by Wendy Martin
It’s been nearly an entire month of PiBoIdMo. Take a good long look at your list. Do you see a theme there?
In past PiBoIdMo challenges I often found myself writing down ideas that ended up being a variation on a theme. The first year I had a dozen ideas all based on classical artists’ early lives. Another year I got into a scientific groove. I actually went on to write first and second drafts on two of those ideas, but got snagged when it came to the illustrations. They got back burnered (can I use that as a word?) in favor of some other silly stories.
In looking over all my years of PiBoIdMo ideas, I noticed something.
My ideas fell into three basic camps. Happy, silly stories; scientific type stories; and what could best be described as biographical stories. There are a few of the science-y ones that could cross over into the biographical section, mainly because I would get ideas while watching PBS Nova and Nature shows.
When Tara asked me to write this blog post, I wracked my brain to come up with something inspirational that dozens of previous blog posts this month and in year’s past hadn’t touched on. For inspiration on my inspirational post—I went to my kid-lit bookshelf. I pulled piles of books down and grouped them by subject. Then the ones that fell into the above themes got re-shelved.
I had five books left.
- “Goodbye Mousie” by Robie H Harris. She was a speaker one year for the NY-SCBWI conference, so it’s autographed. It’s a book about a young boy dealing with the death of his pet mouse.
- “The Goodbye Cancer Garden” by Janna Matthies. This story deals with a mother’s battle with cancer and the affects chemotherapy have on her and her family from the little girl’s perspective.
- “What’s Happening to Grandpa?” by Maria Shriver. This story is about a little girl who deals with the effects of a grandparent who’s losing his memories to Alzheimer’s disease.
- “What’s Wrong With Timmy?” by Maria Shriver as well. In this book a girl befriends another child with Down’s syndrome.
- “Gentle Willow” by Joyce C. Mills. Here is a story about a group of friends that deal with the illness and ultimate loss of a one of their friends.
Notice anything similar about these titles? They all deal with difficult life issues. I got the majority of them for my daughter during a particularly trying time in our lives. My father-in-law was diagnosed with lung cancer, my paternal grandfather’s Alzheimer’s disease became advanced and her best friend became very ill with pneumonia requiring a long hospitalization. It was a lot, for me, as an adult to process, and she was only 8 at the time. There were a tremendous number of questions she wanted answered. I needed help in doing that.
I’m not saying this to be a downer, or to rain on your parade. The point being—is there anywhere on your list of ideas a place for the more difficult life events which happen in some children’s lives? The death of a pet, friend or family member; a terminal illness of a loved one or the child herself; even things like discrimination; separation from a parent; or other less than joyful life events can become very worthy books. After all, someone has to write the hard stuff. Maybe that someone can be you?
Look into your life at the bumpy places. Is there a story idea waiting in the shadows to be added to your PiBoIdMo list?
A transplanted New Yorker now living in Missouri, Wendy Martin has been working as an illustrator for 25+ years. She earned a degree in Fashion Design from the Fashion Institute of Technology, then continued her art education at the School of Visual Arts with a B.F.A. in Graphic Design. After her move to Missouri in 2000, she turned her focus to her true love, children’s books. AN ORDINARY GIRL, A MAGICAL CHILD, a children’s book she both wrote and illustrated, was released in 2005. The book was picked up by a new house, edited and re-released in 2008, then went on to become a finalist in the 2009 international COVR awards. Four additional picture books and a coloring book quickly followed. Visit her on the web at WendyMartinIllustration.com.
Wendy is giving away a signed F&G of RABBIT’S SONG!
One winner will be randomly selected at the conclusion of PiBoIdMo. You are eligible for this prize if:
- You have registered for PiBoIdMo.
- You have commented ONCE ONLY on today’s post.
- You have completed the PiBoIdMo challenge. (You will have to sign the PiBoIdMo Pledge at the end of the event.)
Good luck, everyone!
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November 25, 2013 at 8:44 am
Audrey
Thanks for the validation! A lot of my stories deal with the not-so-cotton-candy parts of life that kids have to deal with. I often second guess myself these topics. Thanks for the insight.
November 25, 2013 at 10:01 pm
Wendy Martin Art
Good for you!
November 25, 2013 at 8:46 am
erin
Several of my ideas this year are in this camp, and I’m excited to flesh out the stories there. Thanks for the post and inspiration!
November 25, 2013 at 10:01 pm
Wendy Martin Art
You’re welcome.
November 25, 2013 at 8:46 am
jheitman22
Yes, I have noticed themes in my idea file. Thanks for sharing yours, and for pointing out that we all need books of all kinds. When I slam up against a difficult life issue, the first place I look is for a book. Picture books about those things can help parents and grandparents work with kids to help process and handle those issues. Thanks, Wendy! and congratulations on your success!
November 25, 2013 at 10:02 pm
Wendy Martin Art
Thank you. A picture book can do more than be a good story.
November 25, 2013 at 8:48 am
Pat Haapaniemi
I really liked your post, Wendy. I’ve shied away from writing these types of books before, perhaps because of their difficult issues. You’ve inspired me to take a closer look at them – thanks!
November 25, 2013 at 10:02 pm
Wendy Martin Art
You’re welcome.
November 25, 2013 at 8:49 am
jackiewellington21
Thanks for sharing this post. I always look to picture books as a supplemental resource when dealing with difficult issues as well. I love that they were your go to as well. Time to address some big issues with my writing, 😀 Great post!
November 25, 2013 at 10:03 pm
Wendy Martin Art
You’re welcome.
November 26, 2013 at 9:48 am
jackiewellington21
😀
November 25, 2013 at 8:57 am
Pamela M. Tuck
This is a great idea. It is often hard to take people out of their comfort zones, but for those who are already there, these types of books are for them! Plenty of topics to write about here 😉
November 25, 2013 at 10:03 pm
Wendy Martin Art
The best inspiration often happens outside our comfort zones. Go get ’em!
November 25, 2013 at 8:57 am
marciecolleen
Wow. Thank you for illuminating the dark moments. We need more writers willing to tackle the unpleasant. I just got my idea for the day. Thank you! 🙂
November 25, 2013 at 8:57 am
Sue Poduska
Thanks for sharing, Wendy. Your categories look an awful lot like mine. And thanks for sharing those titles.
