“This person has no business being in children’s books.”
Read that again.
Imagine it being said in front of a crowd of over a hundred of your peers and various industry editors and art directors… at the NY SCBWI conference.
Your work is up in front of a big auditorium on a video screen with a panel with loud microphones when these words are spoken…
Imagine that person that it was said about was YOU.
DON”T WORRY! It wasn’t.
It was ME.
In 2009.
Yes. An art director declared me as a person who has NO BUSINESS being in children’s books … in front of the entire world of children’s books.
It felt worse than the worst college art critique I could have ever imagined. I was a grown woman. I had already had a hot career as a hot shot in cartoon merchandise. I shrunk in my seat. I wanted to run out of the room. My heart pounded.
I went home that night on the train back to Long Island… and cried. Crying on The Long Island Rail Road is like visiting Dante’s bonus level of hell. Those words echoing in my head…
The Art Director who said it—we shall call: “The A.D. WHO SHALL NOT BE NAMED”—but that name was burned into my mind. Branded onto my frontal lobe. I went home to google the crap out of this person. Bleary and blood-shot-eyed hours later…I knew everything they had ever worked on. I was sure some day… I’d encounter this A.D…
Now, I wasn’t automatically like Scarlet O’Hara shaking my fist in the air against the sunset vowing that “Tomorrow is another day!” No… I hit rock bottom. I questioned it all. Why? Why children’s books? Was I nuts to think I was good enough? Was I certifiably insane to think that I had the talent and ideas and stories to share with kids?
I went down, down, down into a pit of self doubt. I spent the good part of the next six months doing nothing. Hanging on to those words for a good long while…. but…
You just can’t keep a good pencil down… so eventually, I found myself, drawing myself out of that hole. I drew for myself. I made all kinds of silly art. Whatever I wanted to draw and paint, I made. I allowed myself to indulge in my imaginative whims. Whatever floated my boat, floated out of my pencil. This was new. The feeling of having nothing to lose, so why not? I was no longer thinking about what I thought the publishing industry wanted to see. I was drawing what I wanted to see for myself. I told myself stories as I drew. I wrote them down in messy notebooks.
Funny thing about this… I liked what I was drawing. So, I put it into my portfolio.
Then I had two important people enter my life. One a successful illustrator, who told me I WAS good. The other, my first agent. Who—obviously thought I was good enough to sign. That was the first time I thought of The A.D. Who Must Not be Named… and thought “…one day…you are gonna eat your words…!”
A year went by. I showed my portfolio a lot. The more I showed it—the better I got at reading the reviewer’s body language and interpreting the feedback. I listened at critiques but I chewed up the feedback and spit out what did not taste right.
I started to trust my own vision. The vision of what I wanted to do and who I wanted to be as an illustrator and maybe just maybe, a writer too.
I got my first books as an illustrator. One was a novelty book and some early readers. They were for small publishers and I found the work to be not what I wanted for myself. I wanted a picture book with a big publisher.
I went back to the 2011 SCBWI NY Winter Conference. I entered a piece in the art showcase and won an honor award. I got up on the same stage where “A.D. Gate “ went down and got hugs and recognition. Talk about a weird moment. I thought of that Art Director then… and those words. This time—those words felt like a dare.
“Oh yeah, A.D. Who Must Not be Named? I have no business in children’s books? You just watch me…” I was hoping that person would be there. I found out who was on the jury for the show. (The Art Director Who Must Not Be Named was not one of them.) I decided to find each one of the judges and meet them.
I did that for the next six months. I was like a bounty hunter. I crossed each one of the judges of a list as I met them. I made some amazing connections. I got my all of my work and myself in front of the eyes that already had a good feeling about what I do.
Some time went by. I did a lot of work on story ideas and characters. Still no bites from big publishers… so I did something way out of my comfort zone. I applied to give a character design workshop at the NE SCBWI Spring 2012 conference. While I was there… I got my first offer.
Donna Mark, Art Director at Bloomsbury wanted me to illustrate a middle grade chapter book called “The Quirks – Welcome to Normal”.
Take that Art Director Who Must Not Be Named.
Then I got a call from Alison Donalty, Art Director at Balzer and Bray, an imprint at Harper Collins. Another middle grade chapter book.
Those words from The A.D. Who Must Not Be Named were barely audible any longer. Now I HAD business in children’s books!
Next—an un-ending amount of calls about a character on a postcard that I mailed out… all from art directors and agents from all of the major publishing houses…
My first picture book as author/illustrator will be from Balzer and Bray as well , “Louise Loves Art”.
Those words in my head? Silenced.
“Who were you again? Oh, an art director? Oh yeah… that one who said something cruel…I think I remember your name… wait… I may have to google you…”
TWO more picture books with Harper Collins.
You, A.D. Who Must Not Be Named, have been (almost entirely) wiped from my memory.
You see, it’s kind of fabulous to have revenge—validation—someone to point to as a huge road block that I decided to drive through. I defied his label of me because only I can define myself. Don’t tell me I can’t—cause I will show you—not just that I can- but I will—and I will do it big.
Maybe… just maybe… I should be a tad grateful. That person forced me to grow. They could have been a hell of a lot more tactful in their choice of words in front of all of those people!!!! BUT—they don’t call these things “growing pains” for nothing….
I want everyone to take away from this, REJECTION is not a done deal. Critiques are not the end of the world. Public humiliation is tough—but if you know yourself—you can shed it. IF you hold on to who you are and what you do that is uniquely you and do it to the best of your ability. Do not stop! Keep getting better through the work. Follow your own heart—your own head—the beat of your own drum. Show those people in publishing—YOU are here.
These days, I am contacted, happily, by many art directors.
Last week, The A.D. Who Must Not Be Named contacted me. “Just wanted to drop a line to say that I love your work.”
One day—I will shake that hand and be gracious—cause that is what professionals do, but in my head… I will hear… BAZINGA!!!!
Kelly Light’s pencil is sharpened and she’s not afraid to use it.. She is currently working hard on her first three books. All due out Spring 2014: ,THE QUIRKS – WELCOME TO NORMAL, written by Erin Soderberg (Bloomsbury), ELVIS AND THE UNDERDOGS, written by Jenny Lee (Balzer and Bray), LOUISE LOVES ART, by Kelly Light (Balzer and Bray). Spring 2015 brings LOLA KNOWS A LOT, by Jenna McCarthy (Harper Collins).
Kelly lives in Long Island and currently has power!! She is, right now, drawing in her attic studio surrounded by old radios, books, cartoon collectibles and is usually singing very loudly. Head over to Kelly’s website and read her blog all the way back to 2009 and maybe you can figure out who The Art Director Who Must Not Be Named is! Sketch along with her on Twitter @kellylight.
I love Kelly’s art, and Louise loves art period, and now you can love both Kelly *and* Louise because you can win a Louise sketch by Kelly! Just comment on this post to enter (one comment per person). A winner will be randomly selected one week from today. Good luck!
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November 9, 2012 at 12:09 am
katiemillsgiorgio
Another great post…thank you so much for sharing that moment and journey with us Kelly. And I love your art!
November 9, 2012 at 12:22 am
Donna Earnhardt
THIS IS a WONDERFUL POST! I needed to read it. HAd a similar (though not as gut wrenching) experience this past fall at our SCBWI conference in a first pages session. So glad you kept on keeping on!
