I never had an ambition to become a picture book author. I know it is a thing that many people dream of doing. Their brains burst with rhythm and rhyme. They long to have their words matched with glorious pictures and put on shelves for children to love. I tumbled into it because I had a child and she desperately needed a story. She was struggling and hurting. I knew that the right story could help her. I looked for it at the library and in bookstores. I didn’t find it, and so I wrote it instead. This was how Hold on to Your Horses was created. I thought I was done, but my daughter still struggled and I knew there was another question to answer, so I wrote The Strength of Wild Horses. Both stories came directly from the need of a child. So that is my advice to all those participating in PiBoIdMo. If you’re struggling to find ideas, go spend time with some children.
I once read an article that described children’s play as taking place in the Future Possible tense. You can hear it in the intonations of the kids. They have an idea—something they hope will be accepted into the mutual game—So they make a statement, but give it the intonation of a question.
“And then I grew wings?” says one child.
The other nods and says, “And I pulled out my rocket pack and we flew to the mountain together?”
Each is part statement, part question. It is an expression of what might be possible in the next part of the game. Many adults would do well to think in the future possible tense. PiBoIdMo writers would do well to sit down with a note pad and scribble notes as fast as the kids can imagine. The games of children will teach you magic and whimsy that you can carry with you to the picture books you want to write. Children know that sometimes the best answer is to sprout a pair of wings (or a jetpack) and take off for the next mountain.
Stories are gifts to the children who read them. Your story may be a gift of whimsy or delight. It may be a solution to a problem. It may be a necessary lesson. Like gifts, these stories can come in all sorts of wrappings. They may be full of rhyme or they may be simple prose. The pictures may be simple or elaborate. If you’re not sure yet which story you want to tell, go spend time with the people you want to tell it to. Listen to them. Learn what they love, what they worry about, what they cry over. Throw all of this into the pot from which you draw your ideas and let it simmer for a while. The result will be something delightful or useful, and perfectly suited to your audience.
Sandra Tayler is a writer of essays, children’s books, picture books, speculative fiction, and blog entries, all of which can be found at onecobble.com . She has two picture books in print, two essay books, ten years of blog entries, and a novel in progress. Sandra can be found online at OneCobble.com or on twitter @SandraTayler. When she is not working, Sandra spends time with her house, her four kids, and her cartoonist husband, Howard Tayler.
Sandra is giving away a matched set of picture books Hold on to Your Horses and The Strength of Wild Horses. Perfect reading for anyone who has a child filled with wild ideas.
This prize will be given away at the conclusion of PiBoIdMo. You are eligible for this prize if:
- You have registered for PiBoIdMo.
- You have commented ONCE ONLY on today’s post.
- You have completed the PiBoIdMo challenge. (You will have to sign the PiBoIdMo Pledge at the end of the event.)
Good luck, everyone!
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November 9, 2014 at 6:35 am
Laurie Theurer
Wonderful and thought-provoking. Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 6:37 am
cat jones
Thanks for some great advice. Hanging out with a three year old has certainly helped me find some new stories. He’s a real expert when it comes to diggers! 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 6:47 am
Rebecca Colby
Great advice! I look forward to thinking in the future possible tense.
November 9, 2014 at 7:19 am
Rebekah Hoeft
So true, Sandra! I teach a preschool class full of wild imaginings, and I eavesdrop on my own kids’ amazing stories at home. The ideas they come up with are wild and wonderful! If I could get my big person brain out of the way when I wrote stories based on their play, I’m sure it would be the best story I could ever write!
November 9, 2014 at 7:20 am
lindamartinandersen
Sandra,
Hold on to Your Horses is delightful. How generous of you to make it available as a free PDF. I plan to head back to your site to read a blog post too.
November 9, 2014 at 7:24 am
Rachelle Sadler
Thanks for your advice, Sandra! Children certainly are the best inspiration 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 7:28 am
Tina Cho
I love listening to my kids as well. Great ideas come from eavesdropping!
November 9, 2014 at 7:32 am
Margaret Flint Suter
My grand kids are a never ending source of wonderful possibilities and I use their wild imaginations quite often! Thanks for today’s post, I visited your blog and it is really an interesting read!
November 9, 2014 at 7:32 am
Stephanie Fitzpatrick
I am in complete agreement. I’m an assistant principal of an elementary school and my best ideas often come from the conversations I hear or things I see from my students!
November 9, 2014 at 7:35 am
mona861
Thanks…we just have to “listen” to really “hear” what they’re saying.
November 9, 2014 at 7:37 am
Author Ashley Howland
My children inspire me everyday, the give me too many ideas. Still we write lots together. One day I hope to publish our stories. Thanks for the post.
November 9, 2014 at 7:46 am
Andrea
My adult thoughts often get in the way of the childish imaginings that lead to new stories. It’s so important to listen! Thanks for the inspiration.
November 9, 2014 at 7:52 am
Caroline Twomey
This post really resonated with me as I too wrote my first picture book in response to an issue my son was struggling with! I always pass my ideas for pucture books by him and gauge his reaction which usually lets me know if I’m heading along the right path! Gotta love a child’s honesty!
November 9, 2014 at 8:00 am
lmconnors
Lisa Connors
Know your audience. Great advice!
November 9, 2014 at 8:08 am
Mary Zychowicz
Great advice. It makes sense since kid’s minds are open to so many possibilities. I know my grandchildren, nieces and nephews and the children I see at work are filled with imagination. Thanks for today’s post. Now I’ll head over to your blog!
November 9, 2014 at 8:08 am
Cathy Breisacher
Kids say the funniest things and they certainly are the ones we should be listening to for story ideas and inspiration. Thank you so much for your great post!
November 9, 2014 at 8:19 am
Elsa
I liove that by writing to fill the needs of just ONE child you are able to create something for ALL children 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 8:19 am
Ashley Bohmer
Wonderful advice on this 9th day.–Thank you,Sandra. 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 8:21 am
Susanne
On the playground Wednesday, a little girl said, “You hurt my new arm!” while playing tetherball. We turned this into a fun (and funny) adjective lesson on Friday. Kids are hilarious and you can have them eating out of your hand with the right book. Going to check out your blog…learning about so many wonderful authors!
November 9, 2014 at 8:25 am
momslifeponderings
Future possible tense – great idea.
And both covers are delightful!
Dana Edwards
November 9, 2014 at 8:26 am
Christine Michaela Sharpe
That book sounds perfect for my son!
November 9, 2014 at 8:28 am
ellenramsey
Love the concept. I’m working on growing wings.
November 9, 2014 at 8:45 am
lindaschueler
I love listening to my daughter and her ideas. Thanks for the post.
November 9, 2014 at 8:48 am
deborahholtwilliams
Working with kids, whether as a parent or a teacher, is such valuable research! Congratulations on your lovely books.
November 9, 2014 at 9:08 am
Joyce Tucker
Thank you so much for your wonderful words. I agree; kiddos have the best ideas!
November 9, 2014 at 9:13 am
storyfairy
Spending time with children is very important for children’s authors. I am looking forward to doing so. 🙂 -Lily Stejskal
November 9, 2014 at 9:17 am
alikotanko
I love Hold on to Your Horses! How wonderful that you wrote that for your daughter! I hope to one day write something for my own children. Thanks for the inspiration 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 9:19 am
cindyjohnson2013
Thank you for the inspiring post. Would that everyone think in future possible tense!
November 9, 2014 at 9:22 am
gweddle
This is insightful and thought provoking! “Future possible tense” is an approach I can certainly use! Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 9:24 am
Lynn A. Davidson
Thank you for the reminder, Sandra, to listen to the little person (people) in my life for ideas. This is the time before their imagination get too reined in.
– Lynn A. Davidson
November 9, 2014 at 9:24 am
Lenora Riegel
Great advise! Writing for a real solution …
November 9, 2014 at 9:25 am
Pj McIlvaine
My children, and now my grandchildren. have always been a great source of inspiration and strength. I probably would have thrown in the towel long ago if not for them and my grandmother, who was the only one in my family who encouraged my dreams when I was a young child.