November 25, 2013 at 8:57 am
Heather Gale
Thanks so much Wendy for reminding us it’s ok to write about the hard stuff.
November 25, 2013 at 8:58 am
Janie Reinart
Wendy, thanks for the post . I never thought to look for a theme. I agree, sometimes we need books dealing with the hard stuff to bring comfort.
November 25, 2013 at 9:00 am
Jessie Miller (@pigknit)
Love today’s post, I realized I hadn’t been thinking about anything outside of “silly” all month!
November 25, 2013 at 9:01 am
Courtenay Schurman
Thank you so much! I immediately reserved all five from my local library. Hard to believe any of these books escaped my detection (I too went through a similar phase with my now-9-year-old daughter) but I now have some more food for thought along the PB lines. Thanks for the suggested reads!
November 25, 2013 at 9:02 am
happyidiots
Thank You! I do see a common theme in my stories. Maybe I need to try unlocking some doors from parts unknown in my mind. If for no other reason than to come back to my natural inclinations or hit the ground running in a new arena.
November 25, 2013 at 9:02 am
writeknit
I love the idea of grouping ideas. Interesting that I have thought about addressing a life issue also, but have been on the fence thinking it was too “adult” for a picture book. Maybe not?
November 25, 2013 at 9:05 am
Sarah M. Isaacson
(I’m a transplanted NYer in North Dakota!) I really appreciate this post! Thanks so much.
November 25, 2013 at 9:05 am
LovableLobo
Great post! Very worthy subjects to write about. I just can’t go there and prefer to stay in my “happy” bubble for ideas. : )
November 25, 2013 at 9:06 am
Lisa Robinson
I like the idea of looking for themes in your ideas list; I wonder if one could combine all 30 ideas into one book. Ha! There’s a challenge. . .
November 25, 2013 at 9:08 am
joannesher
You probably just added a dozen ideas to my list 🙂 Thanks so much!
November 25, 2013 at 9:08 am
Melanie Ellsworth
Thanks for this post, Wendy. I have written a PB on a difficult subject, and this post has inspired me to revisit it.
November 25, 2013 at 9:10 am
Susan Cabael
Last month my critique group friend commented that I like to write about the hard stuff…and she’s right! It’s great motivation to hear that these types of picture books comforted your family during difficult times.
November 25, 2013 at 9:10 am
rosemary basham
Thanks for this.A reminder that we are writing for children after all.
November 25, 2013 at 9:10 am
Kim Pfennigwerth (@kpfenni)
Thanks for the push to look for themes and writing outside our box – whether it is life themes or something else that we wouldn’t normally try.
Great post!
November 25, 2013 at 9:10 am
Jenn DesAutels
Great advice, Wendy! I agree, there’s always a need for up-to-date kids’ books that address the not-so-sunny days of life.
November 25, 2013 at 9:10 am
Jewel Sample
Indeed the hard stuff calls to be written. One category not mentioned is sibling loss. “Flying Hugs and Kisses” by Jewel Sample is a great resource for children to learn about grief and loss of a brother or sister. Won the National Parenting Center Seal of Approval Award. Other new grief and loss books that I have on my shelf are “The Roller Coaster Kid” by Mary Ann Rodman. It is about remembering the good times and grandparent loss. “Snowflakes Fall” by Patricia MacLachlan is about remembering childhood fun and friendship among children. Writing the hard stuff doesn’t stop at publishing a book about it. Be prepared to talk about the hard stuff too. I speak every year to professionals and families with children about sibling loss. I find it very rewarding and healing at the same time because I have suffered great loss and know what it is like to walk a thousand miles in grief and adjust to living without a loved one. If your heart is gravitating toward a book about a natural part of life…I encourage you to write it…bless another young soul with your works. Thank you for sharing.
November 25, 2013 at 9:12 am
Susan Nicholas
Thanks for giving me some new ideas!
November 25, 2013 at 9:12 am
One Happy Writer
After going through a couple of fun, silly, happy ideas these past few weeks, I never thought about including difficult subjects on my PiBoIdMo list. This weekend I received some sad news that I’m still trying to process. I’m thinking about a story, and although it’s going to be a tough challenge for me to write, I’m going to put it there, on my idea board, hoping it will help me give the bump a place. Thank you, Wendy.
November 25, 2013 at 9:14 am
Tina Cho
Thanks for the reminder to write about those difficult times!
November 25, 2013 at 9:17 am
dorothia
Hi Wendy! Thank you so much for the article. Growing up can be confusing, sad and lonely, as well as wacky and fun. Your post was a good reminder that children need stories to help cope with these hard things. Lovely post. Hope all is well.
November 25, 2013 at 9:18 am
Debra Daugherty
I’ve never noticed before, but my story ideas do have a theme! I’ve also noticed that when I have rough patches in my life, a parent or relative dying, I devote more time to my writing. It’s healing for me and some of my best stories come from those times.
November 25, 2013 at 9:18 am
Michelle Church
I looked over my ideas and you have a point :O)
Thank you!
November 25, 2013 at 9:19 am
Carolyn Rohrbaugh
We just need to look around and there are many stories to write about, but thank you for reminding us to not overlook the difficult ones.
November 25, 2013 at 9:19 am
nicole snitselaar
I wrote one Pbook (published) about how to move forward when you have lost someone.
But since I have been and still am very sick… I find myself only writing about happy things and fun facts… Even history, I want people to laugh… My way of reacting to life’s hard moments! 🙂 I have a story about alzeimmer that hasn’t found a publisher… they are not very motivated by sad stories ! (even if my story is turned on the “fun”…
Thank you for this article !
November 25, 2013 at 9:20 am
Kimberly
I actually have a few “tough topic” ideas because there needs to be more books like that!
November 25, 2013 at 9:21 am
Meline
You are right, so sad, but true and it’s life, reality and we all have to go through the difficult times. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. These hard subjects are probably not the first to march forward in our minds, but are truly needed.
November 25, 2013 at 9:22 am
Catherine Johnson
That’s a good point, Wendy. I’d probably find it hard to be serious enough or end up being so serious it’s boring. There are a couple of subjects I feel strongly about but they are a bit difficult to even talk about never mind write a story for the whole world to read 😉 One day I’ll find a way. Great post!