November 9, 2012 at 12:24 am
Howey McAuley
I loved this story. I’ve followed Kelly Light on Twitter for a while. This was a real inspiration. And that AD was an A-hole.
November 9, 2012 at 12:24 am
Carrie Ann Brown
This could not have come at a better time for me! Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I have resolved to climb out my pity pit and start believing in my work again!
November 9, 2012 at 12:26 am
Kim Mounsey
Love this story. Very inspiring! You go girl!
November 9, 2012 at 12:29 am
Laura Zarrin
OMG! I can’t believe that happened to you. I needed to read this post so badly. You are woman, hear you ROAR!
November 9, 2012 at 12:32 am
Phyllis Harris
What an awesomely cool story, Kelly. You know I love your art! Thanks for giving us all a big boost of inspiration!
November 9, 2012 at 12:43 am
Kari Allen (@Kari_D_Allen)
Love your artwork. Picked up one of your postcards at NESCBWI because it made me smile!
November 9, 2012 at 12:44 am
Michelle Henninger
Great post Kelly. I had a similar experience at a NESCBWI Conference, although I wasn’t publicly humiliated (you poor girl! Evil, I tell you!). I was made to feel like a worm, with no idea what was going on at my first portfolio critique. Specifically, I remember … “well, I guess you like the color blue.” And I still harbor the wish to one day have them come knocking on my door. You are an inspiration my friend. I’m so happy that things have turned out the way they have. You deserve all of it.
November 9, 2012 at 12:45 am
Chris Obers
Thank you!!!!
November 9, 2012 at 12:46 am
Linda Moore
Revengagenda! Illustrating well is the best revenge.
November 9, 2012 at 1:04 am
Angie Breault
Wow! Thank you. I love to write for myself and my children. I started illustrating my own stories, because I enjoyed it, and I always had a soft spot for drawing and art. You’ve encourage me that not only can we go far in what we specialize in, but if we stretch ourself and practice, practice, practice, work work, work anything is possible. Thank you! God Bless, Angie
November 9, 2012 at 1:17 am
Romelle Broas
I can’t believe A.D. Who Must Not Be Named actually said those words. Aren’t conferences supposed to be encouraging and inspiring? Anyway, you got the ultimate revenge! What a fascinating story of survival and perserverence and drive. Well, I love your artwork!
November 9, 2012 at 1:17 am
Kelli Thrasher-Brooks
What an amazing experience that must have been! I personally think Kelly is ridiculously talented and am grateful that she shares the stories of her experiences. Life is all about the journey and we’ve all had ups and downs. It’s nice to get a little insight to the bumps coming up so we can try to improve on them now to hopefully avoid those areas. So happy to hear power is back and that the horizon is looking much brighter for such a talented and funny woman! Congratulations Kelly!
November 9, 2012 at 1:19 am
Bea Bellingham
Haha, bazinga!
I guess that’s all you can do when you get rejected; just keep plugging away and before you know it your umpteen picture books down the road.
…can some one please reject me too?!
November 9, 2012 at 1:24 am
Rebecca Colby
A great pick-me-up story that truly inspires hope! Not everyone would have the strength to pick themselves up again after that. I’m glad you did and that that you shared your story. You need a lot of self-belief, courage and perserverance in this business!
November 9, 2012 at 1:27 am
S.H. Sherlock
Awesome story! Go Kelly! Your Louise is adorable. She looks just like me in 3rd grade, ha ha.
November 9, 2012 at 1:28 am
Talynn Lynn
How brae you are! All I can think to say is YOU GO GIRL! This was such an inspiring story. And telling stories while I draw has become my new mantra. I adore that concept and will use it from now on:) Thank you for sharing!
November 9, 2012 at 1:28 am
Kjersten Hayes
Thank you so so much for this story. And for sharing it.
November 9, 2012 at 1:31 am
sketched out
It’s mind-blowing that an A.D. would be cruel enough to publicly humiliate someone, but more mind-blowing that it was YOU! You who are awesome! But I do love the take-away from this: “REJECTION is not a done deal!” We can all learn from that! Thanks, Kelly for sharing that inspiring story with us!
November 9, 2012 at 1:49 am
theitaliancob
Inspirational story, lovely character designs!
November 9, 2012 at 1:52 am
Tracy Bishop
Wow. What an incredible post. Your resilience and strength is a great example to everyone!
November 9, 2012 at 2:13 am
Kristiane Pedersen
Frankly my dear….you are far too talented and amazing! Thank you for your inspirational words of wisdom. I wanna dance, I gotta dance! So it’s right back to the drawing board! See you on the dance floor.
November 9, 2012 at 2:22 am
Kerry Mazengia
Thank you for that heartfelt and inspirational story. Rejection is one of the hardest hurdles I am facing. It is nice to hear a success story behind such a terrible rejection. I love your artwork – I think it is amazing! Keep putting out the “bazinga!” I plan to share your message and great artwork with my ten year old, who is an aspiring picture book artist!
November 9, 2012 at 2:26 am
Richa Jha
Inspirational post, Kelly. Belief in oneself is the only thing that will never let us down. You just proved it right! I’ll wait for the day when you post your BAZINGA moment up on your website 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 2:45 am
Kathryn Ault Noble
Such an inspiring story, Kelly! You are a strong woman. Ages ago in high school, I arrogantly expected to win the art award again my senior year. I was stunned when the art teacher called another name at the big awards meeting. I went to his office in tears and asked why. He said I would never be a true artist because I was more interested in chasing boys. HAha! The girl that won? She became a nurse. He gave me the gift of rejection, I think knowing that I would do anything to prove him wrong.
November 9, 2012 at 3:00 am
tinamcho
Wow, Kelly, you’ve been through a lot. Thanks for the lesson, to sticking to our guns and making a name for ourselves. I probably would’ve given up. Congratulations on all your upcoming books.
November 9, 2012 at 3:32 am
Larissa Marks
Wow, what a story of perseverance! Thanks for sharing, Kelly.
November 9, 2012 at 4:44 am
kikimoo
Great characters. I can imagine their personalities through your sketches- and yours through your inspiring blog. Thanks Kelly!
November 9, 2012 at 5:23 am
debraaelliott1960
Cool artwork! Thanks for sharing.
November 9, 2012 at 5:51 am
Beth Gallagher
What a great post and reminder that rejection is only in the eye of the beholder! 😀 Hard to swallow, but you’re right – it doesn’t have to define us. Thanks for this! By the way, I love your work too!
November 9, 2012 at 5:54 am
mona
Inspiring post. Love the ‘bounty hunter’ simile. We should all stalk as diligently as you did. And, all the rest of this is general conversation: you have the most beautiful blue eyes! Glad you have power. I wish for everyone to be warm.
November 9, 2012 at 5:59 am
Hazel G Mitchell
Yeah baby. You got POWER. The KellyQuake. Listening and not listening is something we have to learn … funny I blogged about a road block this week, but from my childhood. One who told me I wasn’t destined to be a writer. Soon, they will see. Unfortunately they are probably dead now, but, that’s not the point. Having something to push against helps. Thanks for sharing and looking forward to seeing you on your book tour (s). And collecting those awards. AND, making kids smile and think.
November 9, 2012 at 6:29 am
Andrea Mack
Thanks so much for sharing your story! Iti’s inspiring. I’m glad you had the determination to keep working! I love your drawings – they have so much personality.
