PiBoIdMo readers arrived today with packed suitcases, believing I had the inspirational ticket for guaranteed passage on the gleaming picture book express.
This is not that train.
Once upon a time I thought I had the golden ticket, but it turned out to be a day pass. Here’s the story.
By the time I was four, I wanted three things: a husband, a daughter, and a book that I wrote myself. I was sketchy about how to accomplish the first two, so I tackled the book. In purple crayon, a popcorn ball rolled through perilous adventures across our living room walls. My mother patiently explained that books belonged on paper, and my father wrote my story on a notepad as I recited it.
I kept writing (on paper) and eventually received a master’s degree in English. I had official jobs, but secretly I wrote picture books.
Then I found my husband, an elementary teacher who believed my stories were wonderful. He read them to his classes and asked students to draw their favorite part. He believed I had promise.
In a twist of fate, I met Florence Parry Heide, a successful children’s author who told me to join SCBW, long before they had added the I to their name. Early newsletters had pages of editors and addresses. I submitted manuscripts for almost seven years. When I complained about my rejections, Florence said, “Do you want to see mine? I have boxes of them.” So I kept trying. An editor finally called because she loved my story, but the project ended when a new publisher was hired. The editor told me not to stop writing, but I did. It seemed pointless.
Then we adopted our daughter Maggie from China. Her government document said: Baby found forsaking. I realized eleven months of her life would always be a blank page. When her first English word was moon, I imagined it had been the magic in her orphanage nights. Perhaps her favorite toys represented animals she had seen in China. I invented nap time tales about her adventures with them.
When Maggie was five, she asked what I had wanted to be when I grew up. I read her the manuscript that had come close to publication. She liked it and said, “You should write more, Mama.” How could I expect her to believe in dreams if I gave up on mine? So I put her on my lap and began to type a story called Sweet Moon Baby.
Rejections arrived, but Maggie’s faith in me never wavered. In second grade, she wrote to me as Editor at Clark House Printing and Loving Company. Not only did she love Sweet Moon Baby, she asked if I had others as “wonderful and enchanting.”
Then one day I received the long-awaited yes I had waited for almost my entire life. Sweet Moon Baby: An Adoption Tale, illustrated by Patrice Barton, was published by Knopf in 2010.
The three-point dream of my four-year-old self came true. Entering the Random House Lobby to visit my editor was my Homecoming Queen moment. At author events when parents announced: “This is our Sweet Moon Baby,” I was proud to have given a lovely name to adopted Chinese children.
But things change. Now my book is out of print. None of my other manuscripts have worked for an editor. My agent search is unsuccessful. I’ve derailed at the station. My engine flew over the edge, crashed at the bottom of the canyon, and someone spray-painted loser on my caboose.
Still, I can’t quit. And for that I thank my mother and the picture books she read to me constantly. Because she grew up on a farm with no electricity or running water, she favored stories about hard work. Wispy princesses and their vain wishes did not interest her. The Little Engine that Could was her favorite. Through chores, we chanted: “I think I can. I think I can. I think I can.”
My mother (and Watty Piper) gave me the metaphor for my life.
Determined little engine that I was, my first story was about a journey.
Sweet Moon Baby was about a journey.
What I’ve come to understand is that success requires more than writing a great story. You have to understand your writing journey. Whether you’re published or not, your writing can derail. Sometimes you land in the canyon, but you can write down there, too. I am.
My adventure is mine, stop by stop. And that’s not failure. It’s just my track.
Karen Henry Clark has been a high school teacher, college administrator, advertising copywriter, newspaper essayist, and book reviewer. Earning ISBN 978-0-375-95709-3 for Sweet Moon Baby: An Adoption Tale was her proudest professional achievement. She chugs on, hoping to earn another one. Meanwhile, she blogs erratically (but with good intentions) on “For All I Can Tell” at www.karenhenryclark.com.
Karen is generously giving away a signed copy of SWEET MOON BABY.
This prize will be given away at the conclusion of PiBoIdMo. You are eligible for this prize if:
- You have registered for PiBoIdMo.
- You have commented ONCE ONLY on today’s post.
- You have completed the PiBoIdMo challenge. (You will have to sign the PiBoIdMo Pledge at the end of the event.)
Good luck, everyone!
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November 4, 2014 at 7:53 am
The World Is My Cuttlefish
Well that was a tear-jerker of a post. You describe my writing situation well. I’ll write with you in the canyon looking up at the tracks across the sky.
November 4, 2014 at 3:05 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for being with me.
November 4, 2014 at 7:57 am
Alexa Kaufhold
Wow. Thank you for an inspiring and honest post. While it’s always nice to believe in straight paths to success, I think most writers find themselves derailed at some point. That’s why I’m here, trying to get back on track. The more difficult the journey, the more glorious the destination, right?
November 4, 2014 at 3:06 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I agree completely.
November 4, 2014 at 7:58 am
Betsy Devany
Karen, you are a true inspiration, and I loved reading about your incredible journey. SWEET BABY MOON is a beautiful book.
The image of you writing in your canyon, your determination, it really speaks to me. Know that you’re not alone in the canyon. We are all there with you, carving out our stories, while taking breaks to wonder at the moon.
THE LITTLE ENGINE THAT COULD was a perennial in our house growing up. My mom read it to us, over and over again.
Thank you, Tara, for inviting Karen to be a guest blogger.
Karen, here’s to you chugging your way out of the canyon, and birthing another wonderful picture book to share with the world.
November 4, 2014 at 3:08 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Whenever we’ve moved and I could hear a train in the distance at night, I knew it was the right house.
November 4, 2014 at 7:59 am
Pat Miller
I love your book! Wonderful to see the Sweet Moon Baby that inspired it–and you. Thanks for the gritty dose of writer reality, and the determined, persevering spirit it requires. That’s what builds the tracks that lead out of the canyon. Looking forward to your next book!
November 4, 2014 at 3:09 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks so much. I am, too!
November 4, 2014 at 8:01 am
thelogonauts
Thank you for sharing your journey, and it sounds like a lovely story. I think it is important to honor the struggle of writing, especially as so many of us will face these same realities!
November 4, 2014 at 3:10 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It took me a long time to accept that the distance from A to B wasn’t going to be a straight line.
November 4, 2014 at 8:04 am
Jeanine Potter
Thank you for such a powerful post. Perhaps your book and it’s message was the main destination of your particular writing train… Wishing you and your beautiful daughter all that you wish for- and many more exciting rides…
November 4, 2014 at 3:11 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie is indeed the train ride of my life.
November 4, 2014 at 8:04 am
Amanda Banks
Thank you so much for this post. It is just the inspiration that I needed to hear.
November 4, 2014 at 3:11 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m honored to know it helped.
November 4, 2014 at 8:05 am
Hayley B
How wonderful that your sweet moon baby made your SWEET MOON BABY possible. You and Maggie look so happy and proud and determined. Thanks, Karen!
November 4, 2014 at 3:13 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Once I saw the finished book with those beautiful illustrations, I understood that my book that almost got published was not my truest story.
November 4, 2014 at 8:11 am
Nancy Tandon
Writing in the bottom of the canyon. I love it! I cheer and applaud you!
November 4, 2014 at 3:14 pm
Karen Henry Clark
As I read through these great comments, I realize I’ve never been alone down here.
November 4, 2014 at 8:12 am
Julie Segal Walters
Oh, I so hear you! Thank you for sharing your path — and your journey to accepting your path. We all need to understand the emotion of both.
November 4, 2014 at 3:15 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It took me a long to listen. Thanks so much.
November 4, 2014 at 8:13 am
Poppy Wrote
That was a lovely read! Never quit on your dreams. Never.
November 4, 2014 at 3:15 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate the reminder.
November 4, 2014 at 8:15 am
Eva Folks
Very inspirational. Thank you for sharing.
November 4, 2014 at 3:16 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I tried to get Tara to pick someone else because I was afraid I’d discourage everyone. She believed in me.
November 4, 2014 at 8:15 am
Susan Eyerman
You’ve touched my heart and inspired the writer in me to continue on my creative path. “I think I can” can become “I thought I could” with continued practice. Thank you.
November 4, 2014 at 3:17 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s really true. I swear it is.
November 4, 2014 at 8:17 am
Kate @ KMericks
I adored this book, all of it, and can’t wait to see more from you! Thank you for the reminder that we all follow our own path. xx
November 4, 2014 at 3:19 pm
Karen Henry Clark
No two writers ever have the same path, although we trick ourselves into believing there is an easy way.
November 4, 2014 at 8:17 am
Susan Halko
What an inspirational post! Thank you for sharing your story, Karen.
November 4, 2014 at 3:19 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I was afraid I’d make people give up. I’m thrilled to know I was wrong.
November 4, 2014 at 8:20 am
Zette Cochet
Beautiful! Thanks for the inspiration! I love your book!!!
November 4, 2014 at 3:21 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. Once I saw what Patrice did with my words, I understood the real magic of a picture book. She saw what I couldn’t.
November 4, 2014 at 8:22 am
agsawan
I love this post, and felt like it was telling my tale! What a wonderful story to share, so relatable and perfectly illustrating the ups and downs of the path we have choosen as writers. Thank you (P.S. I too have a moon baby, lucky me, lucky you.)
November 4, 2014 at 3:23 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Congratulations. They’re wonderful, aren’t they?
November 4, 2014 at 8:22 am
Rebekah Hoeft
Thanks, Karen! What a great post! I appreciate your honesty about the hard work it takes to become a published writer.
November 4, 2014 at 3:23 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Hard work. Luck. And more hard work.
November 4, 2014 at 8:23 am
Leslie Raith
Loved your post, love your story. Leslie Raith
November 4, 2014 at 3:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for taking the time to let us know. The challenge of coordinating all this has to be enormous for the Amazing Tara.
November 4, 2014 at 8:23 am
Priya
Beautiful post about perseverance and following your own journey which is unique in itself, no comparison needed. (Priya Gopal)
November 4, 2014 at 3:26 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s hard not to compare myself to everyone who seems to be wildly successful. But that’s not my journey.
November 4, 2014 at 8:24 am
elainekielykearns
Thank you for sharing your story with us! What a beautiful post! 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 4:17 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. Best I can tell, we’ve all got a great story to share.
November 4, 2014 at 8:24 am
thestoryladyva
What an inspiration! Thank you for your beautiful post and for your honesty!
November 4, 2014 at 4:19 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It made me nervous to tell people my book was out of print, but it happens. I’m glad you understand.
November 4, 2014 at 8:26 am
Deb Dudley
So moved by Karen’s journey. As writers, we are all on the publishing track together.
November 4, 2014 at 4:20 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Indeed we are. Today I’m happy to learn I’m in the company of so many great adventurers.
November 4, 2014 at 8:26 am
marciecolleen
Thank you for your honesty about your journey. Just think about the passengers who would love to be on your track but are still sitting in the station, not brave enough to leave. Congrats! You have achieved. And we know you can again!
November 4, 2014 at 4:22 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate your generous spirit. I hung around the station for a long time myself.
November 4, 2014 at 8:26 am
sgfortson
I appreciate the honest description of your writer’s life, especially valuable in this age of “Facebook Bliss” where so many lives appear perfect.
November 4, 2014 at 4:23 pm
Karen Henry Clark
“Facebook Bliss” is an excellent expression. Its hard not to get sucked in, isn’t it?
November 4, 2014 at 8:27 am
jillesbaum
This post put a lump in my throat, Karen. Hang in there. You’ve got the right stuff to climb out of that canyon again.
November 4, 2014 at 4:24 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The day our tracks intersected was my great professional blessing, Jill. Thank you forever.
November 4, 2014 at 8:27 am
supermario6
Thanks for sharing your story.
November 4, 2014 at 4:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You’re welcome. Our shared stories are everything.
November 4, 2014 at 8:29 am
Patricia Holloway
Your story is inspiring and endearing. I believe you can too.
November 4, 2014 at 4:26 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I value your good wishes.
November 4, 2014 at 8:30 am
Alison Mary O'Donnell
A very honest post about success and struggles. Thank you.
November 4, 2014 at 4:27 pm
Karen Henry Clark
As my mother used to say, we all have a tough row to hoe sometimes.
November 4, 2014 at 8:31 am
kateywrites
I am another writer who dreamed since youth of publishing – and am finally putting my heart and soul into making it happen. I loved reading your story and am so inspired by your efforts to have those three things: baby, husband, book. What a perfect triad of joy! Thank you for sharing struggles and success with all of us!
November 4, 2014 at 4:30 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve met many people who have known from an early age that they wanted to be writers. In fact, a mother brought her first grade daughter to one of my book signings because the girl was already trying to write books. She wanted her to meet a real person who had succeeded. Thank goodness for the wisdom of parents.
November 4, 2014 at 8:31 am
Carrie Finison
Thanks for sharing this, Karen. Your story is inspirational. The thing I love about PiBoIdMo and the other online writing communities I am a part of is that they remind me constantly that I am not alone on this crazy track. We’re all pulling along together.
November 4, 2014 at 4:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Me, too. I’m delighted by all these crowded tracks.
November 4, 2014 at 8:32 am
Jan Milusich
As someone who feels derailed at the moment it was a hopeful message, thank you.
November 4, 2014 at 4:33 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I believe there are no accidents in life. We find the right message at the right moment.
November 4, 2014 at 8:33 am
Laurie Theurer
Keep writing… you do it beautifully!
November 4, 2014 at 4:34 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. As a little girl, I figured out quickly that I was good with words. Sports, well, I was the kid who ran away from the ball.
November 4, 2014 at 8:35 am
carolynscombs
Thank you, Karen! As I face the day, you inspire me to work hard and follow my heart.
November 4, 2014 at 4:35 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Wonderful. That’s where your truth is. Always
November 4, 2014 at 8:35 am
Kay Winters
I LOVED this post! And The Little Engine that Could pulled me through many a rough patch!
November 4, 2014 at 4:36 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The lasting value of books in our lives is an amazing thing.
November 4, 2014 at 8:38 am
lindamartinandersen
Keep believing. You’ve got what it takes! I loved your tips based on a train ride. Remember to chant, “I think I can” as you travel your journey.
November 4, 2014 at 4:36 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I think I will.
November 4, 2014 at 8:38 am
ManjuBeth
Thanks for sharing your journey, Karen. I love that you wrote Sweet Moon Baby with and due to your daughter. Very sweet!
November 4, 2014 at 4:37 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Her story was the one I was born to write.
November 4, 2014 at 8:39 am
Dee Knabb- can't wait to try these, especially Storybird.
Amazing story of perseverance.
November 4, 2014 at 5:01 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I learned from Florence that anyone can give up. Most people do, not realizing how hard it is to be published. She was my dose of reality from the first day we met.
November 4, 2014 at 8:40 am
DianeKHower
Wonderful post full of truth, understanding, and self worth. Thanks for the great reminder.
November 4, 2014 at 5:03 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Admitting the “tarnished” truth was hard. We’re all supposed to be gloriously successful all the time these days–or at least make it sound like we are.
November 4, 2014 at 5:18 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I never expected my story would receive so many heartfelt comments. If anything, I figured people would ask Tara to take it down!
November 4, 2014 at 8:42 am
katrinamoorebooks
What a beautiful journey. Thanks for reminding us to keep our eye on the moon, even in the canyon.
November 4, 2014 at 5:04 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Yep. It shines just as brightly down there.
November 4, 2014 at 8:42 am
gweddle
Thank you for sharing your personal journey. You inspire each of us to keep writing, for the love of writing, and to believe in ourselves.
November 4, 2014 at 5:05 pm
Karen Henry Clark
And if you’re lucky, great people will believe in you along the way.
November 4, 2014 at 8:42 am
Andria
Love your story! I’m certain there are many more books in you. Wishing you cargo containers of hope!
November 4, 2014 at 5:05 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I am happy to pull those cargo containers of hope for miles, too.
November 4, 2014 at 8:43 am
Cheryl Mansfield
What a sweet, wonderful post Karen. Isn’t it amazing how children have more faith than we do in ourselves. What a wonderful daughter you have. Keep believing.
November 4, 2014 at 5:06 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie is clearly the unexpected blessing of my life.
November 4, 2014 at 8:44 am
pathaap
What a beautiful and inspiring post, Karen!
November 4, 2014 at 5:07 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I value your kindness.
November 4, 2014 at 8:45 am
Laura Purdie Salas
Everybody wants to believe that once you’re in (have a published book), you’re in. Ah, if only that were the case. Thanks for sharing, and keep writing!
November 4, 2014 at 5:08 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Your own books are an inspiring reminder of the length of the journey. Thanks Laura.
November 4, 2014 at 8:47 am
marcimcadam
Thanks for the honesty and the encouragement, Karen!
November 4, 2014 at 5:10 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for that.
November 4, 2014 at 8:48 am
Pam Smallcomb
I often try and write in canyons and even tunnels. 🙂 Thank you for sharing your story. Your book is beautiful. The next one will be, too.
November 4, 2014 at 5:10 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Glad you reminded me of those dark tunnels. I’ve been lost in my fair share of those, too.
November 4, 2014 at 8:50 am
hmmmmm
Karen: I came across SWEET MOON BABY a few years ago at our library and fell in love. It is a beautiful, beautiful book,and it is a delight to e-meet you.
This past weekend I went to see a film about THE PHANTOM TOLLBOOTH, and it got me thinking about Quantity v. Quality — in relation to publishing books. I think that most of us would be a bit hard pressed to come up with many titles of norton juster’s other children’s books. And I don’t think it matters. He wrote ONE GREAT BOOK!!
And you did too.
(I have total faith, too, that SWEET MOON BABY will not remain OOP forever: it is such a touching bedtime story in the way that it addresses separation on so many levels and — in that — a perfect story, too, for children of all sorts of adoption.)
Writing is so important in all of our lives — the process and the journey — and that won’t and shouldn’t change. How amazing that, in addition to having that process be such a big part of your life, you also have ONE GREAT BOOK to your name!
November 4, 2014 at 5:24 pm
Karen Henry Clark
How wonderful of you to remind us of this. We come from a time that pushes us to do more and more, without being truly satisfied for the good we have done. Many people have found my book through their library, so I know it will be available to families for many, many years.
November 4, 2014 at 8:57 am
Nancy Churnin
Dear Karen, thank you got this beautiful, honest post. I hope you will keep writing. Your message about each of us being on our own tracks is one that children and adults need to hear.
November 4, 2014 at 5:29 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. I try to help my daughter understand that we all have unique challenges.
November 4, 2014 at 9:01 am
writeknit
This is so sweet! I followed the link to YouTube and am still sniffling 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 5:31 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Our friend Dan put it together because he was curious to try. What an amazing first attempt it turned out to be.
November 4, 2014 at 9:01 am
Susanne
Sweet sweet story. It seems like your family may have another wonderful, enchanting author. Love her Editor letter.
November 4, 2014 at 5:33 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie is always my first reader for everything I write. I wouldn’t be surprised if she ended up in an editorial job. Kids at school always ask her to read their drafts.
November 4, 2014 at 9:03 am
Jenny Seiger
Thank you so much for this post. It is much needed. You are an inspiration!
November 4, 2014 at 5:33 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m happy to have helped in any way at all.
November 4, 2014 at 9:05 am
alikotanko
Thank you for this inspirational post. My train to publication stalls often, and it is good to get these reminders that even the best are struggling as well 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 6:31 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Writing is just plain hard, isn’t it? I’m forever hoping it will get easier, but it doesn’t.
November 4, 2014 at 9:05 am
Lynnor Bontigao
This is so moving, Karen. Sometimes when we see others become “overnight successes”, we think they were so lucky to have been at the right place at the right time. We forget that it may have taken years, even decades, for the right time and right place to meet up with them. Thank you for this.
November 4, 2014 at 6:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You are so very right. I started seriously writing picture books in the late 80s and wasn’t published until 2010.
November 4, 2014 at 9:08 am
Kim Pfennigwerth
Karen – thank you for sharing your inspirational journey!
November 4, 2014 at 6:34 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The post I would have written last year, if it had worked out when I first volunteered, would have sounded different. I have to believe things happen for a reason.
November 4, 2014 at 9:10 am
Sandy Perlic
What a beautiful story about persistence, and a beautiful book! Thanks for your example! Sometimes we watch other writers take what we think is the express train to success. We forget their own journey may have had many obstacles, and that their success may also have its challenges. Regardless, it’s our own journey that matters. Thank you!
