Apologies for going off the picture book rails with this post. But living with a chronic disease like MS means I have to focus on the positive. And I strongly believe that being happy in life relies upon being happy in the present…and not hanging happiness on “if only.” Happiness is not a contingency plan. Happiness is right here, right now, in your everyday life. As mundane or stressful as some days can be, glimmers of giddiness can be discovered and celebrated. Don’t miss those moments, as fleeting as they may be.
So I have vowed to jot down one happy thing daily. What made me smile, what made me appreciate my life. Some will certainly be silly, and others may be cloyingly sentimental. Some will mean nothing to anyone but me. A LOT will have to do with FOOD. But for a full year, 366 days (2016 is a leap year), I will create a list of HAPPY.
I have already begun. So here’s my list of 10 happy things. I will add to this list throughout the year and I invite (no, encourage!) you to compile your own list of happiness.
- A morning cuppa Earl Grey tea
- Braiding my daughter’s hair
- Reading in the sun (without getting overheated, an MS issue)
- Finding fresh apricots at the store
- My daughter making breakfast all on her own (cheesy eggs)
- Delicious lunch with a good friend
- Getting into bed with freshly-washed sheets
- Receiving the first hard copy of my new book
- Baking peach-blueberry cobbler for dinner with friends
- The smell of water from the garden hose (reminds me of childhood summers)
Aha! So you stumbled upon the reason for this blog post title. Plus, to use a cliché faucet metaphor, little droplets of happiness can soon become a flood! (Oh boy, that was baaaaad. That’s not going on my happiness list.)
What made you happy today?
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July 13, 2015 at 8:59 am
dpasiczniak
kudos to living your life on purpose with happiness.
July 13, 2015 at 9:03 am
Lorraine
Thanks Tara.
The perfume of sweet lemon fuchsias.
Lorraine
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July 13, 2015 at 9:05 am
Cathy Breisacher
This is such a great idea. After seeing you at the NJ SCBWI conference, I know you are a very positive and happy person! Congratulations on your books that will soon be in the hands of readers everywhere! I can’t wait to get a copy of each one.
July 13, 2015 at 9:08 am
Pat Miller
“Glimmers of giddiness”–love it! Off to start my own list. Hoping you find at least 10 things in the next 24 hours. 🙂
July 13, 2015 at 9:09 am
Mary Crockett
This is lovely, Tara. Thanks for sharing some of your happy. It reminds me of happies I have as well. 🙂
July 13, 2015 at 9:13 am
Shari Della Penna
Thanks, Tara! My packet for the Northern Ohio SCBWI conference is ready. My next happy moment will be when I hand it to the postal clerk. I’m submitting 2 manuscripts to be critiqued.
July 13, 2015 at 9:14 am
nicole snitselaar
🙂 Very good idea. I have been writing down daily about 4 things I am greatful for. And this for nearly two years.
Today, I am rejoicing to be able to bite in a juicy peach. There was a time I could hardly open my mouth… So biting in a peach !!!!!!!!!!!! yeah !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
July 13, 2015 at 9:22 am
Linda
What a wonderful idea to help us recognise and cherish all those happiness droplets each and every day. So many of the things that make you happy make me happy too! Today’s moment of glee: sharing my latest picture book draft with my critique buddies! Makes me happy!
July 13, 2015 at 9:24 am
Chana Stiefel
Reading this post! Such an inspired idea! I will definitely share with friends & family.
July 13, 2015 at 9:31 am
Jennette Mutolo
Running my fingers through my daughter’s hair as she woke up….that made me smile. Thanks for the reminder Tara!
July 13, 2015 at 9:32 am
Paula Cohen-Martin
The 4 plumbers working on the renovations in my house all like mini schnauzers!
July 13, 2015 at 9:32 am
katrinamoorebooks
Tara, I love your positivity! Thank you for the encouragement :). Today my happiness was made by my 15 mo. Old running into my arms to give me a big hug and kiss!