November 9, 2012 at 6:50 am
Deborah Cuneo
Kelly, AWESOME STORY!!! Thank you for sharing what I’m sure was a very difficult time.I am so happy it turned out the way it did, congrats on all your successes! Your story touched me in more ways than you know and gave me hope and determination to carry on no matter what…thanks!
November 9, 2012 at 7:00 am
Terri
I once was told by a very famous author, who should remain nameless as well, she didn’t think I had what it took to write a book and she didn’t think I could be taught either. I was hurt but her words forced me to grow and today i am a better writer because of it i also learned how to become more sensitive with the words I use when working with others.
November 9, 2012 at 7:03 am
Lori Mozdzierz
“One day—I will shake that hand and be gracious—cause that is what professionals do, but in my head… I will hear… BAZINGA!!!!”
Ha! I would so have a Pretty Woman moment on the AD Not to Be Named. Okay, in my mind I’d tell him he made a HUGE mistake. LOL!
Super post, Kathy! Your characters personalities shine through. 😀
November 9, 2012 at 10:58 am
Julie
I love that – a Pretty Woman moment! 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 7:12 am
DaNeil Olson
Inspiring! Many of us never begin our dreams because we are afraid of failure or jarring critiques like yours. Your strength and perseverance are an inspiration and I applaud you. Thank you for your post. 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 7:15 am
Cindy
Love your chutzpah and your art Kelly. As they say, “Living well is the best revenge.” I suppose you could insert “drawing well” also!
November 9, 2012 at 7:16 am
Yvonne Mes
That was uplifting, and great to see that passion and perseverance pay off.
November 9, 2012 at 7:23 am
Sharon Putnam
What a wonderful story of perseverance! Thank you for sharing your journey. Rejection is rough, but it does not define who we are unless we let it. All through my life whenever someone has told me, “You can’t,” my immediate response has always been, “Yeah, just watch me!”
November 9, 2012 at 7:23 am
Lisa
Such an amazing post. I’ve definitely experienced that moment… And though it’s really hard to get back to working, it’s almost harder imagining NOT working. So you go back to your drawing table, you pick up your pencil, and you do the only think you can: you draw. Thanks so much for sharing, Kelly.
November 9, 2012 at 7:39 am
The Ink Pond
Love, love your work and your story! Inspiring! Thank you, Kelly.
Tia Svardahl, The Ink Pond
November 9, 2012 at 7:42 am
patrickguindon
I needed that. Thank you.
PS – LOVE Louise! Can’t wait to read the story!!
November 9, 2012 at 7:47 am
beingbellyeingbelly
Great post – thanks so much for sharing an inspirational story!
November 9, 2012 at 7:54 am
Alexa
Girl, you have heart! Thanks so much for this. Dying to win an original Kelly Light.
November 9, 2012 at 7:56 am
Cathy gifford
Wow what an inspiration you are. I had a grade five teacher that ruined my life by scaring me so badly I hated school from that point onwards and dropped out of school in grade 11. What gives people the right to judge others and others.
November 9, 2012 at 8:08 am
Amanda Sorenson (@AmandaDSorenson)
Amazing inspirational story! Congratulations on everything you do!
November 9, 2012 at 8:09 am
Bill Bibo
Amazing story. Success is the best revenge. Thanks for the encouragement.
November 9, 2012 at 8:09 am
The Backdoor Artist - Mary Livingston
Thanks for a wonderful post. You are gracious and inspiring.
November 9, 2012 at 8:14 am
Gail Kamer
That AD certainly was a great motivator for you. Almost makes me wonder if the AD had planned to do that to motivate! That’s being optimistic. Either way, a good motivational piece for the rest of us. Thanks for sharing your journey.
November 9, 2012 at 8:21 am
miki
Great storytelling, Kelly. I’m especially looking forward to your book Louise Loves Art. Getting beyond unkindness and doing what you love–those messages resonate with me. Thank you.
November 9, 2012 at 8:21 am
Laura Thieman
I think I held my breath as I read your entire article on the edge of my seat!!
Thank you sincerely!
November 9, 2012 at 8:22 am
Becky Hall
Thank you so very much for sharing your story! Best wishes for your continued success.
November 9, 2012 at 8:22 am
erin o'brien
What an amazing story. And good for you for moving forward instead of fading away.
November 9, 2012 at 8:23 am
Priscilla
Such a great story. That A.D. “has no business being in children’s books!” Wow.
In 2008, you and I both entered the Poster Showcase at NESCBWI Spring conference. You (not surprisingly) won the top award in the Unpublished category and I won an award in the People’s Choice category. I know that many of us knew, just from your art, that you’d be published within the near future. Once I started reading your blog posts and saw how wise and how funny you are, it was even more clear that you would hit it big.
It’s so reassuring to watch your success happen and yet so hard for me to believe YOU ever had doubts. As I roll through my weekly round of “I’m not good enough” thoughts, I’ll be thinking of you and your roadblock.
Thanks Kelly, for a huge dose of inspiration.
November 9, 2012 at 8:32 am
Marcy P.
Wow, that was really powerful. I wanted to insert my own line… after ADWMNBN gave you a positive comment… to say, “oh really? I though you said I had no business in children’s illustrating?” AHHHH! THAT’S WHAT I’d want to say!
But anyway… I just had to throw that in. Thank you for the encouragement. Deeply. It really, really does help to hear terribly embarrassing stories like yours… to keep us trudging through our own. BLESS YOU! And congrats. You have a new “cheerleader.” 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 8:40 am
lindamartinandersen
Kelly,
This shows how determined you were to make it. Your story is a great example of what to do when you hit a roadblock. Thanks so much for sharing.
November 9, 2012 at 8:40 am
Andrea Wang
Thank you – what an inspiring story! And I’m glad that AD finally got new glasses and a new perspective!
November 9, 2012 at 8:41 am
Elisa Robinson (@elisaitw)
Inspiring! What an amazing story. The power of persistence and believing in yourself strikes again!
November 9, 2012 at 8:42 am
Michelle Cusolito
Kelly, it’s no secret I’m a fan. I LOVE LOVE LOVE Louise and your work. One of your Louise postcards sits beside me on my writing desk for inspiration.
I just want to add that from the moment you entered the spring NE-SCBWI 2012 conference it was clear you are a force to be reckoned with! I’m so glad you plowed right through that horrific rejection.
November 9, 2012 at 8:44 am
Donna Black
I really love this post. Thank you for writing it.
November 9, 2012 at 8:44 am
Tyler Watkins
That is fantastic. Very inspiring. Found your post from a friends post on Facebook…Heidi Stemple.
And, btw…I really like your art. Can’t wait to see the book and share it with my child.
You now have a new fan. Very cool.
November 9, 2012 at 8:46 am
Elizabeth Stevens Omlor
This post has given me hope! (As I am sure it has lot of other folks.) So glad you followed your heart and didn’t give up. Louise looks extremely loveable and I can’t wait to buy your book in 2014 and be part of this revenge on the A.D. Who Must Not Be Named. =) Congrats!
November 9, 2012 at 8:49 am
Jacqueline
This is one post I’ll never forget. I’m SO glad you didn’t give up, and I’m impressed with the gracious way you’ve dealt with that AD. That is a lesson in itself.
November 9, 2012 at 8:51 am
Emily Lim-Leh
Great story of rejection and triumph! Congrats on the new books…love the artwork!
