First, let’s announce some winners!
The winner of the LITTLE RED GLIDING HOOD F&G is:
NATALIE LYNN TANNER!
The winner of Dev Petty’s I DON’T WANT TO BE A FROG is:
JHAYSLETT!
Congratulations! Be on the lookout for an email from me.
…So this week I did a boatload of Skype visits for World Read Aloud Day. Almost TWO DOZEN! Phew. My own kids are fed up with THE MONSTORE, as evidenced by my elder daughter’s video—mouthing the words and rolling her eyes while I read in another room. (She thought she’d get away with it, but I found it on her iPad! Oooooh! BUSTED!)
One of the most frequently asked questions during these Skypes was: “Out of all your books, which is your favorite?”
Now I know some authors claim—like parents of multiple children—to love them all equally, to not to have a favorite. But I do. And I’m not ashamed about it!
It’s whatever I just finished writing. My newest manuscript.
Once I complete a new story that my agent approves, I just go NUTSO with excitement. I dream of who may acquire it, which rock star illustrator will be tapped to illustrate it…plus I imagine Merry Makers creating the must-have accompanying plush toy. (Or maybe even a stuffed me!)
Yeah, I told you I go NUTSO.
There’s something about a fresh story. It’s a feeling I wish I could recreate as I BEGIN a new story, but often with a new manuscript, there’s a lotta chewing of fingernails (which is why I haven’t been able to put on my new Jamberry nails).
How can you recreate that newly-subbed, fresh-and-juicy, shinier-than-Turtlewax feel?
The best way out is always through. Write something new and get-r-done. If writing were easy, then everyone would have a published book. There should be joyous celebrating once something is finished and submission-ready. If you’re feeling just ho-hum, that manuscript is not pumped up full of YOU.

Photo credit: Scott Beale
That’s another thing I want to talk about today, finding YOU as a writer.
Years ago, when I was writing flash fiction for adults, I stumbled across a marvelous piece in an anthology. It was about two young women with a strained relationship going back to their parents’ house to pack it up. Their mother was fading away, doing strange things, leaving herself bizarre notes to capture pieces of her memory. The sisters found one of these notes in the bookshelf, held each other sobbing, and then laughed at the absurdity of it all. The story was so lyrically written, and so poignant. Why couldn’t I have written that?
So I tried writing something based upon that style—that lovely, lilting, poetic style. Like a sunset watercolor over the rippling bay. And you know what? It stunk. Worse than the bay.
Even though it was stilted and forced, that story taught me a little about who I was as a writer…by showing me who I WAS NOT. It was one step in finding my true voice.
I always say no piece of writing is wasted time. It’s all practice. Even the junk is worth something!
So, tell me, out of all that you’ve written, what is your favorite?
Please leave a comment (with a link, if appropriate).
May you share a boatload.
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March 9, 2015 at 7:28 am
Nancy Mindo
I love following your Blog ( just wanted to put that out there first). I have written many manuscripts, some i feel could use a little bit of editing.. and my most recent i feel is my best. I wish i had a link to share with you. It is just a manuscript at this time looking for a good home. I would love to share with you, if you i can send it another way. Thanks.. Nancy M
March 9, 2015 at 9:15 am
Tara Lazar
Hi Nancy! And thank you!
I meant to share a link if it was a published piece. I don’t want you sharing what you’re still working on–that’s “for your eyes only” LOL. (Or your crit partners’ eyes, too.)
March 9, 2015 at 8:50 am
lindamartinandersen
Congratulations to the winners! My favorites are still on the revision stack. Homes to be found someday!
March 9, 2015 at 9:16 am
Tara Lazar
Good luck, Linda. My favorite right now is only 3/4 of the way there!
March 9, 2015 at 9:37 am
Jennette Mutolo
Right now, my favorite is my ever evolving grocery list! BUT I do have 3 manuscripts that just will not leave me alone… they bug me at night, when I’m trying to watch Housewives, and mostly during laundry time. SO, I’m going to let the little stalkers (AKA ms) chase me until they’re ready to be set free. Hey, if they stalk an agent or editor as hard core as they do me, I should be good to go! 🙂
Thanks for all you do Tara!