November 9, 2014 at 9:27 am
Laura Jenkins
Great advice! Future Possible Tense – Who woulda thunk?
November 9, 2014 at 9:31 am
supermario6
Several of my ideas so far this month have come from children.
November 9, 2014 at 9:31 am
ManjuBeth
Mother of Invention 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 9:33 am
Jabeen
Thank you for your wonderful advice!
November 9, 2014 at 9:39 am
Jeanine Potter
Thank you for a thoughtful, insightful and generous post.
November 9, 2014 at 9:42 am
carolynscombs
You hit the nail of the head with the “Future possible tense” and how to interpret it. I hear it all the time in my son’s pretend Lego games with his friends. I noted it but missed its significance. Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 9:45 am
billiesgirl
Thank you for your story. My grandson loves to make up stories to tell at nap time, and I often dream of illustrating them. I am inspired by you!
November 9, 2014 at 9:46 am
imartypoet
Thank you Sandra for the enchantment of children’s dialogue at play. Stories unfold before our eyes when we spend time with the age group we write for. In my collection of preschool gems is the indignant expression of one child when another child showed up in the kitchen and babies play area with a big yellow bulldozer. “A bulldozer in the family???” What a couple of book characters they were. And it really got me to thinking about bulldozers in families. I think every family has one. Hold Your Horses is one of those titles that makes you want to open the book. Congratulations on writing both of these books for your daughter and getting them out there for others.
November 9, 2014 at 9:48 am
yetteejo
I’ve always thought kids knew more than I and aren’t afraid to speak the truth.
November 9, 2014 at 9:50 am
Louann Brown
Love the idea of “future possible” tense…a nice description of the way children think.
November 9, 2014 at 9:52 am
Cathy Ballou Mealey
Future possible tense – a brilliant, useful construct!
November 9, 2014 at 9:53 am
Kathy Raggio
Thanks Sandra for reminding me to look for the magic and whimsy.
November 9, 2014 at 9:53 am
Celeste
I love the idea of future possible tense! Spending time with children is an absolute must.
November 9, 2014 at 9:57 am
Linda Hofke
The future possible…great idea. And I think you are an awesome mom for writing those books for your daughter (and any other kids in the same situation who might need to read it.)
November 9, 2014 at 10:01 am
Doris Fisher
I too, never thought I’d be a writer. Since the age of ten I wanted to teach kindergarten and I did. Now I’m a published pivture book author and loving it!
November 9, 2014 at 10:02 am
marcimcadam
I so remember pretend play like this! You’re right, it’s a great tool for brainstorming. Now I’m off to play!
November 9, 2014 at 10:03 am
Marla
Jot it down & let it simmer. Great advice. I find the simmering part especially important.
November 9, 2014 at 10:09 am
Jennette Mutolo
Future Possible Tense makes anything possible! Love it! Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 10:10 am
Becky P. Hurd
Some of the things I hear my kids saying while they play, I would never think of and it makes me laugh out loud. Great advice!
November 9, 2014 at 10:12 am
3011mileswestofvt
“Future possible” tense gives me much to think about. I loved the reminder too, to spend time among our future possible audience.
November 9, 2014 at 10:13 am
Anita Banks
Thank you for a wonderful idea!
November 9, 2014 at 10:18 am
Charlotte
Thank you, Sandra, for reminding us to “listen to the children”! One of my favorite books when I was small was called The Magic Wagon. (I still have it more than a half century later!)
It didn’t matter to me that the characters were boys. I wanted to hear the story read over and over again, to visualize the wonderful fun they had pretending they were going places and doing things that I hadn’t thought a child had the power to do. This post is one to which I will return!
November 9, 2014 at 10:18 am
pathaap
This was so inspiring to me, Sandra. Thank you so much for your thoughts and insight.
November 9, 2014 at 10:21 am
Priya Gopal
thank you for sharing
November 9, 2014 at 10:24 am
Elizabeth Metz
Well, this is…something: “Children know that sometimes the best answer is to sprout a pair of wings (or a jetpack) and take off for the next mountain.”
That’s absurdly close to the plot twist in the draft I finished last night. Eerily close, I tell you. I hope that means I’m on the right track! 😉
November 9, 2014 at 10:30 am
Zach Ratcliffe
Terrific stuff! -Zach Ratcliffe
November 9, 2014 at 10:31 am
Kelly Ramsdell Fineman
Lots of notes from today’s post, particularly on the idea of the “future possible” tense. So. Great.
November 9, 2014 at 10:33 am
tphumiruk
Oh wow! Sandra, your thoughts ring true with me! Thank you for your very compassionate perspective of writing for children.
November 9, 2014 at 10:38 am
Pat Miller
Inspiration lives with children! Best wishes to you and your daughter.
November 9, 2014 at 10:38 am
Martha
Wow, reading your post gave me quite a few ideas. I teach kindergarten, the perfect laboratory, and never take advantage of the play dialogue that happens in my class. Time to change that. Martha
November 9, 2014 at 10:39 am
Sarah Skolfield
I love that you filled a need for your own child and in that process have likely helped many more.
November 9, 2014 at 10:40 am
Susan Halko
Thanks for the insight, Sandra. Glad to know your blog, too.
November 9, 2014 at 10:41 am
Teresa
I love the term, “future possible tense.” I have two young children who inhabit that place of imagination frequently and I am lucky enough to overhear them and gather some treasures each time.
November 9, 2014 at 10:41 am
Debbie Wagenbach
You are right. Kids are idea generators! Thank you for the fun post.
November 9, 2014 at 10:46 am
Cindy Greene
Nice perspective. Love the future tense!
November 9, 2014 at 10:47 am
Doreen E. Lepore
Thanks – great advice!
November 9, 2014 at 10:48 am
Kristen Yakubisin
PiBoIdMo is a great time to grab my wild horses and take off! It’s already a fun, wild ride!
November 9, 2014 at 10:51 am
Joseph Miller
Thanks for sharing your story and ideas. 😉
November 9, 2014 at 10:59 am
Megan Freeman
I’m going to start living in future possible tense. 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 11:01 am
Emmeline Hall
Thank you for sharing!
November 9, 2014 at 11:02 am
dsi1nyu
Future possible!
November 9, 2014 at 11:07 am
danielledufayet
sound advice. Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 11:08 am
jngallaher
I love the whole idea behind Future Possible Tense, and the collaboration that’s inherent in the term between speakers. It would be fun if adults speak like this more often!
November 9, 2014 at 11:08 am
kathyh1121
Thank you for suggesting yet another reason for spending time with my grandchildren.
November 9, 2014 at 11:10 am
kathalsey
Future possible tense is so positive. I want to play, too. TY for this really cheery note this AM, I was feeling present negative for the last 2 days.
November 9, 2014 at 11:11 am
Donna Rossman
Thank you Sandra, inspiring post, gives me continued hope for two of my books. Loved the covers and titles of your books. Looking forward to reading them! 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 11:12 am
Rita Allmon
Thanks Sandra for sharing this post with us. Necessity is sometimes the mother of inspiration.
November 9, 2014 at 11:14 am
August Washington
Future Possible Tense:) That’s.awesome. Thank you for your wonderful words.
November 9, 2014 at 11:23 am
StephWJ
I think I hace a daughter with wild horses, too! Thanks for the inspiration.
November 9, 2014 at 11:24 am
hmmmmm
I liked your capturing of the way that kids — in play that’s social — use questions to make statements. I googled to see if Future Possible is truly considered a tense and couldn’t come up with anything. But the idea that it might be an invention — and one that comes from kids and their play — somehow makes it even more compelling!!
November 9, 2014 at 11:32 am
tinawissner
What wonderful insight.