November 9, 2012 at 8:58 am
Ann Ingalls
This very thing happened to me. At a conference, an highly respected editor stood on the stage, took one look at my manuscript, and threw it on the table announcing that the author of the work she just read had no business writing for children. I about choked. That same night, she sat next to me at dinner and before long, realized that I was the writer’s whose work she so disliked. I am sure she was more uncomfortable that I was. It’s such a personal thing. So very happy for you and Louse!!
November 9, 2012 at 8:58 am
Deb Marshall
Illustrators ROCK! And you are no exception. Thanks for sharing your story and giving us that push to just keep on keeping on. Hope to have an illustrator like you for one of my books one day, oh yes I do!
November 9, 2012 at 8:59 am
Robyn Campbell
Oh Kelly! What a journey you have had. Revenge is sweet. I am glad you did not give up your dream because of foolish AD!!! He motivated you. Yippee. Thank him when you see him. 🙂 Thanks for motivating us. *waving*
November 9, 2012 at 9:03 am
C. C. Gevry
Thanks for sharing your story with us. Something similar happened to me at a writers conference last year. Though submissions were read aloud anonymously, I knew the agent was snickering at mine and telling everyone, “How does this relate to kids today?” It was heartbreaking, but after the original sting I began making changes and my critique groups have been very positive about the revised manuscript. Hopefully it will all work out.
Congratulations on your success.
November 9, 2012 at 9:09 am
Laura Anne Miller
OUTrageous!! The A.D. must have had an argument with their spouse, or sore feet, or a migraine that was cutting off blood flow to his senses!! I couldn’t get through your post fast enough to see what happened….i LOVE happy endings!!! I’m going to print out your post and keep it in my inspiration file and if I’m lucky enough to win your drawing it will have a place of honor. My husband’s fav. line when someone says something like that is, “that’s okay, you have the right to be wrong.” You go, girl!!!
November 9, 2012 at 9:13 am
Julie Falatko
WOW. This is a great story. I am completely inspired by your strength and conviction!
November 9, 2012 at 9:15 am
laurimeyers
You know it doesn’t take any longer to respond in an encouraging way than to respond in a discouraging way. Ooh, energy thieves like that make me angrivated!
November 9, 2012 at 9:22 am
Blythe
Thank you so much for sharing, Kelly! You are a role model of true perseverance! I can’t wait to see the finished books you’ve been working on 🙂 http://www.behance.net/gallery/Character-Design/5851759
November 9, 2012 at 9:23 am
Diane Kress Hower
Great story Kelly. I have had some similar comments in different areas over the years. Sometimes, it is just what we need to hear to step up and really show off our stuff. I am so glad you chose to do that.
November 9, 2012 at 9:23 am
Angela De Groot
Ouch! Followed by, Wow!
Well done for getting up again.
November 9, 2012 at 9:30 am
Annie Silvestro
Fantastic post- thank you for sharing! Your work is beautiful!! Congrats!
November 9, 2012 at 9:32 am
Genevieve Petrillo
This story is incredible! That AD should’ve mentioned what he/she said way back when and owned the gigantic mistake. I wonder if he/she even remembers…. Ugh!
November 9, 2012 at 9:34 am
Beth MacKinney
I loved the way you turned rejection into a challenge. Good for you, Kelly. : )
November 9, 2012 at 9:34 am
Sue Poduska
I was at that conference. A friend — thank goodness not me — had a first page shot down in a similar manner. Mine was only shot down in a small group. Very, very brave of you to submit later. Love your sketches! We BOTH belong in children’s books.
November 9, 2012 at 9:36 am
Diana Murray
Yes! Yes! Yes! I just want to stand up and cheer! Thanks for sharing your experience with such honesty. It’s a tough business and sometimes it feels like all those road blocks are a test to see how much we really want it. Way to persevere! (But looking at your awesome work, I simply can’t fathom how those words were ever said to you. Um…huh?)
November 9, 2012 at 9:36 am
Erin Fennell
Great story of triumph, Kelly! Challenging negatives with positive actions can make the most amazing changes in our lives, as you have proven!
November 9, 2012 at 9:43 am
Kelly Light
WoW Thanks! I am so glad this tale of woe and WHOA! is relatable !! We can and should only do this work if it’s what we really really want to do from the core of our hearts. If we wanted an easy path… none of us would choose a creative path. These ups and downs come with the choice to be an artist, I think. My fave song… sung over and over and over the last seven years… http://www.metrolyrics.com/dont-rain-on-my-parade-lyrics-barbra-streisand.html
November 9, 2012 at 9:44 am
Dawnyelle
I absolutely love this post. It has added a little caffeine to my day. I have been following your blog and I love your lousie
November 9, 2012 at 9:47 am
Janet Smart
Good post. Some people don’t like to get their work critiqued, for fear of negative responses. We can all benefit from critiques. It hurts sometimes, but everyone has different opinions and we must listen to them and take it from there.
November 9, 2012 at 9:49 am
Kelly Parker
I love this post. I am very new to the picture book scene, and sometimes I have run into that A.D. Who Must Not Be Named. I will give her a name, its Kelly, and it’s me. Sometimes it is so hard not to doubt yourself, but thank you for inspiring us to push through and keep chugging along. One day, our time will come.
November 9, 2012 at 10:03 am
Judith L. Roth
This is so great! Sometimes rejection can make good things happen. Happened to me, too. Bazinga indeed!
November 9, 2012 at 10:03 am
Ashley Bankhead
This was a wonderful post. It reminded me that I need to write for me. It also reminded me that I need to write what inspires me. I, too, feel that rejection can be a very humbling yet growing time. For every rejection I have recieved, I have strived to get better. It is not easy, and it is discouraging, but it is worth it.
November 9, 2012 at 10:09 am
Desiree Batson
Bravo for hanging tough! Plug on everyone!
November 9, 2012 at 10:11 am
Suzanne Cordatos
What an inspiring story! While most of us don’t face such a a soul-crushing moment in PUBLIC, how many of us sit in those crowds with our very own devil-on-our-shoulder whispering in our ears we’ll n ever be as good as the pros on stage? Let’s all be a little more like YOU today!
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November 9, 2012 at 10:12 am
Cheryl
Keep on drawing!
Cheryl
November 9, 2012 at 10:13 am
Deborah Holt Williams
What a great story! I’m so glad you persevered and triumphed. It’s so important to keep going. For me the “Bazinga” comes when one magazine rejects a piece and another magazine buys it. Resubmit rejections, and keep on submitting!
November 9, 2012 at 10:13 am
suzannecordatos
Inspiring! Even if we never face such a public, soul-crushing moment, how many of us have our own devil-on-our-shoulder whispering doubts in our ear? Let’s be more like YOU today!
November 9, 2012 at 10:14 am
Jarm Del Boccio
Your words were music to my ears, Kelly…thanks so much for your determination to keep your dream and talent alive. We all benefitted by it!
November 9, 2012 at 10:33 am
laurieajacobs
A wonderful story. On occasion I’ve heard those words inside my head from my Inner Critic. Those inner road blocks are sometimes the hardest to plow through. You’ve given me added inspiration. Thanks.
November 9, 2012 at 10:38 am
Anne Bielby
Most inspiring post yet!
