by Kira Bigwood
Thank you so much, Tara, for having me on your blog today. I’m thrilled to share my story—a Rutgers University Council on Children’s Literature success story…that almost wasn’t.
It was 2018, and the third year in a row I was applying to the annual RUCCL One-on-One Plus Conference. If I’m being honest, I was feeling a bit deflated. The previous two years, I submitted what I thought were my absolute-slam-dunk manuscripts…andddddd got rejected. That year, I didn’t feel I had anything that resembled even a layup. I waited until the very last day to submit, and then decided to try something different.
Remember that Seinfeld episode where George does everything opposite?
Jerry tells him, “If every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite would have to be right.”
I decided to test this theory. Going against all my instincts, I submitted what I thought was my weakest story (writing is subjective, after all). And wouldn’t you know, I got accepted!
Now I had been given the thrilling opportunity to travel to New Jersey. Where I knew no one. To attend a conference. Where I knew no one. And go over my work, face to face, with a real live editor (who, to recap, I did not know).
Kira was terrified.
But I wasn’t Kira. I was Opposite Kira!
For one whole weekend, I forced myself to go against every introvert instinct I had (a truly, truly difficult thing to do). Every time I felt like retreating into my bagel and cream cheese, I wondered, “What would Costanza do?”
That is how I found myself walking solo into a hotel bar to meet up with other attendees. That is how I found myself striking up a conversation with the conference co-chair (the charming Tara herself, who gave me a shout-out during her closing remarks). That is how I found myself showing my mentor one last manuscript—“It’s a lullaby for little spies, but it might not be anything yet”—which is how I found myself chatting up a different editor at lunch, who just happened to love spy stories.
And that, my friends, is how I found myself with a debut picture book.
SECRET, SECRET AGENT GUY (a 007-twist on the classic Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star) illustrated by the talented Celia Krampien, releases this May from Atheneum/Simon & Schuster. And all because I went against every instinct I had.
If you’re in a rut, why not try being your opposite self? Why not try doing everything “wrong?” It just might be the rightest thing you do.
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Kira Bigwood is an advertising copywriter and kidlit author who lives in Chicago with her husband and three “spirited” children. Her debut picture book, SECRET, SECRET AGENT GUY, is now available for pre-order.. Say “Hi!” on Instagram @kirabigwood and Twitter @KBigwood.
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November 20, 2020 at 9:18 am
Carolyn Davis
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story.
November 20, 2020 at 11:54 am
Kira Bigwood
Glad you enjoyed it, Carolyn!
November 20, 2020 at 9:22 am
Michele Helsel
That’s the most welcome advice I’ve ever gotten! Congratulations on your super adorable debut!
November 20, 2020 at 11:54 am
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Michele! Happy it resonated with you!
November 20, 2020 at 9:23 am
Cheryl Keely
Congratulations on your debut book. Sounds fun. Have preordered. Celia illustrated my debut book in 2017. Love her stuff. Lucky you.
November 20, 2020 at 11:57 am
kirabigwood
Wow, Cheryl. So kind of you! And yes, Celia is fantastic. I remember checking out your debut when her name came up–love that book. Congrats!
November 20, 2020 at 9:25 am
Linda Hofke
Thanks for sharing your journey. I love how your new approach allowed everything to fall into place.
Congrats on your book. It sounds wonderful.
November 20, 2020 at 11:59 am
kirabigwood
The universe is really powerful, isn’t it? Thanks so much for the well-wishes!
November 20, 2020 at 9:27 am
Sandie Vaisnoras
That is one heck of a story . . . congratulations. I can’t wait to read it in May.
Thank you for sharing.
November 20, 2020 at 11:59 am
kirabigwood
Thank you, Sandie!
November 20, 2020 at 9:33 am
faygie1
Congrats Kira! I loved reading your RUCCL story and your super-spy PB sounds awesome! I look forward to reading it in May.
November 20, 2020 at 12:00 pm
kirabigwood
So kind of you to say–thank you!
November 20, 2020 at 9:34 am
Jane Heitman Healy
What an awesome story! Good for you, Kira, in overcoming your fears, and congratulations on the first of many published books!
November 20, 2020 at 12:01 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Jane. Appreciate the vote of confidence!
November 20, 2020 at 9:45 am
Lynne Marie
What an inspiring story — giving a hearty applause to Opposite Kira (and Kira).
November 20, 2020 at 12:16 pm
kirabigwood
haha, love it Lynne. Thank you!