November 9, 2014 at 11:34 am
Cindy S
What a wonderful gift of love to your daughter.
November 9, 2014 at 11:36 am
Celeste Elbert
Children are always my inspiration as their ideas are amazing! Thank you for your thoughtful post.
November 9, 2014 at 11:37 am
Lori Mozdzierz
Listening to the innocence of a child is an amazing tool for writing and can present many life lessons to adults.
November 9, 2014 at 11:41 am
Susan Cabael
Inspiration out of the mouths of babes–of course!
November 9, 2014 at 11:42 am
Klmcmorranmaus
I love the idea of Future Possible Tense. Thank you for sharing.
November 9, 2014 at 11:46 am
cantsing1
So glad you were able to publish books to meet your child’s needs. Right on, woman! and thanks for Future Possible . . ..
November 9, 2014 at 11:51 am
loriannlevyholm
Listening is a vital skill for most things, yet often is undervalued.
November 9, 2014 at 11:56 am
Kelly Vavala
I love spending time with my 6yr old grandson (soon to be 7, as he clearly states!!) I get lost in the innocence, the simplicity, the imagination!! When my son was getting his tonsils out as a toddler, I searched for a book to explain to him how it would feel. Like you, I couldn’t find one so I wrote it for him. complete with illustrations (computer driven) Fitting the child’s needs is what it’s all about! thank you for sharing this wonderful post and your time with us!
November 9, 2014 at 12:01 pm
artsfusionmethod
Thank you for this meaningful commentary on writing to transform the lives of young readers. We grown ups may have no idea how our story can motivate an uplift a child who may hold it in his or her heart forever.
November 9, 2014 at 12:03 pm
LovableLobo
Kids are glorious! Their curiosity, and imagination never cease to amaze me. Thanks for the inspiring post, Sandra!
November 9, 2014 at 12:11 pm
Ann K
That is so true about what kids say as they play. Thanks for the inspiration!
November 9, 2014 at 12:11 pm
Sydney O'Neill
Four of the six children camped out at my house were still giggling at 11:00 last night so we told made-up stories to each other. Yes, their imaginations are wonderful, and I have at least one new PiBoIdMo idea based on a combination of their future possibilities.
November 9, 2014 at 12:12 pm
Robyn Campbell
Bodaciously thoughtful post. I agree. I listen to children whenever I have the chance. EVEN one child playing the game of pretend can spark fantastical ideas for writing. Super inspiring, Sandra. Cheers and keep listening.
November 9, 2014 at 12:12 pm
Lori Dubbin
When children pretend play they are trying out possibilities. Thanks for reminding us to listen to their “future possible tense” and the gems they offer for problem solving. Your daughter is blessed with a mom who listens well. I look forward to reading your stories and visiting your blog.
November 9, 2014 at 12:15 pm
lmquraishi
What if I lived today in the future possible tense? I think I might have a pretty fun day, with a PB idea somewhere in it for me. Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 12:19 pm
Judy Cox
I love the idea of “future possible tense”.
November 9, 2014 at 12:21 pm
Marty McCormick
What a gift to your daughter. A book, two actually, inspired by her! Thanks for your insights today. Marty McCormick
November 9, 2014 at 12:22 pm
Henry Herz
And now I have to come up with 30 PB ideas? 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 12:24 pm
artsfusionmethod
Hi Tara ,
I posted a reply yesterday and today and did not see either of my posts.
I’m new to posting on blogs, but I did sign in with word press and followed the directions.. Argh.
This is a really great challenge and I’m totally doing the work so I want to be sure I’m doing things right.
Or.. Can I just post on Facebook?
Sorry to bug you at a busy time.
Donna
Sent from my iPhone
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November 9, 2014 at 12:26 pm
hummingbird13
Wonderful tips. Thank you.
November 9, 2014 at 12:39 pm
debra daugherty
My writing started because of my nieces and nephews. They loved the stories I’d tell them, so I started writing them on paper. Children are a great source of inspiration.
November 9, 2014 at 12:42 pm
Mary Jane
Nice post. I’m going to spend some time thinking about conversations I’ve had with the little guys in my life. I forgot how creative they are when it comes to stories.
November 9, 2014 at 12:44 pm
Penny Parker Klostermann
Thanks, Sandra. I love that you wrote the books that your daughter needed. That’s awesome. Thanks for the tips 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 12:49 pm
Shawna JC Tenney
Excellent! I somehow always forget that my kids are such a great source for picture books!
November 9, 2014 at 12:51 pm
Daryl Gottier
Thanks for sharing with us.
November 9, 2014 at 12:52 pm
Shirley Menendez
Kids are certainly an inspiration. Thanks for the post.
November 9, 2014 at 12:54 pm
Pam Miller
I read that you have four children. Me too, but they are adults now. Tears, yes. And, grandchildren, sometimes in my care, are my reward & inspiration. I find more time to listen-like your very good suggestion. Thank you.
November 9, 2014 at 1:05 pm
Donna L Martin
I really enjoyed this post and it even gave me an idea for a PB so all I can say is thank you, thank you, thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 1:05 pm
Sandy Powell
Isn’t it amazing how we can find story ideas any where? And what better place than our children. Thanks for the post!
November 9, 2014 at 1:06 pm
Annie Cronin Romano
I enjoyed your post! Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 1:08 pm
Hayley B
Picture book writers do well to dwell in possibility. Thanks for a great post, Sandra!
November 9, 2014 at 1:15 pm
Nicole Popel
I have never considered writing something in the future tense, Sandra. You have given me something to think about.
I f I should win the give-away, please write a message tot he Little Free Library Walnut on it. After I read it several times, I will put it inside my box of books in the front yard. 😀
November 9, 2014 at 1:22 pm
Jodi Moore
Children are the bestest source of inspiration! Thanks for sharing…and I hope your stories helped your sweet little one. I’m sure they helped multitudes of others as well. ❤
November 9, 2014 at 1:26 pm
beckylevine
Thanks for the reminder about our audience!
November 9, 2014 at 1:28 pm
Andi
Thank you for a great post : )
November 9, 2014 at 1:31 pm
Carrie Charley Brown
You are so right, Sandra! The majority of my ideas have come from being around my own kids or my students. For those that don’t have kids around them everyday, observations at the library, mall, or other location will give you some ideas. 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 1:34 pm
Freckled Daisy Creations
This post speaks clearly to me. Beautiful things come from a need for them, and many of those needs are shared!
November 9, 2014 at 1:45 pm
Stephanie Geckle (@SPGeckle)
Thank you for the reminder that these stories are gifts to children. Sometimes, when deep in the writing of technical submission letters to grownups, it’s easy to lose track of that! And I love the future possible tense. Very nice post 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 1:55 pm
Deborah Patz
So true that children have a unique perspective on life.
November 9, 2014 at 1:58 pm
sherry alexander
Writing to help a child is what writing for kids is all about for me.
November 9, 2014 at 2:02 pm
danielle hammelef
Excellent post. I love how ideas are found. Thanks for the giveaway!
November 9, 2014 at 2:04 pm
Maria Oka
Wonderful post! As a mother of three young girls, I sometimes think I should put off writing until they are older, but they are the reason I started writing and they give me daily inspiration, so there is no better time than now!
November 9, 2014 at 2:05 pm
mariagianferrari
Thanks for the great tense tips, Sandra! I feel some new future possible ideas brewing!
November 9, 2014 at 2:14 pm
Nancy Armo
Inspiring post. Like the future tense tips.
November 9, 2014 at 2:15 pm
Debra Shumaker
Future possible tense. Love it! Thanks.
November 9, 2014 at 2:15 pm
Therese Nagi
Sandra thanks for sharing great tips on possible future tense. You never know how our s5ories will influence children.
November 9, 2014 at 2:22 pm
Cat
Lots of my ideas are inspired by my daughter’s random observations and questions. I’m so glad you were able to write picture books in response to your daughter’s needs.
