by Jolene Gutiérrez
It’s 2025. We’ve been through dark times, and there could be more coming. How do we brave the darkness? How do we find a creative spark when we’re also sad, worried, or busy? And how do we craft stories that will shine a light for others
Twenty-five years ago, I was pregnant with our first child, our daughter Shaian. As a school librarian and book lover, I began searching for books that honored my unborn baby’s Mexican heritage. Slowly, I gathered a small collection, but our family struggled to find well-written, joyful stories with characters of Mexican heritage.

Fast-forward to the pandemic. Shaian, then 19, was taking college classes from home. I was teaching from home. Shaian’s uncle José and my dad/Shaian’s grandpa had both recently passed away. Our ofrenda, an altar with offerings for Día de Muertos, had always been important, but now, it was even more so. Shaian loves decorating our ofrenda with papel picado, alebrijes, and sugar skulls, and as I thought about the layers we add when building our ofrenda, it reminded me of the old nursery rhyme, “The House that Jack Built.” So Shaian and I wrote a cumulative story about a family working together to create their ofrenda and honor lost loved ones. That story, The Ofrenda That We Built, was illustrated by Gabby Zapata and published by Chronicle in 2024. Creating a book about remembrance and celebration felt so powerful. It gave us joy and hope.

And then, my husband was telling me about an all-female mariachi group he’d heard about on NPR. I misheard him and thought he said, “Mamiachi group.” Mami is a Spanish word for mommy, so that made me wonder: had that name ever been used in a book? Because if it hadn’t, it was the perfect name for a little girl to call her mami. This made me think of my son, Dakota, who was 17 at that point and also learning from home. He had been active in choir, musical theater, and orchestra and was planning to join the mariachi band during his senior year, but all performing arts were put on hold at his school that year. Instead, we wrote Mamiachi & Me: My Mami’s Mariachi Band. It was illustrated by Mirelle Ortega and Abrams just published it on January 7. This story allowed us to focus on family connections, music, and strength as we created something beautiful.

Working together to create the books that we needed to see in the world gave us hope during dark times. And I was able to lean on my kids—I didn’t have to do it all on my own.
A couple of guiding questions:
- What stories have you always wanted to see in the world?
- Who might you partner with so you can lift each other up through story and/or art?
And then. . .the question of the hour:
- How do we create a spark during times we have almost lost our sparkle?
My friend Annie Lynn (amazing musician and longtime Storystorm and kidlit supporter) and I were recently chatting about challenging times in our lives and how difficult it is to write when we’re carrying painful burdens. So in the hopes that our discussion and my experiences writing with my kids during the pandemic will be helpful to others, here are a few tips:
- Don’t wait until you feel better to start creating. The act of creating may help improve your mood. Waiting for the perfect day is kind of like waiting until you’re in shape to start exercising.
- Smile and laugh as much as possible. Trick your brain into happiness!
- Celebrate often, reframe situations, and find gratitude whenever possible. From my Yogi tea bag: “Gratitude is not about what is received; it’s about how you receive what is there.”
Read and review great picture books! Surround yourself with mentor texts and give the gift of leaving reviews on places like GoodReads and Amazon.
View the world with a childlike gaze. Find wonder, joy, and beauty everywhere!

Be gentle with yourself. You are precious. Treat yourself as you’d treat your child or your best friend.
And, Annie’s best advice: “Eat a cookie or two in the sunshine with your eyes closed.”
The joy you find as you put these things into practice will surely infuse your writing. I can’t wait to see the light you bring to our world!

Jolene Gutiérrez is an award-winning neurodivergent teacher librarian who has been working with neurodivergent learners at Denver Academy since 1995. Jolene writes for young readers and hopes her books will help some readers feel seen and will help others learn and grow in compassion. Her books have been printed in 10 countries and 9 languages. Jolene is the author of Unbreakable: A Japanese American Family in an American Incarceration Camp (Abrams Childrens, 2026, co-authored with Minoru Tonai), Mamiachi and Me: My Mami’s Mariachi Band, The Ofrenda That We Built (a 2024 Golden Poppy Book Awards finalist), Too Much! An Overwhelming Day (Bookstagang’s Best Book of 2023), Bionic Beasts: Saving Animal Lives with Artificial Flippers, Legs, and Beaks (a Junior Library Guild Gold Standard book), and Mac and Cheese and the Personal Space Invader. Find her online a JoleneGutierrez.com or on Facebook, Bluesky, Instagram, or Threads @writerjolene.

Jolene Gutiérrez is giving away 1 copy of Mamiachi & Me: My Mami’s Mariachi Band and 1 copy of The Ofrenda That We Built (U.S. street addresses only, please) to two separate winners.
You’re eligible to win if you’re a registered Storystorm 2025 participant and you have commented only once below.
Prizes will be distributed at the conclusion of Storystorm.
















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January 21, 2025 at 8:11 am
Bettie
I really enjoyed how you got your family involved. As a musician, Mamiachi sounds very appealing. Thanks for your words of wisdom about not waiting for the perfect day. You are right that making yourself do something does brighten your outlook. Congrats on your books.
January 21, 2025 at 10:54 pm
Nicole Neahring
Thanks for the encouraging words!
January 21, 2025 at 8:12 am
thecrowsmap
Jolene, this is the perfect post for today. Thank you.
January 21, 2025 at 8:13 am
Susan Burdorf
Challenges make the best stories. I write with my grandchildren. They love the experience and I love the time we spend together. Congrats on your books. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Susan Burdorf
January 21, 2025 at 8:21 am
ejessmurray
Ah, love it, thanks, Jolene! Our family can be such fun story sparks and collaborators. My kiddo was up early this morning reading Storystorm blogs over my shoulder and got excited to share a couple of ideas. So fun!
January 21, 2025 at 8:23 am
Cindy Greene
Jolene, Thanks for sharing your journey and how you’ve worked with your children. Love it! And thank you for the reminder to write even when things are tough. I am doing Storystorm this year for that reason and it’s adding a lot of joy to the days!
January 21, 2025 at 8:26 am
Deborah Agranat Sullivan
What an uplifting post, Jolene! Thanks for providing the inspiration …and sharing!
January 21, 2025 at 8:26 am
leslieevatayloe
Thank you for sharing your story! Best, Leslie
January 21, 2025 at 8:28 am
Rebecca Colby
Such a great post! I loved hearing about your stories of collaboration and they’re very timely for me. Also, the yogi tea bag speaks volumes towards having a great mindset. Congrats and thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 8:32 am
srkckass
Eating a cookie or two in the sunshine with your eyes closed sounds like great advice. I also recommend a peanut butter cup in the shower with your eyes closed sounds- seriously, it’s amazing!
January 21, 2025 at 10:53 am
Annie Lynn/AnnieBirdd Music, LLC
Hi srkckass! I love your addition to eating cookies in the sun. Do the effects magnify the already magical shower’s effects? I am SO on this! Stay well and create happily, all.
January 21, 2025 at 11:30 am
srkckass
I recommend you try it for yourself, but my experience of the steam and relaxation coupled with the best combination of all human existence (peanut butter and chocolate) was magical! To my peanut allergy friends, I think chocolate and caramel would be good too and you’re in the shower so you can get the sticky right off!
January 21, 2025 at 11:48 am
Nancy Ferguson
I need to try this!
January 21, 2025 at 8:38 am
pathaap
Coming up with ideas and putting them to paper can be challenging during difficult times. That is why Storystorm is so important. I’m thankful for all these inspiring posts.
January 21, 2025 at 8:41 am
susanjobskya73d148763
Thank you for encouraging us to write about those people, places, and practices we are connected to, that are important to us.
January 21, 2025 at 8:41 am
susanjobskya73d148763
Thank you for encouraging us to write about those people, places, and practices we are connected to, that are important to us.
January 21, 2025 at 8:48 am
Elizabeth Volkmann
Oh, what a post to read on this ‘day after’. So inspiring and hopeful! Thank you so much, Jolene! Wishing you all the success in 2025!
January 21, 2025 at 8:50 am
melissajmiles1
I absolutely love that you collaborated with your children on these two books. It’s so incredibly special. Thank you for this positive post this morning. I needed it!
January 21, 2025 at 9:08 am
Susan Glick
Encouraging words! Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 9:09 am
amyhouts
I love the joy you encourage! Also that you celebrate your heritage, your family, and your culture.
January 21, 2025 at 9:09 am
Lindsey Aduskevich
I so loved reading about the books you created with your children. They are so special and I can’t wait to read them. This post was lovely and inspiring. Gratitude is truly the best attitude. Thank you, Jolene.
January 21, 2025 at 9:10 am
robincurrie1
What a nice backstory and I love your book!
January 21, 2025 at 9:12 am
Jany Campana
Thanks Jolene for inspiring me to look for my inspiring light!!!
January 21, 2025 at 9:12 am
Mary Beth Rice
These are beautiful examples of just how many ideas can come from our special family life and memories. Thank you!!
January 21, 2025 at 9:14 am
Melissa Rafson Friedman
Thank you! 💕 This is much needed today.
January 21, 2025 at 9:14 am
Tatum Evans
I love that quote, “don’t wait until you feel better to start creating.” We’d never create then, would we? I am a fellow neurodivergent. Thanks for the inspiration!