November 21, 2020 at 3:18 pm
Rena Epstein
I was in Esther Hershenhorn’s writing class this fall, and she was so excited about your book launch, she shared the info with the class. I am really happy for you and love your description of your unexpected, unpredictable path. And I do remember that Seinfeld episode!
November 21, 2020 at 7:29 pm
kirabigwood
That’s fanstastic, Rena. Grab every opportunity that comes your way, because you never know what will open that door! Thanks so much for your kind words.
November 20, 2020 at 9:47 am
Lynda
I rarely comment on blogs but thought I’d try doing the opposite this time 😉 Congratulations on the book release – it sounds like an awesome concept!
November 20, 2020 at 2:07 pm
kirabigwood
hahaha, that’s the spirit, Lynda!
November 20, 2020 at 10:02 am
Tracy Hora
What a refreshing story!! Congratulations!!
November 20, 2020 at 12:16 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Tracy!
November 20, 2020 at 10:08 am
Ashley Potts
How inspiring! Thank you for sharing this story.
November 20, 2020 at 12:16 pm
kirabigwood
You are so welcome, Ashley!
November 20, 2020 at 10:09 am
katiemillsgiorgio
Well this is fun…thanks for sharing!
November 20, 2020 at 12:17 pm
kirabigwood
Glad you enjoyed it!
November 20, 2020 at 10:21 am
Debra Shumaker
OMG, I love this SO much. My new motto will be “What would Constanza do?”
November 20, 2020 at 12:19 pm
kirabigwood
Yay, Debra! Yours and mine both!
November 20, 2020 at 10:22 am
Hollie Wolverton
Love this! Best how-I-got-published story ever!! And the book looks fabulous!
November 20, 2020 at 12:20 pm
kirabigwood
haha, Hollie, you are too kind! Glad you enjoyed it, and THANK YOU!
November 20, 2020 at 10:25 am
dinahodara
Kira,
This was a great post! Funny, but also some food for thought. Considering trying your/George’s Opposite Day technique. Good luck with your debut book, it looks fun!
November 20, 2020 at 12:21 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much! You should def give it a go, if for no other reason than an adventure 🙂
November 20, 2020 at 10:35 am
Esther Hershenhorn
YAY YOU, Kira Bigwood! You did it, affirming what I recognized 8 years ago in my Newberry Library class: you are one talented writer!
Now for that Baby + Fan book! 🙂
November 20, 2020 at 12:22 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you so much, Esther! You are the BEST.
November 20, 2020 at 10:36 am
stephaniewildman
Thank you Kira. I appreciate hearing your story and I’m excited to buy your book for my grandchildren. Thank you Tara for doing so much for kidlit authors.
November 20, 2020 at 12:23 pm
kirabigwood
I love hearing that, Stephanie–thank you!
November 20, 2020 at 10:43 am
Mia Geiger
Amazing! Thank your sharing and congratulations on your book!
November 20, 2020 at 12:24 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Mia!
November 20, 2020 at 10:49 am
readmybook2002
I love how you changed a bad time into a good with great results. I have to try it some time since I have many bad moments. Thank You.
November 20, 2020 at 12:26 pm
kirabigwood
Yep. Hard to always stay positive (especially in times like these). But if you look at as a challenge (from George Costanza, himself:), it might be a little easier!
November 20, 2020 at 10:49 am
Meghan B
What a great story! Congrats, Kira!
November 20, 2020 at 12:27 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks, Meghan!
November 20, 2020 at 10:55 am
Carole Calladine
Love the cover of Secret, Secret Agent guy! And I love the rhyme. Thank you for sharing your story. Do the opposite!
November 20, 2020 at 12:27 pm
kirabigwood
Isn’t it so cute? Celia totally nailed it! Glad you enjoyed the post!
November 20, 2020 at 10:55 am
Karin Larson
Congratulations, Kira. I so enjoyed reading your story!
November 20, 2020 at 12:28 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Karin! Glad you liked it!
November 20, 2020 at 10:56 am
Riya
Wow! And wow again! I don’t think I’d have the courage to do that.
November 20, 2020 at 12:29 pm
kirabigwood
hahaha, omg, Riya, it was SO HARD. But, when you have an opportunity for a chance to grow, you kinda have no choice but to take it!
November 20, 2020 at 11:01 am
Elizabeth Curry
Ok, that is awesome! Who knew George was so wise? Thanks for the smile this morning and congratulations on your success. And your debut looks adorable!
November 20, 2020 at 12:30 pm
kirabigwood
Elizabeth, you are so kind. Thank you! And yes, who knew George “Jerk Store” Costanza was so wise?!