November 9, 2014 at 2:25 pm
Marcy P.
It’s true… spending time with children will tell us what books are needed. I have found that too. Thanks for sharing!
November 9, 2014 at 2:26 pm
Debbie Austin
Sandra, thank you for introducing me to the future possible tense. Truly inspiring to me on many levels.
November 9, 2014 at 2:35 pm
nicolezoltack
Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 2:37 pm
hethfeth
The children’s statements in your post trigger another thought for me. They both begin with “And”. I once typed out a story for my little daughter as she dictated it to me. Every sentence began with “And”. The creative strand–adding one thing, then another, then another…like a string of beads–was so evident in her thought process. I’ve tried to let that inspire my writing efforts. When you get stuck, just say “And”! That’s when the wings and rocket pack show up.
November 9, 2014 at 2:40 pm
Anne Lei-Yeung So
As a kindergarten teacher, the use of stories and books to help children understand and experience the world around them is incredible.
November 9, 2014 at 3:00 pm
Jenifer McNamara
Interesting story. I just like books too much not to try to write them for someone else to enjoy.
November 9, 2014 at 3:05 pm
Joanne Sher
Beautiful reminder – the future possible is such a great phrase. Holding on to that one. THANKS!
November 9, 2014 at 3:06 pm
Lisa Robinson
Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 3:10 pm
Doris Stone
Great ideas, Sandra. Thank you so much.
November 9, 2014 at 3:11 pm
katmaz2012
Love this idea! It just might be what I need to get unstuck. Thank you for a new way of looking at stories.
November 9, 2014 at 3:13 pm
lgalaske
Thanks for the great advice!
November 9, 2014 at 3:23 pm
viji
Thank you for your post and introducing me to the future possible tense!
November 9, 2014 at 3:32 pm
Julie
Sometimes the same basic advice is needed by the adult reading the story as well. We get too far away from our hearts, and dreams.
November 9, 2014 at 3:36 pm
Patricia Saunders
I enjoyed your post. As a former art teacher, I’d have to agree with everything you said. My son inspired me with an incident that really happened. Great idea for a pb!
November 9, 2014 at 4:05 pm
Sandie Sing
I loved your post. I have taught elementary grades for 34 years. My favorites were my K-2 due to the language arts component with literature books (picture books). I was a thematic theme teacher. I would adventure into the book stores and come out with my $60. worth of books once a month.
Books made an impression with me as a young child. The pictures came lividly alive in front of me, as my teachers would read the stories. Picture books gave children another fantasy: couple of minutes away from their hectic world.
Your share gave the importance and a reminder the importance of children book writing/illustration with children, and how grasping for ideas from the children’s world would be a great inspiration for all. Thanks!
November 9, 2014 at 3:53 pm
Nancy Colle
Interesting post! The future is an open book.
November 9, 2014 at 4:04 pm
Ann Bentley
Thank you. I enjoyed your post.
November 9, 2014 at 4:06 pm
kirsticall
I love how you wrote you stories in response to your daughter’s needs! I write most of my stories because of something one of my kids has done or said…I can’t wait to check out your books!
November 9, 2014 at 4:10 pm
teresarobeson
Wow! Someone who didn’t actually dream of becoming a writer being a writer! That cracks me up for some reason. I’ve never thought of future possible tense before. It’s a very interesting concept that I’ll keep in mind for brainstorming. Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 4:11 pm
rubineleanor
A weekend with two of my grandchildren is coming up. I’ll be listening.
November 9, 2014 at 4:16 pm
Beth Blee
Sandra, thanks for sharing how you met your own daughters need through writing books. I like your comment: “Stories are gifts to the children who read them.” Indeed, your book was a gift to your daughter and to others who have read your books. Thanks for your post and time.
November 9, 2014 at 4:24 pm
jdewdropsofink
It’s so true! I’ve never really noticed but my kids to say “And then…” all the time. Loved this.
November 9, 2014 at 4:25 pm
Rebecca
I’m kinda like you, Sandra, in that I too kind of stumbled upon writing for children after having children of my own. I was always a poet, but never thought my writing would take me that direction! I love the idea of a future possible tense. Now to go to do some brainstorming!
November 9, 2014 at 4:25 pm
Nancy Ramsey
Thoughtful post with great advice! Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 4:27 pm
Marge Gower
Great advice. I just told my daughter to write down some of the things my almost two on 12/12/14 says. I would love to use them for a picture book. For a such a young child, she already has a vivid imagination. She’s only allowed to watch Dr. McStuffins on TV, so her imagination is not from TV watching. She amazes me. Maybe she’ll write a book.
November 9, 2014 at 4:33 pm
Marge Gower
Sorry, I got so excited about what you said that I rambled on. You were very open and alert to your daughter’s needs and that resulted in something that will help other children in the same situation. That’s what we all aim for and listening to them is the best way to do it. thank you for your post. I hope I will succeed in doing this for a child or two. 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 4:37 pm
saputnam
Terrific post, Sandra! “Future possible tense” is something that I’m certainly going to use as I look to add magic and whimsy to my stories!
November 9, 2014 at 4:46 pm
Amy Harding
I find so much inspiration and motivation from my children…it is so true!
November 9, 2014 at 4:59 pm
Elizabeth Brown
Thanks for this inspiring post!
November 9, 2014 at 5:00 pm
melsul09
What a simple task that can lead to something wonderful!!!
November 9, 2014 at 5:00 pm
daynesislendesign
Thank you so much for your inspiration. “And then I grew wings?” will be my new favorite quote.
November 9, 2014 at 5:06 pm
Stephanie Shaw
Sandra, thank you for your excellent post. Your writing journey reminded me of the author Joy Cowley. Joy had a son who was struggling with reading — she knew the kind of stories he would enjoy. Six hundred (yep, 600) published books later, she is still going strong.
November 9, 2014 at 5:11 pm
Kathy Johnson
Thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 5:12 pm
Heather Steffens
Sweet!
November 9, 2014 at 5:16 pm
Andrea Poppleton
YES. This is the kind of children’s book author I want to be — one who writes in response to an in anticipation of the needs of children. Thank you.
November 9, 2014 at 5:16 pm
shirley johnson
Wonderful post!
November 9, 2014 at 5:24 pm
Stephan Stuecklin
Being intentional with and attentive to kids never fails to reward me. If they throw in a story idea as a bonus, all the better. Thanks for the reminder!
November 9, 2014 at 5:29 pm
Julie Durr
Thank you for this wonderful post.
November 9, 2014 at 5:34 pm
Sherri Jones Rivers
I like your statement that “stories are gifts to the children who read them.” Who doesn’t love giving or getting a gift from someone they love?
November 9, 2014 at 5:54 pm
erikammon
Future-Possible Tense…I can hear it, and see it. Now to use it to sprout a jetpack to some ideas and a story.
November 9, 2014 at 5:56 pm
Isabelle Barth
Ah, yes… the need of the children….that is exactly my aim… I wish to give them the gift of a book about… let’s keep it secret for this month
November 9, 2014 at 5:57 pm
Meridth Gimbel
Good advice! Thanks for the post.
November 9, 2014 at 6:00 pm
Jacqueline
Great advice about spending time with your audience. I think that’s how the best ideas get their start. Thanks for sharing!
November 9, 2014 at 6:09 pm
June Smalls
Children are the source of the greatest ideas! My own daughter asked if I’d write about her or get ideas from her and I just laughed and said half my ideas have come from her, her friends, and other kids in the family. They are amusing muses.
November 9, 2014 at 6:10 pm
Janet Halfmann
I love the idea of “future possible tense.” Thanks for sharing.
November 9, 2014 at 6:14 pm
Lauri Fortino
Having no children, I am constantly observing other people’s kids. Very good advice and nice post!
November 9, 2014 at 6:18 pm
Carol Jones
I haven’t read either of these books yet, but I’d love to.
