this post, Ellen. I have been drawing inspiration all month from the previous posters, but this one hit a real sensitive spot for me. By doing this writing prompt, writers can relive those times, good or bad, and perhaps gain some perspective or therapeutic benefit. Thanks.
January 27, 2021 at 1:59 am
ruthwilson48
Brilliant advice! Thanks a ton!
January 27, 2021 at 2:54 am
storiesbythesea
Your post was so heartfelt. Thank you. This book sounds so lovely.
January 27, 2021 at 3:18 am
Heather G Watts
A very intense and moving writing prompt. I wasn’t sure I wanted to do it but it was very cathartic. Your book sounds wonderful.
January 27, 2021 at 4:13 am
Natalie Lynn Tanner
ELLEN: THANK YOU for giving us this passport to travel inwards and backwards, to have a playdate with our childhood selves. WHAT A BEAUTIFUL way to discover memories and stories hidden in our own hearts
–stories that need to come to light so children today can have the stories we SO NEEDED when we were young. I AM TRULY INSPIRED!!! THANK YOU!!! And like Bear, I HOPE you found your smile again! I CAN’T WAIT to read this SWEET tale!!!
January 27, 2021 at 5:53 am
Cassy Polimeni
Loved this beautiful exercise and the big reveal .. So powerful and heartbreaking to think that we might all just be trying to reach ourselves at a certain delicate age!
January 27, 2021 at 6:52 am
Paula Morris
Love this idea. What a special day it must have been. Very moving. It could work with good memories too though the emotions would be very different. Lots of giggles in the room rather than tears.
Thank you.
January 27, 2021 at 8:02 am
Nadine Poper
What a powerful exercise. I wrote this my letter. Thank you for this release.
January 27, 2021 at 8:32 am
Catherine Morgans
Thanks Ellen, I love this idea for us to dig deep into our childhood.
January 27, 2021 at 9:07 am
Catherine
Writing a letter to little you is such a wonderful idea – thank you Ellen :o)
January 27, 2021 at 9:19 am
tasha woodson
whew! I thought I was the only one who had that immediate reaction to “write a letter to little you”. looking forward to exploring more in that exercise. thank you!
January 27, 2021 at 9:42 am
Callie Dean
Oh I love this! Thanks for the prompt and wisdom.
January 27, 2021 at 9:43 am
cravevsworld
Truly inspirational! Thank you for sharing.
January 27, 2021 at 9:47 am
Tracy Hora
What a great exercise! I think I will do this several times for different ages. Thank you.
January 27, 2021 at 9:55 am
ryanrobertsauthor
Love the suggestion to mine the past. Thanks
January 27, 2021 at 10:03 am
Krissy
How touching ! “Looking for smile” sounds like such a beautiful, tender story ! Congratulations! Thinking of “little me” ….
January 27, 2021 at 10:23 am
Shaunda Wenger
Thank you so much for your fantastic advice on connecting with our younger self. I love your book, Ellen. Congratulations!
January 27, 2021 at 10:30 am
ejessmurray
Fascinating post, thank you, Ellen!
January 27, 2021 at 10:40 am
Angela De Groot
A great writing prompt – thanks for sharing that. Best of luck with LOOKING FOR SMILE. I’ll be on the lookout for it.
January 27, 2021 at 10:40 am
Christine Fleming McIsaac
Idea 30! Maybe even 31, too. But the party trick part has me thinking. I’ve been writing PB for early elementary but I wrote to myself in later elementary. Maybe I should really explore those middle grade stories I’ve been pondering. 🤔 Thanks for a great post and prompt!
January 27, 2021 at 10:41 am
Lynn Alpert
Very powerful exercise! Thanks, Ellen.
January 27, 2021 at 10:49 am
donnacangelosi
Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful exercise, Ellen! Looking forward to reading your books!
January 27, 2021 at 10:54 am
JC
What a wonderful exercise, my heart is is already turning to mush. This was such a lovely and helpful post. Thank you so much for this!
January 27, 2021 at 11:01 am
Teresa Daffern
This is just beautiful. What a trigger point for ideas! Thank you, Ellen.
January 27, 2021 at 11:11 am
Marilyn R Garcia
Wow, writing a letter to myself is scary. Great idea, certainly worth doing, but scary. Your spoiler made me think I need to spend more time on my middle grade and YA work. And so the journey continues.