November 25, 2013 at 9:24 am
Juliana Lee
Thanks for the reminder. I have read this genre in my classroom and at home, but do not have any of my own ideas for writing one. I don’t think this is something you can force, it needs to be authentic. I’ll keep my heart open, after all, like Wendy said “someone has to write the hard stuff.”
November 25, 2013 at 9:27 am
Anne Bielby
Great idea to search collections for patterns!
November 25, 2013 at 9:40 am
Ann Birnie
Time to take the flashlight and shine it into a dark place or space. Thanks for the grounding idea Wendy.
November 25, 2013 at 9:46 am
Andrea
Thank you for this post. You’ve reminded me about a tough subject I wanted to write about, but put on the back burner. It’s so important that kids have a way to think about and talk about these issues, and picture books can be a great way to do that.
November 25, 2013 at 9:50 am
Debra Shumaker
Lots of food for thought here. Hard topics are certainly needed. And now I’m curious to check my list for themes.
November 25, 2013 at 9:57 am
storyfairy
Children’s books about difficult issues are very important.
November 25, 2013 at 10:06 am
Lori Dubbin
Books and stories about the difficult aspects of life really help children (and adults) gain coping skills and empathy. Thanks for bringing this to the forefront. Your article and the blustery day today are reminding me these stories are as essential as the quirky, fun ones.
November 25, 2013 at 10:09 am
msmo1958
So true. Authors tend to shy away from the hard stuff. Having had a child with congenital heart defects, I recognize the need. Two ideas on that very subject have snuck onto my list.
November 25, 2013 at 10:26 am
Deirdre Sheridan Englehart
I am going back to review my ideas to see if I have categories… and themes.
November 25, 2013 at 10:27 am
Teresa Daffern
Thank you Wendy. You are so right about the need to write about the ‘hard stuff.’ We have come across some beautiful books that have helped (both in my family and in the classroom) address some more difficult topics and I have always been grateful for the sensitive way these authors approach their subjects.
November 25, 2013 at 10:33 am
Melanie Vickers
You opened doors I have walked through and may write a story for children. Thanks for showing the way.
November 25, 2013 at 10:33 am
cherylsec
Thank you so much, Wendy, for offering this challenge. It’s certainly something to consider. I tend to focus on happy and silly books. 🙂 Thank you for sharing with us today!
November 25, 2013 at 10:35 am
Suzy Leopold
My themes seem to be stories about children in the garden and kids at school; all light hearted and positive. Thank you for the reminder how it is important to write for kids so that they may have a better understanding about many of the challenges of life. Just may need to revisit a draft, “My Nana has Cancer.” Thank you for the inspiration. ~Suzy Leopold
November 25, 2013 at 10:50 am
cantsing1
Can’t wait to check my idea list for groupings! I have written some heavy ones. Very hard to “sell” when not a published author. I’m not giving up!
November 25, 2013 at 10:52 am
emazza1217
Yes, I do have some of those gems in my brainstorming journal. Like you said, someone’s got to write about it. Why not me?
November 25, 2013 at 10:53 am
lindaschueler
Hmmm, maybe I could deal with children who have to deal with long separations with a parent. It’s a thought…
November 25, 2013 at 10:54 am
Sandy Perlic
I hadn’t thought to look for themes in my writing- hmm, I wonder…
November 25, 2013 at 10:54 am
Patrick Waldron
I want to read about how you come up with your silly ideas. It took me a couple minutes to get back my silly self after reading this article. But rest assured, you have inspired me today. Thanks Wendy.
November 25, 2013 at 10:58 am
Stephanie Shaw
Thanks for sharing, Wendy. I appreciate most the advice on reading other books for inspirations. I find when writing about difficult subjects, drawing from my own experience does not work — the stories tend to become maudlin and corny. But, gaining perspective through others’ experiences is truly helpful.
November 25, 2013 at 10:59 am
Kathy moncrief
Great post! My first book, LITTLE BIRD, while not dealing with subject matter quite as serious, was a story I told to my girls when they were little. I was a single mom who had to leave her children everyday for work and had to try to explain my absence in words they could understand. Starting the day withcrying was unbearable. So I wrote it down…
November 25, 2013 at 10:59 am
katmaz2012
Thank you so much. There is “hard” topic that is on my mind/ in my life that may be THE story.
November 25, 2013 at 11:02 am
lmconnors
I sense I have some groupings in my ideas too. I will sort them over Thanksgiving. Thanks!
November 25, 2013 at 11:05 am
abrianc
Nice post! I noticed that I’ve been trending toward science, cooking and journeys. Not sure if I can pull off realistic heavy subjects for kid lit but perhaps with a fantasy twist? Thanks for the inspiration!
November 25, 2013 at 11:06 am
MummyTheFunny (@EmiHowe)
I was diagnosed with cancer 14 months ago and this genuinely hadn’t occurred to me! That’s today idea sorted…! I’ll take a look at ‘Goodbye Cancer Garden’ thanks for the inspiration
November 25, 2013 at 11:08 am
teresa m.i. schaefer (@TMISchaefer)
There were some pre-PiBoIdMo posts on the notion of choosing a theme to create ideas by–but I hadn’t considered what themes were developing among: the ideas I have written, the manuscripts I’ve written, or the books I’ve collected along the way. I can’t wait to go look. Thanks Wendy.
November 25, 2013 at 11:12 am
deborahholtwilliams
Wow, this comes at such a strange time. A friend of mine was murdered by her boyfriend last week, and I was wondering if there are any books that would help a child get through something horrific like that. I think it would be too painful for me to write, but I hope someone does.
November 25, 2013 at 11:15 am
danielledufayet
I think a theme naturally comes out if there are things you want to say about a difficult situation -especially if you’ve found insight through it or helpful ways to cope. We need book like this for sure! Thank you.
November 25, 2013 at 11:18 am
Jessie oliveros
Great advice for Day 25. Thank you!
November 25, 2013 at 11:21 am
Ellen Mott
We all deal with tough times in our lives when we need help, and so do kids, even when we’re there to help. Sibling rivalry is one that may or many not have been done to death. But I have a couple grandkids, close in age who have a major personality clash, which could be dealt with in a helpful and/or humorous way in books. The ideas my granddaughter comes up with to outdo her older brother, blow my mind. Sometimes letting them work it out by themselves, isn’t the best solution. And sometimes their solutions can be really humorous.
Thank you for you post. Sometimes we need reminders that children need more help to understand and deal with tough issues than we think they do.