November 9, 2014 at 6:22 pm
Christy Mihaly
Good ideas here paying attention to the details of how kids interact with the world and one another — thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 6:27 pm
Tarryn Lean (@TarrynLean)
Necessity of course! Now I have a few more ideas up my sleeve taking that into account, thanks for the great advice.
November 9, 2014 at 6:31 pm
DianeKHower
Just love “stories as gifts”. Yes, they are! Thank You.
November 9, 2014 at 6:39 pm
Sandy Perlic
You’ve captured kids’ conversations perfectly! Thanks for your thoughtful post.
November 9, 2014 at 6:51 pm
Tom Barrett
Need to keep a small pad with me at all times. I have forgotten many a great line from my kids as a result (or I don’t quote it the same as it was said). Good advice here!
November 9, 2014 at 6:57 pm
Janet Smart
Your book covers are so cute. My kids are grown now and I don’t have any grandkids yet, but last night we were watching old home movies of when my kids were very small. I think there may be some good ideas hiding in those home movies.
November 9, 2014 at 6:57 pm
Nina Haines
Thanks for sharing.
November 9, 2014 at 7:17 pm
tpierce
Great advice, but with my son grown and no grandkids, I guess I get to go eavesdrop on kids at the park. Without it seeming too creepy!
November 9, 2014 at 7:21 pm
LeeAnn Jensen
Thank you so much!
November 9, 2014 at 7:25 pm
Caroline E. Brown
Thanks for the thoughtfulness of your post. It was wonderful!
November 9, 2014 at 7:33 pm
kathydoherty1
Thanks for sharing your story. As a teacher, I also know the value of bibliotherapy. The right book in the hands of a child can make all the difference.
November 9, 2014 at 7:34 pm
Romelle Broas
Children are a great source of inspiration. I can’t wait to read your books, Sandra. Wild horses for a wild imagination. I love that.
November 9, 2014 at 7:39 pm
telainamuir
This was perfect timing as my idea for today came from kids (most of my ideas do). Thank you for sharing your experience and expertise Sandra!
November 9, 2014 at 7:39 pm
Cassandra Federman
Truly great advice!
November 9, 2014 at 7:46 pm
Bethany Roberts
So true! Just went to a birthday party for a 3 year old today and got an idea just by watching the kids playing.
November 9, 2014 at 7:46 pm
Jill Siegel
Beautiful post! Thanks! 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 7:51 pm
Heather Kelso
Thank you for sharing some great advice.I have my notepad close at hand when I go to kid’s birthday parties or get around my nieces and nephews. My goal this week is to think in the future possible tense.
November 9, 2014 at 7:55 pm
jshaklan
And then I wrote a picture book manuscript that agents and publishers scrambled over each other to print? Just practicing my future possible tense… Thanks for the great ideas!
November 9, 2014 at 7:59 pm
Lorraine Donohue Bonzelet
Wonderful story! Thanks for sharing.
November 9, 2014 at 8:01 pm
Jennifer Cheng DesAutels
I love that kids speak that way, and never realized it had an identity. It is such a perfect term! Thank you for sharing it!
November 9, 2014 at 8:10 pm
Jennifer Huls
Kids do say the funniest things – and by listening carefully we can spark our own imagination thanks for reminding me to look for and listen to stories !!
November 9, 2014 at 8:12 pm
BLAHM
My daughter is 3.75 years old. She is 95.3% of my inspiration.
November 9, 2014 at 8:17 pm
Prairie Garden Girl
Sandra: Children are such a special gift. Sharing the gift of reading with children is special. Time to practice writing in *future possible tense.* ~Suzy Leopold
November 9, 2014 at 8:18 pm
Claire Vita
I’m really looking forward to reading your books. Thanks for the phrase future possible tense.
November 9, 2014 at 8:38 pm
rgstones
Thanks for the post. I definitely have a child filled with wild ideas, and I’m excited to read your books.
November 9, 2014 at 8:39 pm
Heather Hatch
My kids call those games “We be..’s”. Appreciated your insight, it sent me to your blog. So relevant, and can relate to much. I share some. Can comprehend the rest. Ahh, but when I got to the sac. meeting prog., I was just there! :). Thank you for writing…and putting it out. Worth it.
November 9, 2014 at 8:42 pm
Laura rackham
Too perfect. As an elementary counselor, I saw too often the need for the right story for kids to connect with. Well done.
November 9, 2014 at 8:43 pm
Christine M. Irvin
Great advice. Thanks for sharing!
November 9, 2014 at 8:47 pm
gabisnyder
Thanks for the inspiration and the reminder to listen to and think like kids — in the future possible tense.
November 9, 2014 at 8:48 pm
Genevieve Petrillo
Fun, new, and unusual take on idea-getting. Back in the day, my future-possible statement-question was always, “NEXT time we play, I can be Glinda, the good Witch of the North…?”
November 9, 2014 at 8:51 pm
Sue Heavenrich
Stories born of necessity – and imagination to help overcome those obstacles! great inspiration, thanks.
November 9, 2014 at 8:55 pm
Hélène Sabourin
I love listening to children. I totally agree that knowing the audience should be the starting point.
November 9, 2014 at 9:01 pm
kpbock
Great advice!
November 9, 2014 at 9:04 pm
shiela fuller
Dear Sandra: Thank you for sharing with us the source of your inspiration and encouraging us to find ours, too.
November 9, 2014 at 9:20 pm
Deirdre Englehart
Thank you for your ideas! Children are inspirational!
November 9, 2014 at 9:24 pm
l8k8
Thanks for the great advise.
November 9, 2014 at 9:26 pm
Carol Federoff
Future Possible Tense is a great concept. Thank you… your books sound wonderful. I haven’t read them yet but the titles are going on my library search list! 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 9:28 pm
Theresa Love
Taking time to be with kids is a must. Don’t forget to take time to interact with kids you don’t know or that aren’t related to you, too. Thanks for sharing another way to get ideas.
November 9, 2014 at 9:33 pm
SevenAcreSky
Sandra, thanks for the inspiration and insight. I have a granddaughter who, now that she is in kindergarten, is not around as much…I’m missing ideas! Writing for kids using kid-sourced ideas is basically refining gold extracted from the mine.
November 9, 2014 at 9:43 pm
Shari Della Penna
Here’s to future possible where dreams can be real.
November 9, 2014 at 9:45 pm
Juliana Lee
I never thought of kids’ play as being in Future Possible Tense… great observation! (And, so glad this post wasn’t about Future Possible Tests which is what I read at first glance.)
November 9, 2014 at 9:49 pm
Ruth Ferris
Last year one of my students asked, “Where are the books about water sprinklers?” I had to explain they hadn’t been written yet. Hmm
November 9, 2014 at 9:50 pm
Meredith Pinkstone
Thanks so much for your advice!
November 9, 2014 at 9:52 pm
Buffy Silverman
Love the idea of future possible tense!
November 9, 2014 at 9:54 pm
Vicki Wilke
Love the “future possible tense” and the idea of each story being the answer to a child’s need. Thank you Sandra.
November 9, 2014 at 9:55 pm
Kathleen
I love your recommendation to “go to your audience” and find out what they need/want. It’s so true! We get stuck in “our” story, sometimes forgetting our audience. Thank you.
November 9, 2014 at 9:57 pm
Tracy
“Future Possible Tense” – great way of looking at it and so true. Thanks for sharing your story of how you became an author.
November 9, 2014 at 9:59 pm
Laura Purdie Salas
What a fresh angle on picture book writing–thank you!
November 9, 2014 at 10:03 pm
kdveiten
What a beautiful way to minister to your child’s needs. Thanks for sharing!
November 9, 2014 at 10:09 pm
Cat Clerkin
Aw! Thanks for sharing! I love the idea of writing stories to help children!
November 9, 2014 at 10:17 pm
Laura Bellina
I love watching children because their imagination is wild and free.