January 27, 2021 at 11:21 am
Leslie Ross-Degnan
Just followed you and Twitter, sent a link to your new book to a few friends who are therapists and teachers working with young children and their families. Thank you for a lovely trip to my own childhood!
January 27, 2021 at 5:29 pm
ellentarlow
Thank you Leslie! How nice of you!
January 27, 2021 at 11:26 am
Genevieve Petrillo
I love the sound of that Smile book. I would write a letter to my 3 year old self waiting to be rescued at the adoption event where Mom found me. IF I knew how to write. AND if I could remember things farther ago than 30 seconds. Meh. Maybe I’ll leave the letter and the remembering to Mom…..
Love and licks,
Cupcake
January 27, 2021 at 11:27 am
Linda Bozzo
Great advice. I love the idea of writing the letter. Thanks for sharing!
January 27, 2021 at 11:32 am
CindyC
Thanks Ellen! One of my favorite books was “Robert the Rose Horse” and I’m going to find it and read it again.
January 27, 2021 at 11:45 am
Cristina Raymer
Thank you so much for sharing this! What a great prompt.
January 27, 2021 at 11:59 am
Angie
Wow, great ideas! Can’t wait to read about Bear and Smile. Congrats!
January 27, 2021 at 12:26 pm
Tania
FABULOUS!
January 27, 2021 at 12:37 pm
58chilihed13
These days I seem to always be looking for smile…I love this post!
January 27, 2021 at 12:38 pm
aidantalkin
Your book sounds lovely! And yes I wrote to myself at 6-7, same age I often write for! Thanks for the great prompt
January 27, 2021 at 12:41 pm
Nancy Ferguson
Thank you , Ellen for this very difficult exercise. I’m afraid to do it, but plan to take a deep breath and dive in.
January 27, 2021 at 1:00 pm
Laura N. Clement
Awwww, sweet.
January 27, 2021 at 1:03 pm
Dawn Prochovnic
This is a prompt that I’m going to try a few different times. I didn’t find myself writing about an age that I write for, and that makes me curious. I will dig into to this a little deeper to begin to understand why that might be.
January 27, 2021 at 1:08 pm
writeknit
OH! Thank you so much for this painfully beautiful post. At first I thought about a few things that were usual kid stuff – then I remembered two BIG things that I hadn’t thought about for a long time. As I sniffle, I’m writing furiously.
January 27, 2021 at 1:13 pm
LenoraBiemans (@BiemansLenora)
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing this gift.
January 27, 2021 at 1:16 pm
Patti Ranson
This is a strong and effective technique – thank you!
January 27, 2021 at 1:19 pm
Nina Nolan
Thank you for your lovely post. And moving writing prompt! 🙂
January 27, 2021 at 1:33 pm
rhumba20
Thank you Ellen! I enjoyed reading the suggestions about going inward for ideas…have to do that more:)
Anna Levin
January 27, 2021 at 1:37 pm
angie9091
That was an intense exercise! Angie Isaacs
January 27, 2021 at 1:46 pm
Krysta Zeiset
I enjoyed your post and prompt SO much! (And the party trick really surprised me- but it was accurate for sure!) Thank you for the inspiration!
January 27, 2021 at 1:46 pm
Lauren Hidalgo
What a great exercise! So powerful. Thank you for sharing.
January 27, 2021 at 1:51 pm
annettepimentel
A heart-wrenching exercise. Thank you!
January 27, 2021 at 2:09 pm
Melanie Ellsworth
Thanks for the helpful activity, Ellen. I wasn’t expecting it to inspire something funny and silly, but it did for me!
January 27, 2021 at 2:29 pm
paulabpuckett
What great ideas for getting in touch with the younger me. Thank you.
January 27, 2021 at 3:06 pm
LaurenKerstein
Thank you for encouraging us to dig deeply.
January 27, 2021 at 3:21 pm
Leah Moser
Great ideas! Thank you.
January 27, 2021 at 3:27 pm
Wendy
Emotions flood back today–good and bad. I hope I can harness them in my writing.
January 27, 2021 at 4:20 pm
libbydemmon
What a powerful exercise!
January 27, 2021 at 4:52 pm
Sheri Dillard
I loved this post! Thanks, Ellen! And my age in my memory is in the age-group I’m writing for, too! 🙂
January 27, 2021 at 5:01 pm
Karen Greenwald
Very touching. Thank you!