November 4, 2014 at 6:36 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It takes however long it takes. We experienced China’s first shut down for international adoptions while we were waiting for a baby. There was literally nothing we could do about it–except give up. We didn’t.
November 4, 2014 at 9:13 am
Christy Mihaly
Thank you for sharing this beautiful–and beautifully written journey. I especially love how your family’s belief in you inspired you to keep traveling down that track. Congratulations on your ISBN and good fortune to you on snagging another one.
November 4, 2014 at 6:49 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Having Cliff and Maggie believe in me during the times when I felt hopeless made all the difference.
November 4, 2014 at 9:16 am
Claire Lordon (@ClaireLordon)
Thanks for sharing your journey. Congratulations on your book. Wishing you all the best in the future!
November 4, 2014 at 6:51 pm
Karen Henry Clark
So kind of you to say that.
November 4, 2014 at 9:16 am
Becky P. Hurd
We all measure our success as “writers” differently. I wrote my picture book for my daughter too and my oldest son is my biggest fan and support. He says things like, “When your book is published…” When, not if. He has that much faith in me. I just got my second rejection and I was on cloud nine all night. Failure is proof that you are trying. But I don’t even consider it failure, just one step closer to the one “yes” I need. Truly inspiring story Karen. Thank you!
November 4, 2014 at 6:54 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for reminding all of us that every NO is only one step closer to YES. (Wow. Sounds like you have wonderfully understanding children, too.)
November 4, 2014 at 9:17 am
Lauren Soloy
This was a beautiful post. I loved reading about your journey, and I loved reading about your persistence. I’m cheering for you, Karen!
November 4, 2014 at 6:55 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Glad to know I have a cheerleader on the mountain!
November 4, 2014 at 9:18 am
Mykee Sokoloff
Thanks for sharing the sweet struggle.
November 4, 2014 at 6:57 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve been helped by knowing the hard parts of the journey others are on, so it was the least I could do.
November 4, 2014 at 9:19 am
lmconnors
Lisa Connors
This is a very inspiring post/story Karen. Thank you!
November 4, 2014 at 6:57 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m glad to know it mattered to you.
November 4, 2014 at 9:20 am
thislittlebirdie
Thank You for sharing your story Karen…you are an inspiration to us all!
November 4, 2014 at 6:58 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Actually, it helped me understand the distance I’ve come by writing it down for Tara.
November 4, 2014 at 9:21 am
Tracey M. Cox
What a wonderful beginning of your journey. No, it’s not over. Keep on! I think I can! I think I can! I think I can! What a wonderful motto to have and one so true for any writer.
November 4, 2014 at 6:59 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Yes, you’re right. Those 4 little words have made difference for me in so many situations.
November 4, 2014 at 9:24 am
Emily Lim-Leh
Karen, thanks for sharing your heartfelt story of success and getting off track. It’s a great first book and I’m sure out of all that struggle, a great second book will chug along in time to come. Tough journeys bring great stories!
November 4, 2014 at 7:01 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Honestly, I’ve been inspired all day long with new ideas as I’ve read these kind comments. That’s the idea.
November 4, 2014 at 9:24 am
Christine Michaela Sharpe
Great post. That book looks beautiful!
November 4, 2014 at 7:02 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Patrice Barton’s art is stunning, isn’t it? I hope you’ll look at her other titles.
November 4, 2014 at 9:24 am
Sue Heavenrich
I love that first acceptance letter from Clark House Printing & Loving! What a wonderful & inspiring post today. Thanks for sharing everything from purple popcorn balls to your paper drafts.
November 4, 2014 at 7:04 pm
Karen Henry Clark
My parents were saints, and fortunately I found the same devotion in Cliff and Maggie.
November 4, 2014 at 9:25 am
Debra Daugherty
Your story touched me so deeply, tears ran down my cheeks. I am on the same difficult journey. Like you, I plan to continue full speed ahead. Quitting is not an option. Thanks for the post!
November 4, 2014 at 7:04 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Turns out there are plenty of us gathering in that canyon. I think WE can.
November 4, 2014 at 9:27 am
Marge McGugan
Beautiful post on how we find inspiration in our own lives. Thanks.
November 4, 2014 at 7:05 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Yes. Our best stories surround us.
November 4, 2014 at 9:27 am
Amy Murray
What a sweet and compassionate daughter you have. Allow her faith in you continue to motivate. your story is one many can relate to.
November 4, 2014 at 7:06 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie is absolutely the best.
November 4, 2014 at 9:27 am
Lorraine Donohue Bonzelet
“spray-painted loser on my caboose” had me laughing out loud. I’ve certainly had those days. Thanks for sharing your beautiful journey.
November 4, 2014 at 7:06 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie said that was her favorite part, too.
November 4, 2014 at 9:28 am
Barbara Cairns
What an inspiration you are to the rest of us, Karen! Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story about your four-year-old dreams coming true… with more ahead, I’m sure.
November 4, 2014 at 7:07 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I was lucky to have such a clear focus on my life at an early age.
November 4, 2014 at 9:28 am
Jacqueline
I will always remember that if you land in a canyon, you can write down there, too! (Great advice for all aspects of life, not just writing.) Thanks for sharing your story.
November 4, 2014 at 7:09 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Bring some paper if you land there with the rest of us. Turns out we’re having a good time believing in ourselves.
November 4, 2014 at 9:29 am
Linda Hofke
what a sweet story and inspiring for everyone to not give up
November 4, 2014 at 7:11 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Right. I used it to help Maggie not give up on herself when she was learning to ice skate. I told her if she couldn’t do it her teacher wouldn’t even have suggested she try something harder.
November 4, 2014 at 9:30 am
DaNeil
Needed this today. Thank you.
November 4, 2014 at 7:12 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Glad to have helped. So many people have helped me at just the right moment.
November 4, 2014 at 9:31 am
Mary Worley
Love the letter your daughter sent. My daughter is also a source of inspiration and gives me surprisingly insightful critiques.
November 4, 2014 at 7:12 pm
Karen Henry Clark
We are blessed indeed.
November 4, 2014 at 9:34 am
Wrenaissance Art
Lovely reminder to keep going as life’s road zigs and zags.
November 4, 2014 at 7:13 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Right. Who wants a boring straight line anyway!
November 4, 2014 at 9:34 am
Donna L Martin
Thank you, Karen, for such a beautiful, soul-touching post. New writers yearn to be published and sometimes don’t realize being “published” might not happen for a very long time. I believe successful writers are grateful the ideas continue to flow despite any obstacles placed in their path.
Thanks, Tara, for this awe-inspiring guest post!
November 4, 2014 at 7:14 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Tara is a fairy godmother to all of us.
November 4, 2014 at 9:35 am
Tina Cho
What a great story of your writing life.Thanks for sharing! Your daughter and book are beautiful! Can you get this printed as an e-book now since it’s out of print?
November 4, 2014 at 7:15 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You can still get the ebook version on Amazon.
November 4, 2014 at 9:35 am
Virginia Law Manning
I loved your post! I was holding back tears at the bottom of the canyon! I’ve really just started the long uphill battle but I’ve had the dream for 25 years. Choo! Choo! Thank you for encouragement!
November 4, 2014 at 7:16 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It is never too late. Florence passed away two years ago at the age of 92, and she was writing and publishing until the very end.
November 4, 2014 at 9:35 am
Alice Fulgione
Thank you for sharing your incredible journey.
November 4, 2014 at 7:17 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I simply had no idea it would matter to so many people. This has been an incredible discovery for me.
November 4, 2014 at 9:36 am
talithabuggirl
Thanks for sharing such a personal and beautiful story!
November 4, 2014 at 7:31 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I was uneasy about it, but it has turned out to be more important than I realized.
November 4, 2014 at 9:38 am
cartwomey
Thank you for your inspiring post, sometimes the canyon just gives us time to pull out the next great story…a quiet place to reflect and appreciate where we are! Keep chugging, I wish you every success 😉
November 4, 2014 at 7:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
What a great point of view. Thanks for reminding me that I’m taking a productive rest.
November 4, 2014 at 9:39 am
Cathy Sledz
A most welcome post on this day of days that I’m having … Many thanks.
November 4, 2014 at 7:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Good for both of us.
November 4, 2014 at 9:40 am
Zachary Ratcliffe
So touching. Thank you for your wisdom! -Zach Ratcliffe
November 4, 2014 at 7:33 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Glad to have been of any kind of help.
November 4, 2014 at 9:40 am
Jodi Moore
*sniff* Thank you for sharing your amazing journey – and your heartfelt inspiration. I, too, have the great fortune of a beautiful family that supports me in every way. I shall never look at the moon in the same way again! ❤ Save me a seat on that magnificent train of yours!
November 4, 2014 at 7:34 pm
Karen Henry Clark
A seat is saved right here beside me.
November 4, 2014 at 9:41 am
Bonnie Adamson
Karen, may you have many more “Homecoming Queen” moments in your journey. Thank you for the post and thank you for SWEET MOON BABY– I can guarantee you that even though it may be out of print, it lives on in the hearts of families it has touched.
November 4, 2014 at 7:34 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for that, Bonnie.
November 4, 2014 at 9:44 am
jngallaher
Sweet Moon Baby seems like such a sweet book! Thank you for sharing your journey!
November 4, 2014 at 7:35 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s a book about adoption, yes, but truly it’s more about the power of love and faith.
November 4, 2014 at 9:46 am
Janie Reinart
Karen, love the picture of you and your daughter. Moms are a great influence for our love of picture books. My mom took us to the library all the time. Even in the canyon, the moon still smiles on us. Thank you for your beautiful story!
November 4, 2014 at 9:52 am
Stephanie Fitzpatrick
Agreed! My mom and I had a Saturday date at Barnes and Noble each weekend! I can’t wait to do that with my newborn son!
November 4, 2014 at 7:39 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie, who is now 18, and I still go to bookstores together.
November 4, 2014 at 7:37 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I still remember the first time my mother took me to the public library in Middletown, Ohio. I was amazed by all the books.
November 4, 2014 at 7:42 pm
Karen Henry Clark
While we waited for Maggie, it gave me hope to know the same beautiful moon was shining in China.
November 4, 2014 at 7:44 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Janie, I don’t know why, but every time I try to rely to you, it shows up under Stephanie’s post.
November 4, 2014 at 9:48 am
Debra Shumaker
Wow, what an inspiring post. What an inspiring journey. Keep at it!
November 4, 2014 at 7:43 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks. I will. I HAVE to.
November 4, 2014 at 9:49 am
Stephanie Fitzpatrick
Thank you for sharing your story, Karen. I often feel down when getting those rejection letters or empty responses but I appreciate hearing about your determination!
November 4, 2014 at 7:47 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Cliff always said he wouldn’t feel sorry for me until I’d received 100 rejections. At first I kept count, but finally it didn’t matter so much to me.
November 4, 2014 at 9:49 am
Amy Houts
I think writers will be able to relate to your journey and take comfort that others struggle, too–I know I have.
November 4, 2014 at 7:48 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The arts are always a challenge.
November 4, 2014 at 9:50 am
eastbaymomma
Thank you so much for your honesty and your inspiration!
November 4, 2014 at 7:49 pm
Karen Henry Clark
My mother always told me the truth was the best way to go. Looks like she was right indeed.
November 4, 2014 at 9:51 am
Tom Barrett
Real easy to get discouraged, esp. when it takes soooo long to see any fruits from your labor. Here’s to pressing on over the hills and thru the valleys!
November 4, 2014 at 7:49 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Head for the horizon.
November 4, 2014 at 9:51 am
Sue Poduska
There’s hope! Especially for wonderful writers like you. Thank you, Karen.
November 4, 2014 at 7:52 pm
Karen Henry Clark
So true. There’s always hope if we keep trying.
November 4, 2014 at 9:52 am
Sherri Jones Rivers
That cover just pulls me in. We have an adoption story in our family, but it’s one that our little one went to someone else. You will publish again.
November 4, 2014 at 7:54 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I have seen mothers cry by just looking at the cover. Patrice is an incredible artist.
November 4, 2014 at 9:57 am
Pam Miller
How precious, Karen. I loved the trailer and Patrice’s video with sketches. Most of all, I loved the inspiring story of “Sweet Baby Moon.”
November 4, 2014 at 7:55 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m glad you watched the video interviews with her–even though they’re kind of dizzying. I was shocked to see how many babies she drew to get each one just right.
November 4, 2014 at 9:58 am
Jo Brown
thanks for your post, and for reminding us that the reality is that every book is a struggle to get published, and we need to keep trying
November 4, 2014 at 7:56 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve never ever heard an author speak about it being a breeze, now that you mention it.
November 4, 2014 at 9:59 am
shiela fuller
WOW, Karen, your post was so touching , heartwarming, and inspiring. Thank you, Shiela.
November 4, 2014 at 7:56 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for letting me know.
November 4, 2014 at 9:59 am
Ashley Bohmer
This is all too true. We must never give up! 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 7:58 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That’s what it comes down to. Always.
November 4, 2014 at 10:00 am
Viki Woodworth
Thank you, Karen, for your touching words.
November 4, 2014 at 7:59 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Of course. My pleasure to offer hope.
November 4, 2014 at 10:04 am
Michelle R. Eastman
Your back-story and picture book story are equally moving. I am, personally, grateful for the self-publishing opportunities now opening up for us, so that our boxes of rejection letters can be moved aside to make room for boxes of our print on demand books. I wish you joy in your traditional or non-traditional publishing journey. Best wishes to you.
Michelle
November 4, 2014 at 8:00 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve talked to a number of writers who have gone that direction and been happy with the results.
November 6, 2014 at 2:48 pm
Michelle R. Eastman
Getting the book made is a breeze compared to the uphill march promoting it! Best wishes to you.
November 4, 2014 at 10:04 am
McCourt
What a moving post. You are obviously a wonderful storyteller – it shines through. My favorite part is the letter your daughter wrote you – I love it! Thanks for the motivation and inspiration. A good dose of much-needed fortitude.
November 4, 2014 at 8:02 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie was surprised to learn I’d kept it all these years. When she read it, she commented on how well she’d written in the second grade. It was important for her to look back at who she was.
November 4, 2014 at 10:04 am
June Smalls
Thank you. Beautifully dreamed, beautifully told. Thank you.
November 4, 2014 at 8:19 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Dreams really were part of the journey. I always keep paper and a pen by the bedside.
November 4, 2014 at 10:04 am
saputnam
Thank you, Karen, for such an inspiring post! I hear you on never giving up on your dreams even when you are writing from the bottom of a canyon… as Norman Vaughn said, “Dream Big and Dare to Fail.”
November 4, 2014 at 8:20 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Great quotation. I’ve written that down.
November 4, 2014 at 10:07 am
julie rowan zoch
Keep on, Karen! We need little engines like you to inspire us all!
November 4, 2014 at 8:22 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Happy to share anything from my journey if it helps.
November 4, 2014 at 10:07 am
Naana Kyereboah
Thanks, Karen for reminding us to not give up and that writing and getting published is a journey.
November 4, 2014 at 8:24 pm
Karen Henry Clark
When I started writing, I had no idea how hard it was or I might have been too scared to try. I would have missed the ride of my life.
November 4, 2014 at 10:07 am
l8k8
Thank you for sharing your story and for encouraging us to keep writing.
November 4, 2014 at 8:24 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Absolutely. Otherwise, you never know.
November 4, 2014 at 10:07 am
Jennifer Cheng DesAutels
Thank you, Karen, for sharing your experience so candidly. I love your description of ‘writing in the canyon.’ I had a recent setback and can sympathize with the pain and discouragement that can ensue. It does take so much more time and encouragement from self and others than it seems like it should to get there. However what joy it is to realize that yes, there is a light in the tunnel and you can pick up, create something again, and gingerly climb toward that shining vision.
November 4, 2014 at 8:26 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Here’s to rounding the corner on that setback of yours. Climb!
November 4, 2014 at 10:09 am
Susan Cabael
What a story of perseverance!
November 4, 2014 at 8:27 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Every author has an important story like mine, too.
November 4, 2014 at 10:10 am
Jessica Maria
So inspiring. Thank you!
November 4, 2014 at 8:27 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so welcome.
November 4, 2014 at 10:11 am
Shirley Timberlake Fadden
Okay, I’ll keep at it! Thanks!
November 4, 2014 at 8:28 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Absolutely keep going. Florence said, “If you stop, I promise you’ll never be published. No editor will ever call you. It doesn’t work that way.”
November 4, 2014 at 10:11 am
rowenarae
I especially loved the peek at the wonderful letter your daughter wrote to you in Grade 2! Thanks for writing so honestly about your experiences. Your perseverance is inspiring.
November 4, 2014 at 8:29 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I know. It’s adorable.
November 4, 2014 at 10:11 am
Holly Ruppel
Karen, thank you so much for your beautiful, touching words and the reminder to never give up on our dreams.
November 4, 2014 at 8:30 pm
Karen Henry Clark
We all need reminders.
November 4, 2014 at 10:13 am
LovableLobo
Love your “can do” attitude, Karen! It’s inspiring!
November 4, 2014 at 8:30 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I didn’t get there overnight. Everything worthwhile takes time.
November 4, 2014 at 10:14 am
Debbie Wagenbach
Your heartfelt post inspired me to keep writing! Thank you, Karen!
November 4, 2014 at 8:34 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I couldn’t have asked for more than that.
November 4, 2014 at 10:15 am
Martha
I think I can, I think I can, I know I can. Thanks for your inspiration!
November 4, 2014 at 8:35 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I now you can, too. Just keep going.
November 4, 2014 at 10:15 am
Corey Schwartz
Wow, what a touching story! Tearing up over here!
November 4, 2014 at 8:39 pm
Karen Henry Clark
“The” Corey Rosen Schwartz? If so, I’m proud to say I sat by Dan Santat at an SCBWI book signing, and he urged me to get past myself (quiet Midwestern gal that I am) and go to NYC to meet my editor.
November 4, 2014 at 10:16 am
Shari Della Penna
Thank you for your encouragement. I’m writing “persistence” at the top of my idea page.
November 4, 2014 at 8:40 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Good idea. Writers should probably have our writing spaces wallpapered with that word.
November 4, 2014 at 10:18 am
Janine Johns
Thank you for sharing your heart-felt journey. Very inspirational! Your daughter is beautiful!
November 4, 2014 at 8:41 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. She is beautiful inside and out.
November 4, 2014 at 10:19 am
Doris Stone
Karen, thank you so much for your lovely post. This is a tough, tough business and only dreamers who, think they can, will make it to the top of the hill. Best of luck to you and keep chugging along. P.S. Your daughter is very smart and beautiful too!
November 4, 2014 at 8:43 pm
Karen Henry Clark
She is incredible. I can’t believe she’ll be going to college next fall.
November 4, 2014 at 10:19 am
Doris Fisher
Every writer and illustrator needs to know hard work and determination are what count in the children’s book publishing world!
November 4, 2014 at 8:42 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Well, skill accounts for some of it, too, but talent alone won’t get the job done.
November 4, 2014 at 10:20 am
cat jones
I read your heart warming story with tears in my eyes. Thanks so much for sharing and reminding us all that a journey can have unexpected moments.
November 4, 2014 at 8:45 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Someone famous said: “Nothing is either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” It’s all depends on how we decide to think about it.
November 4, 2014 at 10:21 am
lindaschueler
I love “Sweet Moon Baby”! Go Karen! It doesn’t matter what track you take, so long as you keep taking it.
November 4, 2014 at 8:46 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for encouraging ME!
November 4, 2014 at 10:23 am
Dara Dokas
Is the photo of you and your daughter at Red Balloon Bookstore? It sure looks like it. You’re book looks so beautiful! Thanks for sharing your journey so far with us. I know it will continue on.
November 4, 2014 at 8:49 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Yes. Maggie has been at every author event with me. The kids love meeting her–the Sweet Moon Baby. She often teaches the crowd how to say and write it in Chinese.
November 4, 2014 at 10:23 am
Dinah Miller
That’s a wonderful story. The book is out of print but is it available on e-readers Kindle and others?
November 4, 2014 at 10:26 am
Dinah Miller
I see that is available on kindle and hardcopy. That’s great.
November 4, 2014 at 9:58 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It truly is. I buy my hardcopies through one of the sources listed at Amazon, and they’re in mint condition.
November 4, 2014 at 10:24 am
erikammon
I love your metaphor of a train for your journey. I wish I could share a shot of our Sweet Moon Baby here 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 9:59 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Me, too. They are all beauties.