January 21, 2025 at 9:15 am
mlflannigan
Thanks for sharing!
January 21, 2025 at 9:15 am
lynnpesicka
Thank you for your inspiration.
January 21, 2025 at 9:15 am
Kathryn LeRoy
Best advice I’ve heard for getting past the darkness to create a light filled life and story. I loved learning from The Ofrenda They Built.
January 21, 2025 at 9:18 am
Mona Voelkel
This is exactly what I needed to read today! Thank you for post filled with inspiration, creativity and hope!
January 21, 2025 at 9:22 am
Alison McGauley
Thank you for telling this beautiful story about your family and for sharing these bits of inspiration and wisdom.
January 21, 2025 at 9:22 am
joanlongstaff
Loving the positivity! Thank you for sharing.
January 21, 2025 at 9:23 am
Bridgitte Rodguez
Thanks for sharing!
January 21, 2025 at 9:28 am
bookclubhbhs
Thank you for this helpful & inspiring post! I’m following you on IG now!
January 21, 2025 at 9:31 am
Jennifer
Thank you–this is what I needed today. And yes, yes, yes, to not waiting to create. Your advice reminds me of this Toni Morrison quote, which I love so much: “This is precisely the time when artists go to work. There is no time for despair, no place for self pity, no need for silence, no room for fear. We speak, we write, we do language. That is how civilizations heal.”
January 21, 2025 at 10:56 am
Annie Lynn/AnnieBirdd Music, LLC
@Jennifer……WORD! Thanks for sharing that T.M. Quote!✌️
January 21, 2025 at 9:34 am
Sallye O'Rourke
Thank you, inspiring. I especially love the gratitude quote.
January 21, 2025 at 9:34 am
tinamcho
This is so precious how you’ve written books with your children, preserving memories! Thank you for all your tips & inspiration.
January 21, 2025 at 9:35 am
Tanya ♡
Bright nuggets in this post. Thank you for the encouragement.
January 21, 2025 at 9:36 am
anchance
I really love that you were able to create these stories with your children. Thank you for the advice.
January 21, 2025 at 9:36 am
ralucasirbu
Hi Jolene, you have a thought provoking post. We learned (or at least I did) that it is best to be independent, self-sufficient… But, I (also) realized that the next step, better, more achieving position is interdependency, collaboration. Lately there were a few prompts with the same theme. The ideas converge. Thank you for your thoughts and congratulations for all your achievements.
January 21, 2025 at 9:37 am
Daryl Gottier
Such a lovely post. Just what I needed today, thanks!
January 21, 2025 at 9:37 am
andreesantini
Thank you for sparkling and sharing your spark.
January 21, 2025 at 9:38 am
Leah Moser
Thank you for this post!
January 21, 2025 at 9:38 am
Cathy Lentes
What a lovely story of family, resilience, and hope. Thank you for this encouraging message. Much needed today.🙏🏻
January 21, 2025 at 9:42 am
shubamohan
Your questions to ask ourselves really resonated with me. Thanks, Jolene.
January 21, 2025 at 9:42 am
Robin Brett Wechsler
Thank you for this heartwarming and encouraging post, Jolene. Your books are amazing!
January 21, 2025 at 9:42 am
kathalsey
Jolene Gutiérrez, such good advice and seeing your kids involved in the process is magical!
January 21, 2025 at 9:45 am
E.H. Perry
love the advice to not wait until you’re feeling better to create. Crating can make you feel better!
January 21, 2025 at 9:50 am
Karin Larson
Thank you for the terrific advice and reminder not to wait to create. Your post has inspired my day!
January 21, 2025 at 9:51 am
writerdi2020
Thanks for all the positive vibes on this cold morning! There is so much we can do to bring joy to ourselves and to others!
January 21, 2025 at 9:51 am
Kaitlin
What a beautiful, encouraging post. Thank you for this inspiration!
January 21, 2025 at 9:55 am
Varda Livney
Loved your story, love that you got your kids involved in your writing. Your books and attitude sound great!
January 21, 2025 at 9:56 am
meganewhitaker21
Great advice! If we all had been waiting during the Pandemic to write, or find some light, we would have been waiting quite a while. How fun to share this experience with your kids! Congratulations on your successes!
January 21, 2025 at 9:57 am
thehugbooks
My girls are 11 and 13 and we love writing and bouncing ideas off each other. Maybe one day we’ll write TOGETHER. Thanks for the inspiration.
January 21, 2025 at 10:12 am
cindyjohnson2013
Such great advice! Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 10:16 am
Helen Waters
Love all of your suggestions – so important to protect our precious selves and our creative spark. And I use my tea bag messages as inspiration too!
January 21, 2025 at 10:17 am
Dayne Sislen, Children's Book Illustrator
Congratulations on both your books. Thanks for your advice.
January 21, 2025 at 10:18 am
almosttenacious288198703d
Your post has really set my mind to thinking about the things I needed as a little girl – thank you for sharing your experience and providing such a great prompt…
January 21, 2025 at 10:29 am
margaretsmn
I love hearing about your collaborations with your children. You are a storage of imagination. This post has my wheels turning. What family traditions do we have that could make a picture book that someone needs to read?
January 21, 2025 at 10:30 am
coachrochelle
So fun to collaborate with your kids!
January 21, 2025 at 10:30 am
Cathy Ballou Mealey
Lovely post – congratulations Jolene!
January 21, 2025 at 10:30 am
Andrew Fairchild
What a beautiful post. Congratulations on your publishing success and being able to find the creative joy during difficult times.
January 21, 2025 at 10:32 am
Lucretia Schafroth
Thank you for sharing your stories’ backstories, Jolene. How wonderful to write stories with your kids while incorporating meaningful cultural elements and your family’s traditions!
I agree that “the act of creating” can often help improve your mood. Your analogy that “waiting for the perfect day is kind of like waiting until you’re in shape to start exercising” made me chuckle–I’ll remember that when I’m in need of inspiration or encouragement to carve out time to create! Thanks for a lovely post.
January 21, 2025 at 10:33 am
theliah1
Thank you, Jolene for sharing your wonderful stories. I love how our family helped cultivate them. Congratulations on your success.
January 21, 2025 at 10:34 am
christym1234
What an uplifting post! Thank you for sharing.
January 21, 2025 at 10:36 am
Leslie Santamaria
Congratulations on your new book, Jolene. I’m so happy you got to work with your children on creative projects. Thanks for the uplifting advice!
January 21, 2025 at 10:38 am
migratingmoosegmailcom
Great post for getting me motivated TODAY! Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 10:38 am
cherylmsimon
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for the positivity and inspiration. I can’t wait to read your latest book!
January 21, 2025 at 10:40 am
rosie8192
I love stories like this and appreciate you sharing your backstory with all of us. So inspiring! Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 10:46 am
Susan
What a joy to have this collaboration with your children. Can’t wait to see what books await when you have (eventually) grandchildren!
January 21, 2025 at 10:47 am
tanjabauerle
Mamiachi! How brilliant! The lockdown was such a challenging time. It warms my heart that you worked together with your family to bring much-needed stories to life. Congratulations.
January 21, 2025 at 10:52 am
Reni Macarelli
Thank you for sharing this beautiful, heartfelt post.
January 21, 2025 at 10:54 am
kdrhowley
Such sweet collaborations. Thanks for the peek behind the stories!
January 21, 2025 at 10:58 am
KrisTarantino
Thank you for sharing this insightful post!
January 21, 2025 at 11:02 am
Cindy Montoya
This is a line I’m going to read as often as possible: “Celebrate often, reframe situations, and find gratitude whenever possible.” Such a great way to live!
January 21, 2025 at 11:03 am
stiefelchana
Such a beautiful and inspiring post. Thank you! Congrats on your wonderful books!
January 21, 2025 at 11:03 am
millerritam
Your books sound amazing! Thanks so much for sharing your positive thoughts.
January 21, 2025 at 11:06 am
Michelle Dragalin
I like that “Eat a Cookie or Two in the sunshine with your eyes closes” how nice. I had difficulty finding books for my children that reflected our family. I am very much white, but come from a multi race family, so I have children who represent my bone structure but not my color. In fact when we went to a family reunion everyone had difficulty figuring out whose children belonged to whose parents, because we look so different plus adoption is common in our family. It’s tough to explain that to children and then when they want toys etc. that look like them well another tough hunt especially when people look at you and say how nice you are teaching another culture. Grr… Good advice and nice thoughts in the column.
January 21, 2025 at 11:07 am
Viviane Elbee
I can’t wait to read your books! Thank you so much for this inspiring post and the great advice – like tricking your brain into happiness. If it wasn’t so cold today I would totally go eat cookies in the sunshine.
January 21, 2025 at 11:10 am
Sonja McGiboney
I wish I grew up with traditions like that. Maybe I can write a book about not having traditions and finding a friend who can share them with me. Thank you for sharing Jolene’s story.
Yours, Sonja McGiboney Author & Photographer
January 21, 2025 at 11:12 am
Teresa Rodrigues
Thanks for sharing your story, Jolene! It’s wonderful how you create with your children! Congrats to all!