January 27, 2021 at 5:18 pm
paulaobering
Thank you for sharing. Very insightful!
January 27, 2021 at 5:33 pm
amckelle
Wow. Powerful. I normally write humor, so writing something inspired by that moment and that wished for letter to myself will really broaden my writing. Thank you!
January 27, 2021 at 5:56 pm
Sheri
Another wonderful way of accessing your younger self is remembering smells, which for some reason have very strong associations. The memory of my grandmother will be forever bound up with the smell of pine cones burning, pumpkin fritters sizzling, moth balls, baby powder and Pears soap.
January 27, 2021 at 6:03 pm
stacey miller
What helpful, thoughtful advice! Thank you!
January 27, 2021 at 6:14 pm
Sarah Lane
This was a fantastic and revealing exercise. Thank you so much!
January 27, 2021 at 6:19 pm
suzannepoulterharris
This is such an original post. I will definitely give this exercise much thought. Congratulations on your beautiful, meaningful book!
January 27, 2021 at 6:37 pm
janetfrencksheets
Wow, you’re right — my childhood memory matches the age I write for. Maybe there’s more to my decision to write picture books than I realized.
January 27, 2021 at 6:46 pm
Mary York
Ellen, What a touching book! I haven’t even read it yet and I have a lump in my throat. We write what we know and feel. Thank you
January 27, 2021 at 6:47 pm
Joyce Uglow
Lovely!
January 27, 2021 at 7:11 pm
Vera Lisa Smetzer
Thank you for sharing ideas on how to keep in touch with the wonder and magic of our childhood! I totally adore bear books and this one looks so special. ♥
January 27, 2021 at 7:30 pm
EmmieRWerner
Ahhhhhhh thank you❤️
January 27, 2021 at 7:35 pm
muskoshe
Thank you. This is very thoughtful and I love the book.
January 27, 2021 at 7:38 pm
Val McC
A letter to ourselves to find “a moment when we needed a ‘story’ to help us — a brilliant exercise. Thank you, Ellen.
January 27, 2021 at 7:57 pm
Jennifer
Your book Looking for Smile sounds exceptional — I can’t wait to read it. Thank your for the inspiring suggestions!
January 27, 2021 at 8:25 pm
Prairie Garden Girl
I appreciate this post, Ellen. Thank you for suggesting the activity to write a letter as I look inwards and backwards.
Suzy Leopold
January 27, 2021 at 8:40 pm
Heather Kelso
Thank you for the wonderful suggestion.
Your book looks lovely and so relevant to not only children but all of us who may need to look for our smile lately.
January 27, 2021 at 9:19 pm
Noelle McBride
Oh Ellen! What a treat. I am heading to my bookshelf now to find my slightly dusty but beloved favorite childhood books…. Miss Suzy, here I come!
January 27, 2021 at 9:36 pm
Sallye O'Rourke
looking back into my childhood–and looking forward to reading your new books.
January 27, 2021 at 9:55 pm
marykatesmithdespres
Thank you so much for this, Ellen! I’m so excited to checkout your books and to write my letter.
January 27, 2021 at 10:00 pm
Betsy
Thanks for the reminder Ellen! Looking forward to reading about Bear and Smile!
January 27, 2021 at 10:25 pm
claireannette1
Your book makes me smile – Childhood books are so powerful. I keep many of mine on a shelf in my office and they do take me back. I know just the event that I need to write a letter to myself about. Thank you.
January 27, 2021 at 10:27 pm
Thelia Hutchinson
Thank you. I can definitely think of many times in my childhood that have a profound significance and would be a good story. Thank you.
January 27, 2021 at 10:55 pm
Judith Snyder
I can see how this will help us tap in to those important universal themes. Thanks for the idea.
January 27, 2021 at 10:55 pm
Joannie Duris
Bear had me smiling! It’s so true that stories that come from deeply rooted experiences are the ones we believe in the most, that need to be shared with future readers when THEY need that story.
January 27, 2021 at 11:00 pm
Maria Oka
This was a wonderful (tear-jerking) exercise. I am at VCFA right now, but have only been able to do online residencies so far. I’m so excited to go and experience the magic in person someday! And I can’t wait to read Looking for Smile. It looks incredible.