November 9, 2014 at 10:20 pm
viviankirkfield
Thank you so much for an inspiring post, Sandra! We just moved to live closer to our 6-yr old grandson…he definitely speaks in the future possible tense. 😉 I love your advice to learn what children love, what they worry about and what they cry over…and I just wrote my November 12×12 draft based on your advice. YAY!
November 9, 2014 at 10:32 pm
angiekarcher
I love that you wrote the books that your daughter needed! Your advice about spending time with children is truly the best way to bring yourself into their mindset.
November 9, 2014 at 10:35 pm
Mary McClellan
Great post!
November 9, 2014 at 10:38 pm
Michael Karg
Thanks, Sandra! Anything is possible. Dream well.
November 9, 2014 at 10:42 pm
Janine Johns
Thank you for sharing! I love your post. I spent the weekend with my granddaughters and love listening to their dialogue.
November 9, 2014 at 10:45 pm
Dawn Young
Thank you – very interesting. Just focusing on a new take or twist from a past experience can make you forget to look at what the future could bring.
November 9, 2014 at 10:52 pm
Dana Murphy
I love this. It gives me a whole new way to come up with ideas. I have two daughters – ages 2 and 5 – and there are many times I think, “I wish I could find a book about fill-in-the-blank”. Guess I’ll have to write one myself.
November 9, 2014 at 10:56 pm
Karen Calloway
This reminds me of speaking with kids in Kindergarten, when asking for questions, and getting “tells”, which must be past future tense???
Really, thank you for the excellent advice.
November 9, 2014 at 11:00 pm
CJ Lucas
Great post and great idea. My 3 yr old has inspired several stories. Love a child’s mind and view of the world.
November 9, 2014 at 11:03 pm
Jane Heitman Healy
Future possible–YES!
November 9, 2014 at 11:06 pm
Janny J Johnson
Thank you, Sandra! I love finding a new perspective.
November 9, 2014 at 11:06 pm
Janie Reinart
Sandra, I love that your gift of story filled a need. Thank you for the post.
November 9, 2014 at 11:09 pm
Dani Duck
I’m sure my son is going to need a lot of stories in the future. Thank you for your post. I definitely can’t ignore the things my son loves. We sing the “Transformers” song loudly at any given moment.
I love the drawings on your books. What luck that you got such a great artist for your book. The story must be really good… I’m going to have to read it!
November 9, 2014 at 11:11 pm
Heidi Yates
Thank you Sandra. Children are a great source of inspiration, and listening to them is great advice.
November 9, 2014 at 11:12 pm
jhayslett
Interesting to read about your entry into the world of picture-book writing, Sandra. My children also led me in that direction. In fact, my start as a published writer came about because I liked to write about my children. Even then, rather than thinking of myself as a children’s book author. I just started writing stories for my children. Thanks for sharing your journey with us!
November 9, 2014 at 11:15 pm
lbouck09
I just love listening to children having conversations amongst themselves! Thank you so much for your great post! 🙂
November 9, 2014 at 11:15 pm
Shirley Timberlake Fadden
I guess kids know what they need; we just need to listen. Thanks!
November 9, 2014 at 11:46 pm
Maria Bostian
Think I’ll spend some time observing children. It’s been a while since I’ve done that, but your post was a reminder that I need to connect with my audience.
November 9, 2014 at 11:50 pm
Julie Murphy
Lovely post, and great inspiration. Thank you.
November 10, 2014 at 12:01 am
MaryAnne Locher
That’s some spot-on advice. I’m always inspired by the little ones in my life.
November 10, 2014 at 12:07 am
Susie Sawyer
I totally believe this: “Stories are gifts to the children who read them.” Great post!
November 10, 2014 at 12:07 am
rmcg14
I needed that little reminder to open my eyes to my children…
November 10, 2014 at 12:08 am
Ashley Bankhead
Thank you for reminding us to spend time with children. That is the best place to find ideas. I also loved when you talked about how children make a statement in the innotation of a question. This is so true. I’m now ready to go ease drop on my kid’s conversations. 🙂 I would also like to read your books. Thanks again.
November 10, 2014 at 12:15 am
tanjabauerle
How true! My girl are a great inspiration and provide picture book inspiration without even trying. One of my ideas today came directly from my youngest. Happy creating. T
November 10, 2014 at 12:17 am
Jessica Miller-Nims
Yes, people definitely need to know how children think and act, instead of trying to “remember” when they were kids.
November 10, 2014 at 12:24 am
Linda Baie
Stories are gifts… It’s a beautifully inspiring post, to go into the world of those we wish to write for, and listen. Thanks for the wise and inspirational words.
November 10, 2014 at 12:49 am
rowenarae
Superb advice! Children say and do so many wonderful, extraordinary, questionable, and crazy things — loads of possibility for a writer.
November 10, 2014 at 12:56 am
Jenna Woloshyn
I have twin toddlers, I’m not gonna spend any more time with kids than I have to. 😉 Kidding, they’re definitely inspirations.
November 10, 2014 at 12:57 am
becki wilson
love the story of your stories… and the possibility of future possible tense for grownups? to solve the world, maybe? imagine! enchanting thought, that! but then, i am a TOTAL believer in picture books for adults! gratitude!
November 10, 2014 at 12:58 am
Yvonne Mes
Thank you for those wise words!
November 10, 2014 at 1:11 am
Judith Snyder
Love the possibilities in the future possible tense…what if?
November 10, 2014 at 1:27 am
Naana Kyereboah
Stories are gifts to children. A gift is cherished, This gives writing for children a new perspective. Thanks, Sandra
November 10, 2014 at 1:41 am
Kathryn Ault Noble
I wish I had written down the imaginative stories my sons came up with. I’ll have to go on a quest to find children that have permission to talk to strangers with pencils and paper. Thanks for the tips! I look forward to reading your books.
November 10, 2014 at 2:05 am
Kira Kia Fruit Nims
I love playing with children and taking part in their wonderful imaginative worlds. Its a blessing to be able to hold on to that imagination and share it with as many as possible. Thank you Sandra for pointing this out.
November 10, 2014 at 3:18 am
Pauline Johnson
Kids, they know best.
November 10, 2014 at 3:24 am
Laurie L Young
I love that your daughter’s needs created 2 books for her. I get a lot of ideas watching children play.
November 10, 2014 at 3:52 am
Melanie Ellsworth
Sandra, this is great advice. I mine so many great ideas from my daughter, but I could be even more observant. Your suggestion to pay attention to what kids worry about just gave me an idea for a story!
November 10, 2014 at 4:07 am
Carrie O'Neill
Great ideas for tuning into my daughters in new way. Thank you!
November 10, 2014 at 5:20 am
Jo Brown
great inspiration, thanks!
November 10, 2014 at 7:30 am
Rita Zobayan
Two ideas for my picture books came from watching my kids play. They’re a great inspiration.
November 10, 2014 at 8:17 am
Amanda Banks
Great advice! Thank you.
November 10, 2014 at 8:33 am
Erin O'Brien
Wonderful advice! Thank you!
November 10, 2014 at 8:46 am
Jan Milusich
Here’s to future possible!
November 10, 2014 at 9:00 am
Mary Warth
Thanks for pointing out the future possible. It makes me think more closely about what I observe.
November 10, 2014 at 9:15 am
Carolyn Rohrbaugh
Very informative! Thank you
November 10, 2014 at 9:27 am
Jennifer Larson
Such cute titles and I love the artwork on the cover. I can bet the stories are equally as adorable! Look forward to reading both!
November 10, 2014 at 9:53 am
Mary Worley
I enjoyed this post. I’ve added One Cobble at a Time to my list.
November 10, 2014 at 9:54 am
Corey Finkle
I confess that, whenever I struggle at all for new ideas, I observe or talk to one of my kids, and find many MANY angles to pursue.
Thanks for sharing!
November 10, 2014 at 10:30 am
Tracey M. Cox
Future Possible Tense… Love it! Isn’t wonderful how anything is possible when you are a child.