November 20, 2020 at 11:05 am
marylouisealucurto
Way to go Kira! It’s good to try new avenues! Congratulations on your Debut Book!
November 20, 2020 at 12:31 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much!
November 20, 2020 at 11:09 am
You Can't Hide the Spark!
Ah, I love this, thank you! It’s so refreshing to read background stories like this. From now on, every time I feel like retreating into my bagel and cream cheese, I will remember this and try being my opposite self 🙂
November 20, 2020 at 12:43 pm
kirabigwood
Yay–glad you connected with it!
November 20, 2020 at 11:12 am
JenFW
This is hilarious and inspirational. Big cheers to Opposite You!
November 20, 2020 at 12:43 pm
kirabigwood
haha, love it. Thank you!
November 20, 2020 at 11:25 am
Deborah Agranat Sullivan
Such an inspiring story, Kira! (My husband and I JUST watched the opposites Seinfeld episode last night, by chance… love how it worked for you, in real life!) Thanks so much for sharing
November 20, 2020 at 12:44 pm
kirabigwood
OMG! Love that happy coincidence! Thanks for sharing!
November 20, 2020 at 11:41 am
Alicia Z. Klepeis
This was just the kind of story I needed today. Thank you — and congrats to Kira! The book looks fantastic 🙂
November 20, 2020 at 12:45 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Alicia! Hope it inspires!
November 20, 2020 at 11:44 am
Maria Altizer
Congratulations! I love the advice, sometimes you have to do the opposite of what you would do normally.
November 20, 2020 at 12:45 pm
kirabigwood
It’s really true, isn’t it? Thanks, Maria!
November 20, 2020 at 11:49 am
Sherry Smith
Hi Kira, Great story about your adventures at Rutgers. Though my submissions to RUCCL included several rejections as well, they finally accepted my application and I also met many editors, agents, and writers. Though I didn’t find a home for my stories, yet, two came close. Best of luck with your PB.
November 20, 2020 at 12:47 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Sherry! Keep at it (and maybe try coming at it from a different angle)…they are bound to find a home–good luck!
November 20, 2020 at 11:54 am
Jocelyn Rish
I love this story so much! As a shy introvert, I can relate to forcing myself to be my opposite at conferences and workshops. And I’ve made so many great friends by doing it!
November 20, 2020 at 12:48 pm
kirabigwood
It’s amazing how it actually works, isn’t it Jocelyn? Glad to hear I’m not in this alone, hahaha!
November 20, 2020 at 12:01 pm
Joanne Roberts
What a fun idea! (fun in a terrifying way!) Congratulations. It sounds like you’re book is going to be a new favorite
November 20, 2020 at 12:49 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Joanne. Terrifying, but worth it!
November 20, 2020 at 12:06 pm
Eileen Mayo
What an inspiring story!! Congratulations on you adorable sounding book.
November 20, 2020 at 12:49 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Eileen!
November 20, 2020 at 12:28 pm
Peggy Dobbs
So inspirational! Congratulations! I look forward to the day we can once again attend in-person conferences.
November 20, 2020 at 12:50 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks, Peggy! Looking forward (sort of:) to that day, too.
November 20, 2020 at 12:31 pm
Mary York
Kira, thanks for the inspiration. Your debut PB sounds fantastic! Congratulations!
November 20, 2020 at 12:50 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Mary. Glad you like the story!
November 20, 2020 at 12:42 pm
Andy Nordvall
Okay, but is she giving feedback or “opposite” feedback?
November 20, 2020 at 2:05 pm
kirabigwood
hahahaha
November 20, 2020 at 12:43 pm
Carol Gwin Nelson
I love hearing about your book journey! It reminds those of us still in the trenches to explore all options for our stories. Thanks and congratulations on your debut!
November 20, 2020 at 12:51 pm
kirabigwood
Yes, Carol! Keep exploring those options and it will happen. Thank you for the kind words!
November 20, 2020 at 12:46 pm
kathydoherty1
Thank you for the inspiring suggestion! And congratulations on such a darling book!
November 20, 2020 at 12:52 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Kathy!
November 20, 2020 at 12:52 pm
Kim A Larson
Loved your personal story, and love the premise of your book, too! Congratulations, Kira!
November 20, 2020 at 1:06 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you very much, Kim!
November 20, 2020 at 12:55 pm
TerriMichels
Love to read about the back story. you are very brave.