January 21, 2025 at 11:12 am
Annie Lynn/AnnieBirdd Music, LLC
Congratulations Jolene and Dakota on making a wonderful mirror/window book. What you are giving and teaching your children about their heritage is priceless and can really give them roots. This is how you preserve traditions, and I love that young readers will see the importance of traditions and of keeping the memories of those we lost, alive. I guess the old saying is true, “ Two negatives make a positive” in regard to our conversation about maintaining creativity or even a spark of passion when you’ve got too many things on your plate. Don’t wait to create. I’m so glad we talked at just the right time for both of us. Off to find some cookies and a cup of coffee. It’s for creative purposes, of course…… stay well and creative all. Peace, Annie✌🏽💙🎶🎨📚🌻
January 21, 2025 at 11:15 am
nrompella
I like the analogy of waiting to create is like waiting until you’re in shape to exercise. Good point. Clever books you’ve created!
January 21, 2025 at 11:16 am
Tracey Kiff-Judson
Here’s to shining a light! Thank you, Jolene!
January 21, 2025 at 11:16 am
amybeth349
I am working with a small group using “The Happiness Project” as a guide. I will use this story to keep the positive light in my window. Working with family, what a great idea. Thanks!
January 21, 2025 at 11:22 am
Joyce P. Uglow
Jolene, I needed to read your post today. Let there be celebration, kidlit, and kindness to lift us from the chaos.
January 21, 2025 at 11:26 am
rachelcritchleya061056d76
Love that you don’t wait until you feel better to write but the act of writing makes you feel better.
January 21, 2025 at 11:35 am
Jo Jo
Thank you for sharing. Can’t wait to read your books!
January 21, 2025 at 11:33 am
jaimegpetru
Thank for the advice. These are wonderful ways to come up with story ideas. I agree not to wait until you feel better but that creating may help with that process.
January 21, 2025 at 11:33 am
loriwilliamswriting
I love this! “Be gentle with yourself. You are precious! Treat yourself as you would treat your child or your best friend.” This really resonates with me. Thank you for this post.
January 21, 2025 at 11:41 am
maureenegan
perfect timing!
January 21, 2025 at 11:41 am
Jamie Bills
I love that you created your stories with your kids. What a special experience! The Ofrenda that We Built is so good! Thank you for your encouragement. 🙂
January 21, 2025 at 11:44 am
jhall2018
Thank you for this very hopeful post with encouraging and gentle reminders. Much needed and appreciated this week. 💛
January 21, 2025 at 11:47 am
Nancy Ferguson
Thank you,Jolene!!! You lifted my heart and gave me a plan to find a path out of this dark time. I am going to add some steps to my vision board to keep front and center until they are habits. Congratulations on creating joy with your family and putting a book into the world that we need.
January 21, 2025 at 11:49 am
nigel8it
“Gratitude is not about what is received; it’s about how you receive what is there.” Such a wonderful reframing quote to keep in our minds. Thank-you for your enlightening post today!
January 21, 2025 at 11:53 am
authorhelenholder
Ah, just what I needed today as I dealt with a bad situation.
January 21, 2025 at 11:54 am
Laurie Elmquist
I love your advice to immerse yourself in picture books and look at the world through a kids’ lens. I’m off to Library Storytime today with a three-year-old to do just that!
January 21, 2025 at 11:56 am
sblotevogel
great post, thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 11:57 am
nancykkkkk
I love the idea of a misunderstood word as the basis for a book.
January 21, 2025 at 12:01 pm
Hannah Roy LaGrone
Such timely advice! Thank you! Hannah Roy LaGrone
January 21, 2025 at 12:01 pm
Claudia Sloan
How lovely that you’ve got to write those books with your kids – congrats!!! And thank you for your uplifting words and tips. 🙂
January 21, 2025 at 12:05 pm
gregoryfulgione
Looking at the world through a child’s eyes is great advice. I also love your yoga teabag quote, “Gratitude is not about what is received; it’s about how you receive what is there.”
January 21, 2025 at 12:09 pm
rosecappelli
Thanks for sharing the story of how your books were born, Jolene, and how you involved your kids. My OLW for 2025 is “light” so your last line felt like it was meant just for me. I’m hoping to bring a lot of light to the world in 2025!
January 21, 2025 at 12:12 pm
hansenjc13
What an amazing experience to write with your family! Very inspiring and uplifting post. Thank you
January 21, 2025 at 12:15 pm
rindabeach
Thank you for sharing the light your family gives you to write for them and with them. Here’s to whatever the future brings. In my life, it almost always better with writing.
January 21, 2025 at 12:16 pm
Katie Marie
Thank you for sharing your story and advice. I look forward to reading MAMIACHI & ME!
-Katie Marie
January 21, 2025 at 12:19 pm
jumpbaby
I love that you worked on these stories with your kids! My library system has ordered six copies of Mamiachi & Me and I’m 2nd in line. 🙂
Cheryl A. Johnson
January 21, 2025 at 12:24 pm
Mary A Zychowicz
This is a good reminder to push through our dark
days when we aren’t feeling the inspiration to write. Some days that may be where our joy will come from if we go into our creative minds. Thanks for your post.
January 21, 2025 at 12:25 pm
abby mumford
I love hearing the backstories of how your stories came to life through collaborations with your kiddos! Congrats!
January 21, 2025 at 12:30 pm
serendipityinstars
I like your guiding questions, especially the question of the hour: “how do we create a spark during times we have almost lost our sparkle?” My word of the year is sparkle and this made me smile. How fun that you and your family have created something so special. I sometimes write with my granddaughter and there’s a lot of laughs when we do. Looking forward to reading your books!
January 21, 2025 at 12:30 pm
Peggy Dobbs
What a beautiful story of creating books with your children! I look forward to reading them. Congratulations on your success.
January 21, 2025 at 12:42 pm
roundswrite
What an amazing post! It must have been wonderful to write with your children. My son writes music and lyrics and I’d never thought of creating with him. But I’m going to ask him today!
I love your writing story. It has given me an idea about the strange words my son said when he couldn’t quite figure out what he wanted to say.
Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 12:43 pm
judyrubin13
Thank you, Jolene, for sharing your writing thoughts, collaborations, and ultimate success with us. Your books are perfect.
January 21, 2025 at 12:48 pm
kirstenbockblog
Thanks so much for sharing your story. How inspiring to be able to write with both of your children!
January 21, 2025 at 12:49 pm
Michelle S Kennedy
How precious that you were able to collaborate two stories with your children. That is GOLD!
January 21, 2025 at 12:51 pm
paulajbecker
Lots of good nugget of info and encouragement here! Thanks, Jolene!
January 21, 2025 at 12:52 pm
clairebobrow
A beautiful post, Jolene – thank you! You cracked me up with “like waiting to be in shape to start exercising.” Dang it! That was my plan 🙂 But now I’m motivated to move along with my story ideas (and my exercise), no matter what state I’m in. Congrats on your wonderful books!
January 21, 2025 at 12:58 pm
Poupette
Thanks for your take!
January 21, 2025 at 1:01 pm
Dawn Prochovnic
Thank you for such a happy, encouraging post. I especially loved your mantra, “Be gentle with yourself. You are precious. Treat yourself as you’d treat your child or your best friend.” That is beautiful. Congrats on the collabs with your kids! (And isn’t Annie Lynn amazing? I worked with her and her team on a companion song for one of my books. Such as WONDERFUL experience!
January 21, 2025 at 1:01 pm
Katherine Pew
Thank you, Jolene. I’ve always loved the idea of santosha, the yogic philosophy of cultivating contentment (in keeping with your lovely teabag mantra).
January 21, 2025 at 1:03 pm
Sue Heavenrich
This is the perfect post for today! The concept of shining a light, the tea bag note about gratitude, but especially the Mamiachi! I love, love, LOVE that! congrats on the books, but moreso on the way you connected with your family as you created them.
January 21, 2025 at 1:04 pm
Gabi Snyder
This was the perfect post for today, Jolene. Thank you! This advice resonates with me and I appreciate the reminder to find joy even during dark times. I’m looking forward to reading MAMIACHI & ME!
January 21, 2025 at 1:08 pm
chris109shestak
This is a perfect post for today. The writing community is bonding together to provide hope. PS I particularly like the concept that gratitude is how one recieves what is already in their life
January 21, 2025 at 1:08 pm
kathleen moore
I absolutely love this! Thank you – your kindness shines through your words!
January 21, 2025 at 1:21 pm
Marie Prins
Thank-you for so many good ideas on how to take care of oneself in dark times. My favourite one is “Eat a cookie or two in the sunshine with your eyes closed.” On this cold January day, sunshine lights up the kitchen table where I work, so I’m definitely going to dig out of my freezer one of the Christmas cookies I stored away for such a day. 🙂
January 21, 2025 at 1:21 pm
theinfamousmissbeth
Thank you for putting this out into the world.
January 21, 2025 at 1:26 pm
Evelyn Day
I love this!
January 21, 2025 at 1:30 pm
aubreyalliethewriter
Great post for dark times and finding the joy.
January 21, 2025 at 1:32 pm
Carrie Logsdon McCullough
Love hearing the stories behind the stories. Thank you for sharing!
January 21, 2025 at 1:35 pm
Cathy Stefanec Ogren
I like your advice, Jolene! Thanks for sharing.
January 21, 2025 at 1:48 pm
Midge Ballou Smith
Great advice here! Thank you, Jolene!