November 9, 2012 at 10:43 am
Debbie Meyer
Thanks for the inspiration, Kelly! You DO deserve to be in children’s publishing. And children all over the world deserve to be blessed by your creativity and fun characters/stories. Thank you for sticking with it! And to the rude AD . . . suck it. 😉
November 9, 2012 at 10:47 am
Jenn Bower
Kelly, thank you! I suffered the same humiliation this year from an AD both during my one-on-one critique and then during the panel in front of all my peers. It was so embarrassing since later that day I also stepped up to receive my Third Place certificate for the this year’s regional art contest. I walked away crying and feeling all those similar emotions. Adding insult to injury my own mother said ‘They are right. Your work doesn’t belong in picture books. You need to aim for something like the New Yorker.” *uhm, thanks? I think?* I am taking your lead and stepping back to find out what I LOVE in my pencil lines. I can’t thank you enough for sharing your path with us.
November 9, 2012 at 10:49 am
Linda Lodding
Thanks for giving me an umbrella, Kelly! I’m not letting anyone rain on my parade. Such a great story…with a happily ever after ending. What could be better?
November 9, 2012 at 10:49 am
A. Miller
Loved this post. Love your resilience. You could create an inspirational picture book for writers/illustrators based on this experience. Bravo!
November 9, 2012 at 10:56 am
Julie
WOW! WOW! WOW! Thank you for sharing your incredible story. I’m going to print it out and re-read it every time I get a painful rejection (and they’re all painful, aren’t they?) 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 11:00 am
Danielle Heitmuller
Thanks for the inspiring reminder to be true to yourself. I remember being told by my art teacher as I prepared a portfolio for college that I had no talent and should really give up. Ha! I have had one successful career in art and I’m hoping picture books will be my next one.
November 9, 2012 at 11:00 am
Jenn DesAutels Illustrator
Thank you Kelly! You rock! So as suggested I went to your blog to read that 2009 post… So heartbreaking living through that and the dark days afterwards. Thank you for sharing that story and “taking one for the team.” I also looked at your portfolio and recognized your piece (hysterical!) from the showcase at SCBWI NY 2011 (my first conference). Your post today is telling me (in a good way, honest) that my own work might need to push out of my careful safety zone. Brava to you, O heroine to illustrators! You go girl!
November 13, 2012 at 8:10 am
Kelly Light
yeah I call that “The blog post of DOOM”… something I kind of regretted posting about… but decided it was part of my journey and left it up. Thanks!!
November 9, 2012 at 11:04 am
Laura Lowman Murray
This is an incredibly powerful post, Kelly. And the way you told it was an example of someone who is a great storyteller as well. I am so sorry that happened, but I love the thought in the comments about “the gift of rejection.” You turned that outrageous rejection into a fire within, and it really was a gift in the long run. Writing and illustrating has so much to do with persistence – and you just proved it. Way to go! I loved your post – thank you.
November 9, 2012 at 11:14 am
Quinn Cole
Courage, your name is Kelly Light!
November 9, 2012 at 11:15 am
carterhiggins
BAZINGA. I kinda want to marry this post. Who knew that that TERRIBLE day in 2009 would bring hope to the hundreds? Thanks, Kelly.
November 9, 2012 at 11:16 am
Lori Alexander
Love this post, Kelly. So glad you try-tried again. Can’t wait for LOUISE LOVES ART…it looks adorable!
November 9, 2012 at 11:16 am
Jamie Michalak
“It’s kind of fabulous to have revenge—validation—someone to point to as a huge road block that I decided to drive through. I defied his label of me because only I can define myself. ” YES. Thanks for the inspiring post!
November 9, 2012 at 11:29 am
Yona
Love this story! Good for you Kelly!
November 9, 2012 at 11:30 am
Sally Phillips
I’m so glad you didn’t let a cruel remark rob us of your obvious talent. You are an inspiration on many levels. They say “the best revenge is living well” and you have surpassed that. Thank you for sharing your story of success–although you wouldn’t have called it that in 2009. I love your art–whimsical and fun!
November 9, 2012 at 11:31 am
viviankirkfield
Kelly, it takes courage…and a finely tuned sense of humor…to share a story like this one. You are so right…sometimes it takes a ‘shock’ like that one to help us take the next steps that will lead to our success. I’m so glad you kept on keeping on…and so are all the kids who will enjoy your awesome illustrations. 🙂 Thanks for adding another golden nugget to my PiBoIdMo treasure chest!
November 9, 2012 at 11:37 am
White Wolf Studio
This is the best story ever. I remember your Ripple project during the Gulf oil spill and always thought how creative you are. I’m thrilled for your success and will certainly look up your books when they come out. Sounds like a bunch of amazing work ahead of you.
November 9, 2012 at 11:38 am
B.J. Lee
Wow, what a post! I, too, have been sooo discouraged by criticism – not to the magnitude of your public scenario, of course – OMG, how terrible that must have been! Anyway, ( not good sentence structure here, I know) thanks for the encouragement to get back on my feet and stick to my own guns.
November 9, 2012 at 11:38 am
Natasha
A sketch of Louise by my desk would be an inspiring reminder to persevere. Glad to hear of your success!
November 9, 2012 at 11:40 am
Nancy Armo
Kelly, you got spunk!
It takes alot of spunk and courage to keep going in this business where the competition is fierce. Keep your saddle shoes on and your pencils sharp because you are going to be around for a long time. Love your work!
November 9, 2012 at 11:45 am
Kerri Kokias
Thanks for sharing your story. Have you seen this Tim Minchin song for Phil Daoust? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Onjdw_FXyw
November 9, 2012 at 11:51 am
Beth Stilborn
Thank you so much for sharing this story. Thank you even more for continuing to believe in yourself, and for showing the world what you can do! You ROCK!
November 9, 2012 at 11:55 am
Anna J. Boll
Reblogged this on annajboll and commented:
Sometimes the people who stand in our way inspire our creative journey as those who support us. Thank you to Kelly Light and Tara Lazar for this fabulous post.
November 9, 2012 at 12:02 pm
deborah freedman
Go, Kelly! I agree, that we can be defeated by criticism or learn from it— glad you soldiered on and can’t wait to see your upcoming books!
November 9, 2012 at 12:07 pm
LeslieG
I LOVED reading this story! Thanks a big bunch for sharing it.
November 9, 2012 at 12:10 pm
Lynn Alpert (@RedStepchild)
Thank you for sharing your story, Kelly. I can’t believe someone in the children’s book industry was so rude and discouraging! Thankfully, most of the people in the industry are just the opposite.
I will always remember your story as I add to my rejection collection, and think, “Someday I’ll be just like Kelly Light!”
November 9, 2012 at 12:13 pm
h1jackson
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story. Usually when life gives you lemons, you make lemonade, but in this case….When life gives you “AD Not To Be Mentioned” …..you go ahead and make children’s books! Can’t wait to read Louise Loves Art!
November 9, 2012 at 12:13 pm
Ann Marie Meyers
Hi Tara, I totally identify with everything you’ve said here. I take things way too seriously and if someone says something negative and 100 people say something positive, the negative is what will eat at me. I’m working on this though.
November 9, 2012 at 12:22 pm
Sandie Sing
You rock!
There’s not enough validation in the creative world. I want you to share your piece of mind with that AD someday. It’s so easy to step on the beginning writer or illustrator. Encouragement is important. After all, success breeds success.
November 9, 2012 at 12:24 pm
Sheri
Thank you Kelly. That was inspirational and helped get me back to the computer to write some more. It is daunting reading all the stories about getting an agent and an editor to look at your work but you made it all about letting them know you could do it. Now I am empowered to silence my biggest critic (family member) who thinks this is all a waste of time. Thanks.
