Not long ago I had the book launch for my debut picture book, LILLA’S SUNFLOWERS. It was an exciting, invigorating, and tiring day.
Now I am deep into the marketing phase—not a hat I was prepared to wear. My degree is in visual art, not marketing, but with the help of my husband we are making some progress.
Here is a synopsis of my story: Lilla and Papa enjoy spending magical times in Lilla’s sunflower patch. Before Papa leaves for a trip that will take him far away from home for a long time, Lilla gives him a sunflower seed. “To remember me, Papa,” Lilla whispers.
Seasons pass, and Lilla’s mood falls like autumn leaves.
Finally, news comes that her papa is coming home! The following summer, to her surprise, she receives letters from families with photos of their loved ones pictured with sunflowers. She learns that her gift to her father brightened the dark days for many people, and that her one small seed continued spreading sunshine across the country.
Through the illustrations, the reader learns Lilla’s father has left for military deployment. The story was inspired by videos of children and pets being reunited with their loved ones who’d been deployed to serve our country.
As I wrote my story I knew I wanted it to be heartwarming. Funny stories are great, but not really me. Even as a small child my favorite book was a touching book called THE SHEEP OF THE LAL BAGH. It was about a sheep that was replaced by a lawnmower and is brought back when the townspeople realize what a unique contribution he made to their town.
So I wrote in my quiet style and hoped it would sell. And it did—within months. But I was not prepared for the impact the words and images that once only existed in my mind would have on others.
It didn’t hit me until after the book launch when I received a touching email from a reader who said my book was just what her family needed—her husband was being deployed in 2017 for a year.
Another surprise I received was from a veteran who read my book and bought it to read to his grandchildren. He planned to read to them as a way to open a discussion about how their mom handled his deployment during the Korean War.
Like the flowers in Lilla’s garden, I hope my little book of hope can continue to reach many readers and bring a little sunshine far and wide.
Colleen Rowan Kosinski is an author-illustrator of children’s books. As a lover of nature and animals, in the spring you can usually find her nursing a sick rabbit or robin back to health. Colleen resides in Cherry Hill, NJ with her husband, three sons, Doberman Pinscher, Rottweiler, and Miniature Dachshund. Follow her journey @writergirlrowan.
Thank you, Colleen, for such a touching story behind the story. Colleen is giving away a copy of LILLA’S SUNFLOWERS to a random commenter. Leave a comment below, one comment per person, US addresses only, please. A winner will be randomly selected in two weeks.
GOOD LUCK!
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September 1, 2016 at 11:48 am
Katie Giorgio
How lovely…thanks for sharing!
September 1, 2016 at 11:50 am
Melissa Stoller
Good luck with this beautiful story. I look forward to reading!
September 1, 2016 at 11:55 am
Janice Harrell
Beautiful story! Beautiful pictures! Beautiful lady! Congrats
September 1, 2016 at 11:59 am
Lucky Jo Boscarino
“I wrote in my quiet style” says it all. Congrats on the new book, I look forward to reading it to my nieces.
September 1, 2016 at 11:59 am
fireurchin
I love the synopsis, and the art is beautifully drawing me in to want to know this character. Can’t wait to read the book! Thank you for sharing your personal story about writing a quiet story. Though I can often inject a little humor into my stories it is usually of the quiet kind. I love quiet stories – which are sometimes quite deep really. Quiet spaces allow for time to feel and make emotional connection, instead of rushing past everything. I feel we need more of these stories, children do.
In your marketing, it seems reaching out somehow directly to veterans might be a good thing?
September 1, 2016 at 12:01 pm
Kristi Romo
What an important and necessary story.
September 1, 2016 at 12:03 pm
Brenda Huante
What a beautiful idea for a book!
September 1, 2016 at 12:03 pm
paulinetso
It’s a beautiful book, Colleen – congratulations! So happy when a “quiet” book makes it 🙂
September 1, 2016 at 12:03 pm
Leslie Santamaria
Yes! This is why I write. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story. Best wishes with your book!
September 1, 2016 at 12:06 pm
Natasha
Sunflowers are the perfect symbol of light, happiness, and hope. I’d love to win a copy of Colleen’s book.
September 1, 2016 at 12:08 pm
Wendy Greenley
Thrilled for you, Colleen! What a great book to share.
September 1, 2016 at 12:11 pm
Leslie Raith
This story will impact generations of families. Wonderfully heartfelt creating!