March 9, 2015 at 12:09 pm
Tara Lazar
I think that’s what you need to do, let them chase you until you subconsciously work out all the kinks and feel that it’s ready to come out.
March 9, 2015 at 9:52 am
jhayslett
Hooray! Thank you!! I am so excited to be getting this book.
Jerrianne Hayslett Anatomy of a Trial
March 9, 2015 at 10:01 am
Joanne Sher (@joannesher)
Okay – my favorite piece is not published (other than on the internet). And it isn’t always my favorite piece, but when you asked this question, it was the first thing that popped into my mind. http://www.faithwriters.com/wc-article-level4-previous.php?id=17986 I wrote it for the FaithWriters Writing Challenge. Feel free to pop over and check it out (they have a 750-word maximum, so it isn’t long).
AND – this is a fabulous post. I am also a true believer that no writing is wasted. We are ALL learning, if we allow ourselves to!
March 9, 2015 at 10:07 am
Tara Lazar
Wow, Joanne, thanks for sharing that powerful piece. I love the challenge of flash fiction.
March 9, 2015 at 10:06 am
carolmunrojww
I recently almost lost all my mss to a bad external hard drive. Last week I printed out all my mss, made file folders for them, and separated them into two categories: Good Stuff and Maybe Salvageable Stuff. The Good Stuff? Mostly recently written. But my favs? The stuff I’m pretty sure won’t sell right now (folktales).
March 9, 2015 at 10:08 am
Tara Lazar
It’s heartbreaking when we write something that is probably unpublishable. But if we write first to please ourselves, that writing is just as important as anything in print.
March 9, 2015 at 10:11 am
Erin Nowak
Killer post Tara! Thank you for sharing. I’m still finding myself as a writer, and figuring out how that jives with who I am as an illustrator. It’s an interesting journey and this post makes me want to get on the road to it!
March 9, 2015 at 10:21 am
Tara Lazar
That’s a doubly-difficult task, Erin…but also twice as rewarding!
March 9, 2015 at 10:32 am
carolegerber
My favorite manuscript, A BAND OF BABIES, was accepted by HarperCollins in 2010. The editor who bought it left to head up Random House and it was “orphaned.” I understand it will be published in 2017. Seven years has got to be a record! Meantime, I’ve had several other books published and I love them, too, but it’s my “unborn” that I can’t wait to meet!
March 9, 2015 at 11:26 am
Tara Lazar
Awww! What a story! (And I know someone who waited 9 years from contract to publication. It can be a crazy-long wait!)
March 9, 2015 at 10:52 am
Cathy C. Hall
Oh, I SO agree with you on this one, Tara! Sometimes you have to write a lot of froggy pieces till you find your Princess voice. 😉 And speaking of, I have this story…I loved writing this story. And even though what I’m working on now IS my favorite, I have a ridiculous soft spot in my heart for “A Trade for Treasure.” (http://www.fiction365.com/2011/04/a-trade-for-treasure/)
March 9, 2015 at 11:29 am
Tara Lazar
I do like that analogy–from froggy pieces to your Princess voice!
March 9, 2015 at 11:49 am
Elizabeth Martin
I am with you. My latest book is always my favorite for at least ten minutes.
I am looking forward to buying your latest. Well done!
March 9, 2015 at 11:50 am
Tara Lazar
Ha ha, 10 minutes. Yep, that sums it all up for me!
March 9, 2015 at 11:50 am
Jacqueline
Good point that no piece of writing is wasted time. Realizing that is an antidote to discouragement! I write in different genres, and picking a favorite is tough–like comparing apples with oranges. So I’ll share a link to my husband’s all-time favorite, a story that won the Highlights Fiction Contest back in 2003. http://www.thefreelibrary.com/Aly%27s+discovery.-a0128445976
March 9, 2015 at 12:07 pm
Tara Lazar
What a sweet story, Jacqueline. Congrats on winning, too!
March 9, 2015 at 12:00 pm
Hayley B
I would *so* buy a Tara doll. Behold PiBoIdMo 2016’s mascot!