November 10, 2014 at 10:40 am
Carella Herberger
I love this post! That is kids, exactly!
November 10, 2014 at 11:09 am
Jill Tadros (@PopTheWall)
I’d never thought about it, but that is exactly what my children and their friends do. Must grab pencil and listen in!
November 10, 2014 at 11:12 am
Shel LeDrew
Great tips thank you!
November 10, 2014 at 11:14 am
Sita Singh
Thanks for reminding us that children are a great source of inspiration!
November 10, 2014 at 11:27 am
Karen
I, too, get so many inspirations from my child. Thank you for this post.
November 10, 2014 at 11:27 am
Nadine Gamble
Maria Montessori said, “I have studied the child, I have taken what the child has given me and expressed it…” She was speaking about how she developed her methods of education, but this quote seems to apply to writers and especially with your blog post.
November 10, 2014 at 11:28 am
Donna L. Sadd
Good tips, thanks Sandra. :0)
November 10, 2014 at 11:29 am
Nicole Turner
I love this! I often think about books my kids need or would enjoy
November 10, 2014 at 11:37 am
Shannon Quinn-Schneck
Whoa…I love it!
What a great idea that really addresses an issue that needs some positive attention. Wish I’d had it when my son was young.
November 10, 2014 at 11:39 am
Micki Ginsberg
Thank you, Sandra, for sharing what you feel so deeply… and for reminding us to immerse ourselves in what our readers are thinking and feeling.
November 10, 2014 at 11:52 am
Leslie Raith
Thanks for reminding us of the way kids really talk!
November 10, 2014 at 12:26 pm
Allyn Stotz
Thanks for sharing, Sandra! Great advice.
November 10, 2014 at 1:32 pm
JEN Garrett
Hmm… Future Possible Tense. It’s true.
November 10, 2014 at 1:33 pm
katiemillsgiorgio
What great messages…thank you for sharing!
November 10, 2014 at 1:46 pm
angelapadron
Fabulous post – thanks for sharing.
November 10, 2014 at 1:50 pm
Kathleen Wilson
Wonderful advice! Thanks so much, Sandra.
November 10, 2014 at 2:06 pm
Sue Poduska
Simmering is good. Thanks!
November 10, 2014 at 2:36 pm
csschwarz
Thinking the Future Possible Tense for myself (I regularly do it with my 3 year old!) Thanks for putting this into words!
November 10, 2014 at 2:53 pm
Dawn
Listen to the kiddos!
November 10, 2014 at 2:56 pm
Tracy Molitors
Thanks, Sandra. Your comments brought back some temporarily forgotten memories of my own kids conversations!
November 10, 2014 at 3:06 pm
kirsten percival
Thank you Sandra! Stories are gifts, and so is this post! Always good to be reminded that listening to my kids is mutually beneficial, as well as occasionally hilarious!
November 10, 2014 at 3:13 pm
Matt Tesoriero
I’m heading to the playground with my pad and pen.
November 10, 2014 at 3:29 pm
sardyhar
Future Possible tense is a beautiful concept. What a great way to describe the imaginative process of young children.
November 10, 2014 at 3:54 pm
Lauri Meyers
Listen to them. Good advice for writing and parenting.
November 10, 2014 at 4:25 pm
Kathryn Cunningham
I would love to do exactly what you’ve done. I think picture books are the perfect medium for addressing kids’ needs and concerns.
November 10, 2014 at 6:25 pm
Judith Wright Aplin
yew..yes..yes…my four year old granddaughter’s precious Papa Don has died and her questionings and imaginings are all story beginnings….Judith Wright aplin
November 10, 2014 at 6:57 pm
jby95
I am thinking I in the future possible tense….
November 10, 2014 at 6:58 pm
natalie15
Thank you for this advice . I teach second grade and sometimes take their ideas for granted. I can’t wait to tap into their needs AND wants when it comes to books this week .
November 10, 2014 at 7:38 pm
Bonnie
I always search for a book to help my kids out with whatever is going on at the time. A problem at school, home, with friends, siblings or just learning how to navigate this tricky world of ours. Kids have fabulous ideas.
November 10, 2014 at 7:40 pm
kateywrites
Such good advice! My crazy munchkins inspire me with both the things they say and do and the things I know they need. Some are things the child in me needs, too. Thank you.
November 10, 2014 at 7:42 pm
Karen Lawler
I am a good listener but having grandchildren has afforded me a chance to listen even better. Thanks for reminding me to REALLY listen!!!!
November 10, 2014 at 8:09 pm
Jim Chaize
I am just starting my retirement from teaching for 36 years, and Sandra made me want to go spend time with some children.
November 10, 2014 at 8:21 pm
Sheri Rad
You’ve peeked my curiosity to find the books and see why the horses need to be held. I spent time with 4th grade children today and they had some interesting journals to read aloud.
November 10, 2014 at 8:41 pm
stephseclecticinterests
It’s nice to read about someone else with eclectic interests … and your stories sound wonderful. (Plus, I love the cover art.)
November 10, 2014 at 8:43 pm
Pamela M. Tuck
Thanks for sharing!
November 10, 2014 at 9:39 pm
seschipper
So true…..being a Kindergarten and First grade teacher has always put me on the “learning” side of things !!! 🙂
November 10, 2014 at 10:18 pm
marciecolleen
A need. It all begins there. My need as a writer. And my readers’ needs for a story. Thank you.
November 10, 2014 at 10:41 pm
Sheila Hausbeck
I totally get it. I work with kids every day and they say the most remarkable things!
November 10, 2014 at 10:57 pm
zebrakitchens
Hummm, to work with my imagination and ask, “what might be possible in the next part of the game.” This is priceless advise. I may have to type this up and post it above my work space.
Thanks, Sandra
November 10, 2014 at 11:14 pm
laura516
I love the idea of the Future Possible tense. Thanks!
November 10, 2014 at 11:16 pm
Jeanette Bradley
Hold Onto Your Horses was a daily read for many years in our house. Thank you. It really helped my daughter too!
November 10, 2014 at 11:47 pm
trobinsondaly
I agree. We need to listen more to what comes out of the mouth of babes. So much goodness, funny and truth.
November 10, 2014 at 11:55 pm
Nat Keller
Thanks for your inspiring post!
November 11, 2014 at 12:20 am
Stephen S. Martin
I won’t grow up, I won’t grow up! I am my own child.
November 11, 2014 at 1:14 am
calisue
Love your tense ideas!
November 11, 2014 at 7:55 am
aliciaminor
That’s right. Children are good sources of ideas. We cannot ignore what comes out of their mouths. Another true experience worth sharing.
November 11, 2014 at 8:45 am
Jill Edmonds
Beautiful post, thank you
November 11, 2014 at 11:17 am
Kathy Cornell Berman
Thanks for posting Sandra! I like your suggestions!
November 11, 2014 at 12:18 pm
kariail2013
I love the future possible tense idea. Thanks for an inspiring post. Time to go play with my kiddos 🙂
November 11, 2014 at 12:22 pm
Michelle Cusolito
So true. Spend time with kids. That’s who we’re writing for, after all.
November 11, 2014 at 1:38 pm
Daniela Weil
I really really like your perspective. It’s sometimes so simple. Have a problem, solve it.
November 11, 2014 at 1:46 pm
wendymyersart
Oh, I really want to win your prize-your books look lovely. In the meantime I’ll have to find them and read them. 🙂 Thank you for a fun and helpful post.
November 11, 2014 at 1:46 pm
blbachmann
I love the idea that “stories are gifts to the children who read them.” Thinking of the story as filling a need or want for someone else is very powerful, as opposed to thinking of it as something you want. Whether it’s to feel love or magic or encouragement, etc., thinking of the reactions of the readers is a great way to get out of your own head. Thank you!
November 11, 2014 at 2:26 pm
emilie288
thanks for sharing!