November 20, 2020 at 1:07 pm
kirabigwood
haha, brave or crazy. Either way, it worked out! Thanks for commenting, Terri!
November 20, 2020 at 12:56 pm
rosecappelli
I loved reading this post, Kira! So inspiring! I could relate about being an introvert. I’m usually afraid to approach people or ask a question and I have to keep asking myself what I’m afraid of. And I’m certainly old enough with enough life experiences to know the answer. I’ll have to try your opposite strategy. Thank you for sharing and I look forward to reading your book.
November 20, 2020 at 1:08 pm
kirabigwood
Yay! So glad it resonated with you, Rose. There really are a lot of us introverts in the writing world, so just remember, most everyone around you is probably feeling the same way!
November 20, 2020 at 1:05 pm
Sandy Perlic
I absolutely loved this story! For many of us introverts, the writing–as hard as it may be–is actually the easy part. I’m so glad you’re big risk paid off–this sounds like a really fun story.
November 20, 2020 at 1:10 pm
kirabigwood
So true, Sandy! I often think, why can’t the writing just stand on its own? The putting-the-self out there is truly the hardest part for some of us. Good luck on your writing journey!
November 20, 2020 at 1:11 pm
Krista Harrington
I just have to say, I think every post should refer to Seinfeld because I’d resonate with it better!
This is wonderful advice and helps me to remember those times I had to be the opposite of the shy girl I grew up knowing.
Can’t wait to see your book!
November 20, 2020 at 2:02 pm
kirabigwood
I agree with you, Krista–Seinfeld for life! Thank you for the kind words!
November 20, 2020 at 1:18 pm
Lindsey Hobson
How interesting! It’s so easy to fall into a rut, I like the idea of switching it up a little!
November 20, 2020 at 2:03 pm
kirabigwood
Worth a try, for sure!
November 20, 2020 at 2:01 pm
kathalsey
CONGRATS, Kira. I am happy that you gave yourself one last chance and it worked. We have to never give up on ourselves. SECRET,SECRET AGENT GUY sounds like such fun. My hubs knows I’m directionally challenged, so if I tell him to turn left, he turns right! I get it! Ty for this shot in the arm. BTW, I want that critique!
November 20, 2020 at 2:04 pm
kirabigwood
Love it! Crossing my fingers for you. And thank you for the nice words!
November 20, 2020 at 2:14 pm
romontanaro
Another fun interview Tara. Congratulations Kira. Love the book premise and love the advice!! So tough to do but I’m trying 🙂 Look forward to reading. Rosanna
November 20, 2020 at 5:21 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Rosanna–you can do it!
November 20, 2020 at 2:17 pm
Lori Alexander
Congrats, Kira! I love hearing introvert success stories! 🙂
November 20, 2020 at 5:22 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks Lori!
November 20, 2020 at 2:22 pm
Leslie Helakoski
These kind of stories keep us all going. Thanks Kira and Tara.
November 20, 2020 at 5:22 pm
kirabigwood
You are so welcome, Leslie!
November 20, 2020 at 2:28 pm
Sheri Radovich
This is a fun way to think of things instead of following guidelines to write a story turn things around and see what you get. Hmm, worth a try.
November 20, 2020 at 5:23 pm
kirabigwood
Definitely worth a try, Sheri!
November 20, 2020 at 2:41 pm
Buffy Silverman
I love, love that you went with the opposite of what you thought would fly. (The stories that I think are my strongest exist only on my computer.) And Secret, Secret Agent Guy sounds like so much fun.
November 20, 2020 at 5:25 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Buffy!
November 20, 2020 at 2:46 pm
Susan Johnston Taylor
Congrats, Kira! Thanks for sharing your story. This book sounds delightful!
November 20, 2020 at 5:25 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Susan!
November 20, 2020 at 2:58 pm
Wendy Greenley
We lived overseas during many of the Seinfeld years and I obviously need to watch every show. Congratulations, Kira!!
November 20, 2020 at 5:29 pm
kirabigwood
haha, yes Wendy, you do! Thank you!
November 20, 2020 at 3:31 pm
Nina Nolan
Thank you for your wonderful post! It’s easy for us to second guess ourselves, and not know what to do. Your approach was harder. I was delighted to hear that it worked. Yay! Congratulations. Your book sounds charming. 🙂
November 20, 2020 at 5:35 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you for the kind words, Nina. Second guessing might as well be our job! haha
November 20, 2020 at 3:44 pm
Joyce Schriebman
This is such a fabulous story. Just when we think we’ve heard it all, you come along and confound the trajectory! Thank you for sharing your unorthodox success journey. ❤
November 20, 2020 at 5:36 pm
kirabigwood
What a compliment!! Thank you for the nice note, Joyce!