January 21, 2025 at 2:02 pm
Linda KulpTrout
I love that you involve your children in writing your books! Thank you for the great advice and inspiration!
January 21, 2025 at 2:05 pm
Linda KulpTrout
I love the way you involved your children in writing your picture book. Thank you for the advice and inspiration!
January 21, 2025 at 2:09 pm
Megan McNamara
Jolene, this resonated with me deeply. I have been missing the creative spark, anticipating the darkness. But working together is always the antidote. Thank you.
January 21, 2025 at 2:20 pm
JF Hall Writes
Ohh this was just the post I needed today as I work through some personal challenges. Thank you so much. And congratulations on your amazing books!! I’m glad to have learned about your work. Any wait to read your stories — and continue writing more of my own, despite any personal hardships.
January 21, 2025 at 2:23 pm
Laurie Seaford
Mmmm . . . sounds like a warm chocolate chip cookie, with oozing chocolate. I love the idea of smiling and laughing often–tricking your brain into happiness. The physical and emotional are so connected. Thank you for the empowing encouragement.
January 21, 2025 at 2:27 pm
kathleengauer
Love the encouragement to trick your brain into happiness through writing and looking for the wonder, joy and beauty in the world.
January 21, 2025 at 2:28 pm
sallymcclure
Wonderful ideas!
January 21, 2025 at 2:29 pm
schumerthc
Thanks.
January 21, 2025 at 2:29 pm
karenleewyoming
What wonderful kids you have! (Must be because they have such a great mom!) Thanks for sharing this uplifting and inspiring post. I would say more, but I need to jot some things down in my Storystorm notebook while the ideas are in my head!
January 21, 2025 at 2:31 pm
Mary Ann Blair
What a fun journey to take with both your kids! Congrats!
January 21, 2025 at 2:34 pm
schellijo
Love this! Great ideas and so positive! Thank you.
January 21, 2025 at 2:46 pm
amandalittleauthor
Thank you for this post! So important not to wait to feel good before creating.
January 21, 2025 at 2:48 pm
Carmen Swick-Author
Great to see another fellow author in Colorado. Thank you for your share! A lot of golden nuggets here. And congratulations on your success.
January 21, 2025 at 2:53 pm
Dana Nahas Dillaman
This post gave me the warm fuzzies, which I particularly appreciate since it is 1 degree F outside. Thank you for your post.
January 21, 2025 at 2:54 pm
Barbara Schlosser Hill
Thank you for sharing. There are stories out there from childhood, from cultural experiences and from dark times as well – thank you for sharing how we can turn all these into positive moments.
January 21, 2025 at 3:00 pm
bkidd8
Such an uplifting post, Jolene. Fun to see how you write with your children. Can’t wait to read these books. Thanks for the suggestions.
January 21, 2025 at 3:03 pm
Susan Wroble
Jolene, what a fabulous, uplifting post! I especially loved the advice to not wait until you feel better to start creating, that creating is often thing that lifts us out. Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 3:09 pm
kelliannedy
Great reminders! Thank you! I appreciate your post!
January 21, 2025 at 3:14 pm
sjmcc2
I am seeing more stories in the world that have been inspired by their childhood and traditions. This makes me feel hopeful, as many of my stories come from my childhood memories. Thank you for sharing!
January 21, 2025 at 3:15 pm
marty
Thank you, Jolene, for the reminder to create even when your energy is low and the days are darkest. You are bringing fabulous books into the world that are so needed. Reviews are gifts and I am overdue for writing some. Happy idea generating in January and writing drafts and revisions in 2025.
Thank you, Tara, for inviting Jolene to post during StoryStorm 2025!
January 21, 2025 at 3:18 pm
Lynn Baldwin
Thank you of a great and timely post.
January 21, 2025 at 3:26 pm
Sarah Hetu-Radny
This was great!
I also really like “gratitude is about how you receive what is there.”
Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 3:35 pm
lucystaugler
Jolene,
What an inspirational post! You gave us a road map on how to write during dark times!
Time to light the spark and sparkle up the dark!
This is exactly the post I needed today!
Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 3:37 pm
Natalie Lynn Tanner
JOLENE: THANK YOU for INSPIRING us to find ways to bring LIGHT to our dark world through our stories. I ESPECIALLY LOVE your words of ENCOURAGEMENT to bring LIGHT to our own lives THROUGH the process of writing our stories. That through writing our stories we can bring healing to the world—and ourselves. BEAUTIFUL! I SO NEEDED your LIGHT-INFUSED words today! THANK YOU!!! I will also MOST WHOLEHEARTEDLY put into use your friend Annie’s SAGE advice to: “Eat a cookie or two in the sunshine with [my] eyes closed.” LIGHT and COOKIES=TRUE JOY! THANK YOU!!!
January 21, 2025 at 3:40 pm
bethsbiblio
Thanks Jolene and Tara.
January 21, 2025 at 3:47 pm
Trine Grillo
I love this: View the world with a childlike gaze.
January 21, 2025 at 3:47 pm
heatherstigall
What an inspiring post! Thank you for sharing, Jolene, and congratulations on your books!
January 21, 2025 at 3:50 pm
Laura Wippell
Writing absolutely helps me get through dark times, and I love that you could do that together with your children. Thanks for sharing, Jolene!
January 21, 2025 at 3:50 pm
Laura N. Clement
Eat a cookie or two in the sunshine, brilliant. I needed this today. Great post. I especially love that you asked, “How do we create a spark during times we have almost lost our sparkle?”
Great question. Thank you for being part of kidlit and bringing joy and fresh voices to young readers!
January 21, 2025 at 3:55 pm
chaunceyelephant
Your words of inspiration are wonderful, but what struck me the most (and made me laugh) was your comment that you don’t wait to get in shape to start exercising – that hit home!
January 21, 2025 at 3:56 pm
laurakbower
I absolutely love how you have written stories with your children — nothing could be more special than that. The inspiration behind those stories was really interesting. Thank you for sharing!
January 21, 2025 at 3:58 pm
valerieschultz023gmailcom
Thank you for sharing your spark and your light. Now I need a cookie!
January 21, 2025 at 4:15 pm
susaninez0905
Thanks for a wonderful post. A wonderful reminder to keep on writing even when you don’t feel like it – and it’s never a bad day to have a cookie. 🙂
January 21, 2025 at 4:20 pm
fortunatelymango1b9bf8d04a
Thank you for the inspiration. Sometimes the best things can come out of dark times if you continue to be creative.
January 21, 2025 at 4:26 pm
Sandy Lowe
Although we are not of Hispanic heritage, my son and his family create an ofrenda every year to remember their son and others they have lost. Thank you for sharing.
January 21, 2025 at 4:30 pm
libbydemmon
What a particular gift to be able to collaborate with your children on a project so meaningful!
January 21, 2025 at 4:31 pm
Lisa Billa
How incredible to create picture books with your children! Thank you for sharing these stories of spreading light, and for your helpful tips!
January 21, 2025 at 4:33 pm
cassiazaven
A beautiful post. Thank you.
January 21, 2025 at 4:36 pm
Teresa Fales
It’s interesting to think of what kind of book I would write with each of my children. Thanks for the food for thought.
January 21, 2025 at 4:36 pm
Teresa Fales
It’s interesting to think of what kind of book I would write with each of my children. Thanks for the food for thought.
January 21, 2025 at 4:37 pm
Carol Gordon Ekster
Love this post and I can’t wait to read your new books. My favorite line, “Gratitude is not about what is received; it’s about how you receive what is there.” Wishing you continued successes, Jolene!
January 21, 2025 at 4:42 pm
Kaye Baillie
Thank you for your heartfelt post, Jolene.
January 21, 2025 at 4:42 pm
Kimberly Marcus
A perfect post for a hard day. Thank you.
January 21, 2025 at 4:45 pm
angelaxricks
I love how you wrote for your children and with your children. And thank you for the encouragement to create even when there is pain and you’re facing hard times. Beautiful message.
January 21, 2025 at 4:55 pm
Karen
What a beautiful gift to be able to collaborate with your children on a project so meaningful! Thanks for this uplifting post.
January 21, 2025 at 4:56 pm
dianemungovan
I love how you worked with your children to tell important stories.And during these dark days, we may need to work a little harder to find the joy, but thanks to your post we know it’s still there.
January 21, 2025 at 5:00 pm
marywarth
Thank you for this beautiful inspiration.
January 21, 2025 at 5:02 pm
Arlene Schenker
Thanks for the wonderful tips on creating sparks–and this inspiring post.
January 21, 2025 at 5:02 pm
rosihollinbeck
Find gratitude whenever possible. Great advice in these dark days. Thanks for a post that is a bright light.
January 21, 2025 at 5:04 pm
Dena Davis
Oh, Jolene! This is just what I needed to hear today! Thank you! 😊
January 21, 2025 at 5:14 pm
kellietheridgeauthor
Thank you for all your positivity and inspiration.
January 21, 2025 at 5:20 pm
Bri Lawyer
Great post! Thanks for sharing!
January 21, 2025 at 5:23 pm
Joyce Frank
Don’t wait for inspiration could be a StoryStorm mantra, no? Thanks for your encouraging words and for all your lovely books.