July 13, 2015 at 9:41 am
Karen Miller
Thank you for the reminder: happiness heals…mind, body, soul. Wishing you the best!
July 13, 2015 at 9:43 am
Mamta Chakravorty
Wow , that’s a wonderful idea,Tara. ‘The daily happy list’ sounds exciting. For me, discussing gulf, bays estuary with my 7 year old was fun. It reminded me of my school days and I felt happy !!!
July 13, 2015 at 9:49 am
Andrea Mack
I love this idea! I think I will record one happy thing for each day on my calendar, so I can look back later and appreciate all the positive things that have happened! This will be especially wonderful to look at when I’m feeling low. Thanks for sharing this idea!!
July 13, 2015 at 9:53 am
Sandy Jones
Your sense of humor always makes me happy.
July 13, 2015 at 10:13 am
Carol Gwin Nelson
Great post! Watching my grandchildren play with the water shooters their grandpa gave them made me smile–especially when they turned them on Grandpa.
July 13, 2015 at 10:13 am
Melanie Ellsworth
Tara – I love it! Starting my own list now. Today I’m happy that I got up early and had extra time to read. My family has a “happiness jar” (can’t remember where the idea came from originally), and occasionally we write a note on a slip of paper and put it in the jar. On New Year’s Eve, we take turns pulling out the notes and reading them to remember some of the good times we had during the year. But our entries into the happiness jar are a little sporadic; I like your idea of doing it on a regular basis.
July 13, 2015 at 10:16 am
Mary McClellan
My dog jumping on my bed this morning to get her morning massage. 🙂
July 13, 2015 at 10:20 am
Doreen E. Lepore
Great way to stay positive! Thanks for inspiring us. 🙂
July 13, 2015 at 10:32 am
Michelle Heidenrich Barnes
This post makes me happy today. It’s perfect timing– I needed an attitude adjustment booster.
July 13, 2015 at 10:42 am
Joanne Sher
Dropped my son off at sleepover camp about an hour and a half ago – and found out that I know his counselor for the week. 🙂 Eases my heart a bit, yanno?
And I love this. Good for you!
July 13, 2015 at 10:46 am
kathydoherty1
I’m happy I have a few new story ideas. And I’m excited about diving in.
July 13, 2015 at 10:47 am
Carleen M. Tjader
Well, for one…your post!
I admire you, too, for keeping positive with MS.
For me…last night’s storm brings fresher air this morning!
July 13, 2015 at 10:48 am
Kim Pfennigwerth
Hearing grandchildren peals of laughter! Watching a wild rumpus of our dogs! Love this post, Tara!
July 13, 2015 at 10:58 am
Buffy Silverman
Happiness is my morning yoga class.
July 13, 2015 at 11:01 am
Ali Pichardo
Tara made me happy today, by starting the Happiness is a Garden Hose. I will be doing this for 366 days also. I love leap year it gives us an extra day to be happy! 😍
July 13, 2015 at 11:08 am
Janny J Johnson
My little dog giving my face a good morning lick! I’m sure it means he’s saying, I love you.
July 13, 2015 at 11:33 am
Keila Dawson
Nice reminder to focus on the positive Tara. So many things can and do go wrong, we can choose to focus on what goes right. Added one more injury free day to this year’s calendar. Yes!
July 13, 2015 at 12:09 pm
Trine
I was thinking about the beauty of God’s creation today – watching the moon and stars and comets as I work on my picture book.
July 13, 2015 at 12:18 pm
Joanne Toft
Great idea! for it is looking out my office window at the gardens below and the left over smell of rain and cool air at my window. Summer storms enjoyed and then the morning sun comes shining in!
July 13, 2015 at 12:33 pm
claireannette1
Great idea. I’m going to write happy happenings right onto my calendar. Today – putting my feet in the water of the Kings River (we’re in the midst of a drought so water makes me really happy)
July 13, 2015 at 12:36 pm
Deb Dunn
You are so inspiring! My happy list for today…visiting with good friends in the mountains, going for a jog on a quiet mountain road, taking a refreshing dip in a beautiful lake, enjoying the breeze coming in from the open door, hearing birds chirping. Here’s to the moment.