November 20, 2020 at 3:59 pm
Chelle Martin
I love Seinfeld. Thanks for sharing. I know what you mean about submitting your best work, then being disappointed. Will try your suggestion.
November 20, 2020 at 5:36 pm
kirabigwood
Worth a shot, right? You just never know, Chelle!
November 20, 2020 at 4:01 pm
Mary Lou Johnson
What a creative transformation! So glad it worked for you, and you have your break-out pb! So, if I’m going to try some opposites for myself, I’ll use the name Maryl, and I’ll be a slim 5’8″ 36-year-old with shoulder-length, generously-thick glossy hair. I love a good laugh! I’ll look forward to reading your Secret Agent Guy story!
November 20, 2020 at 5:37 pm
kirabigwood
Hahahahaha, love it, Mary Lou!
November 20, 2020 at 4:31 pm
Jana Mattern
Way to be brave and try something new! You are right – writing is so subjective. Congrats on your book. It looks adorable!
November 20, 2020 at 5:38 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks very much, Jana!
November 20, 2020 at 4:35 pm
Janet Sheets
Oh, this story made me smile. I bet all of your manuscripts were great, but #3 just hit the right RUCCL reader at the right time. Now you’ve broken the ice for #1 and #2. I hope we’ll be hearing about them soon.
November 20, 2020 at 5:38 pm
kirabigwood
You are so kind, Janet. Thank you!
November 20, 2020 at 5:03 pm
Deborah Williams
Your story gives me hope that I will someday receive the opposite of a rejection! Thanks for sharing, and I wish you the opposite of failure in the coming years.
November 20, 2020 at 5:39 pm
kirabigwood
YES! I hope you receive that opposite-of-a-rejection very soon, Deborah!
November 20, 2020 at 5:10 pm
Kassy Keppol
Thank you, your comments helped my daughter with her story.
November 20, 2020 at 5:40 pm
kirabigwood
Fantastic! Glad to hear that, Kassy.
November 20, 2020 at 5:27 pm
Rebecca E Guzinsi
Oh, I soooooo NEEDED to read this post today! Way to go Kira and George!
November 20, 2020 at 5:40 pm
kirabigwood
hahaha, thanks Rebecca!
November 20, 2020 at 5:38 pm
Megan Whitaker
Ooh, this sounds like me. I went to a SCBWI conference a couple years ago and signed up for everything. I just about threw up after doing a reading in front of the group. I went back to my room and cried. Nothing came of the mss but now I know I can do it. Maybe when this all ends I’ll try again with one of the other 30 I’ve written since then. Congrats!
November 20, 2020 at 5:42 pm
kirabigwood
There’s something powerful about trying and failing. And it often leads you to succeeding! Keep at it, Megan.
November 20, 2020 at 5:45 pm
Lisa Billa
Great advice, will have to try this! And I loved hearing how there’s still hope even for stories that feel like a long shot.
November 20, 2020 at 8:10 pm
kirabigwood
You just never know, Lisa!
November 20, 2020 at 5:47 pm
Linda Kulp Trout
Congratulations, Kira! What an inspiring story! Thank you for sharing it with us.
November 20, 2020 at 8:11 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Linda–glad you liked it!
November 20, 2020 at 5:53 pm
Judy Sobanski
Congratulations, Kira! Glad you found your MOJO and went for it! Can’t wait to read your book!
November 20, 2020 at 8:11 pm
kirabigwood
THANK YOU, Judy!
November 20, 2020 at 6:19 pm
Karan Greene
I found this so encouraging! Thank you for sharing!
November 20, 2020 at 8:11 pm
kirabigwood
I’m so glad, Karan!
November 20, 2020 at 6:44 pm
Mark Ceilley
Having attended the Rutgers conference, I can totally imagine what you were going through. I am so inspired by your success story. Congratulations! I can’t wait to get a copy of your book.
November 20, 2020 at 8:12 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks very much, Mark!
November 20, 2020 at 6:44 pm
Jilanne Hoffmann
I love this! Congrats on living the dream in opposite-land!
November 20, 2020 at 8:12 pm
kirabigwood
hahaha, thanks Jilanne!
November 20, 2020 at 7:15 pm
Laken Slate
This is beyond fantastic! What I thought was my worst query and my weakest story brought my first ever request. You’ve inspired me to keep taking chances! And “Secret, Secret Agent Guy” sounds amazing!!! Congratulations, opposite Kira!