November 4, 2014 at 10:24 am
Dawn Young
Wow, such an inspirational and touching post. Thank you so much for sharing part of your journey with us.
November 4, 2014 at 10:01 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Writing is all emotional, isn’t it?
November 4, 2014 at 10:26 am
Deirdre Sheridan Englehart
Thank you for sharing your story! We all share a journey but never know the twists and turns along the way!
November 4, 2014 at 10:02 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I always wish for a map!
November 4, 2014 at 10:26 am
beckylevine
What a wonderful story. And I’m glad you’re not giving up!
November 4, 2014 at 10:05 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Not this time. I’ve given up before, but as someone suggested, I was just taking a rest apparently. That’s a much better way to think of that time.
November 4, 2014 at 10:27 am
Nicole Turner
Karen, thank you for sharing your journey. Sweet baby moon sounds awesome. My oldest son is adopted and it it so hard to find good adoption books.
November 4, 2014 at 10:08 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s such a personal matter really. Every child perceives the experience differently, but I believe my book is a good starting point. Parents have told me their children were able to ask questions about the story in order to approach the questions they had about themselves.
November 4, 2014 at 10:29 am
Pamela M. Tuck
Karen, thanks for sharing the inspiration and reality behind publishing. I, too, have been blessed with a publication contract in 2007, but for the last 7 years, it’s been nothing but rejections. My writing has slowed down considerably, but slow and steady wins the race. Thanks for sharing.
November 4, 2014 at 10:09 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Go turtles!
November 4, 2014 at 10:31 am
Carol Nelson
What a beautiful story! Thanks for sharing so honestly. Your story does for writers what picture books do for children– it helps us realize we are not alone on the journey. The road we travel as writers is full of hills and valleys and sometimes it feels like we stay in the canyons much too long. Thanks for the inspiration to continue writing even when we’re in the canyon. After all, it’s the only way to climb back to the hills.
November 4, 2014 at 10:11 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Excellent point. You can’t know up until you’ve been down. And the upness looks so much better then.
November 4, 2014 at 10:31 am
Jill Edmonds
Thank you so much … What a great post. 🙂 Your book looks so amazing!
November 4, 2014 at 10:13 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks. Even though it’s out of print, I will always be proud to have written it.
November 4, 2014 at 10:32 am
Anita Banks
Thank you for sharing your story.
November 4, 2014 at 10:13 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It has turned out to be one of the most important pieces I’ve ever written. I had no idea.
November 4, 2014 at 10:35 am
deborahholtwilliams
Oh, Karen, your post resonates with me! My son was three when he came from Korea, and one night when I said “Goodnight, my son,” he answered “Good night, my moon.” Also, I had five easy readers published in the late ’90’s and thought they would be my ticket to success in the picture book world–hasn’t happened yet. And my bookstore in New Mexico was called “Little Blue Engine Books and More” because I thought I could, I thought I could… Thanks for a great post!
November 4, 2014 at 10:17 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Wow! I’ve heard a number of stories from adoptive parents about the power of the moon to their children’s imaginations. If your store was in Albq (Sorry for not trying the spelling!), I think I was in it. You can keep trying. I am.
November 4, 2014 at 10:37 am
Cat Clerkin
Thanks for sharing yourself and your inspirational story, Karen! Rejection is hard and scary and hearing that published authors get rejected too is important to hear and know. (And your daughter’s acceptance letter brought tears to my eyes!)
November 4, 2014 at 10:18 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve been stunned to learn how many published authors are unwilling to admit they’re being rejected because they’re ashamed. The business has gotten so hard.
November 4, 2014 at 10:39 am
Heather Thurmeier
Thanks for sharing your journey. I’m curious, what happens to your book once it’s out of print? Do you get the rights back or does the publisher continue to hold them. With KDP kids now available, I’d be very tempted to get those rights and republish the book on my own. Have you looked into that possibility at all? Seems like such a shame to have a great book unavailable.
November 4, 2014 at 10:21 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve talked to an attorney, but republishing without those gorgeous illustrations just wouldn’t be the same. Technically it’s still available because it’s an ebook, but I appreciate your interest.
November 4, 2014 at 10:40 am
Zainab Khan
More inspiration! One of my favorite mottos is “I think I can, I think I can”. Thank you!
November 4, 2014 at 10:22 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s the perfect motto for everything, isn’t it?
November 4, 2014 at 10:43 am
Donna Rossman
A very helpful blog post, thank you for sharing your journey. If you look your book up on Amazon one distributor is selling it new for $2,000+! The preview was just beautiful! You are an amazing writer and an inspiration.
November 4, 2014 at 10:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Well, the book is priceless–at that price! I bought excellent copies affordably through Book Outlet.
November 4, 2014 at 10:45 am
Rebecca E. Guzinski
Karen, your post is extremely inspirational! It reminds be to remain determined and persevere. It’s sad that you’re book is out of print but I’d like to track it down since a lot of my writing is about babies.
November 4, 2014 at 10:28 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The book was popular with many public libraries who are always looking for strong family issue titles. Amazon offers a list of secondary sources through the sales page, and they offer the ebook.
November 4, 2014 at 10:46 am
mkokeefe
Thank you for your post today Karen! -MK O’Keefe
November 4, 2014 at 10:28 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The response has taken me by surprise. I expected maybe 10 people would comment.
November 4, 2014 at 10:47 am
Alisa Harris-Norico
Thanks for all of your insight on handling rejection. Your book looks wonderful and I’m sorry to hear that it’s out of print. Keep writing, Karen! We think you can too!
November 4, 2014 at 10:29 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for inspiring me to keep chugging.
November 4, 2014 at 10:48 am
Christie
What a lovely daughter you have. It’s neat to see how you’ve both blessed each other’s lives. Thank you for your thoughts, and for offering your book as a gift to one of us. 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 10:31 pm
Karen Henry Clark
She is simply remarkable through and through. She makes me braver than I ever thought I could be.
November 4, 2014 at 10:50 am
Pia Garneau
I love that you gave a name to adopted Chinese babies. Wonderful post. Great reminder to keep chugging along.
November 4, 2014 at 10:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
At an author event, an adopted kindergarten girl announced to us the she was the REAL Sweet Moon Baby. I was so proud that she connected that strongly to the story.
November 4, 2014 at 10:51 am
rgstones
I admire your perseverance. I just reserved your book at my library and can’t wait to read it.
November 4, 2014 at 10:33 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for taking the time to look for it.
November 4, 2014 at 10:52 am
tphumiruk
Thank you for sharing your experience. How wonderful to have a story for your daughter, who has been a lovely influence on you to persevere! Just splendid.
November 4, 2014 at 10:34 pm
Karen Henry Clark
She has been my life’s great lesson.
November 4, 2014 at 10:53 am
Nancy Furstinger
Such a sweet story and tribute to your darling daughter (love the cake, too)!
November 4, 2014 at 10:53 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That cake was ordered by the bookstore for the launch party, and it was delicious.
November 4, 2014 at 10:56 am
Jill Siegel
I hope that you continue writing. This was a beautiful post… 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 10:54 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I have to keep trying.
November 4, 2014 at 10:59 am
cravevsworld
This is the first and hopefully not last blog post to make me cry (tears of joy).
November 4, 2014 at 10:55 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Glad to know they’re good tears.
November 4, 2014 at 10:59 am
Heidi Yates
Karen – Thank you for sharing your journey, and for the encouragement to keep writing.
November 4, 2014 at 10:55 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Do keep trying. No reason to stop.
November 4, 2014 at 11:00 am
Nina Haines
The lever can be moved to switch the track. This change may happen anytime.
November 4, 2014 at 10:56 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Important point!
November 4, 2014 at 11:02 am
Gretchen McLellan
A brilliant speaker on a SCBWI-OR panel described her journey as a ride in the Bi-polar Express. I love this metaphor and wish I could remember her name to credit her. Enjoy the highs (says this woman who just got a rejection in her first morning email).
Sent from my iPhone
November 4, 2014 at 10:57 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Rejection is a valuable starting point.
November 4, 2014 at 11:04 am
BLAHM
Beautiful post, Karen. Thank you for your honesty. I am in the early stages of pursuing my lifelong dream of writing for kids, and I am also the father of a three-year-old girl, so much of this hit home.
November 4, 2014 at 10:58 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You certainly have the material for great stories then. She will be more help than you can imagine. My daughter clearly was. And still is.
November 12, 2014 at 12:29 pm
BLAHM
Wow, thanks for taking the time to reply to everyone! Truly amazing.
November 12, 2014 at 1:09 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Sharing our writing journeys keeps us connected in all the right ways. so thanks. I’m glad it helped.
November 4, 2014 at 11:05 am
jessicacanwrite
Thank you for this. I was completely lost in your words. Your blog was wonderfully written so I can only imagine your book! Jessica Harley
November 4, 2014 at 10:59 pm
Karen Henry Clark
What a lovely compliment.
November 4, 2014 at 11:06 am
apserione
Karen, a real treasure that prize! I wish it was already mine
November 4, 2014 at 10:59 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Fingers crossed!
November 4, 2014 at 11:07 am
loriannlevyholm
Bold, direct and honest. What a wonderful way to be. Thank you for revealing what you have been through. It give us strength to shoulder on, Karen.
November 4, 2014 at 11:01 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m relieved to know I sounded that way. Telling the hard truth wasn’t easy.
November 4, 2014 at 11:07 am
storyfairy
“Sweet Moon Baby” sounds wonderful! I would love to read it, especially since I sometimes think about adopting a girl from China. 🙂 -Lily Stejskal
November 4, 2014 at 11:03 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Your library might carry it. I’ll think good thoughts for you on the adoption journey if you decide to try.
November 4, 2014 at 11:08 am
Doreen E. Lepore
Thank you for sharing your inspirational story, Karen. Love your book Sweet Moon Baby!
November 4, 2014 at 11:03 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I hope it helped you today.
November 4, 2014 at 11:10 am
Henry Herz
An inspiring and poetic tale. Thanks for sharing!
November 4, 2014 at 11:04 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate your taking the time to comment.
November 4, 2014 at 11:10 am
bevbaird
What an honest, inspiring post. Loved it. Would so love to own your book. My brother and his wife have now adopted 2 girls from China and they are amazing girls. We have to dream and dream big!
November 4, 2014 at 11:04 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Here’s to dreaming big!
November 4, 2014 at 11:10 am
Cheryl Michael
what a beautiful looking book and relevant story!
November 4, 2014 at 11:06 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Patrice Barton’s art is stunning, isn’t it?
November 4, 2014 at 11:14 am
kirsticall
Karen, what a journey! Your book looks LOVELY….and I’m sure you’ll get more books out there. I have one book out also and I’m getting lots of rejections also, but we just have to keep plugging away 🙂 Thanks for sharing.
November 4, 2014 at 11:07 pm
Karen Henry Clark
We just have to believe that rejections are a good sign because it means we’re trying. As they say, it only takes one YES.
November 4, 2014 at 11:14 am
kathalsey
Karen, I need to find your book. Your parents, your hubs and your wonderful daughter (love her note as the publisher) spurred you on. TY for sharing a story I feel is happening to me right now. I got so far, and then STUCK at the station. We CAN and WILL get there.
November 4, 2014 at 11:08 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I like the way you think. WE can do this.
November 4, 2014 at 11:17 am
Susie
I love your openness and honesty – a lovely post!
November 4, 2014 at 11:09 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks so very much.
November 4, 2014 at 11:19 am
LauraHB
THANK YOU for this honest, generous post. I can relate to so much of what you’ve said, Karen. I especially found “You have to understand your writing journey.” and “writing from the canyon” inspiring…what a gift you’ve given us.
November 4, 2014 at 11:11 pm
Karen Henry Clark
There are good writing days ahead from either vantage point. I have to believe that.
November 4, 2014 at 11:23 am
viji
Thank you for your post. I have just realized actually, just this weekend, that my writing is my journey.
November 4, 2014 at 11:11 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It took me decades to understand that. Good for you.
November 4, 2014 at 11:25 am
Nancy Ramsey
Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
November 4, 2014 at 11:12 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m grateful to Tara for letting me have this chance.
November 4, 2014 at 11:25 am
RoseBatsell
Karen, I loved your comment that “sometimes you land in the canyon, but you can write down there too.” That is so inspirational—just beautiful. You have given me hope. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story:)
Rose Batsell
November 4, 2014 at 11:13 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Hope is everywhere. Even in the canyon.
November 4, 2014 at 11:28 am
tanjabauerle
Thank you for your wonderful post. I think all of us creatives need to have someone that says: I believe in you! Those are such energizing words. T.
November 4, 2014 at 11:15 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Indeed they are. Thank you for reminding us because sometimes that’s all it takes to keep trying.
November 4, 2014 at 11:30 am
Roberta Rivera Illustrations
Karen, great article. Thank you for sharing and inspiring me. 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 11:16 pm
Karen Henry Clark
So many people have inspired me along the way, so I’m thrilled to have passed along their good thoughts.
November 4, 2014 at 11:32 am
Nancy Armo
Oh, how I love this post. Your honesty and perseverance are inspiring.
November 4, 2014 at 11:18 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Great. I couldn’t have hoped for more.
November 4, 2014 at 11:32 am
Jessie
Wow, that was so real. Thank you for sharing, and best wishes to you as you continue your journey. ❤
November 4, 2014 at 11:18 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That’s so kind of you.
November 4, 2014 at 11:34 am
susandilldetwiler
Oh my, I sure do hope you keep writing! I know of SWEET MOON BABY because I am such a fan of illustrator Patrice Barton, but the story you’ve told of the manuscript’s creation gave me goosebumps. How lovely! I, too, persevered through years of rejections and my forst pb as author/illustrator was just released — I have complete empathy for you. The only thing I don’t get is why oh why could your book be out of print?
November 4, 2014 at 11:23 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Patrice is brilliant. Congratulations on your accomplishment. I hope lots of people see your good news comment. Publishing is a business by the numbers. For better or worse, China has significantly reduced their international adoptions, and that altered sales of my book. Timing is everything.
November 4, 2014 at 11:34 am
Jill Tadros (@PopTheWall)
Such an honest an open post. I really appreciated it!
November 4, 2014 at 11:24 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m glad. That was my hope.
November 4, 2014 at 11:34 am
Rita Allmon
Thank you Karen for those words of encouragement… reminding us that the moonlight shines in the canyon too. You have inspired me to keep reaching. Surely I can swing by the ribbon of a moonbeam and reach a star someday. Yeah! I have my 1st idea for today! Thanks again!
November 4, 2014 at 11:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
There is so much material in the moon. Glad to have helped.
November 4, 2014 at 11:37 am
Cathy Ballou Mealey
So glad that you had the chance to write and publish the story of your heart. I look forward to reading Sweet Moon Baby and your future books to come. I know they will!
November 4, 2014 at 11:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I hope so, too. Thanks for being so positive. It really helps.
November 4, 2014 at 11:37 am
mariagianferrari
A poignant and beautiful post, Karen! Thank you for your honesty, and for sharing your journey with us. It’s so heartening and important to have the support of our loved ones through all of these rejections, and trials! Keep chugging down that track!
November 4, 2014 at 11:26 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Toot! Toot! I will indeed.
November 4, 2014 at 11:40 am
Lynn A. Davidson
Karen, It’s encouraging to read of your journey to your dreams. I very much appreciate that you shared your vulnerability and heart. For me, that’s an encouraging and hopeful thing – that you are willing to reveal your heart and show it’s okay to be where you are as long as you keep on writing. Thank you for that.
Congratulations on such a special book that was ready for when its time had come. I’m sure it has blessed many, many families.
– Lynn A. Davidson
November 4, 2014 at 11:28 pm
Karen Henry Clark
On my SWEET MOON BABY Facebook page, a mother posted a picture of her daughter who picked my book for her first book report. What a thrill to know it had meant so incredibly much to a child.
November 4, 2014 at 11:41 am
mona861
Lovely post. Thank you…chug a chugachugachug!
November 4, 2014 at 11:28 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. Great sound effects, by the way.
November 4, 2014 at 11:49 am
Lisa Robinson
Really appreciate your story! Thanks for sharing it.
November 4, 2014 at 11:29 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It turned out to be more helpful to me than I could have imagined.
November 4, 2014 at 11:51 am
Judy Cox
Touching story. Thanks for sharing. Publication is fantastic, but it doesn’t solve any life problems. On the other hand, the creative act of writing itself will enhance your life. Wishing you well on your journey!
November 4, 2014 at 11:31 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You are so right. I always thought I’d enter a magical rainbow universe once I was published. Yes, it’s great, but it’s not everything I thought it would be.
November 4, 2014 at 11:52 am
MaryAnne Locher
One of my favorite picture books as a child was The Little Engine That Could. I remember reading it to a Kindergarten class I got to read to once a week when I was in fifth grade. The words are my mantra when I feel discouraged. Thank you for sharing your realistic author’s journey.
November 4, 2014 at 11:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Chances are some child in that class still remembers that day. How great is that!?
November 4, 2014 at 11:52 am
Beth Consugar
I needed this today – thank you!
November 4, 2014 at 11:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
As it turns out, a lot of us needed this today, me included.
November 4, 2014 at 11:53 am
laura516
There are so many ways to be a writer…published or not. Thank you for sharing your journey, with its ups and downs and all the hard work along the way.
November 4, 2014 at 11:34 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The value of writing is its own reward. It’s all those expectations we have that start causing the trouble.
November 4, 2014 at 11:54 am
seekerjules
I love the story “The Little Engine That Could” and I also have 3 nieces that were adopted.
November 4, 2014 at 11:36 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That story has motivated many of us in the best possible way. So many picture books exist now for adopted children, and that’s a great change on the scene.
November 4, 2014 at 11:57 am
JEN Garrett
What a beautiful story. Even at the bottom of the canyon, we just gotta keep writing, right? 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 11:37 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That’s absolutely right. It’s that simple.
November 4, 2014 at 11:59 am
Hayley Gudgin
such an encouraging read, thank you!
November 4, 2014 at 11:37 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Glad to have offered encouragement.
November 4, 2014 at 12:00 pm
Stephanie Geckle (@SPGeckle)
Thank you for sharing your story. I don’t believe your train derailed into a canyon. Merely hearsay! Instead, the train is simply on the other side of the mountain, steadily chugging along. It just happened to be in the Himalayas. You’ll see it any moment now…;)
November 4, 2014 at 11:38 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Hey! You’re right. Up ahead!
November 4, 2014 at 12:03 pm
laurazarrin
Great post! Thank you for encouraging me to follow my own track.
November 4, 2014 at 11:39 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Don’t let yourself be derailed now that you’ve found it.
November 4, 2014 at 12:05 pm
SevenAcreSky
Karen, your ‘canyon experience’ seems to have resonated with so many other writers. Published, or pre-published, we seem to be familiar with those low times, slow times. Thanks for being transparent in sharing your journey. Lovely book, treasured memories, and priceless inspiration for me. – Damon Dean
November 4, 2014 at 11:43 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Yes, I tapped into something all too familiar to many, but most folks don’t want to admit it. I understand that, too. I’m delighted to know you found my words valuable.
November 4, 2014 at 12:08 pm
colleen kosinski
Yes, this writing life is filled with highs and lows. We have to just keep going.
November 4, 2014 at 11:47 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Might as well!
November 4, 2014 at 12:10 pm
Marcy P.
Karen, that was really, really beautiful. I bet it was a good reflection on your writing life, too… I don’t always love my track but you’re right… we can write wherever we are, no matter who thinks what about it.
November 4, 2014 at 11:47 pm
Karen Henry Clark
They say all writing is practice so ALL of it matters.
November 4, 2014 at 12:11 pm
Clare Cannon
Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful and inspiring post. I’m truly moved by your story. Wishing you all the best! :0)
November 4, 2014 at 11:48 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate every good wish tossed my way.
November 4, 2014 at 12:15 pm
Sarah Frances Hardy
What a beautiful, honest story!
November 4, 2014 at 11:49 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks so much.
November 4, 2014 at 12:15 pm
Sandy Powell
Perseverance. This is what every picture book writer needs to have so in good times and bad times they will keep chugging along like The Little Engine That Could. Thanks for a very motivating post.
November 4, 2014 at 11:50 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The fact that a book my mother read to me was able to inspire me to believe I could write a book for my daughter is just incredible to think about.
November 4, 2014 at 12:16 pm
Deborah Patz
What an amazing story. Thank you for sharing it.