March 9, 2015 at 12:07 pm
Tara Lazar
Ha! Well, I seem not to be selling well, so Merry Makers has me posted with deep discount pricing!
March 9, 2015 at 12:03 pm
Janny J Johnson
I think my favorite is the one that is just about finished and I feel that tingle that says, “This is going to be the ONE!” I think there are a LOT of excellent picture books out there, that have been written and finished, but have not found the right agent/publisher.
March 9, 2015 at 12:08 pm
Tara Lazar
Yes, there’s that tingle when you finish! That’s a great feeling.
March 9, 2015 at 12:08 pm
Becky
My favorite manuscript is a YA verse novel that I wrote a few years ago. Maybe it won’t always be my favorite, but I still feel like it is one of my crowning accomplishments.
March 9, 2015 at 1:25 pm
Tara Lazar
That’s great, Becky. Never wrote in verse and don’t think I could!
March 9, 2015 at 12:31 pm
laenghi
Haha. So true. The newest thing always takes over the no 1 spot.
March 9, 2015 at 12:33 pm
Tara Lazar
Phew, it’s not just me! LOL
March 9, 2015 at 1:43 pm
Stephen S. Martin
To thine own self be true!
March 9, 2015 at 2:35 pm
Keila Dawson
My favorite story is the one I am having the most difficulty writing. Go figure!
March 9, 2015 at 6:27 pm
Tara Lazar
That’s because you’re so passionate about getting it right.
March 9, 2015 at 3:36 pm
berylreichenberg
I’ve published ten children’s picture books and it is difficult to name a favorite. The most popular with kids is “Camouflauge” which is an interactive book where children’s have to find the creature hiding in the wild. They love it when they can find the animal and do much better than adults. Beryl
March 9, 2015 at 6:25 pm
Tara Lazar
Those kids could probably change my mind. Their favorite would be my favorite, too.
March 9, 2015 at 6:23 pm
Sonja Anderson
Thanks for the great blog, Tara! I totally agree about nothing being wasted. Things always have a way of being used in one way or another.
As for my favorite manuscript ever? It has to be my middle-grade novel that’s being published in June by my delightful British publisher. The main character has been with me forever (I started this novel after 9-11, and this little owl was in my mind ten years before that).
I joke with my kids that someday I’ll be in a nursing home wondering why Sophie Topfeather never comes to visit! She’s become a part of me, that’s for sure.
March 9, 2015 at 6:26 pm
Tara Lazar
Wow, that’s a long journey! Congratulations!
March 9, 2015 at 6:30 pm
Sonja Anderson
Thank you! After all this time, my first novel and first picture book are coming out the same year! Amazing. Persevere, persevere, persevere!
March 9, 2015 at 7:00 pm
Genevieve Petrillo
One of my first pieces ever is my favorite. I’m the only one who thinks it’s a winner, though. It’s undergone a TON (boatload) of revisions so it’s REALLY different from the original, but I love it more and more. Soon, somebody else will love it too. 🙂
March 9, 2015 at 8:41 pm
Marty
Always learn from reading your posts, Tara. Thanks for all the advice and encouragement.
My favorite ms is always the newest one in my head. They seem to lose something in the translation to written format 😦
But plugging along and enjoying every minute of it, and dreaming big! So many good PB’s out there for inspiration.
March 9, 2015 at 8:47 pm
Tarryn Lean (@TarrynLean)
My favourite is my first published picture book Baby Glue that came out last year. Although I am working on my next favourite already 🙂
http://www.tarrynlean.com/
March 9, 2015 at 9:04 pm
waengel2002
My favorite manuscript is HANDS. Maybe some day it will be published!
March 10, 2015 at 8:51 am
Tara Lazar
Good luck with it!
March 9, 2015 at 9:34 pm
Joni Klein-Higger
My favorite manuscript is A RAINBOW OF FRIENDSHIP. It is the first PB book I ever wrote and am happy to say that after ten years of revisions and a mere twelve years since I first put pen to paper, this PB manuscript will be released later this month by Guardian Angel Publishing. Though it’s not my first published picture book, it’s the one that taught me never to give up when I believe in something.