November 25, 2013 at 11:22 am
Marty McCormick
Good suggestions. Will check for patterns and themes. I actually had Alzheimers on my radar as something to write about. Need to see what else is out there before I go much further.
November 25, 2013 at 11:24 am
Ashley Bohmer
This has given me something to think about.–Thanks, Wendy!
November 25, 2013 at 11:30 am
cathy john biggerstaff
Thanks for pointing us in a different direction than we might have considered, especially here near the end of the month. It just might revitalized my thoughts. Blessings to you and yours.
November 25, 2013 at 11:34 am
Noel Csermak
Great thought to provide a resource for difficult times. And what better way than a beloved picture book. Sometimes a good cry is just the thing to help you move through the pain.
November 25, 2013 at 11:35 am
fashionistaphilly.tumblr.com
I reappy appreciate this posting Wendy! It’s so impt that the pb world continue to publish books that are not in the norm of big market sales but still cover impt tough topics for children. It’s sometimes hard to find these types of books so I am real happy that you are delving into this topic and writing books based on these relevant topics – thank you!
November 25, 2013 at 11:37 am
Nancy Armo
You’re right! Someone has to write the hard stuff why not us. Thank you for opening the door to new directions.
November 25, 2013 at 11:38 am
Pia Garneau
Someone does have go write the hard stuff so that kids can understand what they are going through. Thanks for the eye-opener, Wendy!
November 25, 2013 at 11:38 am
MichelleLynn
As an educator who served in the poorest schools within the community, I saw first hand the complex and horrific issues children face. Helping a child process these issues allowed them to free their mind enough to embrace the day’s lessons. Books are a fantastic way to guide a child in the process. Many of the books I have planned deal with the difficult stuff. They need it. Thank you for the encouragement!
November 25, 2013 at 11:40 am
Gloria Amescua
I know there is a definite need for books of all types of loss and times of struggle.
November 25, 2013 at 11:47 am
Michelle @ Fitztopia
This is a reminder to me for some ideas I had while trying to explain similar circumstances to my children. Thank you for rekindling those stories in my mind. 🙂
November 25, 2013 at 11:55 am
Lauri Meyers
It’s amazing how serious themes almost seem to sneak into our work, even if it appears to be a silly story on the surface.
November 25, 2013 at 11:59 am
Donna L Martin
Hi Wendy!
With all the comments from publishing houses these days of only looking for character driven (with three struggles included before resolution) books, it’s nice to see a comment made on the stories which simply touch a nerve or a heart. Those are the types of ideas dancing around in my head a lot and you have validated the writer who chooses to pursue those ideas. Thank you…
Great post!
Take care,
Donna L Martin
November 25, 2013 at 12:03 pm
mona861
Thanks for the reminder that sometimes we need to write the serious stuff!
November 25, 2013 at 12:05 pm
Juliet Clare Bell
Thank you. I’ve just written a story about a girl and her granny who dies. It’s had some great feedback (and it’s my agent’s favourite thing I’ve written, including the ones that got published) but it’s a really hard sell, especially if you use humans rather than animal characters. But we’re not giving up!
November 25, 2013 at 12:11 pm
Maria Gianferrari
Thanks, Wendy–how true, and important these kinds of stories are. Your illustrations are lovely.
November 25, 2013 at 12:26 pm
Robyn Campbell
I’m writing a serious picture book about my son who was born with a rare brain disorder. This one is my heart. It’s told from his pov. It’s titled, I’M JUST LIKE YOU. Thanks for taking the time to post for us.
November 25, 2013 at 12:27 pm
Bridey Mendoza-Moore
I was just thinking about this yesterday as I was having a rough and sad day and thinking about “writing what you know” came up with an idea about sad days. Thank you.
November 25, 2013 at 12:28 pm
heather sisson
Love your work and i totally agree. I always think someone should write a book like that for kids when something difficult to explain happens. Kids dont get as much credit as they deserve in being aware of more adult situations.
November 25, 2013 at 12:29 pm
Lori Mozdzierz
Great idea, Wendy to review our lists for themes!
I do agree that difficult life topics need to be addressed.
November 25, 2013 at 12:31 pm
Sandie Sing
You have made me thinking again. I hate to be cornered into thinking of themes, but my ideas and stories are easy to group. My writing coach was able to see the theme before I did. I am analyzing my ideas,and I see the theme thread weaving through the list. They are a multi-cultural theme weaved through my early years. Thanks for waking me up and seeing my relationship to my writings.
November 25, 2013 at 12:41 pm
Patricia Holloway
Wendy, you gave us a fresh way to view our ideas. Thank you for the insight.
November 25, 2013 at 12:47 pm
krbaxter
Thank-you so much for your post Wendy. It has encouraged me to consider writing about some of the harder issues that children deal with.
November 25, 2013 at 12:52 pm
Sarah Kilfoil
Thanks for your advice about looking for themes!
November 25, 2013 at 1:00 pm
Ashley Potts
Thank you for your post, Wendy! It has given me some new writing angles to explore.
November 25, 2013 at 1:01 pm
dee win
your advice led me to think of a great idea, thank you!
November 25, 2013 at 1:08 pm
kathalsey
RABBIT’S SONG looks lovely! Wanna hop right in! Yes, I hover over the harder topics, too. I did write an ms earlier this year about a rescue dog that discusses briefly some of the pain he endured. These are topics that kids need to know about also! Not a downer at all!
November 25, 2013 at 1:11 pm
Debbie Austin
Thanks, Wendy. I’m going to try to add a few difficult themes to my list before the month is up.
November 25, 2013 at 1:13 pm
mlucero30
I do have a few on the list that deal with more difficult themes–thanks for the reminder that they are every bit as valid and needed as the more fun story ideas, if not more so.
November 25, 2013 at 1:15 pm
Karen Mae Zoccoli
Thanks, Wendy, for sharing and reminding us the tougher topics are needed for children too!
November 25, 2013 at 1:29 pm
Keri Collins Lewis
You inspired me to get another idea jotted down in my notebook. I think it’s hard to balance bibliotherapy and really good storytelling. We’ll see if I can manage it.
November 25, 2013 at 1:30 pm
Therese Nagi
Wendy thanks for providing suggestions to write about hard topics for kids as well as adults. These books can help them heal and be companions.