January 21, 2025 at 5:29 pm
1marth1
Thank you for your encouragement to keep working in spite of whatever we are going through. It is a way to give ourselves hope. Your stories that celebrate your family’s heritage and inclusiveness are needed both for children who feel like outsiders and to help develop empathy in others. We need to treat ourselves well, too. Thanks for sharing with us.
January 21, 2025 at 5:45 pm
Amy Martinez
What a cool experience to get to write books with your children! That is an amazing legacy! Thank you for reminding me not to wait until I am feeling good to write. Often time, it is the writing that helps me process the hard and find beauty within. I needed that reminder today.
January 21, 2025 at 5:51 pm
JoLynne Whalen
I love how your family was involved in your writing process! Thank you for sharing!!!
January 21, 2025 at 6:01 pm
Karen Pickrell
What an inspiring post! Thank you for sharing!
January 21, 2025 at 6:12 pm
jbbower
Thank you Jolene for such an inspiring post. You are so right. If we wait for the perfect day to write; to be inspired, to feel better; we will likely never get our words out or our creativity flowing. Thanks for the reminder.
January 21, 2025 at 6:16 pm
Claire A. B. Freeland
Such a beautiful post. Thanks for the boost. I can’t wait to read Mamiachi & Me: My Mami’s Mariachi Band.
January 21, 2025 at 6:24 pm
fleischmana6
This is such a timely message! I will not wait to feel more hopeful; I will keep creating and finding joy in the beautiful work of other kid lit authors and illustrators!
January 21, 2025 at 6:35 pm
ellenramsey
What a splendid and joyful post! Thanks, Jolene!
January 21, 2025 at 6:36 pm
Shirley fadden
Love the story of your stories! Thank you.
January 21, 2025 at 6:43 pm
Stephen S. Martin
Hope Springs Eternal
January 21, 2025 at 6:49 pm
Christina Dankert
A perfect blog post for today, thank you. Excellent and practical tips.
January 21, 2025 at 7:02 pm
Gail Aherne
Jolene, thank you for such an uplifting post! What a gift to create stories with your family. Thank you for leaving us with a lot of golden nuggets to ponder. I’m excited to read your books!
January 21, 2025 at 7:11 pm
Colleen Owen Murphy
Jolene, your message is sorely needed in these most challenging times. Kudos to you for shining the light on those topics dear to you, and congratulations on your publications!
January 21, 2025 at 7:53 pm
Teresa 何 Robeson
It’s now more important than ever to be mindful and grateful to keep our spirits up…and be the light that we wish to see in the world! 🌟
January 21, 2025 at 8:00 pm
joyfulKG
Thank you for sharing this story of hope and encouragement. It has reignited my passion to write after these horrible fires in Los Angeles. Thank you!
January 21, 2025 at 8:08 pm
joyfulKG
Thank you Jolene for this inspiration and encouragement. It has reignited my creativity to write after dealing with these horrible Los Angeles fires. ~Karen Alexander
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January 21, 2025 at 8:15 pm
susanzonca
Jolene, what a wonderful story and what helpful encouragement you offer. Thank you.
January 21, 2025 at 8:18 pm
Debbie Moeller
Thank you for the advice on persevering through hard times and not letting the creativity fade. It’s the pep talk I needed to hear right now. Congratulations on Mamiachi & Me: My Mami’s Mariachi Band.
January 21, 2025 at 8:27 pm
reedandwritekids
i completely agree, write even if you are not in the mood! It lifts my spirits
January 21, 2025 at 8:29 pm
Christine Van Zandt, MILKWEED FOR MONARCHS (Beaming Books, 2024)
This is such an uplifting post. Thank you! I look forward to reading your books.
January 21, 2025 at 8:37 pm
jcherney3
What a positive and uplifting post this is! Thank you
January 21, 2025 at 8:48 pm
wheresthedinnerlady
Sending love from Australia to all of you in the dark times.
January 21, 2025 at 8:51 pm
sheriradovich0384
Thank you for the positive post and encouragement to write and keep at it.
January 21, 2025 at 9:09 pm
susan8f64e325b6
I’ve certainly been eating a lot of cookies the past couple of days; sometimes it’s exactly what’s needed.
January 21, 2025 at 9:10 pm
Jessica Iwanski
This post put such a smile on my face! Congratulations on your books, and thank you for sharing your journey and wisdom with us!
January 21, 2025 at 9:12 pm
totallylegendarye6339e211a
This is such a meaningful post and really rings true – trying to not give up on the spark in challenging times is very hard.
January 21, 2025 at 9:21 pm
Sheri Delgado Preston
Great tips and lots of inspiration!
January 21, 2025 at 9:43 pm
crbwriter
Thank you! I’m sharing your success story with my daughter.Sent from my iPhone
January 21, 2025 at 9:51 pm
emmiewerner
What a special post today!!!! Publishing a book with your children, brings me joy
January 21, 2025 at 9:51 pm
fortress11art
What an amazing Light you’ve brought into the world, Jolene, and sharing your experience here is priceless. You’ve expanded my vision on what’s possible and a broader perspective of going about it. Good stories are a joint effort for us all. Gracias.
January 21, 2025 at 10:00 pm
jennaejo
great advice!
January 21, 2025 at 10:03 pm
MDalphin Williams Creative.Com
Thank you Jolene. My grandkids are half Mexican and they do balance between both worlds. Today it is such an advantage to speak two languages. They are lucky in that way. I’ll look for your books. We had our own bands during COVID too. I retired from music teaching right before COVID so we put my many instruments to good use. I like your thoughts about finding good and joy in these challenging times. I’ve learned to turn off the news.
January 21, 2025 at 10:24 pm
Mona Pease
This is such an uplifting and inspiring post. I’m smiling as I type, thank you!!!
January 21, 2025 at 10:26 pm
sue macartney
Jolene, thank you for this wonderfully positive and uplifting post!
January 21, 2025 at 10:30 pm
Adriana Gutierrez
I love that your posts inspired to write during hard times. I really needed that push because I usually ignore my writing. I love How to Build an Ofrenda.
January 21, 2025 at 10:32 pm
Kaitlyn Leann Sanchez
haha Jolene! I love my Yogi tea bag notes too! And these pictures of you and Shaian and Dakota are so priceless (and I adore the one of them together at the end too – so much hope). Thank you for lifting us all up and thank you too Tara for providing this great platform
January 21, 2025 at 10:40 pm
syorkeviney
Jolene, thank you for reminding us the cathartic aspects of writing that speaks to so many others and lifts them as it does us!
January 21, 2025 at 10:42 pm
Buffy Silverman
I love your suggestions for creating spark when we’ve lost our sparkle. So important right now
January 21, 2025 at 10:52 pm
seschipper
A smile goes a long way! My gram always reminded us of that …
thanks so much for sharing how your wonderful stories came to life❣️
January 21, 2025 at 11:21 pm
Sylvia Mary Grech
Jolene, great post!
January 21, 2025 at 11:27 pm
Steena Hernandez
Jolene, this is such a beautiful post! Thank you for sharing your inspiring and hopeful words!
January 21, 2025 at 11:35 pm
Jenn Gaulding
“Who might you partner with so you can lift each other up through story and/or art?” What a beautiful way to be curious. I love “Too Much! An Overwhelming Day” and can’t wait to read the stories you wrote when partnering with your children.
January 21, 2025 at 11:38 pm
Jolene Gutiérrez
Tara, thank you so much for the opportunity to share my post here, and to everyone who took the time to read and comment, I’m so grateful for each of you! We’re all such lights in this world! ❤
January 21, 2025 at 11:39 pm
Christine Letizia
I agree wholeheartedly in what you wrote about not waiting until you feel better to start creating. Sometimes, creating can help us feel better and lift us and others up. Thank you for all of these positive vibes!
January 21, 2025 at 11:39 pm
Alicia Shawn Gagnon
You had me at “Yogi tea bag”:). Gratitude muscles help with the heavy lifting…thank you for the reminder. Peace, Alicia
January 21, 2025 at 11:42 pm
8catpaws
Yes, the world needs sparkle when the light feels dim.
Authors–Wave your wands!
January 21, 2025 at 11:44 pm
8catpaws
Yes, the world needs sparkle when the light feels dim. Authors– Wave your wands!
January 21, 2025 at 11:45 pm
8catpaws
Yes, the world needs sparkle when the light feels dim. Authors– Wave your wands!
January 22, 2025 at 12:27 am
shiny694294aa4c
Thank you, Jolene, for giving me ways to shine a light for me and others when things in life are difficult.
January 22, 2025 at 12:50 am
jilltatara
This post is a bright light on a dark day. Thank you so much!
January 22, 2025 at 12:54 am
brightwishbooks
What a wonderful post. Thank you for this timely and important message.
-Amy Mucci
January 22, 2025 at 1:19 am
mrbellasgmailcom
Jolene, I can relate to so much of what you shared in your post… when I was raising my kids I didn’t have books with Puerto Rican characters and no books with themes that highlighted my Puerto Rican culture. Now, I am on a mission to make this happen and my last three bilingual children’s books reflect my passion for language and culture. I can also relate to difficult times…last year was tough and finding the joy in my writing was hard. Thanks for reminding us to “trick ourselves into happiness!” Your books give me hope! I love them! Cariños, Mari
January 22, 2025 at 8:23 am
Nadine Poper
I have been feeling quite ‘off’ the last few months and your post is going to help me get back on track. Waiting to feel better in order to create is not the answer as you suggested. Creating IS the answer. Thank you for this boost.
