Not All Who Wander Are Lost
By Dana Lardner
Languages and cultures have always been a fascination of mine. For as long as I can remember, I have always wanted to visit foreign places, exist in foreign spaces. I have been told repeatedly to slow down, put down some roots, and find a spot in the world to call my own. Every time I tried to heed this advice, however, it only seemed to stifle my creativity.
The challenge of ‘staying put’ had been something my head and heart had yet to reconcile until several years ago, when I spotted a bumper sticker in popular San Diego diner: “Not all who wander are lost.”
To this day, I find great solace in what I consider to be wisdom in two parts:
- Just because people may like to move to different places does not mean that they have not found their “place” in the world.
- Try not to apply judgment to things we may not understand.
So how does this apply to finding picture book inspiration? Regardless of if your bags are packed ready to hop on a plane to places unknown, or if you’ve lived in the same town since you were three years old, the bumper sticker is reminder to break out of the everyday patterns that often consume us.
We drive the same way to work. We read the same newspapers and blogs. We plan the same dinner menus week after week. How can we expect to see the world differently if we don’t change our daily perspective? If we don’t slow down and wander a little bit, how will we ever see what other grand things the world has to offer?
I therefore present the following suggestions to give you a jump start:
- Change the route you take to the grocery store once in a while even if it takes you longer to get there. What stores or subtle nuances on the street didn’t you notice before?
- If you typically drive a car, take public transportation. What types of people are riding with you and where do you think they’re headed?
- Take your children to a new park on the other side of town. How do they interact with the other kids and the play structures differently than at their usual park?
- Follow someone on Twitter or subscribe to a blog feed of someone who does not see the world in the way you do. What have they said that makes you stronger in your resolve or more open to new ideas?
- Take a stroll around your neighborhood and be sure to walk on both sides of the street. Has the neighbor done something new to the yard?
Remember: Not all who wander are lost.
Where will you wander today?
Dana Lardner has a bag waiting by the door to travel at a moment’s notice. She is currently developing picture books that teach children about culture and difference while also keeping her belly laugh in shape with her line of motivational workout towels called Words to Sweat By™.
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November 28, 2009 at 11:05 am
Southpaw
Great post. Thanks!
November 28, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Jewel
Hi Dana~
Your statement of “Just because people may like to move to different places does not mean that they have not found their “place” in the world.” got me to thinking about my world view.
At seventeen I moved to Germany for three years. While there I learned first hand the diversity of the German culture by visiting many towns and viewing the landscapes. I had not thought about the experience as raw material to build my next picture book. I will have to further investigate the possiblities.
Thank you so much Dana!
November 28, 2009 at 3:27 pm
Corey Schwartz
Love the quote. “Not all who wander are lost.” I’ll have to remember that one!
November 28, 2009 at 6:59 pm
jenny
“Not all who wander are lost” is a quote from Lord of the Rings. 🙂
November 28, 2009 at 10:12 pm
Dana Lardner (aka Whimsical Walney)
Thanks for all of your comments.
Jewel – I’m so glad to hear that the post got your creative juices flowing. Please let me know the outcome.
Jenny – I did not know it was from Lord of the Rings (more specifically “The Fellowship of the Rings” I have now learned) much to my DH’s chagrin. Too funny (and not at all surprising) that my introduction to it was on a bumper sticker in a SoCal diner.
November 29, 2009 at 12:03 am
Kelly Fineman
Glad someone else already mentioned the LOTR connection. The rest of that Tolkien poem (about Strider/Aragorn) is terrific motivation as well:
All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.
From the ashes a fire shall be woken,
A light from the shadows shall spring;
Renewed shall be blade that was broken,
The crownless again shall be king
November 30, 2009 at 8:18 am
Marianne
Dana is an inspiration to me as a fellow business owner and as a woman! She has helped me in my wandering and I look forward to watching her find her way in this world with her new business, Words To Sweat By! Her words in the post ring so true on so many different levels and I appreciate her insight into life (and business!)