Writing can be a solitary profession. That’s why you gotta have good writing friends.
When my oldest daughter was a toddler, I met a woman with a little girl and we arranged regular get-togethers for them—and for us. Like me, the woman was a writer.
I had only recently began writing children’s books, and she told me about a friend who had recently moved to New Jersey from Manhattan. This friend had already published a picture book and she suggested putting us in touch.
I hesitated at first. I didn’t want the author to think I was only interested in her friendship for helping me to achieve publication. I didn’t want to be a nuisance or a bother. And, I thought this author would poo-poo all over pathetic, unpublished me.
Wow, I couldn’t have been more wrong!
Interestingly, I don’t remember exactly when Corey Rosen Schwartz and I met, but I do remember it was after a few botched attempts on my part–forgotten dates at a local cafe. When we finally did meet, we clicked immediately. Corey was never snobbish. In fact, she’s got a charming self-deprecating personality.
Corey was indeed instrumental in helping me get my agent and my first picture book contract. I’ll let her tell you how–and how I rubbed her back…well, err, back.
The next part of our story will be on her blog later today!
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March 2, 2011 at 12:45 pm
Ishta Mercurio
I can relate to your hesitation, but you’re right – having writer-friends is important, and well-worth getting over any hesitation and just meeting up.
March 2, 2011 at 5:22 pm
Catherine Denton
I don’t know how I would survive without my writer friends! They motivate me when I’m stalled and encourage me when I’m low.
March 2, 2011 at 8:11 pm
Lynda Shoup
It is inspiring to hear about the hesitation you felt. Sometimes we feel that people who have accomplished things did it without fear, discomfort or work.
Thanks for sharing this.
March 2, 2011 at 9:50 pm
Michelle Dennis Evans
mmm, lovely story, I need more writer friends IRL
xx
March 3, 2011 at 1:15 am
Sharon Mayhew
Great story! Corey is wonderful…so cool how you met and clicked.
March 4, 2011 at 1:54 pm
Julie
You guys have a great story. I’m so glad I met you both!
March 4, 2011 at 2:34 pm
Shannon O'Donnell
It’s a wonderful story! Writerly friends are vital in this business. 🙂
March 6, 2011 at 11:15 am
MelissaPEA
You had already heard of Corey, but I introduced you guys, after you and I met at the pre-Rutgers cocktail party in 2008.
March 6, 2011 at 4:07 pm
Tara
I totally forgot how the friendship came to be. Yes, of course, the Rutgers connection!
March 20, 2011 at 4:15 pm
Megan Frances/Abrahams
Wonderful story — and from reading Corey’s blog, I gather there’s a part 3 coming up. Looking forward to the next installment.