January 22, 2025 at 8:27 am
Kimberly. Storyteller
That’s so awesome that you and your family worked together in creating a children’s book–congratulations.
Lots of great tips too!❤
January 22, 2025 at 8:46 am
steveheron
Love the idea of resparking when the sparkle is gone.
January 22, 2025 at 9:14 am
Lauri Meyers
“Treat yourself as you treat your child” is something I’ve been working on. Getting my self talk to be as kind as my parenting voice is:)
January 22, 2025 at 9:28 am
brintonculp
I love the collaboration with your kids! And Yogi tea bags are great sources of inspiration – Thanks!
January 22, 2025 at 9:54 am
elizabethwilcoxsaba
LOVE these books! And your perspective! Thank You!
January 22, 2025 at 10:06 am
sunfishrule
Hi Jolene,
I’ve been struggling with writing a PB story about my husband’s grandfather, born out of wedlock and brought up by his grandparents in the late 1800’s. His story is one that I’d like to tell during that challenging period for him (as passed down in stories shared). The research we’ve uncovered is remarkable and I feel it is a story to be told, like you have done.
Your post has sparked my interest to write it and to not put aside. Thank you for sharing!
Laurie
January 22, 2025 at 10:18 am
Laurel Ranveig Abell
I needed this today ❤ Thank you.
January 22, 2025 at 10:38 am
JenFW
I love Mamiachi! And I’m game; I love collabs. Anyone wanna write with me?
January 22, 2025 at 10:44 am
lbsimaginarium
Thank you so much for your post! I love that you find light in the darkness!
January 22, 2025 at 10:58 am
Sydnie Kleinhenz
I like who you were able to partner with your children to create inspiring stories.
January 22, 2025 at 11:07 am
ellenbari
Great post! Thanks for the reminder about staying positive and the power of exercising creativity. You’ve also given me new food for thought about collaboration.
January 22, 2025 at 11:09 am
Juli Jones
Your books are quite the inspiration! Thanks for sharing your ideas with us.
January 22, 2025 at 11:24 am
A. McKay
I loved reading about the backstory to the books you created with your children; and your tips to regain/maintain our sparkle are wonderful. Thank you!
January 22, 2025 at 12:03 pm
instantfreely29b51b7a71
Jolene, thank you. I’m grateful for the light you’ve shone for us as well as for the reminder you’ve provided that (to borrow from MLK) it is when it’s darkest that we can truly see the light. Whether it’s pinpoint specks like the stars in the night sky, or a blossoming light like dawn’s arrival in the early morning, we can welcome that light and feel gratitude for its presence, no matter how dim it may seem at the time.
Thank you also for the wonderful creations that your books are and will be, among the published works from which we can learn, and for sharing how they came to be.
Karen Gardner
January 22, 2025 at 12:17 pm
erozmus
Mistaken words are the best inspo for stories! Love the mamiahca idea!
January 22, 2025 at 12:52 pm
Susan Halko
As a mom of kiddos about the same age as yours, I really appreciated this post. So cool that you could share your creative processes!
January 22, 2025 at 12:53 pm
marshaelyn
Jolene,
You are pure inspiration for us. Thank you for sharing an intimate look at your life and storytelling journey. Authors and illustrators DO shine light into the darkness. We uplift, inspire, and comfort with our creativity and craft. May your way ahead bring you joy and fulfillment.
January 22, 2025 at 12:59 pm
bevbaird
So loved your post and inspiring words. Thank you. I have just started working with my oldest son on a pix book project and I am thoroughly enjoying it.
January 22, 2025 at 2:27 pm
nicolesalterbraun
Such great advice. Thank you
January 22, 2025 at 2:40 pm
Donna Cangelosi
Such a beautiful post, Jolene! Thank you for your inspiring words and wonderful suggestions for persevering and creating spark. Couldn’t come at a better time!
January 22, 2025 at 2:42 pm
Michael Benner
Great inspiration, thank you! And I like the advice of eating a cookie or two in the sunshine, with your eyes closed. I think I’ll do that. 🙂
January 22, 2025 at 2:52 pm
Janice Woods
Beautiful post, Jolene. thanks you so much for sharing! 😊
January 22, 2025 at 2:58 pm
cathystenquist
Beautiful post! Thank you for all the inspiration, How cool to work with your son. My daughter @ericaleighart ( a professional Illo) and I did the same. We self published our first book FOREVER HOME together, Working with family can be very special.
January 22, 2025 at 3:23 pm
Gretchen McLellan
Thank you for your list of ways to create a spark and your idea of partnering to write a story of hope and joy and love. I have just the person and idea in mind for that!
Congratulations for bringing to young readers the books you needed so that they too can find a home in literature.
January 22, 2025 at 3:31 pm
michelerietz
Thank you, Jolene. I will use your advice to write through the dark times. How fun you’ve written books with your kids! 🙂
January 22, 2025 at 4:19 pm
Rebecca Gardyn Levington
Love this post! Love your books! Love your spirit! So happy we were able to connect finally at NCTE. Hope to see you again soon!
January 22, 2025 at 4:58 pm
rozanark
What a heartwarming story that was born during a dark time indeed. Thank you for sharing.
January 22, 2025 at 5:42 pm
lauraortmanbrock
Thanks so much for the post, Jolene! I definitely feel like I’ve lost my spark this month, and that’s a hard way to start out the year. But I’m thankful for your prompts (and the suggestion of eating a couple cookies with my eyes closed in the sunshine). Also, I heard you on the podcast “Getting to the Heart of Why We Write” and really enjoyed your interview. Awesome job!
January 22, 2025 at 5:57 pm
ssjaslove
Words of hope and inspiration! Thank you, Jolene!
January 22, 2025 at 6:08 pm
Jamie Donahoe
As others said, a balm for this very tough week. We will get through it – and books if all kids will help!
January 22, 2025 at 6:40 pm
Lisa Riddiough
Jolene, I am so inspired by your work. Thank you for this beautiful post!
January 22, 2025 at 6:58 pm
Angela De Groot
Thank you for sharing your books’ journeys and for helping us look for light and joyful creating.
January 22, 2025 at 7:09 pm
smfossett
I loved your ideas for creating when we’ve almost lost our sparkle. I’m off to see what I can spark!
January 22, 2025 at 8:20 pm
Teddie
What a perfect post for this week. Your post was just the spark I needed. Thank you!
January 22, 2025 at 9:03 pm
Laura Renauld
Congrats, Jolene! I needed to hear this today. Thank you.
January 22, 2025 at 9:05 pm
Laura Renauld
Congrats, Jolene! I needed to hear this today. Thanks!
January 22, 2025 at 9:09 pm
Bethanny Parker
Great post. Thanks.
January 22, 2025 at 9:50 pm
carolynscombs
I’m touched and impressed by how you worked together with your teenage children to create these important books. I also greatly appreciate your suggestions for working through and finding joy during the darkest days. Thank you!
January 22, 2025 at 10:19 pm
Karen
Great inspiration, thank you! And I like the advice of eating a cookie or two in the sunshine, with your eyes closed. I think I’ll do that with a nice cup of hot tea!
January 22, 2025 at 10:47 pm
Natasha S Garnett
Read and review great picture books. I like this advice!
Thank you, Jolene, for the post.
Natasha Garnett
January 22, 2025 at 10:56 pm
Eric Herrington
Thank you for your inspirational words! I like the idea of not waiting to get started and in the process of creating we may get more of an inspirational spark.
January 22, 2025 at 10:59 pm
kanessamiller
Thanks for sharing.
January 22, 2025 at 11:00 pm
Eric Herrington
Thank you for your inspirational words! I love the part about getting started and not waiting and that by being creative it can help our inspiration and productivity. Love that you worked together with your son and daughter on projects!
January 22, 2025 at 11:06 pm
jindreame
I love that you are able to write a story with your children.
January 22, 2025 at 11:16 pm
Karen Gebbia
So inspirational and uplifting! Going to turn off the lights and eat a chocolate chip muffin in the moonlight right now. 🙂
January 22, 2025 at 11:46 pm
Farida Zaman
What a uplifting and hopeful post! I agree about not waiting to feel better to write and collaborating. My daughter and I worked on a picture book together during the pandemic. She was the author and I illustrated it. That was such a precious project. Congrats on your book successes!
January 23, 2025 at 12:08 am
writersideup
Jolene, I can’t help that “Coco” was ablaze in my mind with your description 😀 And LOVE that you wrote a book with your son! How special is THAT? Thank you so much for such a wonderful post ❤
January 23, 2025 at 1:01 am
alamarre7571bc92b
Great story and great advice. Thanks for sharing!
January 23, 2025 at 9:20 am
Monica Acker
Perfect reminders! My favorite is “Waiting for the perfect day is kind of like waiting until you’re in shape to start exercising.”
January 23, 2025 at 11:40 am
Allison Strick
Thank you for sharing your journey to creating these wonderful books!
January 23, 2025 at 11:55 am
supermario6
I am thrilled for your success as a former Highlights attendee with you!
January 23, 2025 at 11:57 am
Prairie Garden Girl
Thank you, Jolene, for the reminder to enjoy the ride. Writing for kids is a journey filled with joy.