November 25, 2013 at 1:44 pm
Ashley Bankhead
Thanks for the post.
November 25, 2013 at 1:49 pm
Laurie Young
Thank you so much Wendy. I too have delved in the “dark” subjects. I have written a manuscript for a children’s story about my cousin and cancer. I have it sitting on my shelf with other manuscripts. I take it out from time to time to look at it…. I really think it could be a nice story but it is so difficult to find a publisher that wants to take the plunge in such subjects. Thanks again Wendy 🙂
November 25, 2013 at 1:55 pm
kpbock
You are so right, Wendy. Most of my books tend to be silly and crazy, but kids definitely need books that help them to deal with those difficult problems in life.
November 25, 2013 at 2:10 pm
Pam Jones
Interesting timing of your post as I am working on a book at the moment that deals with a difficult issue, and it’s a very healing thing. Thank you for your thoughts!
November 25, 2013 at 2:11 pm
Gaye kick
Thank you. My ideas have not been on difficult issues. I’m traveling today and will contemplate this topic.
November 25, 2013 at 2:13 pm
Catherine
It is true that most of my ideas are entertaining, thank you for alerting me to serious issues that can be addressed through picture books. There is still time for some final serious PiBoIdMo ideas.
November 25, 2013 at 2:13 pm
Laura Zimmermann
Great post!
November 25, 2013 at 2:13 pm
Kathryn Ault Noble
Thank you very much, Wendy! Like you my thoughts always go to history, science and nature due to a lifetime of PBS. I’ve felt at a loss to write anything silly or fluffy. I owned a hobby farm for along enough to experience the sadness of animal loss, so farm animals are another constant theme. A Little Brown AD said my work was well suited to biographies, which was the first push towards a slightly more serious direction. Your post today was a great validation that it is ok to head towards harder themes.
November 25, 2013 at 2:14 pm
schriscoe
Thank you Wendy. I have a PB that I someday want to write to help children deal with the loss of a grandparent to cancer. Right now it is just too hard to try to do, I lost my Dad last year to leukemia. But someday, I know I will find the strength to write it and I hope it will help lots of children in their time of grief. What better gift than to aid them when they need it most.
November 25, 2013 at 2:29 pm
Sandi Lawson
Thank you, Wendy. We sometimes only want to see the happy side of life, but books truly can help a child to understand the “unhappy” side of life. I hope to help a child with my writing
someday.
November 25, 2013 at 2:43 pm
Kathy Doherty
Yay for bibliotherapy!
November 25, 2013 at 2:56 pm
LeslieG
Great prompt for finding where our passions lie. Thank you!
November 25, 2013 at 2:57 pm
Stacy S. Jensen
I love that many titles that help already exist and look forward to many more being published.
November 25, 2013 at 3:01 pm
Christine M. Irvin
Hmmmm….food for thought…..
November 25, 2013 at 3:14 pm
bucherwurm65
You gave me an idea! Writing about the tough issues is an excellent way to make a difference and help others. Great post. Thank you!
November 25, 2013 at 3:18 pm
Sherry Walz
I sometimes forget that growing up isn’t all fun and games. Thanks for reminding me that young children also need books to help them cope with difficult issues in life.
November 25, 2013 at 3:38 pm
Meg Miller
Hmmm, you make an excellent point Wendy. Children need books on a myriad of topics, not just entertainment books. There is a lot that happens that is hard for them to understand and PB can be helpful…. Thanks!
November 25, 2013 at 3:40 pm
Pam Brunskill (@PamBrunskill)
Great post!–I’ll need to check out those books to see how these authors managed to write the topics sensitively so that they help kids. Thanks for sharing. 🙂
November 25, 2013 at 3:46 pm
Genevieve Petrillo
Good post. It’s easy to fall into a pattern of writing the same thing over and over. My 12×12 story for this month is turning into a cancer story. It’s presently at a dead halt, because this is not the type of story I usually write, and I feel like I’m drowning. I may revert back to a happy, silly story and try this again after a break.
November 25, 2013 at 3:48 pm
Leslie Colin Tribble
I looked back through my list for the month and realized I have a few ideas that deal with difficult topics, one of them being death of a father. When my husband died I had a hard time finding decently written books for my son to help him cope. Guess I get to write what I was looking for all those years ago.
November 25, 2013 at 4:00 pm
Eileen
Thanks for sharing. This is really important.
November 25, 2013 at 4:06 pm
Dorothy Wiese
How difficult yet wonderful to write books to help children through difficult times.
November 25, 2013 at 4:15 pm
Tracy Molitors
Thanks, Wendy. I always appreciate your advice. Difficult life issues are certainly a worthy subject – and worthy of the time it takes to try to find an inspirational viewpoint about them!
November 25, 2013 at 4:24 pm
Yvonne Mes
Interesting, I haven’t looked for themes in my ideas. Great book suggestions.
November 25, 2013 at 4:49 pm
cat jones
Thanks for a thought provoking post. Following on from last year’s PiBoIdMo I have finsihed and submitted a humorouse pic. bk. dealing with cancer. Feedback I am getting is that it is not a suitable topic for a picture book but should be a young reader!
I’m definitley going to seek out the titles you mention.
Thanks again
November 25, 2013 at 4:50 pm
Sue Rankin
I was asking about this just the other day on a FaceBook page! Namely, how does one write a good picture book from the place of a pretty crappy childhood? I know books for kids going through rough times are needed though, so I’m trying.
November 25, 2013 at 4:53 pm
Sharon K Mayhew
Congratulations on your book and coloring book to come soon. 🙂 I tend to be more theme/educational in my writing. I guess it makes sense since I was a teacher for a long time. Thanks for sharing and saying it’s okay to write the hard stuff. 🙂
November 25, 2013 at 4:54 pm
Penny
I’ve noticed I seem to come back to the same themes over again, I’m wondering if that’s because there is a book about that issue that needs to be written but I haven’t found the best idea yet.
I think writing about the difficult/sad issues of life can be particularly challenging. Especially as we try to write without preaching, maintain hope and remain in the child’s view of the world.
November 25, 2013 at 4:57 pm
colleen kosinski
Most of my ideas are science or bio themes too.
November 25, 2013 at 5:21 pm
Laurie L. Young
I don’t think I am the right person to write a difficult story, but I’m grateful for the people who do.