November 4, 2014 at 11:51 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I believe there’s a wonderful story behind every picture book.
November 4, 2014 at 12:17 pm
creationsbymit
Wow, Karen! What a beautifully written blog post, and a fabulous, inspirational story. If Tara cut PiBoIdMo short TODAY, I would STILL feel I’d gotten something out of the experience from this post. Guess we all need to keep feeding the engine more coal!!
November 4, 2014 at 11:52 pm
Karen Henry Clark
This means the world to me. Really and truly.
November 4, 2014 at 12:17 pm
Gail Maki Wilson
Very inspirational Karen! Off to find a copy of SWEET MOON BABY!
November 5, 2014 at 12:01 am
Karen Henry Clark
Try the library. Red Balloon Bookshop in St. Paul, MN still sells copies. Check their website.
November 4, 2014 at 12:26 pm
katmaz2012
Thank you, Karen,f or sharing your beautiful journey with all of us. Sweet Moon Baby is now on my adoption book list.
Thanks Tara for “finding” the perfect blog guest for us today!
November 5, 2014 at 12:03 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m especially appreciative of Tara’s efforts for all of us..
November 4, 2014 at 12:27 pm
Sadee Schilling
Karen, this made me cry. Thanks for such a heartfelt and encouraging post! Putting Moon Baby on my list!
November 5, 2014 at 12:04 am
Karen Henry Clark
Good crying I hope. I’ve seen grown men cry silently in bookstores as I’ve read the book out loud.
November 4, 2014 at 12:35 pm
danielledufayet
Beautiful post. Thanks for sharing. I’m going to find your sweet book and read it and I’m going to look forward to your next one!
November 5, 2014 at 12:04 am
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate the vote of confidence.
November 4, 2014 at 12:35 pm
Irene Branch
Lovely and very inspirational retell of your success. Reality check with a positive twist. Thank you.
November 5, 2014 at 12:05 am
Karen Henry Clark
I couldn’t have hoped for more. Thanks.
November 4, 2014 at 12:35 pm
Michael Vogel
Karen I really enjoyed your post today. I have a niece and nephew that our foster/adopted to my sister, so I am hoping that can translate into a book of some kind, also work with students with special needs, and I hope I can find some topics this month that i can use to capture that genre.
November 5, 2014 at 12:06 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’ve got excellent material! Keep going.
November 4, 2014 at 12:38 pm
viewofblue
I wrote a manuscript named Number 1. It was tons of fun to write
November 5, 2014 at 12:06 am
Karen Henry Clark
We all start somewhere.
November 4, 2014 at 12:39 pm
Allyn Stotz
Very inspirational and uplifting post. It’s good to hear someone else is struggling too but you’re not letting it stop you from writing and chugging along! Good for you and thanks for sharing your story.
November 5, 2014 at 12:07 am
Karen Henry Clark
Well, there aren’t many distractions in the canyon–plenty of writing time.
November 4, 2014 at 12:45 pm
KurlGurl
I have just cried my eyes out. Beautiful story, both the journey and the book.
November 5, 2014 at 12:08 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks so much for letting me know.
November 4, 2014 at 12:45 pm
Shirley Menendez
Thanks for sharing your story. Many of us share the rejection path but keep doing what we love. Here’s hoping for future successes.
November 5, 2014 at 12:08 am
Karen Henry Clark
Yes! For both of us.
November 4, 2014 at 12:51 pm
Carrie Charley Brown
Thank you for sharing your sweet, inspirational tale, Karen. Your book looks precious and there will be more to come as long as you keep trying. 🙂
November 5, 2014 at 12:09 am
Karen Henry Clark
I will, too.
November 4, 2014 at 12:54 pm
gabisnyder
Thanks for sharing this beautiful post, Karen. Yes, we all want to be published. But that’s only a small part of the journey. Writing helps us see the world in new and wonderful ways and I think that’s the biggest reason we do it.
November 5, 2014 at 12:09 am
Karen Henry Clark
Yes. Publishing is only one piece of the prize.
November 4, 2014 at 12:54 pm
Emmeline Hall
Wonderful story, thank you for sharing and reminding us that the journey will have ups and downs. And what a beautiful book!
November 5, 2014 at 12:10 am
Karen Henry Clark
To see how Patrice interpreted my simple sentences is a thing of wonder.
November 4, 2014 at 12:55 pm
Kelly Ramsdell Fineman
Boy howdy does this post resonate. Also, my brother and his wife have adopted one child (a girl) from China, and are hoping to adopt a young boy next year, so this book sounds right up their alley!
November 5, 2014 at 12:12 am
Karen Henry Clark
Great news for your family! Maggie’s orphanage had 1000 children and only 3 were boys.
November 4, 2014 at 12:56 pm
klmcmorranmaus
Thank you for honest, bittersweet tale. With your faith and perseverance, I am positive will get back on the track.
November 5, 2014 at 12:12 am
Karen Henry Clark
“Bittersweet” is the perfect word. Thanks.
November 4, 2014 at 12:57 pm
Vicki Wilke
Thank you for your heart Karen! What a poignant path. I’m fairly new to this world, but is it possible to reprint a book? Not sure how that works. Best wishes in all of our continued journeys!
November 5, 2014 at 12:13 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s a tricky business for sure.
November 4, 2014 at 12:57 pm
csschwarz
Oh, wow. You made me cry and inspired me all at the same time. Your book should NOT be out of print. It is beautiful and tell a much needed story in our world today. Best of luck and blessings to you on your journey!
November 5, 2014 at 12:14 am
Karen Henry Clark
Okay, it even made me cry as I wrote it.
November 4, 2014 at 12:58 pm
natalie15
What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing all of your wisdom. I do think you have a story in a caboose with “loser” spray painted on it… That made me laugh out loud and want to cry at the same time.
November 5, 2014 at 12:16 am
Karen Henry Clark
When Maggie read it, she said, “This is so YOU, Mom. You write something really funny and then end up making the reader cry.” She meant it in the best possible way, which flatters me.
November 4, 2014 at 12:58 pm
Erin O'Brien
Your words are both honest and inspiring. Thank you.
November 5, 2014 at 12:17 am
Karen Henry Clark
The truth has been hard to accept because I had no idea what was ahead, but that’s true about almost everything, isn’t it?
November 4, 2014 at 1:00 pm
Mary Jane
I enjoyed reading your post. In the end it is the JOURNEY that is important and it is the best part of the process and you have reminded me.
November 5, 2014 at 12:18 am
Karen Henry Clark
Right. The journey is often more valuable than the destination.
November 4, 2014 at 1:02 pm
Natasha
We have a sweet moon baby in our family. I’d love to win a signed copy of your book. Journey on, all.
November 5, 2014 at 12:18 am
Karen Henry Clark
Congratulations! Here’s hoping.
November 4, 2014 at 1:02 pm
Christine M. Irvin
Beautiful story; thanks for sharing!
November 5, 2014 at 12:19 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so welcome.
November 4, 2014 at 1:06 pm
Therese Nagi
Thank you for sharing your journey, what a story on perseverance. As an adoptive mother, thank you for writing this book. It’s much needed for adopted children and their parents
November 5, 2014 at 12:20 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m proud that it’s used by many adoption counselors and families.
November 4, 2014 at 1:07 pm
Julene Kinser
I just put in a request for Sweet Moon Baby at my library. I can’t wait to read it. Thank you for sharing your journey, Karen.
November 5, 2014 at 12:21 am
Karen Henry Clark
Libraries have really embraced the book for their patrons.
November 4, 2014 at 1:09 pm
Kathleen
Very clever, that Maggie! Sometimes our kids see the gold in us that we don’t. You’re very blessed!
November 5, 2014 at 12:21 am
Karen Henry Clark
She’s taught me my best life lessons.
November 4, 2014 at 1:14 pm
Donna Gwinnell Lambo-Weidner
Trains, planes, automobiles, feet…as long as we choose a way of moving forward. Thanks ever so much for sharing yours!
November 5, 2014 at 12:22 am
Karen Henry Clark
True. Moving is the point.
November 4, 2014 at 1:15 pm
Laura Rackham
The journey really does continue…wherever that takes you. Thanks for such thoughtful insights.
November 5, 2014 at 12:25 am
Karen Henry Clark
Journeys are so mysterious. That’s where we discover ourselves–not at the finish line. Thanks for reminding me.
November 4, 2014 at 1:17 pm
Bonnie
It is great to hear stories like this to remind us all to just keep on going. Sweet Baby Moon sounds enchanting and beautiful.
November 5, 2014 at 12:25 am
Karen Henry Clark
Yes. Don’t stop.
November 4, 2014 at 1:23 pm
bangersnmashdesign
Karen, wow what a cool story! And I love the front illustration on your book. You are living the dream.
November 5, 2014 at 12:27 am
Karen Henry Clark
When Maggie saw the cover art, she said, “I look like the baby Moses!” I reminded her that great stories about great babies are timeless.
November 4, 2014 at 1:25 pm
Mary Jo Wagner
“My adventure is mine, stop by stop. And that’s not failure. It’s just my track.” This is and will be my motto. Thanks for putting it into words for me.
November 5, 2014 at 12:27 am
Karen Henry Clark
I didn’t know it was my motto until I wrote it. THAT is why writing is so important.
November 4, 2014 at 1:26 pm
Luanne Marten
Karen, I love SWEET MOON BABY. It’s a beautiful story with beautiful pictures. Thanks for sharing your journey with us!
November 5, 2014 at 12:29 am
Karen Henry Clark
A mother told me she bought two copies. One is for reading. The other was cut up so she could frame the pictures for her daughter’s nursery. What a thrill.
November 4, 2014 at 1:27 pm
Norma
Thanks for sharing your inspiring story, Karen. Now back to the nose on the grindstone for me…
November 5, 2014 at 12:29 am
Karen Henry Clark
Me, too.
November 4, 2014 at 1:31 pm
Marla
That’s perseverance!
November 5, 2014 at 12:30 am
Karen Henry Clark
That’s the long and the short of it.
November 4, 2014 at 1:33 pm
Miranda
What an honest post yet wrought with inspiration. Kudos to you, Karen! Thank you for posting.
November 5, 2014 at 12:30 am
Karen Henry Clark
My pleasure.
November 4, 2014 at 1:33 pm
rubineleanor
Yours is a moving and encouraging story. “Sweet Moon Baby” is wonderful and makes me eager to see what follows no matter how long that takes!
November 5, 2014 at 12:31 am
Karen Henry Clark
Yes. It takes however long it takes.
November 4, 2014 at 1:34 pm
Charla Yingling
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing your story.
November 5, 2014 at 12:32 am
Karen Henry Clark
We’re all great stories.
November 4, 2014 at 1:35 pm
Carol Gordon Ekster
Karen, this was a touching and heartfelt post. This is a difficult journey in the KidLit business but so sweet also. We all need to hang in there as best we can and keep chugging along. Wishing you many future successes. I know they will come.
November 5, 2014 at 12:33 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for that. We all have that in common.
November 4, 2014 at 1:41 pm
Linda Moore
“It’s just my track.” Great advice for everyone, writer or not.
November 5, 2014 at 12:33 am
Karen Henry Clark
Good point.
November 4, 2014 at 1:41 pm
Elizabeth Brown
This is such an inspiring post. Thank you!
November 5, 2014 at 12:34 am
Karen Henry Clark
With thanks to Tara for giving all of us this chance to do some inspiring together.
November 4, 2014 at 1:43 pm
Janny J Johnson
What you forgot to mention, is that down there in that canyon, there are bunches of us down there with you!
Thank you, I too will not stop.
November 5, 2014 at 12:35 am
Karen Henry Clark
And I’m having the time of my life down there today.
November 4, 2014 at 1:45 pm
Marty McCormick
Loved reading your heartwarming post. Thank you for sharing with us. I love the idea that you’re a fellow traveler on this journey; so much I can relate to in what you said. Wishing you further success down the road. Marty McCormick
November 5, 2014 at 12:36 am
Karen Henry Clark
And good luck to you, too. Hey! Who cares if we don’t have a map?!
November 4, 2014 at 1:46 pm
Katie Sullivan Peterson
I didn’t want to read anyone else’s post before I wrote my own, so that my thoughts wouldn’t be muddled. Thank you, Karen. Thank you for keeping it real, and for not sugar coating the challenges of working towards any goal in life. Your message will be something I keep coming back to any time I need a kick in the rear. Blessings to you and your lovely family.
November 5, 2014 at 12:41 am
Karen Henry Clark
This is so kind of you. Don’t you wish we could ALL meet for coffee?
November 4, 2014 at 1:49 pm
Michele Prestininzi
Karen, thank you for sharing your story and for being so honest. I read it this morning and I’m still thinking about it. Thanks for inspiring us and reminding us to stay on track:)
November 5, 2014 at 12:43 am
Karen Henry Clark
THAT is a remark I hold onto with pride. If my words have whispered to you throughout the day, I couldn’t hope for more. Bless you for sharing that.
November 4, 2014 at 1:50 pm
Jennifer Ali
Thank you for this inspiring post. I often feel derailed and it helps to know that others are working hard to get back on the track. Off to work!
November 5, 2014 at 12:43 am
Karen Henry Clark
I swear I had no idea so many of us were in the same place.
November 4, 2014 at 2:02 pm
nicolezoltack
What a beautiful post!
November 5, 2014 at 12:45 am
Karen Henry Clark
It doesn’t hold a candle to all the goodwill generated by this list of incredible comments.
November 4, 2014 at 2:07 pm
teresarobeson
I love everything about your story, Karen – your writing journey, your adoption story, everything! Thanks for sharing so frankly with us!
November 5, 2014 at 12:46 am
Karen Henry Clark
Again, it’s amazing that Tara takes this challenge on each year for all of us.
November 4, 2014 at 2:10 pm
Joanne Roberts
Thank-you for your brutal honesty. In you, beats the heart of a true storyteller. Thank-you for sharing this chapter of your story with us.
November 5, 2014 at 12:48 am
Karen Henry Clark
I had no idea it would be this important. I thought it would make everyone run for the hills, but it’s gathered us all around the campfire down in the canyon.
November 4, 2014 at 2:13 pm
Sherry Walz
Karen, thank your for sharing your inspirational story.
November 5, 2014 at 12:48 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so very welcome.
November 4, 2014 at 2:15 pm
Rebecca
The cover of that precious book is as sweet as the story behind it. Thanks for sharing your story, Karen!
November 5, 2014 at 12:50 am
Karen Henry Clark
Something about that cover pulls everyone in. I’ve been in conversations with all kinds of publishing people who will say, “Are you the author of that book with the baby on the cover?” Thank you, Patrice Barton.
November 4, 2014 at 2:17 pm
Michelle O'Hara Levin
Thank you for this honest tale. It’s good to remember that it’s not all sweet sailing after publication.
November 5, 2014 at 12:51 am
Karen Henry Clark
Surely it is for some.
November 4, 2014 at 2:20 pm
Britta Beth Jones
The little engine that could is a fantastic metaphor for life. I need to remember that!
November 5, 2014 at 12:52 am
Karen Henry Clark
It has served me well. I’m sure my mother knew that it would.
November 4, 2014 at 2:21 pm
Ali Puchardo
Karen Henry Clark, I love your determination. One of my favorite picture books has always been The Little Engine That Could. I change it a little I say “I know I can get published.” Your book sounds so beautiful. Thanks for your encouraging words.
November 5, 2014 at 12:54 am
Karen Henry Clark
Great words you have for yourself. Books are so important in the lives of children. Sometimes I can’t believe I wrote one that has inspired a new generation of wonderful children.
November 4, 2014 at 2:21 pm
Kathryn Ault Noble
What a lovely story, daughter and journey, Karen! And starting with Patrice Barton, wow! It’s funny what we think is written on our cabooses as we chug past others. All I see on yours is Succeeded! Winner! Ever noticed those trains with four or five engines? Yeah, those are the guest speakers who join in and help us all as we chug up the hills. Thanks!
November 5, 2014 at 12:58 am
Karen Henry Clark
Believe me, I prefer your view of my caboose. Good point about our trains.
November 4, 2014 at 2:24 pm
Karen Calloway
A wonderful and encouraging story. Thank you so much.
November 5, 2014 at 12:58 am
Karen Henry Clark
Keep chugging along. Thanks.
November 4, 2014 at 2:25 pm
Denise Bowman
Wonderful story! Thank you for sharing!
November 5, 2014 at 12:59 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m happy I had the chance, even though I asked Tara to pick someone else. I insisted my story wouldn’t inspire anyone. She thought otherwise.
November 4, 2014 at 2:32 pm
amomnextdoor
Thank you so much for sharing your story! You remind me of what Christian Robinson said at a recent SCBWI event: DO what you want to do. If you want to write picture books, write them. Don’t wait for someone to tell you they are “good enough to publish.” Write them, and you will already be doing your dream. Thank you for the inspiration to stay on track!
November 5, 2014 at 1:00 am
Karen Henry Clark
So true. No one sends us invitations to write.
November 4, 2014 at 2:34 pm
Anne Bromley
I do so appreciate this forthright ongoing tale of a beautiful journey. You’ve got it right, Karen. It’s all about the journey. You are traveling with grace and understanding. Thank you for sharing.
November 5, 2014 at 1:01 am
Karen Henry Clark
How good of you to say that. It helps me enormously.
November 4, 2014 at 2:36 pm
amberbop
I recently left NYC on a publishing journey of my own, to find the space and the room to write on the cheap. One of my major draws to the sleepy town I settled in a few months ago was the gorgeous million dollar library recently constructed – such an enigma. Anyway, in the first few weeks here, I discovered Moon Baby. I picked it up for the pictures, they are so gorgeous – but oh the words. They’re a dream. I can’t remember the last time a picture book actually made me cry at the shear beauty and craft. I was SO transported. Thank you for writing and writing and writing. I would LOVE a copy for my permanent collection. I’ve been looking!
November 5, 2014 at 1:05 am
Karen Henry Clark
I can’t believe you showed up here today. What a thrill for me to hear your story about my book. Bless your heart, as my mother used to say. Once when I read my book at an event, a mother put her head in her lap and sobbed. I’ve learned not to look out at the audience or I’ll cry, too.
November 4, 2014 at 2:39 pm
Nancy Tupper Ling
Oh, the many stops we have along the way! Beautiful thoughts, Karen! Thanks!
November 5, 2014 at 1:06 am
Karen Henry Clark
That’s right. They’re just necessary stops.
November 4, 2014 at 2:46 pm
Mandie
Totally inspired by your post, Karen. I am so glad to hear your mantra “I think I can I think I can” because your dream as a child was also mine. Keep writing joyfully, and I’ll keep drawing!
November 5, 2014 at 1:06 am
Karen Henry Clark
You simply must. I insist.
November 4, 2014 at 2:48 pm
Mike Karg
Thanks for opening up and sharing your story. That’s the ticket!
November 5, 2014 at 1:07 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m glad you appreciated it.
November 4, 2014 at 2:48 pm
kiwiskan
What a wonderful encourager you are. Especially the words ‘What I’ve come to understand is that success requires more than writing a great story’. And there are adopted children in my family so your book looks great.
November 5, 2014 at 1:08 am
Karen Henry Clark
If I can help anyone keep going instead of giving up, I’m honored.
November 4, 2014 at 2:49 pm
Cat
I have slowly come to see my writing as a journey and that the process matters as much as the end result. Thank you for sharing the story of your journey Karen 🙂
November 5, 2014 at 1:09 am
Karen Henry Clark
It can be a wild ride.
November 4, 2014 at 2:49 pm
Maria Marshall
Thank you for such an inspiring post. I think your journey and future travels aren’t too different from the one many of is are on. Best of luck getting your train back on the tracks. Your daughter is right, you are a beautiful writer.
November 5, 2014 at 1:10 am
Karen Henry Clark
Wow. Thanks for the good words.
November 4, 2014 at 2:49 pm
Kim Chaffee
Thank you, Karen, for your honesty and sharing your story. Never give up!
November 5, 2014 at 1:10 am
Karen Henry Clark
I won’t. Promise.
November 4, 2014 at 2:54 pm
kpbock
What a beautiful and inspirational story. Your book sounds wonderful!
November 5, 2014 at 1:11 am
Karen Henry Clark
I was honored to write it.
November 4, 2014 at 2:58 pm
Carol Federoff
There’s a lot of us down there in that canyon….good to know we’re not alone! We KNOW we can, We KNOW we can, We KNOW we can!