Suzy Leopold
January 23, 2025 at 12:46 pm
Lorraine McCown
As an educator, I love the notion of collaborating with wee folk. They have so many off the chart ideas and traditions that could be brought to light. Thank you for sharing your story!
January 23, 2025 at 1:19 pm
Michele Helsel
I really love the ideas you and your children developed into great books!
January 23, 2025 at 2:52 pm
shaunessysinnett
“Don’t wait until you feel better to start creating” is essential advice for all artists! Thanks, Jolene!
January 23, 2025 at 3:32 pm
nycbgriffin
*puts cookies in pocket and heads outside* Thanks!
January 23, 2025 at 3:37 pm
Teresa Speranza Vargas
Creating with your children and bonding with them through the writing process is very special. From the darkest times, can come the most creative work! Eating 1-2 cookies in the sunshine with eyes closed sounds so soothing and joyful…even more joyful?…4-6 cookies:)
January 23, 2025 at 5:58 pm
Leah Marks
Love your attitude of gratitude and to keep on writing!
January 23, 2025 at 7:19 pm
Lisa M. Horn
Thank you for your reminding us to stay positive and look for our gratitude. Your suggestions will definitely help us re-spark ideas so they sparkle!
January 23, 2025 at 7:22 pm
stephaniealterjones
What a lovely opportunity – to write a book with a child. And Mamiachi — love that title!
January 23, 2025 at 8:21 pm
Maria Johnson
Oh my gosh, love this post! Sometimes I get so preoccupied with trying to explain the messy and painful parts of our world to children through books that I really lose myself in the muck and mire AND I lose track of what makes a good story. This post offers a much better, healthier approach. Love that you work with your children, too!
January 23, 2025 at 9:45 pm
Janet Halfmann
Definitely looking to shine some light now! Brainstorming with others, such as grandkids, is so much fun!
January 24, 2025 at 12:20 am
Patricia Tiffany Morris
I thought I had answered, but it appears not. Thanks for the brainstorming ideas. I loved this post. Thanks!
January 24, 2025 at 12:40 am
Charles Trevino
“Eat a cookie or two in the sunshine with your eyes closed.”
Can’t wait to try that.
(Is it okay to have 3 cookies?)
January 24, 2025 at 1:49 am
claireannette1
What a light-filled post! Just what I needed today and it sparked a few joyful ideas. Thanks for the inspirations.
January 24, 2025 at 2:50 am
jantsuhr
I love your guiding questions and will use them as I continue on my writing journey.
I read “The Ofrenda That We Built” and also “Bionic Beasts” and enjoyed both of them. I look forward to reading your other books.
January 24, 2025 at 8:55 am
flewk1
Love the suggestion to find joy and eat cookies in the sunshine. Thank you.
January 24, 2025 at 9:06 am
Fiona Bannatyne
I think a reminder to find the joy in small things is always welcome. We need to, in order to keep ourselves bright. Thank you for your lovely blog.
January 24, 2025 at 10:03 am
jenweingardt
Thank you for your uplifting creative tips!
January 24, 2025 at 10:50 am
Elayne
Loved this post! So much goodness in there, but this reminder was especially powerful! : “Don’t wait until you feel better to start creating. The act of creating may help improve your mood.” Thank you for sharing all of this!
January 24, 2025 at 12:02 pm
kellyclasenwriter
This post gave me the warm fuzzies. Thank you!
January 24, 2025 at 12:59 pm
Karen Finch
I’m behind in reading Storystorm and this was the first post I read today. Just what I needed. But with this post, you’ve summed up how 2024 has impacted our creative souls and yet given us hope. What a joy to read about the power of co-creating with your kids. As a mom, I’m beaming for you. Congratulations to you all!
January 24, 2025 at 1:18 pm
Heidi Chupp
Oh I needed this. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom and for the beauty you are putting into the world through your books! You are modeling light in dark times for us. ❤
January 24, 2025 at 4:38 pm
Deborah Ishii
This spoke to my desire to share my stories! I have so many… as a retired teacher, a wife of a Japanese-Canadian for most of my life (almost 50 years!), a mother of mixed race children (one adopted), a bereaved sister from the age of 8… where do I start?
By chance I was talking to a Japanese-Canadian artist/ author friend yesterday (both of us feeling sad and depressed) and we were both wondering again what more we could do to spread the message of equity, diversity and inclusion through relating the Japanese-Canadian story. She’s already a published author (see “On Being Yukiko”) which is how we “met” online during the pandemic. Together, we wrote a Teacher’s Guide for her co-authored book (which I see you’ve done with Minoru Tonai re: the Japanese-American internment experience). I have supported classroom teachers in reading and exploring the book. We need to do more though, and your words support that! I will definitely be speaking to her again about your ideas.
Thank you for your inspiring words! You’ve ignited a spark which I’m hoping will develop into a flame of creativity!
On a more personal note, check out my friend’s artwork which is in some major Canadian museums. Her name is Lillian Michiko Yano. (she used to use her married name Blakey)
Take care!
January 24, 2025 at 5:17 pm
Sara Matson
Thanks for your inspiring post. I’m looking forward to reading your books!
January 24, 2025 at 5:24 pm
anaarchistories
What a joy your post was today!
Ana Archi
January 24, 2025 at 6:48 pm
Tonnye Fletcher
Everything about this makes me smile, Jolene. The joy, the comfort, the family, the music, the celebrations, the fact that you and Annie were chatting and her comment about eating a cookie in the sunshine. Wonderful job, my friend! So many excellent points! Shine on! 🙂
January 24, 2025 at 10:01 pm
Goodreadswithronna.com
Thank you, Jolene. Your timing is great. I’ve felt stuck and now feel grateful I can find new ways to become unstuck and help others do likewise due to this. Now if only I could cut down the sleeve of graham crackers I devour to just a couple! 😆
January 24, 2025 at 11:30 pm
carochamberlain
What a beautiful experience, to write alongside your children. Thank you for sharing!
January 25, 2025 at 12:12 am
jenwritespbs
Thank you for this! This is so inspiring. Sometimes we need validation that it is hard to be creative in dark times, but finding some light is the key.
January 25, 2025 at 5:56 am
kellie906ce70f01
How to create a spark when we’ve lost our sparkle? Love it. Thank you, Jolene.
January 25, 2025 at 6:25 am
dlapmandi
Thank you for your post. We all need to be reminded to celebrate in our grief, cherish our memories and talk with others to foster hope.
January 25, 2025 at 8:43 am
Andrea Mack
Thanks for sharing the stories behind your books!
January 25, 2025 at 10:04 am
rebeccaupjohn
I appreciated the hope and encouragement in your post. I LOVED that your kids were not only your inspiration for your books but were also co-creators. Thank you!!
January 25, 2025 at 10:53 am
Beth Elliott
I loved your post, Jolene, and the practical and joy-filled ways that you wrote the books you wanted to see your children have in their hands to reflect and honor culture, special family memories, and the power of relationships! Thank you for the push too to use creativity as a pick-me-up when times are difficult. I look forward to reading your books and sharing them with my family too.
January 25, 2025 at 11:36 am
littleseedsread
Your tips for keeping light in our lives, practicing gratitude, healing ourselves through creativity are such wonderful, appreciated advice. Indeed some days feel dark, but you’re right. We must keep loving ourselves and reframing through it all. Thank you!
January 25, 2025 at 5:01 pm
Angie
I love how you partnered with your children, Jolene! How awesome is that? Congratulations!
January 25, 2025 at 5:41 pm
Melissa Stoller
Jolene – you TRULY are a light in the world! You know I love all your books! Many congratulations and thanks for an inspiring post!
January 26, 2025 at 4:25 am
Maria Marshall
Jolene, what a wonderful gift to yourself and your kids to be able to work together to create those great books. Congrats! Thanks for all the fun and tasty ways to look for the light. Much needed.
January 26, 2025 at 5:30 am
Srividhya Venkat
Congratulations on your beautiful books and thanks for this uplifting post. It’s so important to see the brighter side of life even when we’re faced with challenges.
January 26, 2025 at 1:35 pm
tinefg
Thank you Jolene, such wonderful inspiration drawn from collaboration, culture and writing the stories you want(ed) to read, Brava! Congratulations on your successes.
January 26, 2025 at 1:55 pm
mdk45
Thank you, Jolene. You’ve created beautiful books and reminded us to think about what books children may need.
January 26, 2025 at 2:06 pm
helenlysicatos
Thanks for the post!
January 26, 2025 at 2:52 pm
heidikyates
I love that you collaborated with your kids. Thanks for sharing the inspiration, Jolene!
January 26, 2025 at 4:16 pm
peasecja
Thanks for the reminder that we need to keep creating even when we don’t feel like creating or may be close to losing our sparkle!
January 26, 2025 at 5:05 pm
stacyallen
just amazed at how you created these beautiful books during such a difficult time! Great post!
January 26, 2025 at 6:17 pm
staceygustafson
Beautiful advice…View the world with a childlike gaze. Find wonder, joy, and beauty everywhere!
January 26, 2025 at 10:25 pm
sharongiltrowauthor
I love don’t wait to feel better to do things. Doing things will make you feel better. Some wise gems in this post.
January 27, 2025 at 1:47 am
Judith Snyder
Sharing memories and stories does lift spirits and creates bonds. I’m sure writing them together does as well.