November 11, 2014 at 2:55 pm
kmshelley
Thanks Sandra! Great reminder about our audience.
November 11, 2014 at 3:29 pm
Jay Polowski
So many good thoughts to ponder…you must have a full plate each day… thanks for you encouragement.
November 11, 2014 at 3:38 pm
Dorothy Wiese
Thank you for your good ideas, Sandra. I love your ideas of helping children.
November 11, 2014 at 5:04 pm
Joan Kassmann
Great food for thought … Thank you!
November 11, 2014 at 6:43 pm
mbeaversillustration
Great post! Thanks for sharing!!
November 11, 2014 at 7:06 pm
mariajcuesta
So true! I have written My first stories to help My kids in specific things they needed. I feel so related to your post.
Thank you!!!
November 11, 2014 at 7:33 pm
Alberto Martín - NiñoCactus
I stole questions to the children. They are the starting point for many of my stories. I love listening to them. Thanks!
November 11, 2014 at 9:39 pm
gasamie
This is the best idea, to write a book that a child needs. I love this.
November 12, 2014 at 5:48 am
pattyjohnson777
We share the same story in finding creativity in providing stories to our children who desperately need them. Love the post. Thanks so much.
November 12, 2014 at 10:26 am
Lindsay Bonilla
What great ideas Sandra!! I love your advice to consider WHO we are writing for and to dive into the Future Possible Tense! 🙂
November 12, 2014 at 12:17 pm
ducks33
Great suggestion to hang out with children and listen to how they talk. We forget as adults that their minds are wide open.
November 12, 2014 at 2:01 pm
Rachel Anderson
Sandra, both books sound delightful! Thanks for your Piboidmo post.
November 12, 2014 at 5:07 pm
Sherry Walz
Great ideas, Sandra! I love the Future Possible tense. Thanks for sharing.
November 12, 2014 at 5:17 pm
Sandi Lawson
Thank you for your insight!
November 12, 2014 at 7:25 pm
Kaye Baillie
Love hearing where story ideas come from. Thanks, Sandra.
November 12, 2014 at 7:30 pm
Ali Pichardo
Thank you Sandra for your inspiration. I have always wanted to be an author, now I want to be a published author. I do get most of my ideas from the things children say. They are a blessing to my life and my writing.I look forward to reading your books.
November 12, 2014 at 10:35 pm
writeknit
Thank you for your thoughts and words of wisdom 🙂
November 12, 2014 at 10:37 pm
Jamie Deenihan
Great advice! I am amazed by the ideas that my two toddlers and first grade students unknowingly provide me with every day. Congrats on your success!
November 13, 2014 at 2:09 am
writersideup
We can’t invent dialogue that can compare to what kids actually say 🙂
November 13, 2014 at 2:47 am
Gloria Amescua
What a fantastic idea! Future possible! I’ve heard my granddaughters do this all the time.
November 13, 2014 at 11:08 am
Zainab Khan
My daughter is an inspiration. Thanks for reminding us that children give us need to write.
November 13, 2014 at 12:21 pm
Amanda Hopper
Great advice, thanks!
November 13, 2014 at 2:16 pm
Dianne Burch
Sandra, this was as beautiful as it was inspiring. I look forward to reading your books and seeing how you inspired your daughter. Lovely!
November 14, 2014 at 11:17 am
Karen Brueggeman
Such wonderful advise. 🙂 Thank-you.
November 14, 2014 at 11:36 am
Kelly Parker
Having two children myself, it certainly IS amazing the things that come out of their mouths, lol. Definitely good advice!
November 14, 2014 at 11:45 am
McCourt
That really is how kids play – great detail to notice. Thanks for sharing.
November 14, 2014 at 5:08 pm
winemama
Great post, thanks Sandra!
November 15, 2014 at 10:55 am
Joan Waites
Great idea to ease drop on the conversations of some little ones. I’ll be paying more attention to my younger students and hopefully jotting down some ideas.
November 15, 2014 at 11:22 am
DaNeil
Thank you for reminding me to listen – really listen – to what children are saying.
November 15, 2014 at 12:15 pm
Veronica Bartles (@vbartles)
🙂 I need to spend more time thinking in the Future Possible tense
November 16, 2014 at 1:24 am
Joanne Roberts
Just reading your post unlocked some story ideas in my brain. Great questions to ask ourselves. Thank-you.
November 16, 2014 at 1:35 pm
Holly Ruppel
I always find inspiration in the wild, whimsical ideas kids have! Thanks, Sandra!
November 16, 2014 at 11:20 pm
Anna Levin
“Stories are gifts to the children who read them. ” Absolutely! Let’s give these gifts selflessly, being fully present in creating them, making the story an experience for our little readers. Thank you for the post.
November 17, 2014 at 7:08 am
artistadonna
Great advice thank you!
November 17, 2014 at 1:57 pm
bucherwurm65
Yes! So simple but such a recipe for success! Tomorrow I will watch my preschoolers’ play with new eyes and listen to them with new ears!
November 17, 2014 at 2:32 pm
Emily Goldstein
Thank you!
November 18, 2014 at 2:44 pm
Jennifer DuBose
Our children are our best muses! Thanks for the reminder 🙂
November 18, 2014 at 11:44 pm
teresa m.i. schaefer (@TMISchaefer)
Jet pack ready!
November 20, 2014 at 5:31 pm
Aidan Cassie
It is fun to think of all the PB authors out there secretly listening to children at this moment… hunting their words, wishes, ideas and perspectives.
November 22, 2014 at 9:14 am
goodfish78
Kids are also, almost always, in the present (and loving every minute of it)! I’m blessed to spend every day around children. Thank you for your reminder to listen more closely to them at play.
November 24, 2014 at 8:46 am
Rick Starkey
A child’s world is full of everything. Especially ideas for us. Thanks.
November 26, 2014 at 3:36 am
Jessica @ Play Trains!
Wow — that bit about the “future possible tense” was a real “ah-ha” moment for me — as a parent and a writer. Thank you.
November 28, 2014 at 4:58 pm
KASteed
Thank you for your post!
November 28, 2014 at 9:52 pm
LL
my takeaway is: Stories are gifts to the children who read them. Love your blog too 🙂
November 29, 2014 at 12:56 am
carolmunrojww
Future possible tense…so clever…so true! Thanks for this post, Sandra. One of the things on my goals list for 2015 will be to sit in on story time at the library at least once a month.
November 29, 2014 at 7:31 pm
Donna B
I am partial to horses and looking forward to reading your books.
November 29, 2014 at 10:20 pm
Nancy Kotkin
Ah, to harness the magic of a child’s imagination. I love the phrase “future possible tense.” It holds so much possibility…and promise.
November 30, 2014 at 12:18 am
majanecka
It amazes me how many children’s authors began writing for their children. Thank you for sharing your story.
November 30, 2014 at 5:19 am
lisakwillard
Thank you for sharing your story and ideas.
November 30, 2014 at 10:58 am
Brook Gideon
Wonderful advice on listening and imagining and where to go with it all!
November 30, 2014 at 12:27 pm
Kimberly Cowger
Such truth here! I always try to keep my ears open when working in the kids section of my library.
November 30, 2014 at 10:00 pm
bookseedstudio
Dear Sandra,
I’ll bet you some day, the darling daughter you wrote the books for, may write one for you. Sweet & nourishing post.
November 30, 2014 at 11:27 pm
Colleen Kelley
It’s nice to be reminded of the fundamental reason for writing picture books. Thanks.
December 1, 2014 at 12:43 am
Jason Perkins
Great way to look at things. good post.
December 1, 2014 at 6:08 am
Andrea J Loney
As soon as I read “future possible tense” here, I remembered hearing the question marks in my students’ voices. Wow.
December 2, 2014 at 8:35 am
angelcat2014
I love the idea of questioning what might happen next through child’s eyes. Thank you for this.