November 20, 2020 at 8:47 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Laken! Love that you had that same experience. This business is SO subjective–and I guess that’s a good thing!
November 20, 2020 at 7:45 pm
Heather Gallagher
Love this so much!
November 20, 2020 at 8:12 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Heather!
November 20, 2020 at 9:11 pm
Lisa Riddiough
This is wonderful, Kira!! Congratulations!!
November 21, 2020 at 11:39 am
kirabigwood
Thanks, Lisa!
November 20, 2020 at 10:37 pm
bonnier kloster
Congratulations. What a unique idea.
November 21, 2020 at 2:32 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you!
November 20, 2020 at 11:31 pm
Heather Stigall
What an inspiring story! And l love that episode of Seinfeld. Congrats on your debut!
November 21, 2020 at 11:40 am
kirabigwood
Thanks very much, Heather. One of the best episodes!
November 20, 2020 at 11:40 pm
seschipper
Congratulations…on many levels!! You were “brave” attending solo and making it work! Plus, your debut PB was born! Hooray! I will definitely order this book! It sounds delightful! 🙂
November 21, 2020 at 11:40 am
kirabigwood
That’s so kind of you–thank you!
November 21, 2020 at 2:56 am
Kerry
Congratulations Kira. That must have been incredibly hard to do…to go against your instinct shrieking at you to go the other way.
November 21, 2020 at 11:41 am
kirabigwood
It was very hard, Kerry! But ultimately, so worth it!
November 21, 2020 at 3:07 am
Michelle Losardo
What a fantastic story! Interesting how the creativity of this craft is born from isolated moments of introspection, yet takes flight only by the risk of vulnerability. Better a “no” that sparks revision than to always wonder “what if”! Thank you, Kira, for sharing your inspirational story!
November 21, 2020 at 2:33 pm
kirabigwood
So true, Michelle. Always take the risk!
November 21, 2020 at 6:08 am
Writer on the run
Congratulations and. Thanks for the “opposite” suggestion- great idea!
November 21, 2020 at 11:41 am
kirabigwood
Glad you liked it!
November 21, 2020 at 6:21 am
srkckass
Great job! I love the concept for your book and it is a good reminder that if something isn’t working, just have Opposite Day. Thanks!
November 21, 2020 at 11:41 am
kirabigwood
Thanks so much!
November 21, 2020 at 8:15 am
Mary Warth
Congratulations! I love your “Costanza Experiment”! We are watching Seinfeld with our son and enjoying the episodes all over again. We recently saw that episode so George is a hot topic in our house!
November 21, 2020 at 11:43 am
kirabigwood
Thanks, Mary! I need to start re-watching. Doesn’t get much better than Seinfeld.
November 21, 2020 at 8:19 am
Kaitlyn Leann Sanchez
Omg ladies, this story is so inspiring! Tara, thank you for bringing us another amazing success story (you have your hand is so many of them, you just be such a Proud mama bear) and Kiraz this is insanely inspiring, why not try something else? Congrats this book sounds fantastic!
November 21, 2020 at 11:45 am
kirabigwood
Thank you, Kaitlyn! And I agree…Tara is a true champion for the kidlit community!
November 21, 2020 at 12:22 pm
Kaitlyn Leann Sanchez
🥰🥰🥰
November 21, 2020 at 8:34 am
Andrew Hacket
Such an amazing story! For those of us introverts, it can be so uncomfortable putting ourselves out there. Kira’s story is a testament to the good that can come from it.
November 21, 2020 at 2:34 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks, Andrew. Keep putting yourself out there!
November 21, 2020 at 9:04 am
maureenegan
Love your story and look forward to getting your adorable book! It’s not a secret that Tara is the best.
November 21, 2020 at 11:46 am
kirabigwood
You are so right, Maureen. And thanks for the kind words!
November 21, 2020 at 10:14 am
Sylvia Mary Grech
Congrats on your book Kira! It looks adorable. But also, congrats on your courage to step outside yourself. I know what it’s like to be an introvert and you have totally inspired me.
November 21, 2020 at 11:47 am
kirabigwood
Yay Sylvia! So glad I could offer some inspiration. Sometimes you just gotta go for it!
November 21, 2020 at 10:28 am
erintsiska
I LOVE this story – so hilarious and yet relatable. I can’t wait to read this book, it looks and sounds adorable!