September 1, 2016 at 12:22 pm
Lindsay Hanson Metcalf
Love this idea. Can’t wait to read it!
September 1, 2016 at 12:24 pm
Debra Shumaker
Wow, I can’t wait to read this book! It sounds so sweet and so perfect for so many families. . . .
September 1, 2016 at 12:24 pm
laurameressa
Beautiful! Can’t wait to read this!
September 1, 2016 at 12:26 pm
Penelope
What a sweet story for families to share!
September 1, 2016 at 12:26 pm
Carleen M. Tjader
Quiet books can be just perfect, and your books sounds exactly that!
September 1, 2016 at 12:29 pm
Kathy Doherty
What a beautiful and heartwarming book on so many levels.
September 1, 2016 at 12:35 pm
Emmie R Werner
Thank you!!!!!!!! Beautiful story. AND sunflowers are special to me.
September 1, 2016 at 12:36 pm
Johnell DeWitt
Lovely!
September 1, 2016 at 12:38 pm
candicewolff
I was a military child and watched my father leave in the middle of the night for the Gulf War. Thank you for writing a story for these children that face such a frightening separation from their parents.
September 1, 2016 at 12:44 pm
Maria Marshall
Colleen, what a beautiful story. I can’t wait to read it. Being an army brat, with many military friends, , I know the need for a book like that. Congrats. And thanks Tara for highlighting both the book and Colleen.
September 1, 2016 at 12:53 pm
Sharlin Craig
I love your quiet book.:) Beautiful all around. Congratulations on touching the hearts of so many.
September 1, 2016 at 12:53 pm
Pat
What a lovely story! As a military spouse myself, I can confirm that such books are so helpful for military families when mom or dad deploy! I wish it was published when my husband was gone for a full year to Afghanistan. Thank you for filling that void.
September 1, 2016 at 12:56 pm
katmaz2012
Thank you for sharing this touching story. I am putting on the list for my library to purchase.
September 1, 2016 at 12:59 pm
Cathy Ogren
What an inspiring story, Colleen! It is one that is sure to be a winner among many readers.
September 1, 2016 at 1:00 pm
Debra Daugherty
I love how your story reached and touched so many military families. Sunflowers are my favorite flower and I even have a chalk picture of sunflowers in a field hanging on my living room wall.
September 1, 2016 at 1:03 pm
Lotus Ivak
Such a beautiful story! Congratulations Colleen!
September 1, 2016 at 1:23 pm
Jeanine Potter Lovell
Thank you for sharing your story and journey. Isn’t it wonderful that stories have such power to do so much good! Best of luck to you.
September 1, 2016 at 1:24 pm
DM Paul
As a military spouse I think this is a wonderful concept and will be passing along your blog address to my community.
September 1, 2016 at 1:33 pm
Rebecca Snyder
Beautiful, I love how the words planted hope and sunshine into so many hearts. That, for me, is what writing for children is all about
September 1, 2016 at 1:34 pm
M. A. Bentz
Beautiful Colleen. Great story lovely illustrations.
September 1, 2016 at 1:43 pm
davidmcmullin1
Congratulations on your lovely book, Colleen. How gratifying it must be to know your words are making a difference in some people’s lives.
September 1, 2016 at 1:44 pm
Lynne Marie
What a touching story! Thanks for sharing Colleen and Kathy!
September 1, 2016 at 1:44 pm
Anne Bromley
Thank you, Colleen! I could have used this book when I was waiting for my dad to return from Korea. I will pass along your blog post to friends who can use this book now. All the best to you!
September 1, 2016 at 2:13 pm
Megan Cason
I love this! So fun to see the impact your story has had!
September 1, 2016 at 2:23 pm
rgstones
What a beautiful book! I have a family member deployed now, and his kids will love this. 🙂
September 1, 2016 at 2:38 pm
Heather Pierce Stigall
This sounds like a lovely book. Congratulations!
September 1, 2016 at 3:02 pm
writeknit
This is such an important topic for children (and grownups) thank you for writing this book. And thanks for the opportunity to win a copy.
September 1, 2016 at 3:02 pm
Rebecca E. Guzinski
What a touching blog and story! Thank you for sharing.
September 1, 2016 at 3:06 pm
CAROLYN AYERS
Thank you for this lovely story which honors the experience of so many American families as they sacrifice to serve and protect.