January 27, 2021 at 11:12 pm
Katie Brandyberry
This looks like a beautiful story! Can’t wait to get my hands on it. The idea of writing a letter to yourself is lovely – can’t wait to try. Thank you!
January 27, 2021 at 11:24 pm
Beth Elliott
Lovely, thank you Ellen!
January 27, 2021 at 11:29 pm
Karen Pickrell
What a great exercise for accessing a kid relatable emotion. Thank you for sharing with us!
January 28, 2021 at 12:34 am
Jose Cruz
An interesting exercise. You can see how it correlates to this literary format in particular. Picture books are, in a way, letters to children. Sometimes they’re funny letters, or fascinating letters. A lot of the times they’re letters that say something akin to “I understand what you’re going through, and it’s okay.” And if we’re able to nail down that most vulnerable point from our own childhood and communicate to our past selves as an adult in a way that stirs our hearts, then there’s a good chance that we will be in better standing to do that with young readers who take our letters down from the shelf.
January 28, 2021 at 2:13 am
Renner Writes (@barbararenner)
This is a great exercise for someone who doesn’t have access to little children, like me. I usually think back to when my own children were small, but now I can see the value in writing to me when I was small. Thank you for sharing.
January 28, 2021 at 3:20 am
Mary Beth Rice
This writing prompt is so powerful!
January 28, 2021 at 4:17 am
Terri Sabol
Looking for Smile sounds amazing! Can’t wait to read it. Thank you for sharing your writing prompt, Ellen!
January 28, 2021 at 6:46 am
Freda Lewkowicz
Thank you for the inspiration.
January 28, 2021 at 7:48 am
jimchaize1
Thanks, Ellen. Loved reading about how Bear and Smile was born.
January 28, 2021 at 9:19 am
babybluesnowflake
Wow! This post took me a bit longer to complete. I actually had a couple of letters to the “mes” of the past (toddler me, pre-teen me, teen me). Eye-opening indeed and it makes sense that I feel like writing for older kids, too, although, until now the age range I was targeting was 4-7. I may need to try out various formats. Love how Bear and Smile came about and the illustrations are gorgeous, too. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
January 28, 2021 at 10:52 am
gattodesign
A truly great author and what an inspirational way to get all of you together. I am so inspired and feel I can write many letters to myself, from a young girl to a woman. Thanks for the inspiration.
January 28, 2021 at 11:22 am
Judy Bryan
Digging deep this morning with this powerful exercise. Wow. Thank you, Ellen!
January 28, 2021 at 11:29 am
Jacqueline Adams
Thank you for this fascinating post! I like the suggestions about taking a look at books I loved as a kid. Fortunately, my mom kept all of the dog-eared books she used to read to me and my brother, so that will be easy to do.
January 28, 2021 at 11:55 am
acottykid
Thank you for sharing.
January 28, 2021 at 12:38 pm
Brenda Grant Lower
thank you so much for this exercise. Opened my eyes in so many ways.
January 28, 2021 at 12:46 pm
Babs Ostapina
Powerful letter to your little self exercise, Ellen. Hmmm… wonder if I’m not actually supposed to be writing PICTURE books…
January 28, 2021 at 2:05 pm
Amy H
Wow–I’m getting ready to weep. And then I’ll go back and finish the post. Than you!
January 28, 2021 at 2:32 pm
Cathleen Collins
This was a powerful exercise. Thank you!
January 28, 2021 at 2:45 pm
Maria Marshall
Ellen, thank you for this exercise. It definitely produces interesting results. Your new book is adorable.
January 28, 2021 at 2:59 pm
Aimee Satterlee
What a beautiful book and concept, Ellen! I can’t wait to read it. I admit, I teared up just thinking about the self-exercise before even writing. This was very powerful. Thank you!
January 28, 2021 at 3:14 pm
Karen Conley Chun
What a wonderful way to get in touch with our own child within. Thank you for the exercise and look forward to the book, Bear and Smile.
January 28, 2021 at 3:22 pm
Deborah Foster
I want this book so bad!! Thank you, Ellen, for the wonderful idea!
January 28, 2021 at 3:28 pm
Carrie Williford (@carrietimes)
I got to hear and see this book during the Writing Barn’s “Behind the Book” webinar. It is absolutely beautiful – words and pictures! Congrats!