November 25, 2013 at 5:30 pm
RaChelle Lisiecki
You succeeded in originality, Wendy! Thank you for reminding me to look at themes and to, sometimes, branch off and touch the messy cow pie that may be resting near my roots. I wish you continued success.
November 25, 2013 at 5:40 pm
Alicia van Thiel
Thank you for sharing!
November 25, 2013 at 5:55 pm
Rosi Hollinbeck
No theme for me. Mine are all over the place, but it’s a lot of fun coming up with them.
November 25, 2013 at 6:16 pm
kirsticall
This is a great reminder. Children and parents really do need those difficult books….
November 25, 2013 at 6:25 pm
Heather Greene
Thanks, Wendy. I hadn’t looked for themes in my ideas.
November 25, 2013 at 6:27 pm
Julie
Interesting thoughts. Thank you.
November 25, 2013 at 6:30 pm
Cindy Schumerth
I’ll have to take a look and see what I can find.
November 25, 2013 at 6:47 pm
Janny J. Johnson
Those difficult books are the ones I would searching for when my kids needed extra support. I’ll never forget “Freddie the Leaf” that we used when our 6 year old daughter lost a beloved teacher.
November 25, 2013 at 6:59 pm
Debbie Faith Mickelson
I see that I have seasonal themes especially since PiBoIdMo is during November. I may try this another time of year to see what pops up. Thanks for sharing.
November 25, 2013 at 7:27 pm
Susan Groh
Excellent ideas. I’ve been scribbling out notes for books along the lines of children dealing with difficult illnesses. I haven’t seen many and definitely think they could be helpful.
November 25, 2013 at 7:33 pm
Amy Cohas
Thank you so much for choosing this topic. I have one idea that deals with a sad subject and have been grappling with whether to give it a happy ending, or a less happy one that is still upbeat.
November 25, 2013 at 7:39 pm
Evie Hjartarson
I am going to see if I can find a theme in my notebook of ideas. Great post.
November 25, 2013 at 7:43 pm
tiddles1
Thanks Wendy for reminding us about the importance of these difficult life events. You have triggered some ideas for me – thank you.
November 25, 2013 at 7:46 pm
Helen Ross
Thanks Wendy for reminding us about the importance of writing about these difficult life events to share with children, and their families. You have triggered some PiBoldMo ideas for me – thank you.
November 25, 2013 at 7:50 pm
Elaine Kiely Kearns
Thanks for a thoughtful post, Wendy. Life is hard sometimes isn’t it? Perhaps we shouldn’t shy away from writing these types of books, especially to help a child.
November 25, 2013 at 8:00 pm
thiskidreviewsbooks
Great post. I need to read the 5 books you had left. 🙂
November 25, 2013 at 8:05 pm
Mishka Jaeger
Oh. My. Dog. Wendy!
Yes I have indeed noticed a theme this year. Many ideas about journeys and adventures. I’m in a place of transition in my life. I was reading your post while nursing my 6 month old and I must still be ragingly hormonal because I caught an idea like a brick to the head.
It was James Barrie’s quote from Peter Pan, which I read at age 5 “To die will be an awfully big adventure.”
I have some close and recent experience here. But for the love of what, can I write such a thing – and from the perspective of the CHILD? A book for the child as well as those who love him? And without being gushy?
And I get this idea while nursing a healthy 6 month old? Yowch.
I used to do some illustrations for Starlight and there are a lot of sick children. Many who die quite young and know darn well they are going to. This is a heartbreakingly dark place to go for a children’s book. I don’t know if others have made a stab at this subject outside of special publications, and it’s been a long time since I read “Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes, ” But perhaps we artists need to shine a little light on this subject as well for an even younger audience. I’m not sure if I can do this but time will tell. And I wanted to share this idea.
A very good post from you to get us thinking! Thank you.
November 25, 2013 at 8:11 pm
Nancy Churnin
Thanks for the great post, Wendy. I have a couple of manuscripts on difficult themes. You’re right, kids who are struggling need to know they’re not alone, that someone’s been through what they’re going through. That’s one of the great things the right book can do.
November 25, 2013 at 8:16 pm
Leslee Anne Hewson
Great post. Thank you for sharing. Most of my themes have been on a happy and whimsical but you’ve given me a lot of food for thought and perhaps it’s time to tackle the more serious aspects of life. I’ll give it a shot. Thanks.
November 25, 2013 at 8:21 pm
Holly Murphy
A close friend and young mother of 5 died earlier this year. I have been helping out with the kids, and have had the idea of writing a children’s book based on the experience, that would hopefully be helpful to kids that go through these types of losses. Thank you for your ‘permission.’ Maybe I will move beyond the thought stage now.
November 25, 2013 at 8:22 pm
Cathy C. Hall
I think there’s a definite need for books on serious issues–I’m not sure I’m the one to write them, but something to consider. Thanks!
November 25, 2013 at 8:30 pm
Carrie Brown
Thanks for this post, Wendy. I attempted to write my first “difficult issue” book this July after my sister lost her newborn baby. It is very challenging to write these issues into a picture book, but it is not impossible. Thanks for the inspiration to revisit this and add a new idea to my list.
November 25, 2013 at 8:31 pm
Peyton Leung
Thanks for the thoughtful post, Wendy. I definitely believe that picture books can be wonderful ways to express difficult topics. I hope that I can come up with a story that can contribute to this theme.
Thank-you, Tara, for bringing so many awesome posts together!
November 25, 2013 at 8:38 pm
Jenny Blum
Thanks Wendy. During PiBoIdMo I have noticed a theme running through many of my ideas. I would love to have more fun and create imaginative silly stories but maybe that is not me. Many of my stories are more wistful childhood memories, I just have to be aware that they are actually stories rather than descriptions. You have given me the confidence to go on!
November 25, 2013 at 9:07 pm
John Cooper
I just checked my list for themes. 90% silly, but a couple with deeper issues. They’ be the more challenging ones to do well, heavy themes whilst still retaining a light touch…
November 25, 2013 at 9:26 pm
Dawnyelle
What a wonderful post! Thank you!
November 25, 2013 at 10:37 pm
Amy
Thank you for giving me the push to further explore some ideas I’ve dismissed.