July 13, 2015 at 12:55 pm
Pia Garneau
Love this happy post! What a great idea. Reading this post made me happy.
July 13, 2015 at 1:03 pm
Elizabeth S
My daughter giggling while hugging her birthday balloon was a great part of this day:)
July 13, 2015 at 1:05 pm
Essea
Loved your post! My happy moment this morning was sitting in my garden with my dog and a cup of coffee and listening to the birds.
July 13, 2015 at 1:12 pm
csnt57
Reading your blog post. I also have MS and your happy list is the motivation I needed
July 13, 2015 at 1:32 pm
Nancy Colle
How refreshing! Like cold water to a thirsty soul. Starting my own list today.
July 13, 2015 at 2:18 pm
Stephen S. Martin
Any day you wake up and you are not staring at the roots of the grass is a good one.
July 13, 2015 at 2:32 pm
Sydney O'Neill
You continue to inspire me, Tara. Starting my list today.
July 13, 2015 at 2:51 pm
Genevieve Petrillo
Awesome thing to focus on. Especially when it’s so easy not to. Love it.
July 13, 2015 at 3:01 pm
Frannyb
WHAT MADE ME HAPPY TODAY? Smelling the rain, feasting on local strawberries and this post. Love it Tara!
July 13, 2015 at 3:09 pm
Shari Schwarz
Love this! You’re an inspiration!!!
July 13, 2015 at 4:02 pm
Nadine Gamble
Honestly. And I’m not sucking up now, your post! I came home from what felt like a crappy day and you reminded me that sometimes it’s the little things in life that can bring enormous pleasure. So what if my job is tedious and unfulfilling? Many other parts of my life are wonderful! Now I’m going to read a good book and eat chocolate!
July 13, 2015 at 4:09 pm
Stephan Stuecklin
My five-year-old son reciting this:
Befiehl du deine Wege
Und was dein Herze kränkt
Der allertreusten Pflege
Des, der den Himmel lenkt.
Der Wolken, Luft und Winden
Gibt Wege, Lauf und Bahn,
Der wird auch Wege finden,
Da Dein Fuss gehen kann.
(Paul Gerhardt, 1653)
Even if it was in order to get computer time…
July 13, 2015 at 5:34 pm
Patricia Tilton
You put a smile on my face! Inspiring post.
July 14, 2015 at 1:26 am
wendymyersart
The sweet smell of horses. Raspberries from my garden. A day in which I can participate. You rock, Tara.
July 14, 2015 at 2:16 am
Tina Cho
I have a gratitude journal as well, inspired by Ann Voskamp’s famous book, One Thousand Gifts. Making headway in my new classroom made me happy today 🙂
July 14, 2015 at 5:51 am
Ali Pfautz
I’ve done similar lists off and on through the years. Such a great way to remind us of the good in life! My happy moment… seeing my student, who was hesitant and quiet, come out of her shell and dance with the group.
July 14, 2015 at 7:55 am
mark a. bentz
Today, what made me happy was getting this post from you Tara. What also makes me happy is… early morning peace and quiet.
July 14, 2015 at 8:32 am
Lynn Becker
Reading number five on your list. We call them cheesy eggs too and my daughter loves to make them.
July 14, 2015 at 9:20 am
Rebecca Van Slyke
A great reminder that whatever our circumstances, we can CHOOSE happiness! My happy moments: Waking up to my best friend and husband, taking our dog out for morning walkies in the sunshine, and getting ready to drive down to see my parents and sister’s family.
July 14, 2015 at 10:08 am
Tara Lazar
Yes! You hit the nail on the head. It’s choosing to be positive. Glass half full. Boy, my reply is riddled with cliches! LOL
July 14, 2015 at 9:24 am
Jane Jeffries
Reading your post made me happy today. And I needed to read it! So you and your post are #1 on my list. Thank you!