November 21, 2020 at 2:35 pm
kirabigwood
So kind of you to say–thank you!
November 21, 2020 at 10:57 am
Lou Aamodt
I’m still laughing from this blog, but it is also just crazy enough to work! I’m going to chew on this awhile. Thanks, and congrats!
November 21, 2020 at 11:48 am
kirabigwood
hahahaha, that is the perfect description, Lou. Just crazy enough to work. Try it!
November 21, 2020 at 11:00 am
Candace Spizzirri
Thanks Tara and Kira! Loved reading this post. Congratulations, Kira, on your debut. It looks adorable!
November 21, 2020 at 11:48 am
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Candace!
November 21, 2020 at 11:25 am
Allison Strick
I love this! Going to try being Opposite Allison, and maybe I’ll ensconce myself in velvet for good measure. Congrats on your debut, Kira!
November 21, 2020 at 2:36 pm
kirabigwood
hahahahaha. The velvet can’t hurt! Thanks, Allison.
November 21, 2020 at 12:06 pm
janzov
This is such an inspiring story! Who knew George would make such a difference in your life? Maybe it was because by being “opposite,” you were opening yourself up to many more possibilities. As my husband likes to point out: “Luck favors the prepared mind.”
We can all learn from your experience.
Thank you.
November 21, 2020 at 12:35 pm
kirabigwood
Yes, love that! I definitely think I was “open” that weekend, and the universe returned that sentiment. Proof it can happen!
November 21, 2020 at 1:07 pm
Ashley Congdon (@AshleyCCongdon)
What a great story behind the story. Congratulations and I can’t wait to read your book.
November 21, 2020 at 2:36 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Ashley!
November 21, 2020 at 3:06 pm
Linda Mitchell
Oh my gosh this made me laugh out loud!
Truly the nuttiest strategy for success I’ve heard of but wow to the results! Many congratulations 🎊
November 21, 2020 at 7:32 pm
kirabigwood
hahahaha, it is nutty, isn’t it? Thank you for the felicitations, Linda!
November 21, 2020 at 3:42 pm
Darcee Freier
Ha ha! What a great success story! It’s so hard for us introverts to stand up in the crowd–and you did it! Congrats! Looking forward to reading Secret, Secret Agent Guy!
November 21, 2020 at 7:33 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Darcee. It IS hard–you can do it, too!
November 21, 2020 at 3:46 pm
Sarah Meade
Congratulations on your book! What a great story.
November 21, 2020 at 7:33 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Sarah!
November 21, 2020 at 4:09 pm
SuZan Klassen
Wow! What a hoot! Congrats.
November 21, 2020 at 7:33 pm
kirabigwood
hahaha, thanks Suzan!
November 21, 2020 at 5:14 pm
LenoraBiemans (@BiemansLenora)
That’s just the best kind of success story! Congratulations!
November 21, 2020 at 7:34 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks very much, Lenora!
November 21, 2020 at 10:32 pm
Mirka
Thats really inspiring. Thanks for sharing.
November 22, 2020 at 4:43 pm
kirabigwood
You’re welcome, Mirka!
November 21, 2020 at 10:58 pm
marty
This is a fascinating success story! It’s not easy to be that opposite person/personality, but it certainly proved to be the right move in this case! Congrats on your debut book. It looks and sounds terrific!
November 22, 2020 at 4:43 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Marty!
November 22, 2020 at 8:08 am
Suzanne Lewis
Love your perspective changing journey! Congratulations on your clever debut book, Kira!
November 22, 2020 at 4:44 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Suzanne!
November 22, 2020 at 11:42 am
kswemba
Ah! The courage – the self confidence – the COSTANZA!!!! I love every bit of this story!
November 22, 2020 at 4:44 pm
kirabigwood
hahaha, thank you!!
November 22, 2020 at 11:45 am
Teresa Robeson
That has to be one of the best success/debut book stories I have ever read, if not THE best! Huge congratulations, Kira!
November 22, 2020 at 4:45 pm
kirabigwood
Well that is a huge compliment, Teresa–thank you!
November 22, 2020 at 1:20 pm
Lori Menning
What a great, positive approach! Congratulations on your book and thanks for this opportunity.
November 22, 2020 at 4:45 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Lori! Good luck!
November 22, 2020 at 9:01 pm
Jennifer Phillips
What wonderful advice and so glad it worked for you. I definitely think good things can come from stepping out of comfort zones and usual ways of doing things. Congratulations!
November 23, 2020 at 6:01 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Jennifer!