November 5, 2014 at 1:13 am
Karen Henry Clark
Yes. Let’s circle the bonfire and toast some marshmallows while we write.
November 4, 2014 at 3:00 pm
Laura J
Thank you for your inspirational words.
November 5, 2014 at 1:13 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so very welcome.
November 4, 2014 at 3:02 pm
Heather Pierce Stigall
Keep chugging along! If you can do it, so can I. Thanks for your words of wisdom.
November 5, 2014 at 1:14 am
Karen Henry Clark
Of course you can. You can. You can.
November 4, 2014 at 3:13 pm
melsul09
Thank you for sharing. Your story is remarkable. You didn’t give up on your dreams and that inspires me not to either.
November 5, 2014 at 1:14 am
Karen Henry Clark
We believe in those dreams for good reason.
November 4, 2014 at 3:24 pm
Claire Vita
Thank you for inspiration and a sense of ongoing hope. Am looking forward to reading Sweet Moon Baby!
November 5, 2014 at 1:15 am
Karen Henry Clark
Hope will serve you well until you get that golden ticket.
November 4, 2014 at 3:26 pm
Sharalyn A. Edgeberg
What a great story! How wonderful that you have your story published. It sounds wonderful, and the illustrations are gorgeous. Thanks for the inspiration to keep “chugging” along.
November 5, 2014 at 1:16 am
Karen Henry Clark
I absolutely never get tired of looking at those gorgeous illustrations.
November 4, 2014 at 3:31 pm
Janet Halfmann
What an inspiring story! “Write on,” I say! Thanks for sharing.
November 5, 2014 at 1:17 am
Karen Henry Clark
My pleasure. Glad it helped in some way.
November 4, 2014 at 3:39 pm
paddedpup
What a beautiful, inspiring story
November 5, 2014 at 1:17 am
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate the compliment.
November 4, 2014 at 3:43 pm
Kaye Baillie
That is such a great story, I didn’t want the post to finish. Thank you for sharing, Karen. Sweet Moon Baby is certainly a very special book about a very special daughter and I love how this came about. Thanks for the words of wisdom and about taking our journeys as they come and to keep on writing.
November 5, 2014 at 1:19 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s been hard for me to accept that I can’t control everything. But I can write, no matter what.
November 4, 2014 at 3:43 pm
Carolyn Rohrbaugh
That is a very inspiring story. I love it.
November 5, 2014 at 1:20 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you, Carolyn.
November 4, 2014 at 3:50 pm
Isabelle Barth
Thanks – So nice. So touching and a real proof that everything in life is a question of faith in what we do and also of patience. Hope I have both…
November 5, 2014 at 1:21 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for mentioning the value of patience.
November 4, 2014 at 3:50 pm
Pat Zietlow Miller
I have two sweet moon babies of my own. Congratulations on your book and your dedication!
November 5, 2014 at 1:23 am
Karen Henry Clark
You have your own incredibly successful writing journey. And our oldest daughters are on journeys of their own–seeking colleges. Hard to believe.
November 4, 2014 at 3:54 pm
Isabelle Barth
So nice. So True. A great proof that you need faith in what you do and also a good dose of patience. I hope I have both.
Isabelle Barth
November 5, 2014 at 1:24 am
Karen Henry Clark
Belief is everything.
November 4, 2014 at 3:58 pm
hethfeth
Karen, thank you for your post. I bet many writers have at least one essential, elemental thing to say–one masterpiece. I’ve often wondered how much I have to say, and whether I’d be satisfied if I got something published, but turned out to be a “one hit wonder”. And I think the answer is Yes. I’d be satisfied. One quality picture book that is a real gem and that reaches kids and touches hearts is so worthwhile!
November 5, 2014 at 1:25 am
Karen Henry Clark
True. No matter what. I turned out a beautiful story. I hold onto that.
November 4, 2014 at 3:59 pm
Ed Biggs
Thoughtful story of persistence and loving support. Thanks for sharing.
November 5, 2014 at 1:27 am
Karen Henry Clark
That support is everything.
November 4, 2014 at 4:00 pm
Chana Stiefel
Beautiful post. I love that inspiration came from your daughter & that publishing a PB topped your list of amazing accomplishments. You go girl!
November 5, 2014 at 1:28 am
Karen Henry Clark
In the world of lifetime goals, I feel lucky to have accomplished mine.
November 4, 2014 at 4:01 pm
jdewdropsofink
What an incredible story. And that letter from your daughter made me tear up. Amazing and the book looks fabulous.
November 5, 2014 at 1:29 am
Karen Henry Clark
She amazes me all the time. As a second grader, it took determination to type that letter.
November 4, 2014 at 4:06 pm
Sandi Lawson
What a lovely post. Thank you for sharing and encouraging us to never give up the dream!
November 5, 2014 at 1:30 am
Karen Henry Clark
Never, never, never.
November 4, 2014 at 4:06 pm
Maria Oka
Beautiful book! I love your determination and I will take some lessons from it. Thank you for sharing a piece of your soul!
November 5, 2014 at 1:32 am
Karen Henry Clark
I couldn’t ask for more.
November 4, 2014 at 4:08 pm
Meredith Pinkstone
So glad to know I’m not alone in that canyon — maybe we should have a party!! 🙂
November 5, 2014 at 1:33 am
Karen Henry Clark
We are!
November 4, 2014 at 4:18 pm
Lori Alexander
This is not an easy business! I’m with you, Karen. My first PB just came out and I’m finding that second contract hard to come by. Keep at it (I will, too!).
November 5, 2014 at 1:35 am
Karen Henry Clark
Fingers crossed for you! Let me know when it happens. It will.
November 4, 2014 at 4:23 pm
Sydney O'Neill
You helped your daughter dream of her past. She and your husband helped you dream of your future. How important those special people in our lives are.
November 5, 2014 at 1:36 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s wonderful, isn’t it?
November 4, 2014 at 4:27 pm
Mary Zisk
Hi Karen, We have traveled similar journeys. I adopted my daughter from Russia and found no adoption books for single mothers (at the time). I was thrilled when the adoption book I wrote and illustrated was published in 2001. And now, like you, I am still writing, trying to find an agent, and dealing with rejection. But I’m journeying on!
November 5, 2014 at 1:37 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s never over if you keep trying. Best wishes to your journey.
November 4, 2014 at 4:27 pm
Joanne Sher
LOVELY post – and super reminder to ALL of us to keep plugging away. Thanks!
November 5, 2014 at 1:38 am
Karen Henry Clark
Each day is another chance.
November 4, 2014 at 4:27 pm
Stacy
I love your sweet little book. You keep on working hard!
November 5, 2014 at 9:24 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. If nothing else, hard work is something I understand.
November 4, 2014 at 4:29 pm
Rebecca Colby
Thanks for sharing your story and inspiring us to keep on trucking!
November 5, 2014 at 9:25 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so welcome. Write, Rebecca, write.
November 4, 2014 at 4:33 pm
Dorothy Wiese
Thank you, Karen, for your beautiful story for PiBoIdMo. Sweet Baby Moon sounds like a beautiful story; I’m sorry that it is out of print. The picture of you and your beautiful daughter is a definite plus in your life. Thanks for sharing your frustrations. I’m not alone. We will keep writing!!!
November 5, 2014 at 9:26 am
Karen Henry Clark
It took until Maggie was an eighth grader for the book to be published. WE were truly happy in the picture.
November 4, 2014 at 4:35 pm
cmwritergirl23
What a beautiful story about your journey to publication and fulfilling your dream. It is always good to read about an author who has had a longer road to publication because I think it reminds those of us with longer journeys not to give up.
November 5, 2014 at 9:27 am
Karen Henry Clark
No one ever knows how long it will take. We all have to stop setting time limits on ourselves.
November 4, 2014 at 4:42 pm
Matt Tesoriero
True inspiration. A real writer. It is our journey we write about. Bravo Karen!
November 5, 2014 at 9:28 am
Karen Henry Clark
Yes. It is the story that is uniquely ours.
November 4, 2014 at 4:45 pm
jby95
I love this post. Too many writers seem to gloss over the failures and rough spots.
November 5, 2014 at 9:28 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re right. The hard truth is frightening to face.
November 4, 2014 at 4:51 pm
Jamie Deenihan
What an amazing journey you’ve had. Even with all the challenges you still remain driven and dedicated to your passion. Thank you for this wonderfully honest post.
November 5, 2014 at 9:29 am
Karen Henry Clark
Despite the difficulties, great things things have happened to me through writing.
November 4, 2014 at 4:54 pm
kdveiten
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story!
November 5, 2014 at 9:30 am
Karen Henry Clark
I had no idea it would be beneficial to so many people.
November 4, 2014 at 4:59 pm
Penny Parker Klostermann
Your book sounds beautiful! I was visiting with someone yesterday who said, “So now that you’ve gotten your first contract, I’m sure it will be easy to get the next one.”
I think that is what a lot of people believe. But the truth is we have to continually work to bring our best story. Nothing…nothing! is easy about getting published. I’m just glad there are so many that work hard enough to bring amazing stories to children.
November 5, 2014 at 9:32 am
Karen Henry Clark
When I started in the 80s, it was really easier to get that second contract, but clearly that wasn’t the direction for my journey. It gets harder and harder these days.
November 4, 2014 at 5:04 pm
Ann K
Yep, yep. I know that canyon feeling. But that railroad track has to lead out of the canyon too, right? 🙂 Thank you for sharing your story!
November 5, 2014 at 9:33 am
Karen Henry Clark
True. The only way out is up.
November 4, 2014 at 5:04 pm
seschipper
Great inspirational story! (I have always loved “The Little Engine that Could!”)
November 5, 2014 at 9:35 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s incredible to see how many people share that same love for the book.
November 4, 2014 at 5:05 pm
Nadine Gamble
Thank you for the inspiration. I’ve had many derailments along the way and still waiting to hear a “yes” from an editor. You are inspiration for all of us. Your book looks so sweet! Hope I win it just so I can see the inside!
November 5, 2014 at 9:36 am
Karen Henry Clark
Don’t you dare give up on yourself.
November 4, 2014 at 5:10 pm
Darshana
Thank you for that honest post and raw post. Your perseverance is inspirational. I do think the greater the challenge the greater the reward.
November 5, 2014 at 9:37 am
Karen Henry Clark
Just getting our daughter was challenge enough, but I can’t really express how valuable she is. So I know in more than one way that you are right.
November 4, 2014 at 5:11 pm
Nicole Popel
Such a sweet story! But that’s what life is about…the bitter and the sweet. Without one, you cannot have the other. Love this post.
November 5, 2014 at 9:38 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for that. We forget that there are two sides to very coin.
November 4, 2014 at 5:20 pm
Genevieve Petrillo
GAH! Someone spray-painted “loser” on my caboose, too! What a coincidence. I’m so happy I’m not the only one still writing through it. It’s peaceful in the canyon. Soon, I’m planning to claw my way out with the elusive Book #2. I’ll see you up there! Soon, I hope!
November 5, 2014 at 9:39 am
Karen Henry Clark
Great. Wait for me at the station so we can celebrate together.
November 4, 2014 at 5:26 pm
Laura
Your story is touching and beautiful! I’m sure you’ll be publishing lots of wonderful books soon!
November 5, 2014 at 9:40 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for the encouragement. It honestly matters to me.
November 4, 2014 at 5:27 pm
tpierce
Thank you for sharing your beautiful, heartwarming journey, Karen. It’s a reminder that writing for children is all about the journey, not just the destination (for there are many of them along the way).
November 5, 2014 at 9:42 am
Karen Henry Clark
Writing this for Tara helped me see the significance of my lifelong journey. That is the remarkable thing about the act of writing–finding our truth.
November 4, 2014 at 5:28 pm
Romelle Broas
Thank you for sharing your journey with us, Karen. I love that Maggie wrote you an acceptance letter for your ms. It just goes to show that all we need is to believe in ourselves…and a little bit of luck doesn’t hurt too.
November 5, 2014 at 9:46 am
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie has understood the complications of writing and publishing all her life, and that has made her forever patient with me about my work.
November 4, 2014 at 5:28 pm
Beth Blee
Karen, thank you for sharing your writing journey. Even with derailments, I have to write, if only for my own enjoyment. But, I’d like to bring adventure, laughter, etc. to children with my writing. Adoption will be one of my subjects to write on. Thanks for the encouragement to continue, no matter what.
November 5, 2014 at 9:47 am
Karen Henry Clark
Good news. The market always has room for an adoption book.
November 4, 2014 at 5:35 pm
rmcg14
Thank you for the inspiration to keep going!
November 5, 2014 at 9:48 am
Karen Henry Clark
I hope it helps you keep going.
November 4, 2014 at 5:35 pm
Dana Murphy
Thank you so much for your candid description of your writing journey. How proud you must be of your beautiful book.
November 5, 2014 at 9:50 am
Karen Henry Clark
Aside from adopting Maggie, it always makes me smile to look at my book because I know how incredibly much faith it took.
November 4, 2014 at 5:52 pm
telainamuir
Thank you for this Karen. Perfect timing and poignant! Keep on writing, and inspiring others.
November 5, 2014 at 9:51 am
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate your taking the time to let me know. A world of thanks to you.
November 4, 2014 at 6:01 pm
teresa m.i. schaefer (@TMISchaefer)
Thank you for sharing your journey — its ups and downs, turns and stops.
November 5, 2014 at 9:52 am
Karen Henry Clark
Whew! Right. I’ve been every direction.
November 4, 2014 at 6:05 pm
Wendy Greenley
Wow, Karen your poignant post is inspiring–and depressing. If a writer of your caliber is struggling I have to admit I’m a bit intimidated by the steep canyon walls.
November 5, 2014 at 9:54 am
Karen Henry Clark
Wendy, we can’t control the changes happening in publishing, but we can control our writing. Just do it. Don’t paralyze yourself like I did once.
November 4, 2014 at 6:05 pm
Juliana Lee
What an inspiring story! Just another example of following your own path. It’s nice to remember that we each have our own journey.
November 5, 2014 at 9:55 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s that simple or that hard. We decide.
November 4, 2014 at 6:06 pm
Andrea
Your post reminds me that I’m not alone in sometimes feeling discouraged — and in trying and trying again. Your book looks lovely.
November 5, 2014 at 9:56 am
Karen Henry Clark
Once I became a mother, I understood how hard that is, too. But, oh, the rewards!
November 5, 2014 at 9:56 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s amazing that Tara takes on all the work of organizing this event for us.
November 4, 2014 at 6:08 pm
Kathy Raggio
Thank you for telling your inspirational story!
November 5, 2014 at 9:59 am
Karen Henry Clark
Any little thing can help us when we most need it.
November 4, 2014 at 6:08 pm
Tracy Molitors
Thank you for sharing, Karen. So glad that you are able to keep trying and to inspire us to do the same!
November 5, 2014 at 10:00 am
Karen Henry Clark
I hope it helped you get busy with your own projects.
November 4, 2014 at 6:09 pm
girlwrites29
When I was in the third grade I wrote a story that won two tickets to a children’s book author conference. I am writing my way out of my own canyon. *tears* Thank you for your inspiring look into your heart and mine.
November 5, 2014 at 10:01 am
Karen Henry Clark
Those two tickets changed your life. Remember that important accomplishment.
November 4, 2014 at 6:13 pm
Donna L. Sadd
This is the most honest and generous accounting of a real-life writer’s journey I’ve ever read, Karen. It sounds a lot like my journey as well as I write this through tears and a wrenched heart. Thank you for sharing; your I think I can mantra is truly, truly inspiring. :0)
November 5, 2014 at 10:02 am
Karen Henry Clark
Well, then, I showed up for you at the right time. It’s turning out to be not so bad down here in that canyon.
November 4, 2014 at 6:16 pm
Elizabeth Saba
Thank you for your honesty and inspiration.
November 5, 2014 at 10:05 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m so grateful to have been a help to so many. Writing is hard. Plain and simple.
November 4, 2014 at 6:18 pm
Audrey Hackett
Thank you for sharing this wonderful inspiring story. And the book looks lovely. Keep going!
November 5, 2014 at 10:06 am
Karen Henry Clark
I will. I will. I will.
November 4, 2014 at 6:18 pm
eliseparsley
This post was a perfect celebration of National Picture Book Month AND National Adoption Month! Thanks for sharing your story, Karen.
November 5, 2014 at 10:07 am
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate your making that significant connection for two great issues. Thanks.
November 4, 2014 at 6:18 pm
Andrea Poppleton
Over the last few days, I have been thinking about the great wealth of work that is sitting in file drawers, in notebooks, and in computer hard drives — work that will never be “just right” for a publisher. I don’t know what to do with that thought. Become depressed? Feel sad? Raid fellow writers’ memory sticks to read hidden treasures? I appreicate your story and your conclusions, Karen. We must keep writing. Even if our stories are never seen by anyone but our dear husbands and children. I think I can.
November 5, 2014 at 10:08 am
Karen Henry Clark
So true. I have to believe that great stories find their way. We have to keep going.
November 4, 2014 at 6:21 pm
pearlz
Such a truly beautiful story about perseverance and dreaming, and having people who believe in you. I wish for you more published books.
November 4, 2014 at 6:22 pm
pearlz
Reblogged this on Pearlz Dreaming and commented:
I love this blog about dreaming, writing, striving and continuing for the love of it!
November 5, 2014 at 10:13 am
Karen Henry Clark
Incredible! Thank you a thousand times over. I’m flattered. What a gift you’ve given me.
November 6, 2014 at 7:04 pm
pearlz
I was very moved by your blog post, I love writers with a strong motivation and spirit who never give up.
November 4, 2014 at 6:26 pm
Kathy Johnson
A wonderful story about your journey! Thank you.
November 5, 2014 at 10:13 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m happy to know you enjoyed it.
November 4, 2014 at 6:30 pm
kariail2013
Although I can’t say your story is encouraging it is certainly authentic and more like how I feel than many of the author stories I hear. I’ve not read Sweet Moon Baby but will certainly try to find a copy. Working on my journey too, thanks for sharing yours!
November 5, 2014 at 10:17 am
Karen Henry Clark
Honestly, listening to those rousing author stories always made me feel even more lost. I’d end up asking myself what I was doing wrong since everyone else was having such great success.
November 4, 2014 at 6:34 pm
Caroline Brown
Thank you for reminding me that it’s about the journey.
November 5, 2014 at 10:17 am
Karen Henry Clark
Look to the horizon!
November 4, 2014 at 6:36 pm
Bethany Roberts
Thanks so much for sharing your journey. Writing certainly does take perseverance! It took me a long time from my first book to my second. I think that must be common. But if you can do it once- you’ve got what it takes to do it again- and again. I look forward to reading Sweet Moon Baby- and your next book as well!
November 5, 2014 at 10:20 am
Karen Henry Clark
Nice of you to point this out. I’ll check for your books.
November 4, 2014 at 6:41 pm
Stephan Stuecklin
Sobering and encouraging all at once – thanks for sharing, Karen.
November 5, 2014 at 10:22 am
Karen Henry Clark
Just reading through these wonderful comments is reassuring.
November 4, 2014 at 6:48 pm
Lori Mozdzierz
It is a journey, isn’t it! Thanks, Karen, for the reminder 😉
November 5, 2014 at 10:32 am
Karen Henry Clark
That’s the long and short of it for all of us. It never changes.
November 4, 2014 at 6:53 pm
Keila
I remember two things about my writing journey. Every year two of my best friends who are scattered in different states and I meet for a girls weekend. One of them asked, “What’s do you want to accomplish next?” I wanted two things and one of them was to publish a children’s book. And will realize my dream in a couple months. My road to publication was quick, but my first writing rejection came in high school from my best friend at the time. Guess I leaned rejection happens, you just have to find the right audience.
November 5, 2014 at 10:33 am
Karen Henry Clark
Good for you! Nothing wrong with being a quick learner.
November 4, 2014 at 6:53 pm
bookseedstudio
Dear Karen,
These are exquisite thoughts from your writer-daughter, who may take up the pen with you as co-authors: “Clark House Print & Loving Company”
This is one of those carry you through life phrases & moments.
Could be you are to be your own publishers?
The thing about writing, my pal & I told another in the writer group a few weeks ago who doubted the path, is that We. Can’t. Keep. From. Doing. It. It’s like someone’s continuing to garden, or make candy at home, or dance Irish steps in a group or breed English bull dogs or sew quilts. Writing, revising, writing well some more is what our souls compel us to do -publishing or no. More than not, publishing traditionally doens’t happen but I feel you will publish well again, I feel it in the heartbeats of your article you wrote for dear Tara & us all. Thank you for being generous & for sharing a partof your path.
j a n
@BkSeedStudio
November 5, 2014 at 10:35 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’ve written so much good stuff in this comment. We all benefit from it.