July 14, 2015 at 1:49 pm
Sheri Rad
Reading your list and having a clean bill of health from my internist this morning.
July 14, 2015 at 7:05 pm
lindamartinandersen
Tara,
I have fond memories of that garden hose smell too.
July 14, 2015 at 9:02 pm
betlw
Thanks so much for your post. I can relate with most of them. Today going antique and craft hunting with my husband made me happy today. He usually doesn’t like to go to that kind of place. Today, for some reason, he enjoyed going along.
July 14, 2015 at 11:17 pm
Wendy Greenley
Seeing online friends in person is making this week a mile-wide grin.
July 15, 2015 at 8:36 am
mariagianferrari
I so agree, Tara–positivity is key, and though it may be cliche it’s true–laughter is the best medicine. I always feel happy when I see something beautiful in nature–creatures, flowers, etc–watching hummingbirds feed, their fast and graceful flight; seeing loons & their chicks at the lake by my mother’s house, and a flock of cedar waxwings. Can you tell I love birds?? As someone living with RA, your message rings so true. Hugs, Tara!!
July 15, 2015 at 11:00 am
SevenAcreSky
Gratitude is the root of happiness…love your post. How can a simple list surprisingly, at that last moment, evoke a sensory response like I had when I got the end? Nothing is as unique and refreshing and splash of plastic-flavored (?) cold water in your mouth from the end of a garden hose.
July 15, 2015 at 1:00 pm
deborahholtwilliams
Love your post! Today I’m celebrating that on this day last year I had my 35th and final radiation after four rounds of chemo. I’m healthy and in love, and that makes me sooooo happy!
July 15, 2015 at 1:27 pm
Karen Calloway
Thank you, Tara. Your post is sweet and beautiful, and a great reminder
to be thankful for blessings- large and small.
July 15, 2015 at 1:39 pm
yangmommy
I can’t say that happiness is a garden hose because the last time I tried to wrangle one back into its box, I got smacked in the face with the metal end, leaving me with a nasty cut over the eye & a bruised cheekbone!
However…pre-bashing I was happy about all the new flowers I was planting and look forward to the summer crops of tomatoes and hops. And post-pounding I had a lovely lunch with friends. Not to mention hubby was extremely sorry for leaving the hose out (again!) and coddled me with flowers, wine & my choice for movie night. Naturally it was something without sports/crazy action/intense sci-fi, LOL!
July 15, 2015 at 5:19 pm
MercedesOrtiz
Chocolate! Especially Cacau Show’s truffles and bonbons! They help me get back on my feet after those darn dementors attack.
… and your blog! Your blog posts always inspire me and make me smile, and they also help me believe that my crazy writing dream will come true one day!
Success on your pursuit for happiness, Tara, you totally deserve it!
July 16, 2015 at 9:45 am
erikammon
I used to love drinking from a garden hose! Nothing like shooting so much water in your mouth and up your nose that it shoots out your ears.
My wife is a photographer and does personal happiness projects often. She recently started one photographing women in certain styles of light (lousy description, but powerful images 🙂 ).
Personal projects outside of ‘work’ often help inspire and renew a love for what we do.
July 17, 2015 at 10:20 am
Dorothy Wiese
Reading your list! The day is young; there are bound to be more happy additions.
July 18, 2015 at 9:10 pm
Marty McCormick
Blue skies make me happy. Spring flowers, sunshine, that first cup of coffee in the quiet of a morning.
July 19, 2015 at 2:49 pm
Sue Heavenrich
thanks for reminding me that writing one happy thing can change a day. My happy thing: hearing bumblebees humming in the monarda this morning.
July 19, 2015 at 6:15 pm
ThisKidReviewsBooks
Great idea! Yesterday, I helped a shy 4-5 year-old come out of his shell in my Mom’s Science club. 🙂
July 28, 2015 at 9:56 am
Lauri Meyers
Pajamas at noon is a lovely treat which brings me much happiness.