November 23, 2020 at 6:45 am
Brenda
What a wonderful story about your success and how brave you were. I have a little grandson who has wanted to be a spy since little. Excellent!
November 23, 2020 at 6:02 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks, Brenda! Yes, I have 3 littles who all wish they could be spies:)
November 23, 2020 at 8:40 am
savoringeverymoment
I love this story and I love that title!
November 23, 2020 at 6:02 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you for saying so!
November 23, 2020 at 11:13 am
Angie
Good job, George! Err, I mean Kira! LOVE your process. 🙂 Congrats for being brave and for your new book!
November 23, 2020 at 6:03 pm
kirabigwood
hahaha. Thanks so much, Angie!
November 23, 2020 at 11:27 am
Abby Wooldridge
I LOVED this post, Kira! Thanks for sharing your story! I’m a huge fan of Seinfeld and have a feeling I’ll be asking myself, “What would Costanza do?” today. Congratulations on your book! I can’t wait to read it! 🙂
November 23, 2020 at 6:03 pm
kirabigwood
Yay, Abby! Glad you liked it–thank you!
November 23, 2020 at 12:46 pm
Meredith Fraser
Brilliant idea!! I am so self conscious that speaking up is hard to do. Obviously it worked for George and for you so hey….I will give it a try!! Thanks and can’t wait to read your story.
November 23, 2020 at 6:04 pm
kirabigwood
Yes, Meredith, give it a try! Nothing to lose!
November 23, 2020 at 1:44 pm
karen pickrell
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story! Congratulations on your upcoming picture book! I can’t wait to read it!
November 24, 2020 at 11:25 am
kirabigwood
Thank you so much, Karen!
November 23, 2020 at 9:54 pm
bgonsar
Congrats on the success story!
November 24, 2020 at 11:25 am
kirabigwood
Thank you!
November 24, 2020 at 10:46 am
Maria Bursey
Oh my gosh – I am so obsessed with Opposite George! I am in love with this story of how you made it work in your writing life. I can’t wait to read your book. Congratulations!
November 24, 2020 at 11:26 am
kirabigwood
I am obsessed, too, Maria! Thank you!
November 24, 2020 at 5:47 pm
amyrsinn
What an awesome story, and pretty good advice! Congratulations!
November 25, 2020 at 1:33 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you!
November 25, 2020 at 12:28 pm
Patricia J Holloway
Congratulations! I loved reading about your story and can’t wait to purchase and read “Secret Secret Agent Guy”.
November 25, 2020 at 1:33 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Patricia!
November 28, 2020 at 1:05 pm
JEN Garrett
I love the idea of opposite Kira! I can’t wait for your book to come out (hidden agenda: mostly so I can use it as a comp title).
November 30, 2020 at 12:48 pm
kirabigwood
Awww, thanks Jen!
November 28, 2020 at 2:09 pm
Anita Crawford Clark (@AnitaLClark)
Awesome story and idea. Love outside the box thinking. Thanks for sharing this. So fun and inspirational
November 30, 2020 at 12:49 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Anita. Glad you found it helpful!
November 28, 2020 at 3:04 pm
Stephen S. Martin
Thanks for permission to submit all that stuff that has just been stacked all over my desk waiting for that “Perfect Final Revision”
November 30, 2020 at 12:49 pm
kirabigwood
Go for it, Stephen!
November 28, 2020 at 4:09 pm
Marci Whitehurst
Congratulations, Kira! Your book looks absolutely wonderful. I can’t wait to read it. Thanks also for sharing your process—it’s very encouraging! Good work!
November 30, 2020 at 12:50 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks so much, Marci!
November 28, 2020 at 7:32 pm
Tara Cerven
This book looks adorable!! Can’t wait to read it.
November 30, 2020 at 12:50 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Tara!
November 28, 2020 at 7:33 pm
Tara Cerven
This book looks adorable. Can’t wait to read it!
November 28, 2020 at 7:46 pm
Della
Love how you put yourself out there! Can’t wait to read your spy book!
November 30, 2020 at 12:50 pm
kirabigwood
Thank you, Della!
November 29, 2020 at 2:21 pm
Shaunda Wenger
I love this story of doing the opposite of what you’ve been doing to find success! And I love your humor showing through it all. Congratulations on your upcoming debut!
November 30, 2020 at 12:51 pm
kirabigwood
Thanks for saying so, Shaunda!
January 2, 2021 at 9:38 am
Joyce Uglow
What fun! I do believe my grandsons will totally get into their detective and spy guy play mode with your book.