November 25, 2013 at 11:13 pm
Lynn A. Davidson
My main theme for story ideas seems to be animals and nature, but on my list I have an idea for a book on the topic of Alzheimer’s since I’m a caregiver for my father who has that horrid disease. I hadn’t thought as much about a child’s book about cancer (my mother died of cancer) since that is a tougher one for me to see from a child’s perspective. It’s emotionally painful in a different way. Perhaps that is one I should consider, though.
Thanks for a post to start us thinking beyond the coming-up-with-ideas phase.
November 25, 2013 at 11:25 pm
yetteejo
Not all of my ideas have been funny or silly. Some have been sad. Kids are always trying to understand what happens around them. I think of my job as a writer is to help them make sense of their world.
November 25, 2013 at 11:26 pm
Jill Siegel
Thanks for your post! It was nice to read a post about the importance of books about ‘difficult life issues’. A book that I wrote/illustrated with a serious theme is going to be published by Guardian Angel Publishing soon…
November 26, 2013 at 12:14 am
Perfecting Motherhood
This is a good reminder and I’m sure some of us will like to explore these themes. I’d personally have a hard time writing on some difficult subjects, as I tend to focus on the positive and avoid this type of uncomfortable situation, for good or bad. I think laughter is the best medicine. 🙂
November 26, 2013 at 12:49 am
Judith Snyder
You are right. Many of my ideas fall into similar categories, too. Interesting.
November 26, 2013 at 1:20 am
viviankirkfield
This is a wonderful reminder, Wendy…the bumpy moments in our lives make for great stories. I’ve been working on a pb this past year that deals with a deployed parent and how the child must cope with the ache that never goes away.
Goodbye Mousie is one of my favorites…the death of a pet is often the first time a young child must face saying goodbye forever.
I’m sad that PiBoIdMo is almost over…but very excited to get busy with the ideas in my journal that are poking me to pay attention to them.:)
November 26, 2013 at 1:59 am
Stella Jane Stauffer
Thanks, Wendy. Interesting thoughts. Sometimes addressing these difficult issues are best done by a third party…that being a book.
November 26, 2013 at 2:06 am
Lynn Anne Carol
Life just isn’t pretty sometime. Thanks for the sensitive post.
Life’s difficult issues is usually the smallest section in most libraries.
Thanks again,
Lynn
November 26, 2013 at 2:12 am
Cecilia Clark
Thank You Wendy, You jogged an idea into being. 🙂
November 26, 2013 at 2:22 am
B Lee Draper
I love that description: ‘the bumpy places’. A great reminder that kids need guidance through lots of situations & a happy, bubbly, feel-good story isn’t the only way to go. Cheers.
November 26, 2013 at 3:04 am
Dani Duck
I have thought of this! I discovered that writing about these life issues is really hard. Even have a person in my critique group who is trying to write one. It’s so difficult, but when she gets it finished it will be a wonderful book to help people through these situations.
Now I need to go look at my ideas and put them into catagories. See how many I have. Kind of scary but fun as well!
November 26, 2013 at 7:31 am
lindamartinandersen
Picture books about tough stuff is certainly needed. They may not make the best bedtime stories, but they certainly help children and their parents through hard times. Thanks for encouraging us to consider this topic.
November 26, 2013 at 8:08 am
MSackman
Writing about such tough topics could be therapeutic for the author as well as the reader. A children’s book can help explain or at least give opportunity for discussion about topics that most adults prefer to avoid with young children. Great idea.
November 26, 2013 at 9:13 am
Gail Kamer
Thanks for the connections to life
November 26, 2013 at 9:24 am
Wendy Martin Art
I wanted to thank everyone individually, but the blog tells me I can’t. So Thank you everyone for all your wonderful comments and insights.
November 26, 2013 at 10:27 am
Barbara Messinger
Thanks for sharing!
November 26, 2013 at 1:05 pm
Kelly Vavala
Very inspirational! I agree, it is often difficult to deal with some of life’s twists and turns, I know it helps me to write about it, even if it’s in a journal (for my eyes only)…thank you for sharing!
November 26, 2013 at 1:39 pm
Lindsay Bonilla
Thanks for this helpful suggestion about tackling the hard topics. You’ve already given me an idea for today — one that strikes close to my own heart and I’m excited to explore the possibilities! Thanks again!
November 26, 2013 at 2:01 pm
Jessica
We should not be afraid to write about difficult situations just because we don’t want to make people sad. Sometimes, stories like these help kids/people feel less alone and deal with the situations better.
November 26, 2013 at 3:14 pm
The Ink Pond
These books are a necessity and helpful to children (and parents) going through difficult situations. Thank you for writing this post.
~Tia Svardahl
November 26, 2013 at 3:33 pm
Theanna
Thank you for your post. We all have to deal with difficult situations, even as children. It is great to have a safe way to communicate their fears and anxieties.
November 26, 2013 at 3:39 pm
Michelle O'Hara Levin
What’s it mean if my ideas are ALL over the map?? 🙂
November 26, 2013 at 5:53 pm
Janet Halfmann
Books are great for helping kids (and adults) deal with tough situations. Plan to add some of these tough ideas to my list.
November 26, 2013 at 6:31 pm
Kelly Parker
It’s funny, people always say “I could write a novel about my family” well, why not a picture book!
November 26, 2013 at 7:23 pm
Holly Bliss
Great suggestion 🙂
November 26, 2013 at 8:26 pm
helen dening
Thank you , Wendy. The hard stuff needs to be written so why not me (us). There are too many hurting children and their feelings, concerns, and questions need to be validated. Writing the picture book may be the answer.
November 26, 2013 at 9:12 pm
Debra
It’s a valid point, but those are not my favorite kinds of kids books, although I realize they do serve a purpose.
November 26, 2013 at 9:59 pm
Jacqueline
Most of my ideas this month have been funny and quirky, so this is something for me to think about. Thanks for the suggestion.
November 26, 2013 at 10:37 pm
Jane R Cooper
Books can offer solace, advice, and models for wading through difficult times for children – look at the plethora of self-help adult books. Thanks for giving us valuable insight into a niche for kids….
November 27, 2013 at 12:02 am
blanchebaxter
Thank you or this awesome post! Kids experience so many things in life, not all of them pleasant, and they really do need books to help them understand all of them. Great reminder!
November 27, 2013 at 8:34 am
Kathy Cornell Berman
Thanks for this post Wendy. I don’t like remembering the bumpy times, but you are right, there is always something in there that children can relate to. More good books are needed for children dealing with difficult times. Thanks for the reminder.