November 9, 2012 at 12:28 pm
Ishta Mercurio (@IshtaWrites)
What a wonderful story! Good for you, Kelly, for driving through that roadblock.
November 9, 2012 at 12:33 pm
Robin Singer
Thank you for the story, Kelly! Not only did you persevere and prove that A.D. wrong, but by sharing your story, you’ve given a bunch of other writers and illustrators the inspiration to persevere through whatever roadblocks they (we) encounter! Thanks!!
November 9, 2012 at 12:36 pm
renajtraxel
I think you artwork is cute. Thanks for telling your story! You are brave!
November 9, 2012 at 12:36 pm
patientdreamer
Wow! What an awesome inspiring post. I probably would have crawled away, so thankyou for showing us how to fight back. Would love to see your “Pretty Woman” moment. Go you! and thankyou, very much!
November 9, 2012 at 12:46 pm
Cathy Ballou Mealey
My take away is to consider mistakes – those made by others and even by ourselves – as defining moments for reflection and recharging! Bazinga!
November 9, 2012 at 12:53 pm
Michelle Bradford
This is a very nice article. Thank you for contributing. I would like to share my favorite quote with regards to this subject by Albert Einstein, “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”
November 9, 2012 at 1:08 pm
jo
AWESOME! It boggles my mind how anyone could say that about your work…but really glad he had to eat crow and humble pie. Loved your post.
November 9, 2012 at 1:24 pm
evelynchristensen
What an amazing story! You definitely has what it takes, Kelly. Thank you for sharing, and best wishes for your continued success.
November 9, 2012 at 1:26 pm
Bobbie Henry
Great story. I admire your courage.
November 9, 2012 at 1:27 pm
Lynda Mullaly Hunt
I feel weird writing this because…erm…I don’t know you. At all. But, I think I love you. 🙂 YOU ROCK, Kelly. You deserve every great thing coming your way–Congrat’s! (And I really worry about that AD’s eyesight…)
November 13, 2012 at 8:17 am
Kelly Light
HA! Well- I hear that this person is usually a great person…maybe it was an off day..
November 9, 2012 at 1:51 pm
Anne Bromley
Thank you, Kelly, for this inspiring story that is painfully and joyfully true. The persistence that came out of pain has truly paid off. All the best to you!
November 9, 2012 at 1:57 pm
ALS
Thank you, Kelly! Thank you for not giving up. Thank you for inspiring the rest of us. And, thank you for reminding me of who I am and the dream I want so very much to become a reality. Keep on creating and inspiring the rest if us.
November 9, 2012 at 2:13 pm
michelleol
The thing that scares me most about entering the world of picture book writing is the lack of positive reinforcement and the abundance of the negative stuff. Thanks for this piece. I hope I can keep it in mind… often!
November 9, 2012 at 2:36 pm
Priscilla Mizell
THANK YOU for sharing this post. I returned to your blog and read your posts from February 2009, too, and I ached for your sorrow and doubt. Your journey is inspiring. I am so happy you found so much success!
November 9, 2012 at 2:38 pm
Rebecca Walton Evans
Very inspirational girl! And Kudos to you for not giving up!
November 9, 2012 at 2:55 pm
Anjali Amit
Thanks for this post. Bookmarked to read every morning before starting work.
November 9, 2012 at 3:06 pm
Laura Renauld
Now in my notebook: “REJECTION is not a done deal.” Thank you, Kelly!
November 9, 2012 at 3:08 pm
Kim Pfennigwerth
Kelly,
I don’t even know how you managed to make it to the LIRR but I am another who is glad you picked up a pencil again.
When you do meet said nameless person it will be the ultimate karma experience because your light will far outshine the darkness they had tried to inflict. I eagerly await your books – buying them is our way of saying Bazinga!
Thank you for the inspiration of believing in ourselves and seeking others who will also.
Kim P.
November 9, 2012 at 3:32 pm
Alayne Kay Christian
I enjoyed this wonderful success story. Thank you, Kelly, for these inspirational words to remember. I will call on them any time I feel myself slipping down, down, down into the pit of self-doubt. Congratulations on finding your inner Scarlet O’Hara and for your great success
November 9, 2012 at 4:00 pm
Darshana
Wow, that is some story. Kudos to you for sticking with it, and congratulations on your success. Will definitely be reading this every time I need a reminder to stick with it.
November 9, 2012 at 4:02 pm
thegracefuldoe
Such an inspiring post! I love this line, “…because only I can define myself.”
November 9, 2012 at 4:09 pm
Stephanie Shaw
Congratulations on all of your successes! I’ve often wondered if art directors, editors, agents ever read these stories and see themselves? Let’s hope so. Thank you so much for sharing your very inspirational story.
November 9, 2012 at 4:14 pm
laurasalas
Great story! Congratulations, Kelly. And shame on that AD for being so rude with his opinion. Hopefully he was just having a really bad day…
November 9, 2012 at 4:20 pm
Julie Krantz
Can’t wait to read LOUISE LOVES ART, Kelly! And kudos x 1,000 to you for hanging in there despite that soul-crushing crit. BRAVO!!!
November 9, 2012 at 4:28 pm
Mary Flynn
Thank you for this post Kelly, it is really helpful. I’ve been in a funk lately due to quite a few rejections recently. I too have questioned what I’m doing. I really needed the pep talk. Looking forward to your book Louise Loves Art.
November 9, 2012 at 4:35 pm
Sheri Dillard
Oh, wow. So sorry you went through that. Ugh! Thanks for sharing your story. And thanks for sharing your wonderful art with us! 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 4:42 pm
bucherwurm65
What an inspiring story for everyone who has ever been crushed by criticism,adults and children alike! Well done for not giving up!
November 9, 2012 at 4:46 pm
Joanne Roberts
It’s going to take awhile for your words to sink in. My inner critic speaks with the voice of your AD. Thank-you for your intensity and bravery and openness. Life-changing. Thank-you.
November 9, 2012 at 5:11 pm
Pat
This will make a great back story when you accept your first ALA book award. On your behalf, I’m chanting Na-ne-na-ne-boo-boo!
November 9, 2012 at 5:16 pm
kirabigwood
Great advice as I get ready to attend my first SCBWI conference tomorrow. Thanks for sharing!
November 9, 2012 at 5:22 pm
Jennifer Glahn Reck
Wow! I’m so glad you didn’t give up! I love your work and can’t wait to see your first ALA book!
November 9, 2012 at 5:27 pm
Judy Cox
“Chewed up the feedback and spit out what did not taste right” GREAT way to put it! Learn from others, but ultimately trust your own vision!
November 9, 2012 at 6:07 pm
Stacy
Bravo…contests, marketing scary from the get-go…way to put yourself—and your art—out there
November 9, 2012 at 6:23 pm
thiskidreviewsbooks
I am sorry that the AD said such a cruel thing about your work. I think it is better to be helpful than just mean. I love your illustrations! I have my idea for today too! 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 6:35 pm
Carrie Finison
I love that this story, like all the best stories, has a happy ending. Good for you, Kelly, for persevering in the face of such criticism, and congrats on all your successes.
November 9, 2012 at 6:39 pm
Cath Jones
You tell a wonderful story and with such a positive take on an awful comment. I can only imagine how awful the following months were. Thanks for sharing and inspiring the rest of us to believe in our work too 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 6:40 pm
Lauri
Wow! What a great story. Maybe I won’t give up afterall. Thanks, really inspiring post.