January 28, 2021 at 5:34 pm
lois1952
I am a sucker for anything with bears. Thanks for sharing this exercise.
January 28, 2021 at 5:45 pm
Aimee Larke
This book and the illustrations. Love! Thank you.
January 28, 2021 at 6:22 pm
Caren
Interesting concept of the time you wrote about being the age group you write for.
January 28, 2021 at 6:23 pm
Keren Dibbens-Wyatt
Looking for Smile looks wonderful!
January 28, 2021 at 7:01 pm
TL Fales
Yep, the party trick worked on me, and it reminded me of an idea I haven’t pursued yet.
January 28, 2021 at 7:14 pm
Dawn Young
💛Thank you for sharing. I love the idea of writing a letter to my younger self.💛
January 28, 2021 at 7:23 pm
Mary Zychowicz
Wow! I got teary thinking about your younger you who woke up one day with a smile and then the next with confusion or sadness. I’m not surprised you have had experience with children in early childhood. I didn’t read the spoiler alert yet because I haven’t written my letter. What a place of vulnerability to write from. I’m glad you found smile. I cannot wait to read this book. And the illustrations look amazing! Thank you for sharing this. It is such a meaningful post.
January 28, 2021 at 7:45 pm
clairebobrow
I am completely smitten with Looking For Smile, so whatever you’re telling us to do, Ellen – I’m doing it! Thank you for encouraging us to look deep inside and connect with our former feelings. Some of them are painful to examine, but it’s so important to re-visit them!
January 28, 2021 at 9:10 pm
Tonnye W. Fletcher
Very interesting exercise. I definitely teared up, and gave myself some advice I still need to this day. I think it’s advice everyone needs sometimes. Yes, very interesting. . . .thank you for this. And BEAR AND SMILE sounds amazing! Good luck for continued success and thanks for sharing and inspiring.
January 28, 2021 at 9:39 pm
Debbi G
Thank you for the trip inwards and backwards.
January 28, 2021 at 10:46 pm
Karen L Ledbetter
Love the bears
January 28, 2021 at 11:59 pm
Shannon McPherson
This was powerful for me. Looking inwards, there are many books I wish someone had written. Brought back some very vivid memories, some good, some sad. Lots of ideas to get to. Thank you!
January 29, 2021 at 1:26 am
topangamaria
Great letter writing trick prompt.
January 29, 2021 at 1:31 am
Artelle Lenthall
Love this exercise and yes, it is the age I most write for and I know why too. That’s the age we moved not only countries, but continents. Same language, but so alien.
January 29, 2021 at 12:40 pm
melissamiles1
Wow, I can see why the tears came. This is a great exercise, so thanks for sharing.
January 29, 2021 at 1:35 pm
Patricia Alcaro
I can’t wait to write that letter to myself. Thank you!
January 29, 2021 at 1:50 pm
syorkeviney
Oh Ellen, thank you… It is in our discovery of our emotions as a child that helps us write a story to help a child understand his/her emotions and allows them to understand they are okay and their world is okay too!
January 29, 2021 at 2:25 pm
Katie Schwartz
What a enriching exercise! Just did it, yes it did bring a tear to my eye, memory was from over 50 years ago! Amazing how a memory will stick, especially if there are strong emotions tied to it. And a good, cathartic exercise, thanks for the prompt, maybe I can finally get over the hurt and confusion from the experience, LOL! Cannot wait to read Looking For Smile!
January 29, 2021 at 3:39 pm
Kimberly Wilson
What a great exercise––and the spoiler (Yes!)! Thanks so much for sharing this!
January 29, 2021 at 3:44 pm
Susie Sawyer
I LOVE this idea so much!! They always say to write the book you needed as a child – this is a perfect way to discover that! I actually teared up reading this post, because I thought of my little self and pictured myself talking to her. Thank you so much, Ellen!!
January 29, 2021 at 3:48 pm
Natasha Garnett
Wonderful you figured out how to tell that story. Who knew you were (a) Bear? I love Lauren Stringer’s art.
January 29, 2021 at 4:11 pm
kaitlinsikeswrites
Lovely exercise, thank you!
January 29, 2021 at 4:18 pm
Virginia Rinkel
This is a powerful exercise. Thanks – it’s deep.