September 1, 2016 at 3:13 pm
Damon Dean, SevenAcreSky
It will land on my wish list…I love what are often labeled ‘quietbooks’ and love that this topic is out there. Kid readers need to read about listening to themselves, and quiet books offer them that option. Thanks Colleen.
September 1, 2016 at 3:31 pm
waengel2002
I was raised in a military family so your book ready hit home with me. What a wonderful gift you have given military families. Thank you.
September 1, 2016 at 3:48 pm
Sandy Lowe
Picture books can do anything, including support military families! Well done, Colleen!
September 1, 2016 at 3:56 pm
joanwatsonmartin
i am so glad that you felt the need for a book for families whose loved one is far away and in dangerous territory. I have seen so few that will help those in the same condition that Lilly is in. Well done!
September 1, 2016 at 4:19 pm
Wendy
Beautiful idea and story. Thanks for spreading your own bit of sunshine.
September 1, 2016 at 4:35 pm
Carol Jones
What a difficult subject to write about. Congratulations on finding a key to unlock a way into the story that will make it resonate with so many folks.
September 1, 2016 at 4:38 pm
supermario6
Wonderful story!
September 1, 2016 at 4:41 pm
betlw
I love the heart behind the creation of this book. it will be a great resource for parents who have faced or will face the same situation. I hope your book sells wildly!
September 1, 2016 at 4:43 pm
lindamartinandersen
I live in a military town. This is a great book for so many children with military parents. Congratulations on just the right decision–a book with heart!
September 1, 2016 at 5:15 pm
aliciaminor
Military families need authors like you writing sensitive and heartwarming stories which are timeless. I wish you more success!
September 1, 2016 at 5:19 pm
Gale Profico
Fabulous Colleen❤what a wonderful accomplishment!!! So cool to see USA troops enjoying a good read☺
September 1, 2016 at 5:27 pm
Nancy Tandon
Congratulations on your book! What I love about this story is that you stayed true to your writer voice, and it paid off. Best of luck as your book baby wings off into the world…
September 1, 2016 at 5:36 pm
Angie
What a beautiful story! Congratulations on your lovely book. Can’t wait to read it!
September 1, 2016 at 5:53 pm
mariagianferrari
This looks lovely & heartwarming and a much needed story indeed! Congratulations, Colleen!
September 1, 2016 at 6:23 pm
Rita K.
This book sounds amazing. I love picture books that span the ages and leave you thinking. Congratulations on this accomplishment. I can’t wait to read it and share it with the children (of all ages) in my life.
September 1, 2016 at 6:33 pm
Carolyn Davis
Thank you for sharing your story.
September 1, 2016 at 6:40 pm
priscillaquilla
Beautiful illustrations perfectly complement this lovely story.
September 1, 2016 at 6:45 pm
Rosi Hollinbeck
What a wonderful concept for a book and the art work is gorgeous. Congrats!
September 1, 2016 at 6:45 pm
Gina Raimondo
Beautiful Collen! Looking forward to reading it. Every classroom should have a copy!
September 1, 2016 at 6:48 pm
Gloria Amescua
This sounds like such a touching story that many families want for their children or grandchildren.
September 1, 2016 at 7:10 pm
Rachael
What a wonderfully touching and meaningful story. The symbolism you create between the storyline and illustrations is great. Not only is it an important story for military families to share, but it also demonstrates the “ripple effect” that one small action can have on others. Thank you for writing this story!
September 1, 2016 at 7:11 pm
Cinzia
Sounds like a lovely book. So glad you’ve gotten such good feedback from readers.
September 1, 2016 at 7:29 pm
Marcia Strykowski
Sounds like a very special book and I love the illustrations. Congratulations on the success you’ve had. I look forward to reading it!
September 1, 2016 at 7:30 pm
Carol A. Wolf
Absolutely love the story behind the story, and look forward to reading your book!
September 1, 2016 at 8:16 pm
danielle hammelef
What a great idea for a book and it fills a need besides being a beautiful story. Excellent! Thank you for sharing this heart-warming post today.
September 1, 2016 at 8:39 pm
Erika
wow! What a sweet story, I love the illustrations as well.
September 1, 2016 at 9:14 pm
kdveiten
What a wonderful back story! Congratulations and thanks for sharing!
September 1, 2016 at 9:37 pm
ptnozell
What a wonderful story, Colleen! I love, and write, heart-felt stories, too. I’m so happy for you that the story you wanted to write is warming the hearts of others, too. I can’t wait to read it!