November 4, 2014 at 7:16 pm
Kim Erickson
Thanks for sharing your story. Wishing you future success as you continue to pursue your dreams.
November 5, 2014 at 10:36 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s great to run across all these wishes. Thanks.
November 4, 2014 at 7:19 pm
Julie Murphy
What an amazing, generous and inspiring post. Thanks so much for sharing your journey with others, and wishing you all the best with your writing and life. Whoever wins your Sweet Moon Baby is one lucky ducky!
: -)
November 5, 2014 at 10:38 am
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate this. I hope goes well with your writing during this challenge.
November 4, 2014 at 7:21 pm
mwebb32
Great words of inspiration to stay motivated. Thank you!
November 5, 2014 at 10:38 am
Karen Henry Clark
You simply must stay focused!
November 4, 2014 at 7:37 pm
Annie Cronin Romano
Beautifully written blog! Thank you for sharing your writing journey. I have a feeling you won’t be in that “canyon” for long!
November 5, 2014 at 10:39 am
Karen Henry Clark
I can only hope you’re right.
November 4, 2014 at 8:07 pm
Dani Duck
Now you are making me cry. It’s so sweet! You have such a wonderful daughter there. I’m gonna go bawl now. ❤
November 5, 2014 at 10:40 am
Karen Henry Clark
Although we think writing is a solitary act, it really takes a village, as the saying goes. I’m lucky to have Maggie in mine.
November 4, 2014 at 8:08 pm
Laurie L Young
Sweet Moon Baby is a beautiful book. Thank you for sharing your story.
November 5, 2014 at 10:41 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re welcome. It was good of you to take the time to comment. I know how busy we all are these days.
November 4, 2014 at 8:10 pm
Author Ashley Howland
Inspirational post, thanks
November 5, 2014 at 10:44 am
Karen Henry Clark
I hoped it helped you.
November 4, 2014 at 8:18 pm
shirley johnson
Love this post! This was wonderful.
November 5, 2014 at 10:45 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for this.
November 4, 2014 at 8:19 pm
Rachel H
Thank you for sharing your story. What a wonderful book you put into the world. Wishing you more happy publishing moments as you journey along your track.
November 5, 2014 at 10:46 am
Karen Henry Clark
Me, too. Me, too. Me, too. Good wishes to you and your writing.
November 4, 2014 at 8:20 pm
3011mileswestofvt
I needed to hear this honest and inspirational story. I am rapidly realizing this journey is one fraught with uncertainty and unclear passage, detours and dead-ends. But your perseverance and faith are inspirational. Thanks for sharing this.
November 5, 2014 at 10:46 am
Karen Henry Clark
Everyone wants a straight line journey. No one gets that. Ever.
November 4, 2014 at 8:25 pm
Lauri Meyers
“It’s just my track.” Love that quote Karen.
November 5, 2014 at 10:48 am
Karen Henry Clark
I do, too. Whenever I get frustrated, I sit still and chant that to myself.
November 4, 2014 at 8:26 pm
Carrie O'Neill
I liked your honesty about the challenges of publishing and I loved your spirit to keep on writing! Thank you!
November 5, 2014 at 10:53 am
Karen Henry Clark
“Spirit.” Thanks for reminding me of that great word.
November 4, 2014 at 8:29 pm
Cindy Greene
What a lovely post. Thank you for the inspiration!
November 5, 2014 at 10:55 am
Karen Henry Clark
It’s thrilling to know so many people have been inspired to keep going by something I’ve written.
November 4, 2014 at 8:47 pm
jshaklan
Karen, thanks for such an inspiring post! Your daughter’s second-grate letter wowed me — sounds like there’s another writer in the family, too! I hope another ISBN finds its way to you soon.
November 5, 2014 at 10:56 am
Karen Henry Clark
Even as a little girl, she had a great ear for word choice. She even asked me questions about punctuation.
November 4, 2014 at 8:53 pm
Buffy Silverman
Love your tale of perseverance–and that it was your daughter’s faith in you that got you writing and submitting again. Thanks for sharing your journey.
November 5, 2014 at 10:58 am
Karen Henry Clark
Since the day we got her in China, she has kept me moving forward.
November 4, 2014 at 8:57 pm
Traci Sorell
Karen, Your post is refreshing and welcome. Thank you for sharing your stories and experience.
November 5, 2014 at 11:00 am
Karen Henry Clark
I know every person in this list has a worthwhile story to tell about the challenges and rewards of writing.
November 4, 2014 at 9:05 pm
viviankirkfield
Karen…thank you so much for sharing your writing journey with us. Your book is beautiful…love shines from the cover. 🙂 In every PiBoIdMo post, I look for a golden nugget to take-away…and you’ve given me one of the best: ‘That’s not failure…it’s just my track.” We are each on a journey…our own journey…with our own set of stops and boulders strewn across the tracks. Success is feeling we are doing what we were meant to do. 🙂
November 5, 2014 at 10:59 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’ve said it beautifully. We cannot let those boulders stop us. Just go around.
November 4, 2014 at 9:11 pm
Cecilia Clark
Karen Henry Clark, I sing the little engine song to my children and children’s children and all the foster children who ever came to stay. I will keep going because I think I can and I knew I could. Thank you for sharing a little glimpse of your journey especially with your beautiful sweet moon baby.
November 4, 2014 at 9:13 pm
Barb Wright
Karen, if I were to win this book – though I already feel I have won a prize from having read your story! – I will give it to my friend Emilie, also an immigrant and the inspiration for my joining PiBoIdMo this year!
November 4, 2014 at 9:15 pm
julietclarebell
Thank you, Karen. Lovely post. Clare.
November 5, 2014 at 3:09 pm
Karen Henry Clark
We can never do enough to help each along. I was glad to lend a hand.
November 4, 2014 at 9:22 pm
Wendi Silvano
Thanks for sharing Karen. It’s beautiful to see how your journey has brought you many different experiences, and is yet continuing. Good luck!
November 5, 2014 at 3:10 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thankfully I’m still standing–even at the bottom of the canyon.
November 4, 2014 at 9:25 pm
Janet Smart
What a wonderful post and I love the title, Sweet Baby Moon.
November 5, 2014 at 3:12 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The first title was MOONBEAM BABY, but I decided that might make her sound like ET.
November 4, 2014 at 9:33 pm
Linda Graden
You have revived me! Thank you for your courage.
November 5, 2014 at 3:15 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Good, Linda. I just want you to keep writing.
November 4, 2014 at 9:38 pm
Cindy S
Karen, Thanks so much for this post. Your journey has had it’s twists and turns, but you have one successful ISBN under you belt. Here’s to many more. I like the I think I can spirit you have!
November 5, 2014 at 3:16 pm
Karen Henry Clark
My mother trained me well, didn’t she? My regret is that she never got to see the book.
November 4, 2014 at 9:52 pm
angiekarcher
I love that you are so positive about your journey! I bet Sweet Baby Moon will have a book brother or sister soon! = )
November 5, 2014 at 3:17 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for giving me a charming to way to think about the siblings.
November 4, 2014 at 10:09 pm
Melanie Ellsworth
Karen – I’m going to put your quote up on my office wall: “Sometimes you land in the canyon, but you can write down there, too.”
November 5, 2014 at 3:17 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I know. I’m putting it on mine, too.
November 4, 2014 at 10:10 pm
Ann Bentley
Thank you for sharing such a dear story
November 5, 2014 at 3:18 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It has become my unexpected blessing. Look at all these great writers showing up!
November 4, 2014 at 10:12 pm
Arlene Bolton
I want to remember I can write in the canyon. Thank you!
November 5, 2014 at 3:19 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s a lot more quiet down here. Precious few distractions, too.
November 4, 2014 at 10:18 pm
Laura Bellina
Your determination is inspiring. Looking forward to see you published again.
November 5, 2014 at 3:20 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m so pleased to know my story, hard as it is, had that effect on you, Laura.
November 4, 2014 at 10:30 pm
trobinsondaly
Karen, this is the most inspirational, beautiful post. I have tears in my eyes as I type this. On days when my dream seems unreachable and I can’t think of a clever thing to write, I look at my soon-to-be three year old little girl and say just what you did…. How can I teach her to dream when I have given up on my own…? I made a movie titled, Who Ever Told You It Was Okay to Dream Anyway…? which explores that question and I firmly believe, on most days..ha, that giving up isn’t an option. I applaud you for feeling the same way.
November 5, 2014 at 3:22 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That’s the thing you never expect about being a parent–all the faith we gain from their presence in our lives. For me, that was true about being a teacher. I gained far more from my students than they gained from me.
November 4, 2014 at 10:34 pm
Jane Heitman Healy
Tears in my eyes, lump in my throat, thank you, Karen and Sweet Moon Baby!
November 5, 2014 at 3:24 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Maggie, the Sweet Moon Baby herself, has been surprised by all the lovely comments here about her role in my life. Children never realize the gift they are.
November 4, 2014 at 10:38 pm
Rachelle Sadler
Karen, thank you for the encouragement to keep on keeping on! I wish you every success in your writing career 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 10:40 pm
Hélène Sabourin
This is proof that we should write about what we know . Thanks for sharing
I will definitely look for your book.
November 5, 2014 at 3:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
So true. In retrospect, I think it’s why my first book never happened.
November 4, 2014 at 10:45 pm
Mary Zychowicz
What a wonderful heartfelt post. I admire your persistence in pursuing your dream. I feel truly inspired by this insight. Thank you for sharing this.
November 5, 2014 at 3:28 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s great to know it helped you in some way.
November 4, 2014 at 10:46 pm
Caroline
What a beautifully written post! Thank you for sharing part of your story and inspiring us all to persevere.
November 5, 2014 at 3:30 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s the only way to succeed. If you believe the door is locked, it is. Find another door. That’s what I did.
November 4, 2014 at 11:00 pm
Tracy
This post touched me on so many levels – esp when I think about my age and the time passing me by…I needed this – but what really touched me was the beautiful letter from your daughter. What a gift! That was such a tender, loving thing to give ~ and talk about a nudge to keep going! (and now to grab a tissue cuz this one really tugged the strings)
November 5, 2014 at 3:33 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Tracy, you can’t be as old as I am. I was almost 60 when the book was published. At an author event, a woman congratulated me for making it at my age. She said, “Editors want the young ones.” Know that however old you are, the editor looks at the story, not you gray hair.
November 4, 2014 at 11:01 pm
Elizabeth Cosgriff
What an encouraging story. It helps remind me that the goal is important, but the journey is equally, if not more, so.
November 5, 2014 at 3:33 pm
Karen Henry Clark
IT’s taken me a lifetime to realize they two are intertwined.
November 4, 2014 at 11:07 pm
Leah Coleman
You are real and I appreciate that. 🙂
November 5, 2014 at 3:34 pm
Karen Henry Clark
If you asked my daughter, she’d probably say I’m a little too real for her.
November 4, 2014 at 11:12 pm
StephJ
I love how your daughter encouraged you not to give up hope! MY daughters are my inspirations as well.
November 4, 2014 at 11:22 pm
Linda Baie
Your book looks and sounds beautiful. There is more than one ‘sweet moon baby’ in our family, although all are now grown with children too. I admire that you’ve kept writing, yet there is a part of me that writes for me, too. Thanks for an inspiring post.
November 5, 2014 at 3:35 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve been making up stories forever. I can’t imagine not doing that. I’m sure you’re that way, too.
November 4, 2014 at 11:23 pm
jessica shaw
Thank you, Karen. Good for you for pushing onward! Your book sounds lovely…I’m going to try to find it for friends of mine who just adopted a little girl from China:)
November 5, 2014 at 3:37 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I think I mentioned to someone in the list that Red Balloon Bookshop in St. Paul, MN still has copies if you look at their website. I order through Book Outlet, and their copies have been prefect.
November 4, 2014 at 11:29 pm
Prairie Garden Girl
Karen: “Sweet Baby Moon” sounds like a lovely book; a book I must have. Thank you for sharing your journey of writing with such inspiration. Read, write and create every day. ~Suzy Leopold
November 5, 2014 at 3:38 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Excellent reminder. I spend so much time writing that I forget to sit still and read. I need an afternoon at B&N soon.
November 4, 2014 at 11:31 pm
hummingbird13
I’m glad you’re not giving up. Neither am I.
Terry
November 5, 2014 at 5:56 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Hurray for us!
November 4, 2014 at 11:32 pm
Susie Sawyer
I’ve been in the canyon, too. But I feel like I’m climbing out of it. With this post, I have a new surge of energy to enjoy my journey, no matter where it takes me. Thank you for that.
November 5, 2014 at 5:57 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Happy to help. Please know that your comment helped me.
November 4, 2014 at 11:35 pm
John Strong
What a sweet story of getting your first book published! Thank you for sharing your trials and successes.
November 5, 2014 at 5:58 pm
Karen Henry Clark
“Trials” is great way for me think about it. I appreciate that.
November 4, 2014 at 11:35 pm
Karen Lawler
Thank You for such a wonderful post.. I am inspired by your thoughts. 🙂
November 4, 2014 at 11:36 pm
bilinguazo
Bravo! An honest and heartwarming post. I will try to look back on your words through my own journey. Thank you for your words and good luck in your adventures. I’m
November 5, 2014 at 5:59 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m happy to have your good thoughts on my journey. Remember to look back at this post and any other that reminds you that we’re all writing, mile by mile, together.
November 4, 2014 at 11:55 pm
Shawna JC Tenney
Thank you for sharing your inspirational story. I’ve come to realize, it’s not about how many times you are published, but enjoying your writing journey and counting your own successes. And I think that is a hard lesson for us all to learn. We can’t base our successes on getting published, or anything else that is beyond our control. Maybe instead, a success could be writing a story that we really love. That is a success. Good luck to you!
November 5, 2014 at 6:41 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Your wise voice is greatly appreciated by all of us. So many factors to getting published are beyond our control. Holding that finished, bound book is incredible but no guarantee of anything at all. Loving to tell a story, despite the outcome, has to be the joy itself. Thank you for this reminder.
November 4, 2014 at 11:55 pm
imartypoet
I can’t think of a better way to celebrate your daughter’s first word than writing Sweet Moon Baby. Congratulations on your ISBN number, Karen! May you have many more of them. I love your persistence. Watty Piper’s refrain has served you well. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us. So glad that you chose to be a part of this idea month.
November 5, 2014 at 6:45 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Of all the words she could have chosen, I will always be amazed that she picked “moon”–there in my arms, under the night sky. And a glorious full moon it was, too.
November 5, 2014 at 12:06 am
Heather Hatch
A favorite Asian folktale of mine was the radio drama “Princess Moonbeam” from the 1960’s Let’s Pretend series… But yours is real!
And some truths need track to run on and their station timetable posted for a reality check!
Thank you. You also did an amazing job responding to comments, continuing the conversation.
November 5, 2014 at 6:50 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I mentioned earlier that I feared few people would care to respond to my post because my story can sound hopeless, depending on how you turn it. Imagine my surprise when I clicked on it and found so many. Everyone has made significant points that I hope we all remember. I’ve been taking notes. I am overwhelmed–down here in the canyon. Thank goodness Tara peeked over the edge and believed in me.
November 5, 2014 at 12:12 am
Marge Gower
I’ve been derailed by my husband’s illness. It’s good to not feel guilty about our stops. Just getting back on track. Thanks, I needed that.
November 5, 2014 at 7:14 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I understand completely. When our families need us, they need us. Nothing is gained by feeling guilty. Your writing is always with you. I’ve given myself permission to count thinking about stories as the same thing as writing at a desk. If I can, you can.
November 5, 2014 at 12:15 am
Theresa Love
Enjoy the journey. Thank you for sharing your story. Adoption is beautiful.
November 5, 2014 at 7:18 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m learning not to keep myself tied up in knots–stop by stop.
November 5, 2014 at 12:17 am
lbouck09
Your post really tugged at my heart. Thank you so much for sharing your story. And thank you for Sweet Moon Baby, and not giving up. 🙂
November 5, 2014 at 7:21 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you ever so much for letting me know. Adopting Maggie required one delay after another another. After my mother got to know her and how remarkable she was, she said, “Thank goodness for the delays or you’d hae gotten the wrong baby.”
November 5, 2014 at 12:23 am
Anne Lei-Yeung So
The illustration of the baby on the cover is so sweet.
November 5, 2014 at 7:24 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I know. I’ve seen parents reach out and touch that face on the cover. It’s irresistible.
November 5, 2014 at 12:29 am
Maria Bostian
Karen, thanks for your honesty about the publishing journey. It isn’t all roses and we should expect a few thorns along the way.
Thanks for reminding us to write during the high times and the low times. I’m sure there is a great story waiting in both places.
November 5, 2014 at 7:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Frankly I feel a story coming on from down here in the canyon.
November 5, 2014 at 12:33 am
Holly Murphy
Thanks for reminding what it’s really all about!
November 5, 2014 at 7:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Yep. The journey. The journey. The journey.
November 5, 2014 at 12:46 am
Jim Chaize
Your post will help me chase away the thoughts of why keep writing, and I’ve got too far to go, and I’ll never get published. Thanks.
November 5, 2014 at 7:26 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Just head for the horizon, but never think of it as a finishline.
November 5, 2014 at 12:51 am
lymartinez
I really admire your book accomplishment and your continued dedication! Thanks so much for sharing your story – I felt it – wow…
November 5, 2014 at 7:27 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I appreciate your letting me know. We all need each other.
November 5, 2014 at 12:53 am
Kathleen Buckley
So much heartfelt passion for both your daughter and your writing. This was inspiring to me! Thank you!
November 5, 2014 at 7:28 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Right. The two are side by side in my heart.
November 5, 2014 at 12:56 am
kimlynnp
You’re story is inspiring and beautiful. Keep going Karen! Your book is precious… I just bought the Kindle version. 🙂
November 5, 2014 at 7:30 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you so much. I forget all the time that it lives forever on shelves in houses and libraries and schools and in Kindles.
November 5, 2014 at 12:58 am
Margaret Flint Suter
I think I can, I think I can, I KNOW I can. If I can keep keepin’ on! Thank you Karen for the inspiration!
November 5, 2014 at 7:31 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s never over if you keep trying. Florence reminded me of that constantly.
November 5, 2014 at 1:00 am
jhayslett
Thank you, Karen. You say so much I needed to hear (read).
November 5, 2014 at 7:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
My pleasure to have come along at the right time for you.
November 5, 2014 at 1:02 am
angelcat2014
A beautiful story and reminder to believe in yourself, not to give up. Thank you for sharing!
November 5, 2014 at 7:33 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so very welcome. Please know that your words in that space above have mattered to me, too.
November 5, 2014 at 1:04 am
Laura Wynkoop
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. It helps to know we are not alone!
November 5, 2014 at 7:36 pm
Karen Henry Clark
We are not alone in the canyon. In fact, we’re getting quite a group together on this brief stop. I hope someone has popcorn because I’m keeping the campfire going.
November 5, 2014 at 1:08 am
naomimgruer
What a lovely post! Best of luck down there in the canyon. I actually went canyoneering this summer and the only way out was to scramble UP the slippery sandstone.
November 5, 2014 at 7:37 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Perfect advice. Up I go.
November 5, 2014 at 1:20 am
Jenna Woloshyn
I’m so proud of you. And how lucky you are to have such a wonderful daughter.
November 5, 2014 at 7:37 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks so much. Maggie is a treasure.
November 5, 2014 at 1:44 am
Ashley Bankhead
Thank you for sharing your story. I would like to read your book.
November 5, 2014 at 7:39 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks. I hope you get a chance to read it. It’s a lesson in picture book artistry to see how spare my sentences are and how vividly Patrice Barton imagined them.
November 5, 2014 at 2:02 am
Cassandra Federman
Thanks for this post. So true of life as an artist 🙂
November 5, 2014 at 7:39 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That’s the part I never realized when I started.
November 5, 2014 at 2:17 am
wendymyersart
Wow, what a strong, beautiful woman you are! Thank you for boldly sharing such an honest, open post about yourself. It’s a tough goal we’ve all chosen to tackle. It’s so good when we can share our heartbreaks as well as our cheers. Thank you for a lovely post. Your daughter sounds wonderful as well.