January 29, 2021 at 4:51 pm
Stephanie Fitzpatrick
Thanks so much for sharing this exercise. I found that I was writing for my five year old self – the age I find I focus on lately!
January 29, 2021 at 5:21 pm
Mary Ann Blair
Love this illustrations and the story behind Looking For Smile!
January 29, 2021 at 7:10 pm
Patricia Tiffany Morris
How thoughtful of an idea. I find it fascinating. I’m looking forward to a full day to work on this letter, and hope to share it with my own grandchildren. Thanks.
January 29, 2021 at 8:43 pm
Masha Sapron
great exercise and your story idea about bear and smile is so creative! Look forward to reading it!
January 29, 2021 at 9:47 pm
Manju Beth Howard (@ManjuBeth)
Thanks for sharing the lecture by Marion Dane Bauer. Looking For Smile is a beautiful, heart warming book.
January 29, 2021 at 10:04 pm
iefaber
I think my therapist would love this idea. I can’t bring myself to finish my letter, but it’s still a wonderful idea.
January 29, 2021 at 10:32 pm
authorlauralavoie
What a great post! Thanks, Ellen!
January 29, 2021 at 11:16 pm
yangmommy
That’s a really fascinating story about your college professor’s assignment, esp the end result caveats! Thx for sharing that, and a sneak peak at Bear looking for his Smile (hope he finds it because his smile is gorgeous!)
January 29, 2021 at 11:25 pm
Dina Ticas
This was therapeutic and so good for my soul. It helped bring clarity to why I write. Thanks!
January 30, 2021 at 12:12 am
Zoraida Rivera
Thanks for that great prompt. Much success with your books.
January 30, 2021 at 3:29 am
rjtraxel
Finding that inner kid, neat method.
January 30, 2021 at 5:33 am
Amanda Malek-Ahmadi
Thank you for sharing this. I will have to go back and look at the spoiler alert after I write the letter.
January 30, 2021 at 6:59 am
Dee Knabb
What a great tip, Ellen. Thank you for showing us a way into our child’s voice.
January 30, 2021 at 10:12 am
Brinton Culp
Looking for Smile looks delightful! And thank you for sharing this exercise–I found a shiny penny while doing it.
January 30, 2021 at 11:47 am
Elizabeth Metz
I sometimes struggle with advice like this, because I have a terrible memory and can only remember general feelings and patterns from my childhood rather than individual moments (i.e. I can close my eyes and picture being a student at my elementary school, or having meals in my grandparents’ kitchen… but I can’t remember any particular day or conversation or anything like that.) But I’ve found that visiting my parents’ house and looking through old photo albums can help guide me. I offer this as a corollary to any other memory-challenged writers hoping to take advantage of this truly excellent advice (thanks, Ellen!)
January 30, 2021 at 12:19 pm
Julie Augensen-Rand
Love the spoiler. So true. Thanks for this idea. Love my trip down memory lane thinking of my grandpa.
January 30, 2021 at 12:22 pm
Ellen Leventhal
I love mining memories. I haven’t written letters yet, but what a great idea! Thanks!
January 30, 2021 at 12:28 pm
Anna Brooks
Thank you for the wonderful exercise! I can’t wait to check out Looking for Smile!
January 30, 2021 at 1:29 pm
colleenrkosinski
This post gave me an idea. Thank you!
January 30, 2021 at 2:37 pm
Sara Matson
Great exercise!
January 30, 2021 at 2:43 pm
jensubra
What a lovely and thought-provoking way to find a story. I look forward to reading your books!
January 30, 2021 at 3:15 pm
boygirlparty
this prompt made me see something within i didn’t realize had been there. thank you so much. your book looks beautiful.
January 30, 2021 at 3:40 pm
Nancy Riley
What a great way to find my younger self. Thanks so much!
January 30, 2021 at 4:12 pm
Melissa Koch
Yep, I cried!
January 30, 2021 at 4:45 pm
AlisonMarcotte
What a powerful post! Thank you for sharing.
January 30, 2021 at 4:49 pm
Renée Neubauer
This looks delightful!
January 30, 2021 at 4:57 pm
Paula Cohen
Wow, what a moving post! Thank you Ellen. I ended up recalling a period when I was 4 years old that I’d forgotten about for years. Your book looks really touching and I can’t wait to read it!