November 9, 2012 at 6:50 pm
Rita
Really, really inspiring post. It gives me more determination to take on my own, un-public demons. Sometimes they can be deafening enough.
November 9, 2012 at 7:06 pm
Elizabeth Rose Stanton
You sure got a lot of us fired up with this post! It is so obvious that you are meant to be doing what you are doing. Yay!
November 9, 2012 at 7:14 pm
marylouisealucurto
What a Wonderful, Inspirational Post! You Go Girl!!!
November 9, 2012 at 8:11 pm
JoanneRFritz
I often feel like giving up. So glad to hear you kept at it and are now well on the road to a successful career in Children’s Books. Revenge is sweet, isn’t it? I love the title of your book, Louise Loves Art. My mother’s name is Louise and she was the archivist at the Philadelphia Museum of Art for many years!
November 9, 2012 at 8:17 pm
helennhill
The new book looks terrific. Thank you for a thoughtful and engaging story about overcoming the odds! I’m a believer!
November 9, 2012 at 9:15 pm
Kelly Light
You guys! Thanks for the out pouring!! It just goes to show rejection is part of the journey. I used to have a sign on my studio wall that said “Don’t Reject Yourself” – cause others will.. so… why join in too? just keep on keepin on.
November 9, 2012 at 9:16 pm
Linda Graden
This is the ultimate inspirational story for writers and illustrators. I want to learn to illustrate as much as I’m trying to learn to write, but I’m a little old. You should submit this story to every book out there that teaches how to become a successful writer and artist! Thanks for sharing.
November 9, 2012 at 9:45 pm
Glenis Zuhlke
Love the art work, so cute!
November 9, 2012 at 9:46 pm
Ian Robertson
Kelly, you sound like the ‘Rambo’ of the PB world! Knock em’ dead! So glad the post had a happy ending, (as everything should, but alas…) as my anger was spiraling. I think my little girl will enjoy your sharp mind and sharper pencils, good luck!
November 9, 2012 at 10:08 pm
julie rowan zoch
Bazinga is a new one to me – like eyelashes doin’ sun salutations! Truly inspiring post! Thank you ever so much!
November 9, 2012 at 10:16 pm
Jenny Boyd
Good for you for not giving up! Thanks for sharing such a personal story and showing that one person’s opinion does not define us. (Our talents, dedication, and perseverance do.)
November 9, 2012 at 11:46 pm
Ian Robertson
That’s gold Jenny! I’ll be putting that on my office wall, thanks.
November 9, 2012 at 10:30 pm
Brenda Harris
I needed this post. Not because I’m a push-over, but because I think like her. Kudos to you Kelly. I’m very happy for you. 🙂
November 9, 2012 at 10:41 pm
Tammi Sauer
I think that sometimes those who tell us we can’t are just as inspiring as those who tell us we can.
November 9, 2012 at 11:05 pm
Kelly Light
yes!! but I won’t be buying them a fruity drink!
November 9, 2012 at 11:36 pm
Hannah Holt
BAZINGA! Great post, Kelly.
November 9, 2012 at 11:39 pm
Robyn G
Thank you for sharing this. If I won the illustration I’d put it on a wall for everyone to see. Then if anyone would ask I could resell the story of determination. :0)
November 10, 2012 at 12:02 am
Lynn Anne Carol
I love your art, Kelly. I would be honored to own a piece.
I was rooting for you the whole way through your story. You brought tears to my eyes. Best of everything on your career.
Lynn~~
November 10, 2012 at 12:42 am
lisajaynemurray
Such a great story…I think it would make such a great movie…who would you want to play you in this inevitable blockbuster?! ; ) If it was me I would pick Amy Adams/Emma Stone … hey…girls gotta have a dream.
November 10, 2012 at 1:51 am
ray hunt
I have people who tell me that what I do is a waste of time. and then others who really like my art.
November 10, 2012 at 2:52 am
Loni Edwards (@LoniEdwards)
A great story of perseverance. Thank you Kelly! You are an inspiration!
November 10, 2012 at 6:28 am
Amy Benoit
2 words … thank you!
November 10, 2012 at 7:48 am
Kimberly Thompson Strickler
You sure showed him. LOVE IT!
I remember being at a writing conference in 2008 and hearing an agent say something similar about someone’s first page critique—in the main meeting hall. I couldn’t believe it. I hope that person didn’t give up after hearing those crushing words. =(
Can’t wait to see your new picture book. Adorable!
November 10, 2012 at 11:40 am
Kelly Light
Thanks Kimberly – loved the quilt you made, saw it in LA!!
November 10, 2012 at 9:38 am
Penny Klostermann
Bazinga!!!! I love it. Thanks for sharing a story that will bring hope to all of us as we get past rejections, not all so public as yours:-( and go forward. Congratulations on all of your success. Love your work!
November 10, 2012 at 10:00 am
Rose Green
You DEFINITELY belong in the children’s book illustration world! And your story sure satisfies my MG sense of Justice in the World. Go, you! 😀
November 10, 2012 at 10:29 am
Sharon Calle
Wow, what an inspiring story. It’s enough to spur even the most discouraged writer to action. Thanks for sharing!
November 10, 2012 at 11:01 am
Valarie Giogas
Good for you for following your heart, Kelly!! Thanks for your inspiring story.
November 10, 2012 at 1:15 pm
janelle
Thanks! Needed the inspiration!
November 10, 2012 at 2:13 pm
Catherine
Way to go Kelly, so happy to hear that things are great for you now :o) Thanks for inspiring us all.
November 10, 2012 at 4:01 pm
Debra Feldman
Congratulations on believing in yourself and persevering!
November 10, 2012 at 4:31 pm
Janeen
That’s my girl. : )
November 10, 2012 at 11:47 pm
Kelly Light
I have such a fantasy about flying down to drink mojitos with you and Kathy and Linda in Miami!!
November 10, 2012 at 4:32 pm
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November 10, 2012 at 4:35 pm
thatssojen
Wonderful and inspiring story! Never let someone stop you from doing what you love. There truly is room for all of our unique and special talents.Just hang in there. It would be hard to not write back to that person saying,”Oh thank you, you love my art! Funny, because I remember clearly at the NY SCBWI conference.you announced to the world that I had no business being in children’s books! I guess you were wrong.” 🙂 I know it is better to take the high road though. Great job sticking with your dream.
Jennifer Lorrekovich
November 10, 2012 at 6:13 pm
clarbojahn
Thanks so much for sharing your awful rejection as humiliating as it was. You spoke to the hearts of many here and I see by the comments that it was worthwhile. Like them I love your art and am thrilled you are in kids lit. I hope I win a drawing by you. my twitter handle is @Cbojahn. Hope to meet you there. 🙂
November 10, 2012 at 8:34 pm
Aaron Zenz
Love this story, oh love this story! Certainly it was difficult living through it, but it makes for a great tale afterward.
Louise is such a striking character — can’t wait to see her in print!
November 11, 2012 at 11:19 pm
Kelly Light
Thanks Aaron!
November 10, 2012 at 10:21 pm
Jen Carroll
Thanks for sharing. Inspiring!
November 10, 2012 at 10:34 pm
Lois Sepahban
Thank you for your inspiring post, Kelly!
November 11, 2012 at 11:29 am
mbeaversillustration
Kelly! Thank you for sharing this incredibly personal and triumphant story, you’re a true inspiration for us all to HANG IN THERE. Love you & your work, always!