November 5, 2014 at 7:41 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Gosh. I appreciate your words enormously.
November 5, 2014 at 2:32 am
Sherry Alexander
Your post is so encouraging. Thank you for sharing the ups and downs.
November 5, 2014 at 7:42 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Yes, we need to remember the upness is always there waiting for us.
November 5, 2014 at 4:26 am
Claire O'Brien
Brilliant, post! Inspirational! All the best.
November 5, 2014 at 7:43 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for the compliment!
November 5, 2014 at 8:00 am
Sue Matzke
🙂
November 5, 2014 at 7:43 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That is the face of the moon, isn’t it?
November 5, 2014 at 8:00 am
Jabeen
Your book sounds lovely, as does the journey that got you there. Thank you for your inspiration and your honesty!
November 5, 2014 at 7:44 pm
Karen Henry Clark
A lot of times my journey has felt like a roller coaster ride.
November 5, 2014 at 8:14 am
Janet Bingham
Much-needed inspiration for tackling the lows. Thank you, Karen
November 5, 2014 at 7:44 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Good then. That’s what I hoped.
November 5, 2014 at 8:52 am
Robyn Campbell
Total honesty. I love it when authors share the highs and the downers. Fantastic post. Thank you..
November 5, 2014 at 7:45 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Whether they admit to it or not, I think we all have that in common.
November 5, 2014 at 8:57 am
Joan Waites
Thank you for your story of perseverance-I’m sure there will be more books to follow this one!
November 5, 2014 at 7:47 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I hope you’re right. That would be so important for Maggie to witness.
November 5, 2014 at 9:10 am
Joyce Tucker
Wow! It is so important to never give up on your dreams. And the example you gave your daughter is wonderful. Thank you for a post I will never forget.
November 5, 2014 at 7:48 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so kind to say that.
November 5, 2014 at 9:23 am
Michelle Heidenrich Barnes
Your daughter’s 2nd grade editorial letter of support speaks volumes! Thank you for sharing your personal journey in such an honest way. Your perseverance is inspiring.
November 5, 2014 at 7:51 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I love thinking of how she must have waited for me to be away so she could get to the computer.
November 5, 2014 at 9:28 am
Debbie Austin
Thank you for sharing your journey from the heart.
November 5, 2014 at 7:52 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That’s where the best stories come from, of course.
November 5, 2014 at 9:49 am
Kim Sebastian
As a big fellow fan of Little Engine, I will add Ms. Clark’s words to my “don’t quit” emergency kit. My writing keeps getting derailed– most recently by a virus that ripped through Word and converted all my ms doc to digital Arabic. I’ll take this post as a sign that I need to get back on track even if all had seemingly been lost!! Tx more than you know!!! Kim
November 5, 2014 at 7:53 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Gosh. It’s always something, isn’t it? That’s quite a run of hard luck.
November 5, 2014 at 10:27 am
cantsing1
Delicious attitude. So many thanks. Your family is lucky!
November 5, 2014 at 7:55 pm
Karen Henry Clark
The three of us have been lucky together forever. Thanks.
November 5, 2014 at 10:29 am
Mishka Jaeger
Thank you for sharing your experiences with us and for not giving up!
November 5, 2014 at 8:42 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Don’t you give up either.
November 5, 2014 at 10:29 am
Sheila Hausbeck
Well then, I guess I won’t give up either.
November 5, 2014 at 8:43 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That’s the answer is was waiting for.
November 5, 2014 at 10:46 am
A. G. Tan
This post is just beautiful, and clearly has touched so many people. That is every bit as important and as accomplished as a published picture book.
November 5, 2014 at 8:45 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Bless your heart. You are totally right. That’s exactly how I feel. Writing is the one thing I can do when all else seems to collapse around me. Thanks for showing up in this challenge.
November 5, 2014 at 11:05 am
elle kwan
I’m sitting here, in Hong Kong, China, looking at that moon with tears in my eyes. Thank you for your generosity in sharing, and dual stories that tell me good things come to those that wait, and dream, and do, and write.
November 5, 2014 at 9:11 pm
Karen Henry Clark
We landed in Hong Kong on Reunification Day, which seemed too metaphorical to believe, to adopt Maggie, so I’ve seen your beautiful city. Thank you for this comment. Waiting and dreaming and doing and writing accomplish more for us than we think.
November 5, 2014 at 11:26 am
amymariesmith
What a beautiful journey you’ve had. And what a lucky mama you are! Thank you for sharing.
November 6, 2014 at 9:47 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re right. Beautiful…lucky…what a set of adjectives.
November 5, 2014 at 12:21 pm
Sheri Rad
Thank you for your post it is heartening to those of us who are still down there in the canyon writing and sending things in, but still hopeful. Those peaks of inspiration come and go but the hard work is necessary.
November 6, 2014 at 9:48 am
Karen Henry Clark
Nothing about this process is instantaneous, mo matter how much we want it to be.
November 5, 2014 at 12:52 pm
Nancy Piper Davis
Thank you for sharing your wonderful story. It’s not that we want to write; it’s that we have to!
November 6, 2014 at 9:49 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m glad you put it that way.
November 5, 2014 at 12:54 pm
jenny kostecki-shaw
I think we all appreciate when an author shares the ups AND downs — the reality — of writing. It happens to all of us and isn’t comfortable! It’s hard to know what to do with it sometimes, so thank you for your story and example. I will remember your post. What sticks with me most is what I also feel…that it’s not about cranking out the books but doing really meaningful heart projects, ones I really feel passionate about and connected to. The journey. 🙂 Best of everything to you.
November 6, 2014 at 9:51 am
Karen Henry Clark
Ahhh! There’s that smiling moon face again. From down here in the canyon, it looks just as glorious.
November 5, 2014 at 1:15 pm
Stephen S. Martin
Wonderful story and Reality check. Thank-you.
November 6, 2014 at 9:53 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. I hope the ideas are happening for you this month.
November 5, 2014 at 1:16 pm
mariajcuesta
What a sweet and inspiring post. Sometimes the submission process is discouraging, but see that others have gone through the same helps.
Thanks a Lot!!!
maria
November 6, 2014 at 9:53 am
Karen Henry Clark
At the end of the day, no one is immune to rejection.
November 17, 2014 at 12:14 pm
Maria J Cuesta
Thank you!!
November 5, 2014 at 1:53 pm
kmshelley
Sounds like there’s quite a crowd in this canyon. Inspiring post giving all of us hope and a don’t-give-up reminder. Beautiful daughter!
November 6, 2014 at 9:55 am
Karen Henry Clark
She is my daily reminder to keep going. We’re scooting over!
November 5, 2014 at 1:59 pm
Becky Hohensee
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. You are proof that perseverance is key in the kid-lit world!
November 6, 2014 at 9:56 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve never met an author without rejections.
November 5, 2014 at 2:23 pm
Alyssa Wejebe
Thanks for the reminder about family support and continuing to move forward.
November 6, 2014 at 9:58 am
Karen Henry Clark
Yes, it takes support. I’m lucky to have Cliff and Maggie pushing and pulling me.
November 5, 2014 at 2:30 pm
dsi1nyu
Writing is a mix of varied and unfathomable journeys. Your journey is proof that the pieces can and do come together to make a whole.
November 6, 2014 at 10:01 am
Karen Henry Clark
They do, even though we can’t control the time or order.
November 5, 2014 at 2:32 pm
Hannah Holt
Thank you for this lovely, heartfelt, and honest post. I hope it won’t be many more moons before you harvest your next success. Best of luck and thanks for the inspiration!
November 6, 2014 at 10:02 am
Karen Henry Clark
Love the “moon” references!
November 5, 2014 at 2:37 pm
Lori Dubbin
What a lovely and beautiful journey to SWEET MOON BABY. Your daughter is proof that you have succeeded in so many ways and that there are more book travels and trails ahead. The note she wrote you in 2nd grade is priceless and so full of love (she even put it in the name of the publisher *sigh*).
November 6, 2014 at 10:03 am
Karen Henry Clark
I know. Incredible sense of focus and detail for a little girl. What a love.
November 5, 2014 at 2:40 pm
Aidan Cassie
I beautiful post… off I go to write, to draw… I think I can, I think I can
November 6, 2014 at 10:04 am
Karen Henry Clark
That’s the spirit. You KNOW you can.
November 5, 2014 at 2:56 pm
brigidoco
Oh my goodness, your daughter sounds like a sweetheart with her Editor letter!
November 6, 2014 at 10:06 am
Karen Henry Clark
She is the best!
November 5, 2014 at 3:49 pm
danielle hammelef
Beautiful story of your journey! Thanks for sharing. I love the cover of your book!
November 6, 2014 at 10:07 am
Karen Henry Clark
Whenever I walked into a bookstore that carried it, I fell in love all over again with Patrice’s art.
November 5, 2014 at 4:01 pm
Kathleen Wilson
You are an inspiration!
November 6, 2014 at 10:08 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m glad Tara thought I would be. She’s wonderful, and I’ve never even met her.
November 5, 2014 at 4:31 pm
sallymatheny
I loved this post and the hope for all it offers. “I’ve derailed at the station. My engine flew over the edge, crashed at the bottom of the canyon, and someone spray-painted loser on my caboose.” Quite often, writing from the bottom of the canyon produces the sweetest mountain top experience for your readers. Press on, Hannah, press on.
(Each adoption story is unique. Our red-head was 9 days old and in a basket when we first met him.) 🙂
November 6, 2014 at 10:12 am
Karen Henry Clark
True. Do you think it’s something about desperation? Congratulations on your boy!
November 5, 2014 at 4:37 pm
Jennifer Huls
A perfect reminder of the ups and downs that come with chasing our dreams and a reminder to never, ever, give up!
November 6, 2014 at 10:13 am
Karen Henry Clark
I hope this idea month is generating the best list ever for you!
November 5, 2014 at 4:53 pm
mbeaversillustration
Great post, thank you so much for sharing! Hang in there and keep writing!
November 6, 2014 at 10:14 am
Karen Henry Clark
On those days when I feel like a coward, I’ll look back at this fabulous list of comments.
November 5, 2014 at 5:12 pm
Sylvia Liu
Thanks for sharing your experience–you’ve certainly made your childhood dreams come true already, and your perseverance will continue to pay off.
November 6, 2014 at 10:15 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve fallen off the track so many times before and gotten myself back on board. It’s all I know to do.
November 5, 2014 at 6:08 pm
sardyhar
Thank you for sharing the details of your journey and continued determination. I hope you find another connection that leads to a second publication soon. You have a lovely voice.
November 6, 2014 at 10:16 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for saying that. It’s taken time and still more time to find it.
November 5, 2014 at 7:13 pm
desirae1987
What an inspiring post! Writing and publication is a journey that requires so much determination, there are days I waver on my journey, but I know that if I continue to press on, good things are sure to come!
November 6, 2014 at 10:18 am
Karen Henry Clark
Florence refused to feel sorry for me when I complained. “I thought you knew authors always get more rejections than acceptances. That’s just how it works,” she said to me.
November 5, 2014 at 7:56 pm
kathydoherty1
Wow! What a powerful post! Thank you.
November 6, 2014 at 10:24 am
Karen Henry Clark
It helps all of us to see how many writers are taking on this November idea challenge. We are not alone!
November 5, 2014 at 9:22 pm
Jessica
I’m so glad things finally worked out. Just proves to people that you should never give up.
November 6, 2014 at 10:25 am
Karen Henry Clark
When I was four, I had no idea my daughter would be waiting for me in China. We just have to trust the twists and turns of our own journey.
November 5, 2014 at 9:55 pm
Freckled Daisy Creations
Beautiful and inspiring!
November 6, 2014 at 10:30 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks. We have to be willing help each other, with a whisper or a nudge, to jeep going.
November 5, 2014 at 10:06 pm
Kelly Russell Jaques
Love this post, what a wonderful story.
November 6, 2014 at 10:32 am
Karen Henry Clark
It takes my breath away every time I think about it. They say all writing is practice, so I see now that I was sharpening my skill on our living room wall.
November 5, 2014 at 10:15 pm
Anne Neidinger
Your journey and your words are so beautiful. I’m so grateful that you write.
November 6, 2014 at 10:29 am
Karen Henry Clark
That means so much to me. Here’s the link to one of my favorite blog posts. It is, of course, about Maggie. http://sweetmoonbaby.blogspot.com/2014/05/the-happiness-of-lady-chang.html
November 5, 2014 at 10:29 pm
Cathy Biggerstaff
Very inspirational! Thanks for sharing your journey with us.
November 6, 2014 at 10:33 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m lucky that Tara gave me the space to challenge myself.
November 5, 2014 at 10:40 pm
Nat Keller
You’re an inspiration Karen! Thank you for sharing your experiences- I think it takes courage to follow your dreams and hard work to make it happen!!
November 6, 2014 at 10:34 am
Karen Henry Clark
We believe in ourselves when we’re children but lose that confidence along the way. Thank goodness I kept “re-finding” my courage.
November 5, 2014 at 11:41 pm
linnshekinah
Congrats! Sweet Moon Baby is a charming book. Wouldn’t be possible without your perseverance. Thank you for sharing your journey. Very encouraging.
November 6, 2014 at 10:36 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. By the time I finished it, I thought it was the plainest story I’d ever read. Little did I know that Patrice’s art would make it shine–even for me.
November 6, 2014 at 12:58 am
stephseclecticinterests
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. What an encouragement!
November 6, 2014 at 10:37 am
Karen Henry Clark
Happy to help however and whenever I can.
November 6, 2014 at 10:40 am
stephseclecticinterests
Thanks much, Karen.
November 6, 2014 at 1:27 am
Heather Kelso
This is a lovely post, thank you for sharing. What a journey you have been on and it still continues. It gives me hope that someday my dream may come true.
November 6, 2014 at 10:38 am
Karen Henry Clark
Do not give up on yourself. Believe that you see it in the distance.
November 6, 2014 at 4:04 am
Kira Kia Fruit Nims
I too “secretly” write picture books. Thank you for sharing your ongoing journey. The beauty of working hard from the bottom up is that once you get to the top you can look back and say “I did it!” Mahalo again Karen, it was great to hear your honest trek.
November 6, 2014 at 10:40 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks. Now I’m busy scrubbing “loser” off so I can paint “I did it again!” on myself.
November 6, 2014 at 8:13 am
Loni Edwards (@LoniEdwards)
This post was so inspirational to me. There have been many times when I felt the same way about being rejected. Thank you for being the voice of inspiration in not giving up.
November 6, 2014 at 10:42 am
Karen Henry Clark
I spent a lot of time thinking each rejection was a sign that I should give up. That’s not what they mean at all. They just say “Not yet.”
November 6, 2014 at 8:27 am
Joan Kassmann
Thank you much for sharing your story. Very inspiring.
November 6, 2014 at 10:45 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so welcome. This whole list of inspirational comments sprinkles “YES” glitter all over us. Of course my practical mother would say, “No, Karen. They’re stable “YES” bricks for building.” She loved the “Three Little Pigs” story, too.
November 6, 2014 at 9:36 am
Rita Zobayan
Thank you for a very honest post. This was very inspiring and refreshing. Good luck to you.
November 6, 2014 at 10:47 am
Karen Henry Clark
And to you. I appreciate it. I feel like Tiny Tim, lifted onto Scrooge’s shoulder, shouting to the audience, “God bless us, every one!”
November 6, 2014 at 10:48 am
Sita Singh
Karen, the integrity of this post and that letter from Maggie touched my heart. Your journey is truly motivating!
November 6, 2014 at 11:04 am
Karen Henry Clark
How wonderful of you to take the time to say so. I truly appreciate it.
November 6, 2014 at 11:09 am
Erin Nowak
Thank you for sharing your journey and that we can write (or draw) with you from the canyon. I look forward to all the “not yets” I know will come my way in the future…knowing they are just landmarks on the way to “yes.” Thank you for your encouragement.
November 7, 2014 at 1:21 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Yes. Please remember that we’re all in this together–however long it takes.
November 6, 2014 at 11:13 am
Karen
Thank you, Karen! I truly enjoyed your perspective and appreciate your “track”. You’re an inspiration.
November 7, 2014 at 1:23 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve been helped by so many encouraging words along the way when I felt hopeless, so I’m honored to offer my perspective.
November 6, 2014 at 1:53 pm
claireannette1
Thank you for sharing your journey – both your daughter and book are beautiful.
I share this journey with you as two of my four children were also adopted internationally.
November 7, 2014 at 1:29 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Wonderful. I’m incredibly happy for us on our shared journey.
November 6, 2014 at 2:13 pm
patrice barton
Hi Karen! The opportunity to illustrate your lovely story Sweet Moon Baby was a true gift. One I will always cherish!
Love,
patrice
November 7, 2014 at 1:36 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You’re so sweet to drop by. Whenever I show writers how valuable the interpretation of the artist is and why the author’s opinion is not needed, I refer to this page in the book: “On the other side of the world, a husband and wife could not sleep. They wanted a daughter.” Those words make no mention of tea cups and blue pajamas and a garden bench and clutched hands. Yet, you capture yearning at its most poignant. You were a gift indeed. Thank you.
November 6, 2014 at 2:16 pm
Linda Norman-Lyman
Thank you for writing about your journey from aspiring to published author. Those of us that are still on the pre-published, aspiring part of the journey can take heart from your encouraging words.
November 7, 2014 at 1:37 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Good. You should. I was the longest long shot, and I made it. You can, too, Linda.
November 6, 2014 at 3:38 pm
Kelly Vavala
Oh Karen, what a beautiful post! Thank you for sharing your writing track with us! I think we can, I think we can….I KNOW we can, I KNOW we can!! Maggie’s belief in you is something that cannot be bought…she is your inspiration! Your story is very inspirational and your determination is to be commended. I wish you the very best in your writing career and God Bless.
November 7, 2014 at 1:38 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you. I have been blessed and blessed again. I believe we all have miracle people in our lives, but it’s easy to forget that.
November 6, 2014 at 8:18 pm
oceanandhope
Thank you for sharing your special journey with us! Such an inspiring story…!!
November 7, 2014 at 1:39 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Whatever helps! Glad I happened along for you.
November 6, 2014 at 8:32 pm
zebrakitchens
What fantastic encouragement, Karen. My life is in a bit of a train wreck at present. Writing helps to rebuild the track.
Lynn
November 7, 2014 at 1:42 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Fantastic point. I never thought of it that way. Thanks for adding that insight for all of us.
November 17, 2014 at 2:15 pm
zebrakitchens
You’re so nice. You know, I’ve never seen anyone reply to each and every post through all the years of PiBoIdMo.
Thanks for the uplift. Even though I’m traveling by mere inches the track is coming along. 😉
November 17, 2014 at 3:30 pm
Karen Henry Clark
When I think of the honest effort required to leave a comment at all, I’m honored to respond so the writer will know I read it and that it mattered. Since I aired my collision, painful as it was, I realize it has been helpful to hundreds who were feeling alone and defeated. It was recently pointed out to me by someone wiser than I that great things have come to me only through struggle. Yes, I reached my three goals, but I wouldn’t want to go back and re-live the days that stacked up to get me to each one. Each set back was hard but left me even more determined once I got my head back on straight. It proved to me that I am not a quitter. We have to learn the rock-bottom truth about ourselves. If I can help someone stand, I’m willing. Whatever it takes. And I’ll admit that the first two days of replying to the hundreds of comments just about did me in. That’s ALL I did for hours at a time. I do not regret a single minute.
November 25, 2014 at 9:15 pm
zebrakitchens
🙂 Happy Thanksgiving!
November 6, 2014 at 8:36 pm
Ronna Mandel
What a moving, magical, heartfelt story. It’s refreshing to read your candid comments about the track you’ve been on. I’m confident we will be hearing more from you. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!
November 7, 2014 at 1:43 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Sometimes I forget that all these stops and delays and crashes make the journey more interesting. So thank you for pointing that out to me.
November 6, 2014 at 8:59 pm
carolmunrojww
Thanks for sharing your story, Karen. Forget the caboose. With your tenacity, I see you in the engine shouting, “I think I can, I think I can.” I’m ordering your book from the library, and will be looking forward to reading your next one.
November 7, 2014 at 1:45 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Lovely image for me to hold on to. So thanks for that great little piece of writing.
November 6, 2014 at 9:50 pm
Tarryn Lean (@TarrynLean)
Karen what a story, so very inspirational, please keep writing, your track has many turns yet up ahead.