November 27, 2013 at 3:11 pm
shiela fuller
I too, have a theme going, but I am not surprised at all. Thank you for pointing it out and making us aware.
November 27, 2013 at 3:56 pm
Penny Parker Klostermann
Oh how I like to avoid the hard stuff in life. Thanks for reminding us how important these stories are for childre
November 27, 2013 at 3:59 pm
Marcy P.
My husband is a teacher and their class pets… two mice, just passed away. I think we need the “Goodbye Mousie” book. But I’m a counselor… and I think this post is spot-on. We need good books that walk kids through difficult things.Thanks for this post!
November 27, 2013 at 4:24 pm
Claire Annette Noland
This is a timely article. Our family’s favorite holiday has always been thanksgiving – and one year we hit a very bumpy road which involved my father’s sudden death, 11 year old nephew’s cancer diagnosis, my mother diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, and my son’s ocd, tourette’s and asperger’s.
You are right. Stories are needed to get kids through tough times.
Flash forward 5 years – we have emerged stronger, have learned so much and now are getting ready to gather for Thanksgiving. At the center of this is a tablecloth handed down from my great-grandmother. And that is where the story begins, and ends.
Thanks you for sharing.
November 27, 2013 at 4:25 pm
Rene Aube
Thanks for affirming some of my ideas…sometimes it’s difficult to know what is NOT appropriate for the little ones.
November 27, 2013 at 7:25 pm
RadSheri
I have a story from last year’s PiboIdMo that is a subject that is like one of these books. I thought is was inappropriate for pbs . I need to work on it.
November 27, 2013 at 8:03 pm
ammwrite
That person IS me, Wendy! Ann Magee
November 27, 2013 at 9:23 pm
Jennifer Voigt Kaplan
Thanks! You’ve sparked some ideas already.
November 27, 2013 at 9:43 pm
laura516
A new topic to explore. Thanks.
November 28, 2013 at 12:06 pm
ptnozell
As I work at a breast cancer charity and always am scrambling & dealing with tough issues, glad to be reminded that there is a need in the market for “bumpy issues” books.
November 28, 2013 at 1:20 pm
littledbl
Thanks for sharing. I sell Usborne Books and we do get requests for life books.
November 29, 2013 at 5:48 am
Tracey Jackson
Thank you for this perspective…and I know of a few mothers who seek out picture books to help deal with particularly problems that they face with their children. It is a genuine need and can really help. A few things have come to mind that I could work on.
November 29, 2013 at 9:46 am
Susanne Whitehouse
What a good reminder that children sometimes need the tough subjects too.
November 29, 2013 at 11:24 am
Angela De Groot
It’s not all butterflies and moonbeams for so many kids. Thanks for steering me in a different direction.
November 29, 2013 at 3:34 pm
Mary Flynn
Your so right, sometimes kids lives are not all sunshine and rainbows and books on these tough subjects need to be out there
November 29, 2013 at 4:28 pm
Priya Gopal
thank you
November 29, 2013 at 5:59 pm
patientdreamer
I thought I had already posted here…. beautiful illustrations. Great post about writing the hard stuff. Thanks.
Diane Tulloch.
November 29, 2013 at 9:08 pm
Denise Bowman
Thank you for this thoughtful post.
November 29, 2013 at 11:37 pm
wendymyersart
Boy, I’m thankful for those authors who tackle these subjects because they are so important. I just don’t think I could do one. I’ve had boulders in my road, and I seem to be able to use them in writing MG novel, but not PB. Maybe one day. Thanks for the nice post.
November 30, 2013 at 12:49 am
angiekarcher
I have an idea that fits right into this suggestion. Thx!
November 30, 2013 at 9:24 am
dzipeto
Your post prompted an idea!! Thank you!! There are a lot of difficulties in childhood that can be used and shared!
I look forward to looking at your illustrations!
Diana Zipeto
November 30, 2013 at 10:44 am
alwaysbedancing
I was surprised at the beginning of this challenge all my ideas revolved around 2 themes but I had some novel ideas throughout is process and have been very surprised at some gems I came up with
November 30, 2013 at 4:01 pm
carolmunrojww
I notice themes in my ideas lists and in the mss I actually get written. Why do I find myself writing so much about the two things I so dislike — snow and cooking? LOL
November 30, 2013 at 9:10 pm
vijikc
I happy to say I have written about the a difficult time — I takes inner strength to writ about it. Thank you!
November 30, 2013 at 9:49 pm
Tracey M. Cox
Wendy,
Hi to another transplanted NYer!!! I noticed a theme with me too! I think you are right about writing about difficult times. It helps us face fears and also lets the reader know they are not alone!
November 30, 2013 at 11:38 pm
cheryllovestoread
I do have an idea for a PB that explains Tourette Syndrome in ways young kids can understand. My adult son has severe TS and we are seeing symptoms in my 5 yr old grandson. I want to explain it in such a way that seeing it in others is ‘no big deal’…just one more variation in this big human family. I hope I can pull it off.
November 30, 2013 at 11:48 pm
laurenhk
As a Child Psychotherapist, I really appreciate the books that tackle the hard topics. Thank you for your post!
December 1, 2013 at 2:09 am
amomnextdoor
I was so thrilled to be introduced to your work and to find Ordinary Girl: A Magical Child. I am always looking for books about the Wheel of the Year to read to my kids. I actually think my list tends to be a bit heavy on the heavy stuff…I could use a little more silly. But it’s really nice to hear validation for the themes that obsess me.
December 1, 2013 at 6:37 pm
SevenAcreSky
Wendy, this is a particularly good post for me. Looking back I can see that I’m a ‘happy-funny’ writer, as most of my stories are humorous or funny. I NEED to explore writing about difficult subjects. Thanks so much for this challenge.
December 1, 2013 at 10:22 pm
DianeKHower
As a counselor in schools and a special education teacher with middle schoolers going through change, honesty from a caring voice that resonates gets a two thumbs up from me. Thanks.
December 2, 2013 at 2:45 pm
Kirsten Carlson (@kirstencarlson)
I like hearing about the pattern you found in your writing, the themes of creativity.
December 3, 2013 at 12:38 am
Laurie J. Edwards
I like your idea to look for bumpy places in life as inspiration.