September 1, 2016 at 10:31 pm
Becky Scharnhorst
This sounds like a beautiful and touching story. I look forward to reading it!
September 2, 2016 at 1:12 am
kiwijenny
What a hopeful story. Nothing brightens a day like the love of a child and that love is shown by a sunflower. Perfect. This will help families cope in a beautiful way. Hugs to you
September 2, 2016 at 4:48 am
angelcat2014
Sounds like a touching story. P.S. I love sunflowers. 🙂
September 2, 2016 at 8:46 am
Traci Sorell
Colleen, may you have continued success with this book and sharing your “quiet style” in future works. I can’t wait to read this!
September 2, 2016 at 9:07 am
Anne Iverson
What a beautiful story and the reason for writing it. I’m sure your book will find its way into thousands of military homes!
On Thu, Sep 1, 2016 at 11:40 AM, Writing for Kids (While Raising Them) wrote:
> Tara Lazar posted: “by Colleen Rowan Kosinski Not long ago I had the book > launch for my debut picture book, LILLA’S SUNFLOWERS. It was an exciting, > invigorating, and tiring day. Now I am deep into the marketing phase—not a > hat I was prepared to wear. My degree is in vi” >
September 2, 2016 at 9:09 am
evelynchristensen
What a heart-warming post, Colleen. I’m so glad your book is bringing comfort and hope to so many children. Best wishes to you!
September 2, 2016 at 1:52 pm
Sheri Rad
So many good ideas and heartwarming stories are out there. And I wonder if this is considered a diverse story because it covers all types of people and families of deployed soldiers.
September 2, 2016 at 2:34 pm
Jennifer Phillips
I appreciate your comment about focusing on a quiet story that fits with your style rather than trying to write in a manner that doesn’t. A good reminder to remain true to yourself.
September 2, 2016 at 4:40 pm
Ali Earle Pichardo
Another beautiful story to add to my collection. Wish I had had it for my daughter when my son the Marine went to Iraq. It would have helped both of us.
September 3, 2016 at 2:12 am
wendymyersart
Such a great story Colleen! It looks beautiful. I’m looking forward to reading it. Congrats on a wonderful project all around!
September 3, 2016 at 1:11 pm
Natalie Jager
It looks lovely! I will get this to keep on my bookshelves at school- never know when one of my parents will be deployed! Thank you!
September 3, 2016 at 2:56 pm
KatyD
The book sounds lovely! Congrats!
September 3, 2016 at 9:56 pm
Jeanna Massman
This books sounds perfect for children who have to be without a parent for long periods of time.
September 4, 2016 at 12:33 pm
Trudi Foss
Such a sweet, heartfelt book. The whimsical photos seem perfect for the book.
September 4, 2016 at 2:43 pm
Brenda Harris
What a lovely touching story and the illustrations are perfect. Beautifully done!
September 5, 2016 at 1:11 pm
Charlotte Dixon
I have a copy of your book, Colleen. It is a soothing and refreshing reminder of family sacrifice and love. Your beautiful soul shines in each word and touching illustration. Congrats on a job well done.
September 5, 2016 at 4:58 pm
Sandy Perlic
Such an important book for families facing (or enduring) separations. Can’t wait to read it!
September 6, 2016 at 1:42 pm
bethanyj0
Inspiring to me to keep writing and creating, because you never know who will be touched by your writing. Thanks, Colleen and Tara.
September 6, 2016 at 7:16 pm
writingcygnet
I love the story behind your book. I’ve had a difficult time selling my picture book manuscripts because editors tell me they’re not interested in “quiet” stories. Well, that’s what I write also and your story gives me hope that someday soon an editor will recognize the value in quiet stories like mine as well!
September 7, 2016 at 10:45 am
Kim
Thanks for sharing this story!
September 7, 2016 at 4:08 pm
Shux
Wow! This book looks amazing, thanks for sharing, I love the sunflowers on the cover and the picture.
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September 9, 2016 at 10:14 am
R
This sounds lovely. I appreciate the heart-warming variety of stories, and my kids do too. We also appreciate funny, but I think there’s a big place for this kind of book when it comes to difficult experiences in children’s lives and also just sensitive kids. Despite what publishers are buying, “quiet” stories really appeal to some kids.
September 11, 2016 at 10:12 pm
Carole Calladine
What a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing.
September 13, 2016 at 4:40 pm
Deb Manske
Our son will be deploying in summer of 2017 so would love to get my hands on one of these books looks like a real gem.