November 7, 2014 at 2:20 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I know you’re right about the turns, and the thing we all have to remember is that those turns can be incredibly good. Not everything is a crash landing.
November 6, 2014 at 11:04 pm
Jenifer McNamara
Congratulations on your achievement, and listening to your heart.
November 7, 2014 at 2:23 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Perfect reminder. I took a class recently with the fabulous Phyllis Root who asked us to circle the “heart” in our manuscript. Many discovered there wasn’t one. They were all wrapped up in plot or whatever without that crucial touchstone.
November 6, 2014 at 11:50 pm
megmillerwrites
Never stop writing! Sweet Moon Baby is a beautiful story! My kiddos and I loved the story and the darling illustrations. Thank you for your perspective. I think about people who writing success seems to come easily too and think, well, it doesn’t come easy to me, maybe I should quit. But I don’t want to, so thanks for saying it’s okay not to!!
November 7, 2014 at 2:25 pm
Karen Henry Clark
When it comes to writing, the end game can’t be publishing or we’d never even try. Sometimes I say, “What if Van Gogh only painted to end up seeing his work in a museum? He would have stopped pretty quickly, wouldn’t he?”
November 7, 2014 at 2:50 am
Angela Turner
I loved hearing about your story and your path to getting it written.
November 7, 2014 at 2:27 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m so glad. Tara wanted me tell the truth, however hard it might seem. She wrote to me about how easy it is to think the business is a cake walk.
November 7, 2014 at 3:34 am
Pauline Johnson
Very touching. Thank you for sharing this.
November 7, 2014 at 2:28 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I hope you’re finding even more great advice from the other writers who’ve left incredible comments. I certainly have.
November 7, 2014 at 8:23 am
cindyjohnson2013
It is so reassuring to know we are not alone on this journey. You write so beautifully. Don’t stop.
November 7, 2014 at 2:30 pm
Karen Henry Clark
We are never alone–even when it feels like it. I just KNOW great picture books will come from this list of writers. Everyone has a story that some child needs.
November 7, 2014 at 8:58 am
Kathy Cornell Berman
What a wonderful, honest story of your journey. Write on!! Looking forward to reading your next book.
November 7, 2014 at 2:31 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for joining us. There is a universe of courage here on this list.
November 7, 2014 at 10:01 am
angeladegroot8
Very inspiring story, thanks for sharing. It’s people like you that help me persevere when I feel like my writing is going nowhere.
November 7, 2014 at 2:32 pm
Karen Henry Clark
It’s take me a long time to understand that sometimes writing does go nowhere, but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t a valuable piece of the journey. Every step pushes us forward.
November 7, 2014 at 11:52 am
SMHS
The support from your husband and daughter is a lovely story! Congratulations on your success and determination to keep writing.
November 7, 2014 at 4:56 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I know I was fortunate to have the right people in my life at the right moment.
November 7, 2014 at 2:13 pm
Laurie J. Edwards
Loved how your daughter was your encourager.
November 7, 2014 at 4:57 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Isn’t it great how that happened? And the story that put me on the map was her story.
November 7, 2014 at 2:31 pm
Charlotte
“Out of print” just like “out of sight” doesn’t mean “out of mind” or “forgotten”….Your inspiring story will serve me well as I continue to chug along on my own writing journey. Thanks so much for your open, honest post, Karen!
November 7, 2014 at 4:59 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for pointing this out to me. Just like the picture books that remained in my heart all these years, some child will carry the memory of SWEET MOON BABY.
November 7, 2014 at 4:24 pm
svaisnoras
Such an inspirational and beautiful story about your journey. Thank you.
November 7, 2014 at 5:01 pm
Karen Henry Clark
How striking that I didn’t make Tara’s deadline a year ago, when everything about my writing life was so different. Maybe it wouldn’t have had as much resonance with so many writers either.
November 7, 2014 at 5:43 pm
Gloria Amescua
Very inspiring! I’m so glad your family supported you and that your little four-year old self has accomplished her desires. I’m still working on mine.
November 7, 2014 at 6:54 pm
Karen Henry Clark
That’s the whole point, isn’t it? It took me decades to realize it was never over as long as I kept trying. You must not give up on yourself.
November 7, 2014 at 8:45 pm
Tracy
Karen, I was thinking about this post and esp the reactions to it and I’m sure you have plenty of story ideas but was thinking: why not take what you have here and work with it. For example: you could have someone “stuck” in the canyon (maybe on their way to the top) and it could go a few ways: they realize the gifts in the canyon: the flowers, the animals, all the things that are there for them as well; or the peeps who come along to help as they slowly make their way up the mountain each person helping (or even joining them) till they make it. Sort of “The Little Engine That Could” for a new generation ~ to never give up.
I also thought you could take another route sort of like that character in Family Circus (Billy?) – how he always takes a wild, all-over route to get from A to B and how (some would say) that is more adventurous and the fun in that journey.
Anyway, just thought I’d toss those out there. (do I get to count them toward my end goal? lol! Teasing.)
November 7, 2014 at 10:36 pm
angelapadron
What a great post – thank you!
November 8, 2014 at 10:47 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re welcome. My “crash” seems to have helped so many struggling writers, so I’m thinking how important and necessary it’s all been, after all. Nothing wrong with that.
November 8, 2014 at 2:46 am
Jenny Blum
Good reminder about perseverance and the compulsion to write. I have also made a new contact, SCBWI. Thank you!
November 8, 2014 at 10:48 am
Karen Henry Clark
Wonderful. It’s so valuable to look for help in the right place. SCBWI has a phenomenal history.
November 8, 2014 at 9:02 am
Cindy C.
I suspect I am also on the slower, non-direct train (with illustration, but also writing). But then again, I am a late bloomer with everything. Thank you Karen for your honesty and important perspective on writing. I view perseverance as a heroic act….keep on chugging!
November 8, 2014 at 10:50 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’ve always been a late bloomer, too. Thanks for painting “hero” over “loser” on my caboose. Looks so much better, doesn’t it?
November 8, 2014 at 10:43 am
billiesgirl
Its so refreshing to connect with others who are part of the canyon community! Its a perfect place to experience acceptance and understanding. I look forward to reading Sweet Moon Baby.
November 8, 2014 at 11:26 am
artistadonna
sweet! great post
November 8, 2014 at 11:50 am
Karen Henry Clark
If it helps, it’s been worthwhile to write. Thanks for letting me know.
November 8, 2014 at 12:12 pm
Lynn Alpert
Thank you for sharing your story, I love how your daughter motivated you – that letter is priceless! You need a new coat of white paint on your caboose with a drawing of a lovely girl who never gives up on top (drawn in purple crayon, of course)!
November 8, 2014 at 12:23 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m kind of teary because it feels so perfect. Thank you.
November 8, 2014 at 3:11 pm
Meridth Gimbel
Thanks for being so honest about writing from a canyon. I can definitely identify.
November 8, 2014 at 4:19 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Definitely plenty of us. I’m happy Tara provides a space for all of us to encourage each other. No one goes it alone really.
November 8, 2014 at 7:08 pm
Alberto Martín - NiñoCactus
It was touching to hear your story. Thanks for sharing. Never stop!
November 9, 2014 at 9:36 am
Michelle Cusolito
Thank you for your sharing your story. I’m glad you keep writing. Don’t give up!
Sweet Moon Baby is a lovely book- one I regularly recommend to others. You capture both the loss and joy of adoption so well. It was one of the first books I pinned on my adoption board on Pinterest. http://www.pinterest.com/pin/212021094929568603/
November 9, 2014 at 11:47 am
Karen Henry Clark
Michelle, thank you for reaching people through Pinterest. So many readers have been touched by the parallel experiences of both sets of parents in the book. I tried to address that through the happy and sad passages. A friend who teaches always includes SWEET MOON BABY in his family unit and poses the question: How can you be both things at the same time? Although some people have been critical of me for that, I have to remember that literature is subject to interpretation. Even picture books.
November 9, 2014 at 9:51 am
dianneyoung65
Thank you for your honest post. I hear you. I’ve gone off the track so many times, I’ve decided just to walk!
November 9, 2014 at 11:48 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for making me laugh! By golly, I can always walk out of that canyon. Sometimes the most obvious things escape me.
November 9, 2014 at 5:36 pm
angiewredhen
Karen,
You have a great way with words, I love the train symbolism. Thank you for sharing your journey, having given up, but taking the leap of faith to try again. Your words are encouraging.
November 9, 2014 at 6:47 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Writing kept tapping me on the shoulder one way after another. Who could have guessed it would come calling again through a little girl from China? But it did. My track keeps reappearing. I think that is true for all of us, don’t you?
November 10, 2014 at 1:20 am
intheirownwrite
Thank your for sharing your journey with such honesty. Keep writing. You have a wonderful gift.
November 10, 2014 at 10:32 am
Karen Henry Clark
It means so much to me that you took the time to offer kindness. Writers are enormously understanding.
November 10, 2014 at 3:39 pm
kirsten percival
It’s always being sad that being honest is key, and yet who actually, really is? Especially when it comes to careers or to dreams? Well, you for starters!Thank you so much for a lovely dose of inspiration, deeply rooted in reality!!
November 10, 2014 at 3:49 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Kristen, thank you for letting me know how you feel. My parents would be proud to know I’d earned the “honest” label from you. When I started teaching high school (when I was far too young myself), a colleague offered his best advice: Teach by example. He was right. They learned because they connected with me, not because of some pie-in-the-sky curriculum. They could see and feel that I was in that classroom WITH them and that we were doing something together. I was not doing school TO them. Prepositions are everything. I love looking at how this chain of comments has grown. At the end of the day, I know our shared experiences here are far more important than the chance to win a book.
November 10, 2014 at 5:52 pm
Patricia A Miller
Thank you for sharing your journey to this point. Keep writing and submitting. Only you can tell your story. There are children waiting to read it!
November 10, 2014 at 7:20 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I’m grateful for your encouraging words. Yes, I will continue.
November 10, 2014 at 8:48 pm
Karen Brueggeman
Wow….what an incredible story and I love how supportive your daughter is. I love how she wrote you the letter as an editor, very cute. Thanks so much for giving me the inspiration I needed to continue on.
November 10, 2014 at 8:54 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Our children know us so well. She has been my best editor and train conductor. Good for you. Keep moving. It’s easy to forget that there’s a Success Station up ahead.
November 10, 2014 at 10:26 pm
Megan Freeman
Thank you for sharing your story and your story. 🙂
November 11, 2014 at 10:04 am
Karen Henry Clark
Well, I’d never thought of it that way, but I see your point. You’re welcome.
November 11, 2014 at 11:18 am
Lindsay Bonilla
Books about adoption are so important, and yours looks beautiful! I really appreciate you sharing the metaphor of the Little Engine That Could. That needs to be my mantra every day — I think I can, I think I can!! (instead of: This feels impossible! 🙂 thanks again!
November 11, 2014 at 12:17 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you so much. I’ve watched people cry just by looking at the beautiful illustrations before they even read the text. So that is, indeed, stunning art. Chanting “I Can’t” is a self-fulfilling prophecy of the worst kind. I know.
November 11, 2014 at 9:25 pm
gasamie
I love that you got your 3 wishes. They are not that different from my own…
November 12, 2014 at 10:25 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for letting me know we share the same wish list. I hope it helps you to know that I succeeded. If you keep open to twists and turns (and canyon crashes), you can make it. Don’t let yourself hear a clock ticking because you’ll panic. Give yourself time.
November 12, 2014 at 11:03 am
Lisa
Such a great story, Karen. Thank so much for sharing!
November 12, 2014 at 8:26 pm
Karen Henry Clark
If it helped or entertained you for a minute, I’m glad I wrote it.
November 13, 2014 at 1:37 am
writersideup
Karen, this is a story of inspiration and perseverance if I ever did hear one. Thanks so much for sharing this with us 🙂
November 13, 2014 at 1:18 pm
Karen Henry Clark
This list of excellent comments shows how much perseverance rewards our efforts. My story is reassurance for what we instinctively know to be true.
November 13, 2014 at 7:02 pm
writersideup
Karen, I know it’s not easy, especially considering how many comments there are, but thank you for making the effort to respond 😀
November 13, 2014 at 8:09 pm
Karen Henry Clark
To say your appreciation and these comments warm my heart sounds Hallmarky, but it’s true. Telling the hard truth has apparently made it possible for many to know it’s absolutely common to struggle. No writer is immune, not even the published ones.
November 14, 2014 at 5:37 pm
winemama
“How could I expect her to believe in dreams if I gave up on mine?” Love this!
November 14, 2014 at 8:10 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Becoming her mother was the secret ingredient I needed to become serious about my writing. She did the trick.
November 14, 2014 at 8:34 pm
donnacangelosi
Thank you for sharing your beautiful writing journey, Karen! Your story is touching and inspiring.
November 15, 2014 at 11:04 am
Karen Henry Clark
And thank you for taking the time to say so. While I was living it, “beautiful” would not have been my chosen adjective for the experience. Now I see clearly where my track was headed all along. Please know how much I appreciate learning it has been important to you.
November 15, 2014 at 10:58 am
DaNeil
Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
November 15, 2014 at 11:07 am
Karen Henry Clark
I’m glad it matters to folks who run across it because I resisted at first. Tara gets credit for assuring me my tale would be important. She knows what she’s doing.
November 15, 2014 at 3:19 pm
Frances Brown
Hello Karen. What a warm, heartfelt story about your incredible journey, and what an achievement! Your daughter is so lucky to have you for her Mum and it seems she is your biggest fan. Quite right too, so we’ll all have to join the queue of supporters who believe in your story and never giving up! Hold on to “Sweet Moon Baby”; it’s yours, and it’s real. 🙂
November 15, 2014 at 3:26 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Frances, all these delicious comments from folks like you have become my tea and cookies moments in the day. Please know how grateful I am. Maggie is the ultimate child of my life.
November 16, 2014 at 4:10 pm
bucherwurm65
Your beautiful post has inspired this not-yet-published writer. Keep writing! “I think I can! I think I can!”
November 17, 2014 at 10:40 am
Karen Henry Clark
When all else fails, never stop yourself from believing YOU CAN.
November 16, 2014 at 7:03 pm
Dianne Burch
Karen, your honesty and triumphant attitude are wonderful. I feel I have connected with a kindred spirit for I have always seen myself and my journey as the The Little Engine that Could. Thank you for reminding me that I am on track. Tracks get bumpy and sometimes broken, but where ever they lead we must continue to feed our souls with what inspires us most. Carry on and keep sharing your stories in every way you can!
November 17, 2014 at 10:43 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you for taking the time to encourage me, Dianne. Knowing the metaphors of our lives keeps us trying. Ultimately the track leads forward.
November 16, 2014 at 10:52 pm
Anna Levin
Thank you Karen for sharing your track with us. It’s important to know and acknowledge that being in the canyon can be part of the journey, the process, and not the end, if we choose to keep moving. Keep on writing!
November 17, 2014 at 10:48 am
Karen Henry Clark
Yes, I intend to keep writing. Just since writing this post, curious new ideas have begun whispering in my head. Must be the silence of the canyon that allows me to hear them. I hope the same for you, Anna.
November 25, 2014 at 7:55 am
Rick Starkey
Thanks for sharing. It’s great knowing that no matter where we are on the track, we can keep writing. The only thing that can stop us is us.
November 25, 2014 at 10:07 am
Karen Henry Clark
You’re right. It’s just that easy or hard. We always have a choice, although sometimes we forget that.
November 25, 2014 at 2:43 pm
lisakwillard
Karen, Thank you for sharing your story. It’s wonderful to hear how your daughter and mother inspire you to keep following your dream.
November 25, 2014 at 5:14 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Thank you, right back, Lisa. I always tell children that the best stories don’t come to us from “out there in the land of mystery.” They are right beside us all the time.
November 28, 2014 at 2:34 pm
KASteed
“Understand your writing a journey”…thank you for that phrase. It shifted my perspective.
November 29, 2014 at 11:36 am
Karen Henry Clark
For me, that journey has a life all its own, so if that allows you compartmentalize the moving parts, I’m glad to have helped.
November 28, 2014 at 10:43 pm
LL
Adorable, heartfelt and honest. Something most of strive for, I think…
November 29, 2014 at 11:37 am
Karen Henry Clark
Thanks for the support. I really do appreciate it. Really.
November 29, 2014 at 8:04 pm
Marge Gower
Happy for someone who writes a story from the heart and it is published. I’m very happy for your and your family.
November 30, 2014 at 7:05 pm
Karen Henry Clark
You’ve reminded me of an important point. “Heart” makes all the difference. Maybe that explains why my other manuscripts aren’t connecting. I’m too far off the mark from my muse–Maggie.
November 29, 2014 at 11:54 pm
majanecka
Wonderful reminder to us all that even published authors can sometimes struggle to find success with the next book and then the one after that and after that. . .
November 30, 2014 at 7:06 pm
Karen Henry Clark
I love the way you state that. Thanks for thinking LARGE. I need to follow your lead,
November 30, 2014 at 10:09 am
Brook Gideon
Is it awful that I laughed out loud at the part “spray-painted loser on my caboose?” I try to see the good in the bad and often laugh at the most inappropriate times, but it gets me through. And you are correct, the path is crooked and scary, but well worth it. Keep chugging along and thank you for reminding us all!
November 30, 2014 at 7:03 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Laugh away. I did. I got so caught up in describing my crash that I was distraught at the sight of my engine at the canyon bottom. What could possibly make it even worse? So I wrote the “loser” passage. When I re-read it, it struck me as darkly funny, too.
November 30, 2014 at 11:56 am
Kimberly Cowger
Josh Groban’s song “Don’t Give Up ” just popped in my head!
November 30, 2014 at 7:08 pm
Karen Henry Clark
Aside from finding a metaphor for the journey, it helps to have a theme song, too. Everything works together.
November 30, 2014 at 1:32 pm
Rosie Pova
A journey with ups and downs, indeed, and no guarantees…
November 30, 2014 at 7:10 pm
Karen Henry Clark
So true. But as long as we try, there’s a chance. In fact, it a celebrated children’s author congratulated me for not being stopped by the gatekeepers. There’s always a way around a locked door.
November 30, 2014 at 9:02 pm
Nancy Kotkin
What a wonderful and inspiring story! Thanks for sharing it.
December 1, 2014 at 11:05 am
Karen Henry Clark
As it turned out, I’m glad I did, too, even though I tried to get Tara to pick someone else who had a perkier story. I could never quite explain how much this experience has helped me. I had no idea so many people would reply.
December 1, 2014 at 12:09 am
Colleen Kelley
It’s refreshing to hear from someone still writing when things are not going as well as desired.
December 1, 2014 at 11:47 am
Karen Henry Clark
If I were a negative person, I’d say writing is an equal opportunity destroyer, but that isn’t true at all. It makes so many things possible, not impossible.
December 1, 2014 at 12:46 am
Caroline Lee Webster (@uncoverthepearl)
So grateful to find your post in the final minutes of this year’s PiBoIdMo. I love what you wrote above in response to someone else, “Whenever we’ve moved and I could hear a train in the distance at night, I knew it was the right house.” You’ve given me a new metaphor for my own writing journey, and one that aligns so beautifully with what has been a symbol of love and home in my own life. I could hear the trains from my Austrian host family’s home and now I hear them from my own home in Vermont (landed here because it reminds me of Austria). When my older son was in second grade and had to illustrate peace, he drew a train and wrote, “Peace is the sound of a train whistle at night.” I was so touched by his words and how they echoed my heart. And now, thanks to you, I will celebrate writing for the long, winding journey it is, sometimes with unexpected stops and delays. To let the journey continue is the gift, no matter what obstacles or number of rejections we face. Thank you for this tender post– and what a lovely, lovely story behind your first book and about your childhood dreams. Thank you!
December 1, 2014 at 11:52 am
Karen Henry Clark
Caroline, where have you been all my life? Your beautiful comment made me cry. How incredible that you shared your story with us–to Austria and Vermont. And what a wonderfully sensitive son you have. I’m deeply touched to have offered yet another link for you. Valuable omens are around us if we’re willing to see them.
December 1, 2014 at 12:57 am
Jason Perkins
great post. Thank you.
December 1, 2014 at 11:52 am
Karen Henry Clark
I hope it helped you at some level.
December 1, 2014 at 5:34 am
Andrea J Loney
Aww, thank you for sharing this story.
December 1, 2014 at 11:54 am
Karen Henry Clark
That’s what we all have–our stories. No two are ever the same.