March 10, 2015 at 8:52 am
Tara Lazar
Congratulations, Joni. What a great story of tenacity and perseverance.
March 10, 2015 at 9:01 am
Joni Klein-Higger
Thanks, Tara.
March 9, 2015 at 11:03 pm
Romelle Broas
Love your jamberry nails! The lettering style is perfect for writers like us. Anyway, I agree. My favorite writing is always the latest one I am working on. The editing and revising is always the most fun for me. Great post!
March 10, 2015 at 9:17 am
Tara Lazar
Yes, it’s great to have something down on paper to work with rather than just the blank page.
March 10, 2015 at 8:46 am
shiela fuller
My favorite story is the ms I’ve been reworking for 1 1/2 years now. It has come so far. I liked it in its earlier phase and I like it even more now.
March 10, 2015 at 9:18 am
Tara Lazar
I’ve got a few of those. I take them out every few months to tweak. Someday we’ll get there!
March 10, 2015 at 9:26 am
cantsing1
Tara,
I am so amazed at the thoughtful and supportive comments you have made to all. I can’t imagine the time that takes. Yes, I have a few special ones of mine. Each I seem to love for a different reason. I guess they are our babes! Thanks, v-
March 10, 2015 at 11:37 am
Carleen M. Tjader
You are right–every wonderful book I read, I wish I could have written. But I must write my own book. Although I do wish I would have written many of yours!
(Love the nails!)
March 10, 2015 at 12:09 pm
Deirdre Englehart
My favorites are ones that connect me in some way to my past, family or culture.. I’ve been revisiting a new take on an Irish folktales, that I love! Great inspiration!
March 11, 2015 at 10:45 pm
Sheri Rad
I love stories about my grandparents or events that I remember. My first written pb was my favorite and it still doesn’t work in pb structure but I will get it out one day again and rewrite it from different perspective and with the new knowledge I have on writing pbs. Maybe I can salvage it. Thanks Tara for your insight.
March 12, 2015 at 8:04 pm
Pam Miller
Lyrical tale or pumped up, Tara, am I ever glad I started following you and your many connections. You always seem to share an insight that can inspire, teach, and make me get to work. Can’t wait to read Little Red Gliding Hood in October.
March 16, 2015 at 4:25 pm
Carol Gordon Ekster
Tara, it’s so funny that you described my feelings! When I start a new manuscript, I fall in love with it. As I get feedback and rejections…it goes to the backburner, until perhaps it is acquired (then happy dancing occurs until the nervousness sets in). But then a next draft appears on my desktop and I fall in love again. That’s on a good day. Sometimes there is self doubt galore and my writing and I need a break from eachother! Thanks for this post. You always make me laugh.
carolgordonekster.com
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March 23, 2015 at 3:52 pm
Mercedes Ortiz (@Literati101)
Thank you for the lovely article, Tara. My favorite writing is a new adult novel I’m working on at the moment, called “Death Insurance”. It’s just a first draft -and it will take lots of revisions and rewritings-, but I’m enjoying it a lot!
March 25, 2015 at 2:24 pm
farmfolkfamily
Tara, this is the first time I’ve commented on your blog, and I must admit, I have a HUGE backlog of your blogs on my email waiting to be read. But I really needed to read this one today. I have a simple, little mom-blog (gravelroadgirl.wordpress.com) that I just posted to yesterday after a good five months of silence. Comparison is the death of a blogger, and it’s easy to find others’ blogs more compelling, witty, insightful–better! But I sat down and plunked something out yesterday just for the sake of “going through it,” as the lovely Mr. Frost said. And I so appreciate your encouragement to stick with my own voice/style because that’s where I’ll find the most contentment. After 19 years of homeschooling, I’m hoping to step back to some of my young-loves, writing being one of them. Thanks for the gem of encouragement today.
Jen Subra
March 25, 2015 at 3:07 pm
Tara Lazar
Thanks for checking in, Jen, and good luck with your writing journey!
March 26, 2015 at 7:46 am
Steve Barr
Does the Tara Lazar doll come with a playhouse and a convertible for her to ride in? Just wondering, because if it does I’m going to buy the whole set. 🙂