January 30, 2021 at 5:44 pm
Kelly Vavala
This is very emotional and a great way to capture the heart of a student body. Everyone had that little child to write to. I wouldn’t know where to begin but I would certainly have a lot of writing material. Thank you for sharing this wonderful post!
January 30, 2021 at 5:52 pm
dlapmandi
A great exercise to mine those memories, a bit scary and daunting. Thanks for the post.
January 30, 2021 at 7:56 pm
teacherwriteracker
This will be an excellent activity. Thanks!
January 30, 2021 at 8:29 pm
Amy M. Miller
I love this prompt, Ellen, and know exactly what I need to write in my letter. Bear and Smile sounds precious and the illustrations really capture the emotion of the story.
January 30, 2021 at 10:02 pm
jennyb_writes
Even without the aim of finding a picture book idea, this is such a wonderful prompt to help us all look ‘inside’. Thank you!
January 30, 2021 at 10:59 pm
kristenrashid
I appreciated your post, Ellen. Thank you!
January 30, 2021 at 11:27 pm
Gaby
Ellen, I will love to read your book “Bear and Smile”, looks awesome!!!
I have many stories as a child, and I like the idea of using them, and add friends that can help us to deal with the circumstances. Thanks Ellen for this gift.
January 31, 2021 at 8:38 am
Betsy Devany
Thank you for this prompt. A wonderful post!
January 31, 2021 at 8:57 am
Lisa L Furness
Loved this exercise! I discovered I had memories of the age I write for and memories of when I was an older kid too. Can’t wait to read Looking For Smile! – Thanks, Ellen.
January 31, 2021 at 9:19 am
littleredstoryshed
So happy Bear found his smile! Love this idea! Thank you, Ellen.
January 31, 2021 at 9:21 am
doreenrobinson
We did this once in a SCBWI author boot camp writing workshop. Wish I could remember the author’s name, but you’re both on to something – the room was all sniffles as we unlocked a childhood memory. This exercise works! And your books look beautiful. Congrats!
January 31, 2021 at 9:37 am
Laura Purdie Salas
Wish I could really send my letter back to me! Thanks for this, Ellen.
January 31, 2021 at 11:45 am
Artsybarncat
WhT a great book! I’m headed to amazon now… for an inspirational smile!
January 31, 2021 at 11:46 am
Artsybarncat
**what 😂
January 31, 2021 at 12:11 pm
Susan Schade
Thank you for your post. I can’t wait to do the writing prompt exercise! Congratulations on your new book!
January 31, 2021 at 12:21 pm
kristindudish
Thank you for sharing the writing prompt… I think this is an exercise I’ll revisit again & again.
January 31, 2021 at 3:21 pm
Michelle Kashinsky
That was lovely, I wrote the letter! Lots in there, thank you!
January 31, 2021 at 4:11 pm
Melissa McDaniel
Thanks, Ellen! 🙂
January 31, 2021 at 4:36 pm
bgonsar
What a strong prompt tour professor had you do. Thanks for sharing Ellen
January 31, 2021 at 4:55 pm
Anne LeBlanc Gr 4/5 teacher 🇨🇦📚❤️✍️🖖😃 (@AnneLeBlanc2)
What a great idea! My favourite book as a child was Alexander Kitten!
January 31, 2021 at 5:00 pm
Mel H.
Looking back at childhood memories can bring both joy and pain. Finding a story to ease the pain sounds just as good as finding a story to celebrate the joy. Thank you!
January 31, 2021 at 5:34 pm
Naria Gaarder
Thank you for your post! The idea of thinking back about what kind of book we would have needed as a child is such a true and often forgotten angle to think of stories for kids.
January 31, 2021 at 6:52 pm
Kristin Sawyer
Oooo…great food for thought. I look forward to reading about Bear as well as writing my letter. Thank you for sharing.
January 31, 2021 at 6:53 pm
Laura Renauld
Lovely idea!
January 31, 2021 at 8:40 pm
Helen Lysicatos
Not only a fantastic writing prompt but a good therapy session. Thanks.
January 31, 2021 at 9:13 pm
Debbie Meyer
I can’t wait to read Looking for Smile! Congratulations on your new book and for helping others with these great prompts.
January 31, 2021 at 9:16 pm
Kathy Berman
Thanks for your tip about looking back, way back to find a relatable, tender moment that meant a lot. Letter writing is the way to go.