January 27, 2025 at 2:16 am
wyszguy
Thanks for keeping the light on!
January 27, 2025 at 9:35 am
thedillard5
What an inspiring post! Thanks so much, Jolene! 🙂
January 27, 2025 at 9:41 am
Michele Beutel Messina
Your love shines through your story and your book! Thank you for sharing, I feel inspired!
January 27, 2025 at 10:42 am
storyfairy
Both “Mamiachi and Me” and “The Ofrenda That We Built” sound amazing.
January 27, 2025 at 3:31 pm
Robin Perkins
This is balm for the soul, Jolene. Thank you for the inspiration.
Robin Perkins
January 27, 2025 at 6:37 pm
jimchaize1
How special that you collaborated with your children. Loved your uplifting post.
January 27, 2025 at 6:42 pm
yangmommy
Jolene, I love how your kids each helped to create such powerful and wonderful books! Clearly they get their writing talent from you 🙂 Can’t wait to see what you dream up next!
January 27, 2025 at 7:30 pm
carmen2750
I just requested three of your books from my local public library and am truly looking forward to reading them. I’m seriously hoping there’s a lot of Spanish vocabulary in all of them.
January 27, 2025 at 8:50 pm
Diane O'Neill
Thanks for all your kind advice. I can’t wait to read your books!!
January 27, 2025 at 9:42 pm
mphollinsheadyahoocom
So many hard times to lean on, with hope at the end. Thank you.
January 27, 2025 at 10:39 pm
topangamaria
Just survived a really dark firestorm that has altered life forever in my community so your words ring true and kind.
January 28, 2025 at 9:08 am
cravevsworld
Thank you for sharing!!!
January 28, 2025 at 12:45 pm
Johanna Peyton
Thank you for sharing your heart and inspiration in this post. It was exactly what I needed to hear this morning. Thank you.
January 28, 2025 at 12:54 pm
Jessica Milo
So inspiring!! Thanks for this wonderful post, Jolene!! Congrats on your books, I can’t wait to read them!!?
January 28, 2025 at 5:28 pm
Laura De La Cruz
Thanks for the great advice, Jolene!
January 28, 2025 at 5:43 pm
Judy Abelove Shemtob
I love your words of advice, Jolene. “Be gentle with yourself. You are precious. Treat yourself as you’d treat your child or your best friend.” How easily we don’t! Kudos for involving your children in writing your stories. My son just said to me, “What ever happened with those that story you read to me, and I gave you suggestions?” Thanks for your inspiration––You’re amazing!
January 28, 2025 at 9:06 pm
Jenn Gautam
Love your inspiration sources!
January 29, 2025 at 9:04 am
triciacandy
Thanks for the reminder and sweet history of your own stories.
January 29, 2025 at 2:24 pm
annettepimentel
Wise words!
January 29, 2025 at 5:40 pm
Marlena Leach
Congratulations on your books. I look forward to reading them.
January 29, 2025 at 6:55 pm
S. K. Wenger
thank you for the reminder that we don’t need to wait until we feel better to create. I need to hear that sometimes. Congratulations on these new books! They look wonderful, and I can’t wait to check them out. And what a treat to get to coauthor with your son!
January 29, 2025 at 9:00 pm
madisu2021
Jolene, I was impacted in the first two paragraphs of your post. How do I find a creative spark when I’m also sad, worried, or busy?
I didn’t realize how difficult it was to, “find well-written, joyful stories with characters of Mexican heritage…” Your first person account and how you responded is wonderful. Thank you.
January 29, 2025 at 9:32 pm
Lindsay Moretti
Such wonderful partnerships! Thank you for the inspiration and for shining a light on a brilliant way to stay creative in dark times.
January 29, 2025 at 9:32 pm
anakellyinla
Talk about titles that spark curiosity! Love the word Mamiachi!
January 29, 2025 at 11:18 pm
Ellen Leventhal
Jolene, I love your books AND your advice!
January 30, 2025 at 12:04 am
cathy
Yes, writing can help get us through those tough times in our lives.
January 30, 2025 at 1:59 am
Judy Sobanski
Thanks for sharing how you found ways to write even during difficult times.
January 30, 2025 at 1:31 pm
Sarah Meade
Love this post, Jolene! Thank you for sharing how you and your children worked together to create light and joy through your shared picture book projects. Thanks for the wise words and inspiration!
January 30, 2025 at 9:23 pm
juliereich
I love that you wrote with your daughter and son! My kids are around the same age as yours–I wonder if I could get them to cowrite with me.
January 30, 2025 at 10:24 pm
ptnozell
LOVE how you’ve brought light into the world while collaborating with your kids. Thank you!
January 31, 2025 at 3:03 am
Sandy
I love the suggestion to trick your brain into happiness by smiling and laughing. Thanks for sharing.
January 31, 2025 at 3:22 am
nazb0e1d8afb704
This was such a lovely post. Thank you for the motivation and inspiration!
January 31, 2025 at 7:41 am
Patti Ranson
Truly inspirational! (Thank you for suggesting cookies in the sunlight with your eyes closed – such a great image:)
January 31, 2025 at 10:16 am
Tara Cerven
Sometimes it is hard to find the joy in writing. Thank you for this uplifting post!
January 31, 2025 at 10:30 am
annereillywrites
Life meets art! Thanks for sharing your path – very inspiring 🙂
January 31, 2025 at 12:05 pm
Michele Beutel Messina
Thank you for sharing your process, and providing unpublished writers with such inspiration!
January 31, 2025 at 1:09 pm
Kristen Indahl
I needed this today! And how wonderful to work with your family to write books that celebrate the bonds of family. Thank you, Jolene!
January 31, 2025 at 1:19 pm
L. Hofke
Thanks for sharing your journey, Jolene.
January 31, 2025 at 1:56 pm
michellesteinberg
Thank you so much, Jolene, for sharing your experiences and tips. In the current political climate, this post spoke to me about keeping on keeping on. Thanks for the reminder.
January 31, 2025 at 6:34 pm
lzgodfrey
Thank you for your beautiful post, Jolene! During dark times, I appreciate the reminder to seek the beautiful and joyous and your advice is the perfection salve!
January 31, 2025 at 7:33 pm
timeless102
Lovely, thank you!
January 31, 2025 at 10:17 pm
daydreambelievin
Thank you for your guidance.
January 31, 2025 at 10:31 pm
Diane McBee
Thank you!
January 31, 2025 at 11:08 pm
deniseaengle
I’m going to try to eat a cookie or two in the sunshine!! Love it!!!!
February 1, 2025 at 1:37 am
Olivia Fisher
Your post really touched my heart. It is wise advice to remind us to keep creating even when things are hard because it can be a source of joy and relief.
February 1, 2025 at 2:06 am
amanda p
Such a sweet post and cherished moments with your kids that you’ll (likely) remember forever!
February 1, 2025 at 10:32 am
Louise M. Aamodt
Boy, this one hit home. Thanks for the push, and congrats on your recent releases!
February 1, 2025 at 3:18 pm
writeremmcbride
Oh Jolene! Yours is a wonderful and powerful story, with great recommendations following! I believe there was a direct hit with the recommendation not to wait until one feels better, stronger, or like a genius before trying to create something! The act of writing and/or illustrating something actually starts and multiplies our efforts and gives us ideas! You are right (write)! Thank you so much!
February 1, 2025 at 3:33 pm
TerriMichels
Thank you for the heart felt telling of ideas and your story.
February 2, 2025 at 1:32 am
authorlaurablog
I am just coming back to comment on some posts I read but haven’t commented on. Of course this is a wonderful post, Jolene and although I knew the backstory of your pandemic projects with your wonderful children, your advice to keep writing through the hard times is really great. It’s been a rough start to the year, to say the least. Trying to catch up on all the things this weekend. Looking forward to seeing you next Friday.
February 2, 2025 at 5:47 am
kkeppol
Thank you for sharing.
February 2, 2025 at 1:25 pm
Eileen Mayo
Thank you so much for sharing.
February 3, 2025 at 4:27 pm
ashleydbankhead
Great post! Thank you for all the ideas on how to keep writing.
February 3, 2025 at 9:42 pm
aturner513
This post makes my heart warm. My sons both married lovely Mexican American girls so I’m always looking for books to celebrate and inform my grandson’s Mexican heritage. Thank you for sharing
February 4, 2025 at 11:59 am
jasminefang
yes, celebrate often and find gratitude always. thanks for sharing!
February 4, 2025 at 12:26 pm
mariautumn7c81b37a0a
I love hearing about all your co-authored books. Thank you for this post.
February 5, 2025 at 10:53 pm
Kathy Doherty
Ahh…Jolene, your post was uplifting. Thank you!
February 6, 2025 at 2:14 pm
Aimee Larke
Love your backstories. Thank you for sharing!
February 6, 2025 at 2:50 pm
K.A.Steed
loved hearing your story. Thanks for sharing!!
February 6, 2025 at 6:02 pm
Denita Johnson
Inspiring to here you using your family to create stories, thanks for sharing.
February 6, 2025 at 10:35 pm
teresa.mi.schaefer
I could enjoy a cookie or two in the sunshine with my eyes closed. 🙂 Love the collaboration with your kids. Thank you. teresa mi schaefer