November 11, 2012 at 11:19 pm
Kelly Light
thanks sweets-;)
November 11, 2012 at 12:36 pm
Debbie Austin
Poetic justice! Thanks for sharing your pain-turned-to-success story. Inspiration for us all.
November 11, 2012 at 7:10 pm
Damon Dean
What a great story! Amazing. Thanks for sharing, this will make every rejection seem full of possibilities.
November 11, 2012 at 10:41 pm
Carol Nelson
Way to go! Thanksgiving are an inspiration to all of us.
November 11, 2012 at 10:42 pm
Carol Nelson
Ok, auto correct got me. Thanks for being an inspiration to all of us
November 11, 2012 at 10:41 pm
James Burks
Awesome post Kelly. Thanks so much for sharing and congrats on your much deserved success.
November 12, 2012 at 8:30 pm
Kelly Light
James… I loved your post too ! I started working out with a trainer this year… and trying to run… these two pursuits, books and exercise.. really are alike!
November 12, 2012 at 6:19 am
Catherine Johnson
What a fantastic story. Your artwork is delightful, huge congrats!
November 12, 2012 at 11:23 am
Marcie Colleen
You are a talent! And an inspiration. Thank you sooo much for sharing your story. I am moved. Congrats!
November 12, 2012 at 11:44 am
Kevin J. Doyle
I really like the style in your art and thank you for the inspirational story!
November 12, 2012 at 1:25 pm
cocoanqueso
You go, Kelly! I was just told that because I wrote the kind of story I did, I have “no sensibilities.” Luckily, I read your post first so I’m already channeling the yucky feelings into better writing! Thanks!
November 12, 2012 at 1:30 pm
Sally Matheny
What an adventure! There’s a children’s book in this somewhere- perhaps “When They Say You Shouldn’t, Maybe You Should!”
November 12, 2012 at 2:40 pm
stephseclecticinterests
So glad you rose to the challenge! Way to go! Congrats on your upcoming releases. Happy Drawing – and Writing!
November 12, 2012 at 5:58 pm
Brook Gideon
Bazinga!! Many congrats, you deserve it all and thanks for sticking it out log enough to win. Can’t wait to see it all on paper!
November 12, 2012 at 8:31 pm
Kelly Light
Thanks soooooo much. You guys , I had no idea this would resonate so much. I now- have to go get realllllllllllly busy! It’s mid November !! Ahg!
November 13, 2012 at 10:38 am
susan crites
congratulations on your work! it’s super fun and i’m glad you stuck it out. i needed to hear this one. i was just saying it last night as a matter of fact. thanks, kelly!
November 13, 2012 at 11:06 am
Melanie Ellsworth
It was brave of you to share this story, and I’m so grateful that you did.
November 13, 2012 at 11:36 am
The Librarian
Super story… A nice reminder to never give up!
November 13, 2012 at 11:39 am
The Ink Pond
Reblogged this on The Ink Pond and commented:
Inspiring post by Kelly Light. I am in awe of her attitude and lovely artwork! Go Kelly!
November 13, 2012 at 7:28 pm
SevenAcreSky
Love your art! Amazing how some people can so perfectly illustrate character with lines! Thanks, Kelly for sharing your amazing story. – Damon Dean
November 13, 2012 at 11:07 pm
Lori Grusin Degman
Thanks, Kelly for the inspiring story!! I’m glad you had enough faith in yourself to keep going!!
November 13, 2012 at 11:20 pm
Lori Grusin Degman
Oops – I meant to congratulate you on your upcoming books!!
November 14, 2012 at 8:01 am
Liza Woodruff
What an inspirational post. Congratulations on your success.
November 14, 2012 at 9:56 pm
Roxanne
Spunky always wins out!
November 15, 2012 at 9:10 am
Veronica Bartles (@vbartles)
In the very first writing contest I ever entered, the anonymous judge’s only comment on my novel excerpt was: “No one in their right mind would EVER care about a character like yours.” I let it bring me down for almost a full year, putting that story away completely, determined to forget about that obviously unlovable character. But eventually, the writer in me won out and I pulled the story out again. And reworked and revised the manuscript. Now, the comment I hear most often about my novel is: “I love your character! She is so real and readers will really relate to her!”
Take that, anonymous judge!!
November 15, 2012 at 10:48 am
Sandy Asher
Wonderful post!
“Creative revenge” is indeed a powerful force. I was similarly humiliated at a national theater conference, and fought my way back. I’ve often told my writing workshop participants that it’s not the folks with the most talent who succeed, but the ones with the guts to KEEP GOING!
November 16, 2012 at 8:43 am
Kelly Light
I agree! Talent only takes one so far… it takes tenacity and passion and perseverance and a little bit of crazy!
November 16, 2012 at 9:32 am
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November 16, 2012 at 11:45 am
Jill Proctor
Great advice! I love how the writing community encourages each other to NOT GIVE UP! I’m hanging in there, though I’m off to a “late start.” But I’m determined. ‘Perseverance furthers.’ Thank you so much.
November 16, 2012 at 8:10 pm
Debbie Mickelson
You are an inspiration. I’m so glad that you fought through the rejection to do what you do. I love your sketches that you’ve shown here. Congratulations on your hard work and books coming out. You’ve inspired me to keep working hard for what I want. Thank you.
November 17, 2012 at 10:20 am
Barbara Baker
Hi Kelly,
I went to a concert last night in my hometown of Sioux City, Iowa. It was at the Conservatory of Music. A young singer/songwriter named Kelsy, (www.kelsysmusic.com) talked about her journey and following her dream. I could see how her songs and expressions of faith resonated with many of the other young girls in the audience. When I read your blog here, I could hear that message from a different perspective. It seems to me that you have hit upon something very important. I imagine your are already doing this, but I think your experience would make a wonderful children’s book with a powerful message. I believe that message would be twofold…directed at young readers, but also directed at all of the nameless AD’s that we all encounter at some point in our lives. I like how you acknowledged how that AD did somehow help you move forward, but I agree there are more tactful ways to do that. I’m glad you found your strength at the core. Maybe someday you and Kelsey could get together and do a book. Maybe you could illustrate a book about her life. Thanks for the inspiring story.
Many Blessings, Barbara
November 17, 2012 at 7:25 pm
Elaine Kearns
Congratulations to YOU!!! For more than just being amazing and winning awards, but for not quitting or letting rejection get you down- NOT an easy feat….you are my hero. 🙂
November 17, 2012 at 8:08 pm
furlongme2012
A wonderful story. Just imagine how many artists – writers and illustrators – would be totally defeated by your experience. Your response to the A.D.’s cruelty required courage and creativity. Your success is well deserved on so many levels.
November 18, 2012 at 10:37 am
Laura Hamor (@LauraHamor)
The haters can be the motivators! 😉
November 20, 2012 at 1:51 am
Lisa Olson
I can’t even imagine! Good for you for continue to pursue your dream. You give us all hope to continue on. Congratulations!
November 21, 2012 at 5:23 pm
Heather Soodak
Thanks so much for sharing this! Next time my art gets rejected, I will cry a little but then remember this and push on!
November 29, 2012 at 12:13 pm
Michelle Barnes
Thank you for your honest and inspiring post. I’m so glad your experience eventually was able to make you stronger instead of preventing you from moving forward. Because of that, the rest of us are lucky to be able to learn from your experience as well!