January 31, 2021 at 9:51 pm
Jen Walsh Hawks
Such an inspiring activity. I’m really looking forward to your book! I’m glad your story found its voice!
January 31, 2021 at 10:32 pm
Mary Worley
Thank you. I often wonder how we can decide which age group we want to write for. These activities are helpful.
January 31, 2021 at 11:34 pm
Rebekah Lowell
Congrats on this adorable book! Can’t wait to see it in full glory.
January 31, 2021 at 11:35 pm
Jolene Ballard Gutiérrez
I love Looking for Smile, and I’m planning to write a letter to myself soon. Thank you, Ellen!
January 31, 2021 at 11:47 pm
Sue
What a fun post! Can’t wait to see how my 42 ideas come to life! Thanks for all these great posts!
February 1, 2021 at 12:20 am
Amy Newbold
I love these suggestions and your book looks wonderful!
February 1, 2021 at 1:06 am
Sensitive and Extraordinary Kids
I loved this post and I love your book. It’s in my cart and I can’t wait to have it on my shelf.
February 1, 2021 at 1:13 am
Jennifer Broedel (@JBroedelAuthor)
This is a beautiful idea! The vulnerability of childhood and our reflections on it can bring so much authenticity to a story!
February 1, 2021 at 2:31 am
Lisa Kingsford
Your book looks adorable. I love your idea to look back to a vulnerable part of our youth or childhood to find inspiration for a story. Thank you!
February 1, 2021 at 2:59 am
Rachel S. Hobbs Gunn
This was great, thank you!
February 1, 2021 at 7:08 am
Melissa Trempe is writing (@melissa_trempe)
I just love the title Looking for Smile! Thanks for all the inspiration!
February 1, 2021 at 8:21 am
srkckass
I’m looking forward to reading Looking For A Smile to my kids. Thanks!
February 1, 2021 at 1:55 pm
Jen (aka RandomlyGenerated)
Thanks for the prompt!
February 1, 2021 at 1:57 pm
Jen (aka RandomlyGenerated)
What an adorable bear!
February 1, 2021 at 2:33 pm
laurazarrin
I love the idea of writing the letter. Thank you!
February 1, 2021 at 4:35 pm
jeanjames926
This was a beautiful post, with a very inspiring message. Thank you.
February 1, 2021 at 5:48 pm
Audrey
What a beautiful idea and exercise. Thank you!
February 1, 2021 at 9:13 pm
thedandelionzoo
Thanks for sharing!
February 1, 2021 at 10:43 pm
kmshelley
Thanks for this great idea!
February 2, 2021 at 5:22 pm
meghan B
This was an insightful exercise. Thank you!
February 2, 2021 at 11:35 pm
mandyyokim
Thanks, Ellen! I will try writing this letter – what a nice idea!
February 3, 2021 at 11:28 am
jessica shaw
Thank you, Ellen! So true how looking at a book from our childhood can take us right back there. Love the letter to our young selves idea.
February 3, 2021 at 3:32 pm
Yehudit Sarah
Thanks Ellen. I see so much possibility in tuning into vulnerable childhood moments. I love the idea of writing this letter.
February 3, 2021 at 4:15 pm
Kelly Conroy
I can’t wait to read your book! Congratulations!
February 3, 2021 at 6:28 pm
Aundra Tomlins
What a great idea. Looking inside yourself is important but yes, inspiration from the past is great. Thanks.
February 5, 2021 at 6:09 am
sylviaichen
So neat. And your book sounds amazing, can’t wait to read it! Congrats!
February 5, 2021 at 4:24 pm
mjmeyer06
I was able to read your book! LOVED IT!!!! Added it to my 1000 picture book reads in 2021.
February 5, 2021 at 7:39 pm
Dea Brayden
Thanks for this call to go back in time. So important. Congrats on your book. Sounds wonderful!
February 5, 2021 at 9:48 pm
KASteed
Looking back for inspiration
February 6, 2021 at 12:17 am
Lindsay Brayden Ellis
Off to write to past Lindsay. 🙂
February 9, 2021 at 10:15 pm
Stephanie D Jones
Yes! I wan to do this for February story farming!
February 23, 2021 at 3:48 pm
lorisherritt
Thank you for the reassurance. I have been listening to my nieces and nephews, I have been sitting with my childhood self, letting things unfurl and ideas whirl…